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Titilayooni:
I agree with the idea of moving in with him but it would be temporary,you stay with him for a week or two and you go back to your base for another 4 or 5 weeks...He will see the need to have you in formally as a wife asap...and not like one no-self value bitch in my hostel that has been staying with her boyfriend since 2012 cause the bf's father built the hostel and on top that the guy will beat her blue black......

Lol
you seems to have a nice sense of humour

NarnieSnyper:
I think it's the latter jare I no wan give myself anyhow hope. I promise to tell her about my feelings again in person. I want to see her expression and from there I will tell.

I have a knack for reading people when we converse but this chick sabi play with my head, maybe that's why I like her

bro no level
i believe that you might still have other girls who will go extra lenght just to have you just forget her

queencalipso:
Op I disagree on the part of moving in with him..

how and why
state your reasons

NarnieSnyper:
mehn, I swear down, this girl I like is almost like this but she did some things different like; asked me to hang out with her, told me she wanted to come to my place , always holds my hand whenever we take a walk, always laughs at my jokes or whenever I tease her, always enquiring if I have a gf

But down sides are; she gives me monosyllabic replies, recently had her birthday but didn't invite me, told her I liked her and she stopped texting me.
I hate all these
"one step forward and two steps back" typa girls

in this situation their are two things involve
either she probarbly likes you, and she just need to incorprate IGG (Initial gra gra) before summiting
or
she has totally lost interest altogether

So, you think you’re in love! Or at least crushing on a hot girl. Either way, you just don’t seem to know if the feeling is mutual. I know they say that it’s difficult to figure women out, but if you know how to read them, it’s not difficult at all. Not all girls may drop hints or signs that she’s not interested, but if you know how to read them well, you’ll see the right signs in no time!

After you read these signs she’s not interested in you, you’ll probably think, “Doh!” In other words, these are pretty obvious signs that she’s not interested. But sometimes we’re blinded by love and we miss these red flags – or even choose to ignore them.

But fear not… here are the ways you can know that she’s not interested.

#1 She doesn’t text you back quickly. So, you send her a text at noon. The hours go by. Suddenly, it’s 5:00… then 6:00… then midnight. Why hasn’t she looked at her phone in the last 12 hours? Trust me, she has. She has just chosen not to text you back right away – on purpose.

#2 When she does reply, it’s just with a word or two. It might even be a day or two until she responds. And when she does, it might just be something like “Lol” or “Sure” or “Yup.” She isn’t interested in having an ongoing long texting conversation, because it’s one of the signs that she’s not interested in you.

#3 She doesn’t get close to you and avoids physical contact. If you guys go out to a sports bar and sit at a table, she will sit across from you, not beside you. And she won’t playfully touch your arm or maybe not even hug you. She doesn’t want to give you the wrong idea.

#4 If you ever hear the word “friend” when she is referring to you. Guys, please hear this! If a girl says, “I think we would be great friends,” or “I think we’re better as friends,” well, this is one of the HUGE signs that she’s not interested. But it’s amazing how many guys don’t think she’s serious, or take it as a sign that she doesn’t really mean it. Trust me… she DOES mean it.

#5 She doesn’t give you firm answers about whether you can get together. If you try to make plans with her, she says vague things like, “Sounds fun!” If she’s not saying things like, “Great! What day and time should we go?” then it’s one of the signs that she’s not interested.

#6 You haven’t met any of her friends. If she’s into you, then she will want to get all of her friends’ opinions. So, she will introduce you to them. Or even if she does have you meet her friends, maybe it’s because she considers you one of her friends too and wants to include you in her gang. Get my point?

#7 She always “has to check her calendar.” Similar to #5, saying she has to check her calendar is another way of saying, “I really don’t want to, so because I’ll take a long time to check my calendar, and I hope you forget about it in the meantime.”

#8 She never initiates communication. If she’s into you, she will initiate talking to you AT LEAST 50% of the time. But if you’re the only one who always sends the texts first, then you are not on her mind. Even girls who are trying to play hard to get don’t play THAT hard to get. She’s trying to send you one of the signs that she’s not interested.

#9 She never suggests that you hang out. Not only does she not initiate communication with you, she never tries to make any plans with you. Why? Because you are low on her priority list. She has other people she’d rather hang out with.

