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everybody raise your hands let me pray for you

"Baba GOd use ur Holy Ghost Tunder and Kitchen Hot Water to Baptize every advocate of Divided Nigeria (e.g B....fra)

buharichild:
God bless Apc
God bless Buhari
God bless Nigeria

U must be an enemy of state

children of 666

In case you are confuse about how attractive you are, follow this steps

. 1) Ask a small child
Honestly, Little kids have zero filters but are still susceptible to society's learned construct of beauty.
It makes them tiny little Hitlers when standing in line at the supermarket, or the market and they say "Mommy, that guy is ugly!"
But hearing hearing them say something like "oh my gosh! he is so cute, he looks like ramsey noah or majeed micheal!!" Is pretty much the most genuine compliment you will ever receive.

Secondly
If guys are telling you that you're hot it mean they'd like to Bleep you (or, ya know, romance you, pardon the bluntness), which means that they find you attractive. If girls are telling you that you're hot, it could mean that you're hot or it could mean that they're just being nice. Either way its just they're respective opinions. There's no way to be one hundred percent objectively attractive.

and lastly
if you catch her always staring and looking away. she is 90% probarbly interested

Muhammad Ali’s impact went far beyond the boxing ring.
His outsized personality and refusal to conform to expectations of how a public figure should act, particularly one of colour, transcended sports and made him a global icon.

Ali died Friday at the age of 74. According to reports, he was battling respiratory issues complicated by the Parkinson's disease he was diagnosed with in the 1980s.

Ali's heavyweight boxing legend was forged over 56 wins in a 61-fight career. The fights that hold the greatest sway: Stunning upsets over the intimidating Sonny Liston (twice) and George Foreman, and breathtaking battles in a trilogy with perfect foil Joe Frazier, which set the standard for all sports rivalries.

Written off as a loquacious clown early in his career, and prematurely as washed up a decade later, the Louisville, Ky., native defied the odds time and again, becoming the first man to win the heavyweight title on three separate occasions.

Ali loomed large for people — even for those who didn't care about boxing or found it abhorrent. He forced society to confront feelings about civil rights, race, religion and war through his defiance of convention and his own government. He changed his name in 1964 in service of Muslim beliefs alien to most, and three years later refused to step forward for an induction order during the height of the Vietnam War.

"I ain't got no quarrel with those Vietcong," he said. "They never called me nigger."

Ali was 29-0 when he was stripped of his heavyweight title and forcibly sidelined for three-and-a-half years beginning in early 1967 for refusing to serve in the U.S. Armed Services.

He faced a five-year prison term and his passport was revoked, taking away his livelihood. The Supreme Court eventually reversed the conviction 8-0, but he endured scorn and lost millions at the peak of his abilities.

After retirement came the 1984 diagnosis of Parkinson's syndrome, a degenerative disorder of the central nervous system. In a cruel irony, the silver-tongued shouter's voice was reduced to a barely audible whisper. The fleet-footed Ali Shuffle gave way to a mummified gait.

Ali became a martyr to some and to others an advertisement for the abolition of the sport. To others still, he was an exemplar of bravery and persistence in the face of disease, as he continued to champion peace and children's causes, travelling extensively when called upon to promote understanding between East and West, Muslims and Christians.


‘What’s my name?’

The Louisville Lip. Mighty Mouth. Black Superman. The King of the World.

The Greatest.

What's in a name? For Ali, everything.

Because just hours after “shocking the world” against Liston, and less than two years after publicly waxing rhapsodic about his birth name Cassius Marcellus Clay Jr. — "It's a beautiful name, makes you think of Roman gladiators" - he was casting off Clay as a slave name.

He was born on Jan. 17, 1942 in segregated Louisville. The racist murder in Mississippi of young Emmett Till, a boy his age, was one of the formative events on his psyche growing up, he later revealed.

Clay's trajectory was set at 12 when his red Schwinn bike was stolen. The police officer he encountered, Joe Martin, just so happened to teach boxing to youth. Clay burst into the sporting world's consciousness with a gold medal performance six years later as a light heavyweight at the 1960 Rome Olympics.

Trained from his second pro bout by calming influence Angelo Dundee, the lanky six-foot-three fighter racked up wins and press attention with a new brand of braggadocio.

With blistering hand speed and dancer's feet, Clay turned boxing orthodoxy on its ear. He held his hands at his waist, pulled straight back from punches, and rarely hit his opponent to the midsection.

He penned rhyming poems with boastful predictions about his eventual victory, making sure to remark on his ‘pretty’ face after his wins. He riffed on a nonsensical directive, the beginning of which is now part of the lexicon: "Float like a butterfly, sting like a bee ."

The anchor punch, the Rope-a-Dope. The Rabbit, The Big Ugly Bear, The Washer Woman. He nicknamed tactics and opponents. But something serious was stirring inside for Clay. He was a national figure, but without the same rights as the average white man.