#10 She only wants to hang out with you in groups. Let’s face it, if the two of you are alone, then there is more of a chance that some romance could happen. Or that you could get the idea that she may want it to happen. So, it’s easier for her if you just hang out in groups. That way, you won’t get the wrong idea.

[b]#6 Share everything with him. The closer he feels to you, the more likely he is to want to marry you. If he feels as though you are the person who he can trust the most in the world, and someone that he can completely be himself with – who sees him for just what he is – then he will surely want to spend the rest of his life with you.

#7 Hang out with married couples. Seeing your friends happily married and still having fun will show him that marriage is nothing to be frightened of, and it’ll make him more ready to make that commitment to you too.

He might be worried that getting engaged and married will eventually change your relationship, and that might be scary for him.

Seeing how your married friends are exactly the same will help put his mind at ease, and it’s another great tip for how to get your boyfriend to propose. If your married friends are willing to give you a helping hand by talking about how wonderful married life is, that probably won’t go down too badly either!

#8 Build it up slowly. Don’t go from zero to one hundred – take things slowly and build up to the point where marriage is the next obvious step to take. Move in together and see how that goes first. Then, *providing you are both animal lovers of course* why not get a pet and see how you get on with that?

Moving your relationship forward in steps like this will make it a much easier transition when the time comes for him to get his head around the idea of proposing to you.

So, if you are still in the dating stage, you might have your work cut out for you. But don’t worry, you will get there eventually… we promise!

#9 Be more independent. Having your own life outside of your relationship is healthy, regardless of whether you are thinking about getting married or not! However, showing him that you are an independent woman, and giving him the freedom to have his own life and enjoy things without you, will show him that you trust him and are willing to set him free.

Doing that will only strengthen your relationship and make him feel more ready to take that plunge and make that lifelong commitment to you

#10 Accept his decision. At the end of the day, you can’t force someone to marry you! If he isn’t ready to commit, you have to deal with his decision – and there isn’t a whole lot you can do about it. Don’t have a tantrum, and don’t get too upset.

It might be that he just needs a little bit more time to get his head around the whole idea. In the meantime, if the relationship is worth waiting for, then you’ll know. And if it is not, then maybe it is time to say goodbye and find someone who does want to offer you that kind of commitment![/b]

You’re in love and want to live happily ever, but he hasn’t popped the question. Here are some great tips for how to get your boyfriend to propose.

Many ladies fantasize about their big day from a very young age. The beautiful white dress, walking down the aisle, seeing the man of your dreams waiting for you at the end – it’s all very romantic! But how do you actually make it happen and get your boyfriend to propose?

This can be more tricky. If you feel the time is right for you to take your relationship one step further and get engaged, that’s wonderful. But often, your partner might be a little less keen. Proposing is a big step and a huge commitment, so he’ll no doubt want to make sure that the time is right. He might just need that little nudge of encouragement to push him over the edge!

So, if you want to know how to get your boyfriend to propose, what should you do? Here are 10 great tips to help him get the message and take the plunge!

[b]#1 Be cool![/b]There is nothing that is going to make a guy put off proposing more than if he feels he is being backed into a corner. This might very well make him run the other way.

You might be desperate to get married, but you have to understand that this is a huge and life-changing decision for him. If he feels totally pressured into it, it’s going to be hard for him to take the plunge.

[b]#2 Tell him.[/b]While keeping your cool is important, you still need to make sure that he knows that you want to actually get married in the first place. If you overdo the cool and casual approach, he will have no idea that you even want to get married in the first place, and, therefore, might just not have the motivation needed to actually pop the question.

If you have been going out for a while, you will probably already have had a conversation about the future. But if you haven’t, or haven’t mentioned marriage specifically, let him know in a mature and sensible way exactly what your thoughts are on the matter. Then at least he will know where your head is at.

[b]#3 Don’t compare yourself to others.[/b]Just because all your friends got married two years ago, and you still haven’t, doesn’t mean that it’s your “turn.” Every relationship is different, and some people take a little longer to want to settle down that others.

If you keep pointing out to him how everyone else around you is married, he will just feel as though you are whining at him, which will make him want to do it even less! This is a really important tip for how to get your boyfriend to propose.

[b]#4 Don’t give him a choice![/b]Okay, so this might sound a little sneaky, but by offering him options, you are giving him a “get out clause” where he can choose not to get married just yet, if he feels like the time isn’t right.

Don’t make it too open-ended either. Saying something like, “Do you think we’ll get married in the next 2 years?” is better because it gives him a timeframe to think about.

#5 Make him feel like he couldn’t live without you.[/b]If you want to know how to get your boyfriend to propose, he is only going to do it if he really believes that you are “the one.” Getting him to see that takes time! You need him to feel like if he ever lost you, he would be completely heartbroken.

Make sure that he understands and appreciates everything that you do for him – but do this subtly. If you can make him realize that he is so lucky to have you, it will only heighten his desire to get your relationship locked down sooner rather than later!

[b]next tips coming up

Dr. Johnson and Mr. Johnson,
After great consideration,
Came to the conclusion
That the Indian nation
Beyond the Indian Ocean
Is back in education
Because the chief occupation is cultivation


A tree toad loved a she-toad
Who lived up in a tree.
He was a two-toed tree toad
But a three-toed toad was she.
The two-toed tree toad tried to win
The three-toed she-toad's heart,
For the two-toed tree toad loved the ground
That the three-toed tree toad trod.
But the two-toed tree toad tried in vain.
He couldn't please her whim.
From her tree toad bower
With her three-toed power
The she-toad vetoed him.

AlamienDagash:
science secondry school sir shehu shagari said sixteen stupid student startin smokin sigari since 1666

When a doctor gets sick and another doctor doctors him,does the doctor doing the doctoring have to doctor the doctor the way the doctor being doctored wants to be doctored,or does the doctor doing the doctoring of the doctor doctor the doctor as he wants to do the doctoring

okay guys, let me go first and it is titled PETER PIPER

Peter Piper picked a peck of pickled peppers.
A peck of pickled peppers Peter Piper picked.
If Peter Piper picked a peck of pickled peppers?
Where's the peck of pickled peppers Peter Piper picked?

This is Super storyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

Aquarius (January 20 - February 18)

An Aquarius is also likely to take risks that others might shy away from. At work, if she thinks her someone is treating her unfairly, she will take the risk and speak up about it.

She is very individualistic, which means she’s unafraid to do things that others might find too daring. She likes to try new things, and she thinks taking risks is the best way to move forward.

If this is you: Being bold enough to seek out alternative, risky paths is a great thing! Just remember to calculate potential costs and be aware of how these risks may affect you in the future.

Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)

A Scorpio is brave and resourceful. She believes that MOST risks are worth taking. She likes trying new things, and she strays from the status quo.

When it comes to making decisions, she looks to variety and excitement. She rarely plays things safe, and she is bold enough to look for new opportunities even if they come with risks.

If this is you: Remember that there is a fine line between being courageous and being reckless. Being brave will help you make daring decisions, but you shouldn’t be foolhardy when trying something new.

Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)

A Sagittarius loves adventures and will always choose the riskier path. She sees everything as a learning experience and feels she has little to lose.

A Sagittarius is the type of person to bet her whole hand on almost everything. She likes to play with fire just to see how far she can go.

Even when she knows something is full of risks, she is likely to still engage in it, because she knows she will regret it if she doesn’t try.

If this is you: Your desire for adventure is admirable, but risks aren’t always worth it. Some things seem fun in the moment, but they can also turn into bad decisions if you’re not cautious enough.

Leo (July 23 - August 22)

A Leo is someone who likes to make some SUPER dramatic changes in her life. She is a natural-born leader, so she’s unafraid to take charge and go through uncharted paths.

If no one else is willing to take a risk, she’ll be the first to step up and do it.

When it comes to her leisure time, she is likely to pursue adrenaline-filled activities like motorcycle riding or bungee jumping. She loves the thrill of choosing the riskier path.

If this is you: Being daring will surely reap rewards for you, but remember to also do things in moderation. Taking risks can sometimes be dangerous and it’s important to recognize when the risks aren’t worth it.

[color=#000000]Who ain't skeert?

Everyone takes risks. Sometimes they’re small risks — like entering a packed subway as the doors are closing, other times, the risks are larger, like dropping everything and moving to a new city all by yourself.