Reporters were barely over the shock of 7-to-1 underdog forcing Liston to quit in their 1964 bout when the winner was confirming the next day that he was a Muslim. He regaled the press while walking in Harlem with Malcolm X, the charismatic minister of the Nation of Islam.

The Nation was not even a mainstream, credible group for most black Americans. For the white establishment, it was frightening.

He would eventually be bestowed the name Muhammad Ali by Elijah Muhammad, head of the Nation. Elijah Muhammad spoke of the need for black self-determination and separatism due to a history of injustice at the hands of "white devils," to a membership, which included a significant number of members who converted in prison.

Ali in the 1960s was arguably the most reviled athlete of all time, certainly among those who hadn't committed any violent crime. The FBI monitored his movement; one phone conversation between Ali and Martin Luther King Jr. may well have been tapped at both ends.

He spent all of 1966 fighting outside the country, including in Toronto against George Chuvalo, because promoters didn’t consider him sellable.

The New York Times and Associated Press referred to him as Clay for years after his wishes. Opponents Ernie Terrell and Floyd Patterson did, too, and were probably battered for more rounds than was required as a result.

Ring Magazine declared its Fighter of the Year in 1966 "vacant" when he was the only deserving candidate.

"Most emphatically is Cassius Clay not to be held up as an example to the youngsters of the United States," the editors screeched in support of that decision.

In exile
Dodging the draft added fuel to the fire, branding him a coward or traitor. Joe Louis enlisted in WWII and merely had to fight exhibitions to raise the morale of the troops. Why couldn’t Clay do the same, his detractors wondered?

Ali had initially been declared ineligible to serve in 1964 after twice failing the aptitude test.

"I said I was the greatest, not the smartest," he said sheepishly after the first attempt.

He was reclassified eligible without any additional testing as the Vietnam War effort intensified. He sought a deferment on religious grounds, arguing he was a minister in The Nation, which did not condone a white man’s war.

He refused to step forward when called on April 28, 1967 and was charged. A jury later deliberated for 20 minutes before finding him guilty.

In need of money, he spoke on college campuses, appeared in a musical, and collaborated on a book. He gained fans for his stand, particularly among young people. But it was a long process.

Clay vs. United States was a case that reverberated around the world. Tommie Smith and John Carlos famously raised gloved fists on the Olympic podium in 1968, and one of the stated goals of their Olympic Project for Human Rights was the return of Ali's title.

"His refusal to go to Vietnam, to go and fight there, and the reasons that he gave, it made him an international hero," Nelson Mandela, a former amateur boxer, told HBO in 2001.

"The news could not be shut out by prison walls, and he became a real legend to us in prison," the South African president said.

As the legal controversy neared its conclusion, Ali would return to the ring. He was a changed fighter, more resourceful as his natural gifts ebbed. He was further humanized by a gutsy losing effort in the most lucrative fight of all time, 1971's Fight of the Century at Madison Square Garden against Frazier. Ali popped up immediately from the canvas after getting decked by a hellacious left hook in the 15th round.

His fortitude would never be questioned again after fighting several rounds with a broken jaw in a 1972 loss to unheralded Ken Norton, but it seemed to close the book on his days as an elite fighter.

ikbnice:
I entered my BVN, the one supplied by the bank, but was told it's incorrect. Wetin I go do now o?

you are to type your names correctly as in your BVN
if issue still persist, make sure you use the phone number and the bank account you used to register your bvn

The Federal Government Youth empowerment Scheme has suddenly stop accepting applicant for any of its programme

the message likely to display after submitting your application is:
"Thank You for your interest in the Npower programme. unfortunately your request can not be completed"

dirtydiva:
I was a teenager then probably 8yrs when our maid started having sex with me and my brother. it was terrible the pain of banging from her made me cry but now I need it more than James Bond.

hmmmmm
people can lie

Hopemoney:
40 years

bros da wan no be ur first sex o, na ur first deliverance 4rm craze

optional1:
must you talk


Btw come again whats mu'sues benefacto?

try this one
goooooogle it

optional1:
am a virgin more than you self.

here is a suggestion uve probably not heard of
u two should try mu'sues benefacto

luxy44:
I did this in 2002, my 200level , third year in Ife. I'm giving you this details so you can relate it to my age and compare it with your father's age

hahahahahahahahahahahah.
what insult

Sheflex4real:
I was 24, and I even did it cause the lady in question says she's into me but won't get physical with me not anytime soon anyway. I know girls so I make her beg me to literally, I've been having them pass the weekend with me ever since I was 18, I have the understanding type of parent. Had my first official Kiss in Jss2

God, this brings back memory!