When you take a well-calculated risk where the benefits outweigh the costs, then it can become a potentially smart decision.

But sometimes, people don’t take calculated risks. Some people’s risk-taking borders on being reckless and impulsive — they just LOVE the adrenaline rush that comes from being close to danger, and can't get enough of the thrill of doing something that may yield unknown consequences.

If you’re someone who enjoys taking risks, your friends might consider you reckless or an adrenaline junkie, but taking too many risks can make you come across as hasty or irresponsible to your friends and family — sometimes putting your best relationships at risk.

Some studies say that risk takers are smarter than those who don’t take risks, but that doesn’t necessarily mean taking a big risk is the best decision.

below are 5 zodiac signs that are most likely to take a chance with danger, whether or not this is a good thing.

Gemini (May 21 - June 20)
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A Gemini is very inconsistent with her decisions. She may sometimes act hastily when trying to settle on something, and if she doesn’t know which decision to make, she might just say “eff it” and go with the riskier option.

For example, if she is very dissatisfied with her current job or living situation, she might just drop everything and make an unexpected move to a new city

It might be a pretty risky decision, but a Gemini is flexible and willing to take risks in order to get what she wants.

If this is you: It’s good to take risks and make decisions that can lead you to new places, but remember to also carefully think through your decisions. Acting hastily can lead to bad consequences if you’re not careful.[/color]

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Stupedinluv:
Are you minding them

oar my God.

What an ignorance

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hmmmmmm

Republican presidential candidate Donald Trump released a video statement on Facebook on Saturday (October , apologizing for lewd comments he made about women but called the footage of his comments a “distraction” from bigger political issues.

“I’ve said and done things I regret, and the words that were released today in this more than a decade-old video are one of them,” said Trump.

“I’ve said some foolish things but there’s a big difference between words and actions of other people. Bill Clinton has actually abused women and Hillary has bullied, attacked, shamed and intimidated his victims.”

Trump plunged into a deep crisis on Friday after a bombshell 2005 recording came to light in which he boasted in vulgar terms about trying to have sex with an unidentified married woman and groping women, saying “when you’re a star, they let you do it.”

I moved on her, and I failed. I’ll admit it,” Trump is heard saying. It was unclear when the events he was describing took place. The tape was recorded several months after he married his third wife, Melania.

“Whoa,” another voice said.

“I did try and f— her. She was married,” Trump says.

Trump continues: “And I moved on her very heavily. In fact, I took her out furniture shopping. She wanted to get some furniture. I said, ‘I’ll show you where they have some nice furniture.’”

“I moved on her like a bitch, but I couldn’t get there. And she was married,” Trump says. “Then all of a sudden I see her, she’s now got the big phony tits and everything. She’s totally changed her look.”
At that point in the audio, Trump and Bush appear to notice Arianne Zucker, the actress who is waiting to escort them into the soap-opera set.

“Your girl’s hot as s—, in the purple,” says Bush, who’s now a co-host of NBC’s “Today” show.

“Whoa!” Trump says. “Whoa!”

“I’ve got to use some Tic Tacs, just in case I start kissing her,” Trump says. “You know I’m automatically attracted to beautiful — I just start kissing them. It’s like a magnet. Just kiss. I don’t even wait.”

“And when you’re a star, they let you do it,” Trump says. “You can do anything.”

“Whatever you want,” says another voice, apparently Bush’s.

“Grab them by the p—y,” Trump says. “You can do anything.”

A stream of Republican leaders denounced the remarks, first published by the Washington Post, which threaten Trump‘s already shaky standing with women voters just a month ahead of the Nov. 8 presidential election.

Filashade:
Loool. I do have to admit, guys with beards are kinda hot.

Ahhhh weellll the next time I see him again anywhere in the world, I would disgrace him onbehalf of my work colleagues who he stole from and myself.

Filashade:
Loool. Thanks Bross. Although my bf doesnt have a beard but if he did grow his, I wouldnt mind.

that is why need guys like me.
seriously dating me would convince you that guys with beard are the most romantic and honest lovers on earth

Filashade:
Loool. I am so scared of guys with beards now. Any guy that approches me that has a beard and asks me out scares me because of my ex. I keep on thinking they are thieves.

then go and date no more