HMMMMM i smell lies

kingelemide:
17 still no sex although my friends do it all d time. But I just feel its nothing to be ashamed of. I will come when it will come.

o boy you are a disvirgined virgin

Beejayx:
It was Feb 2 2012.... I was 22...wished it Neva happened

share with us na, we r listening

raylord:
Liar Liar aunty. You didnt tell because u were enjoying it.

GUY go study psychology abeg. na ur calling

Tahrah:
#Teamvirgin

hmm
na team #olosho

alfred007:
I was in primary 5, I should be 10 or 11yrs and it was with two girls! funny but true

guy u bad pass me o

sybarite7:
I DEY SUSPECT U.
ARE U SURE U RE NOT THE GIRL IN HIS STORY?

abi brother, u are not far from the truth

Darksider131:
movie inspired story

its real

PeggySandas:
Op, what are you trying to prove! You have successfully proved to everyone here that you are actually a lowlife gutter breed bastard!

Iykmann:
Selflove crew reporting

welcome

yarimo:
Acting chairman Vaseline crew SAMBISA FOREST branch is here to read lies, thank you

your mumu graduate o

Dlordsamurai:
10 years old.

from my prediction you were three years old

greatermax77:
I had mine at the age 55

i bet that was your retirement package

yup i asked that
with the way children are getting smarter day by day it wont be surprising to see a couple of 2 yr old caught in the act.

I was 14, I think. First date I ever went on. My senior bro drove us to the cinema, so already you knew it was going to be a good night. Got there late because of traffic when we got there I came up with the brilliant plan to have her grab the seats while I get popcorn. Of course the lights were already off and the movie already started when I came back in the theater so I just stood at the entrance holding popcorn like an idiot not knowing where she was and what to do. Luckily my date noticed me standing there after about 5 minutes and came and got me, asking why I didn't try calling her name. I did not have an answer for her. The movie finished, bro picked us up 15 minutes late and drove us to her place.
told him he can go ahead while i walked back home cus our house wasnt far from theirs, so I walked her to her door luckily her parent werent around cus they travelled, and her aunty was busy snoring her hearts out. she invited me to come in, and as we did I said "I gotta warn you. When we get in, I cant help but get naughty with you." well she laughed and just kissed me. the awkward silence that followed was .............

as a sharp guy, i went down to business nd before you know it, i was in her room running things like the smooth son of a bitch that I clearly was

I gushed about it to my bro wen i got home. it was so exciting perhaps one of my best conquest am proud of.

Benita27:
No excuses would justify the act of cheating when a partner does so. Cheating itself is an emotional abuse to the partner at the receiving end.

If I should find myself in any of these situations I would end the relationship before venturing into another.

hmmm
i reserve my comments

professorfal:
Where can one get wife material full yard, new never being tested, no cheating, great cook, superb in bed, less nagging and financially independent?

just marry ashawo for hotel, i tell you na dem go dey faithful pass our pretencious mother mary
na olosho i talk o

Most people see women who cheat as a worse specimen than their male counterparts. But are their reasons for cheating any different from men’s?

Some experts think that the motivations of men and women differ when either of them cheats. They say that men cheat because they’re seeking attention, while women do so out of the need to fill an emotional void. But is this true?
hy women cheat

According to a study by the University of Guelph in Ontario, Canada, a woman is 2.6 times more likely to cheat if she is unhappy with her current relationship. The data shows that a lack of happiness is the culprit, but the reason why a woman may be unhappy could be attributed to different factors.

The evidence is based on individual accounts of people who admitted their reasons for cheating to researchers. But that’s just a fraction of what a hundred million people are thinking. Are the reasons the same? Or is it based on small factors that revolve solely around a particular couple’s lives?

What exactly makes a woman cheat?

We scoured through Reddit and found different women’s perspectives on the matter. According to their answers, being unhappy is just one part of it. They opened up and told other readers what exactly happened and why they decided to cheat.

#1 Feeling stuck in an unhappy, unhealthy relationship. “Wasn’t happy with my partner. He didn’t give me the attention—mentally, emotionally, or physically—that I needed. I loved him, but I felt like he kept me around to pass the time. My best friend, though, he gave me all the attention I needed and made me feel like the sexiest woman in the world. My ex made me feel like a intimacy gadget.”
#2 To serve as a catalyst to end the relationship. “I used to have a bad habit of letting relationships drag on far past their emotional end. I would fall out of love with these men, but I didn’t realize it until I had fallen for someone else.

“By that time, I was contemptuous and disillusioned enough with the relationship that I didn’t really care how it made the guy I was dating feel. I would end up kissing the new guy and breaking up with the old guy immediately after. Essentially, the cheating served as the catalyst for ending a relationship.” – Unknown

#3 Because there’s no other choice? “I had a crazy boyfriend who attempted to control me from afar. If he didn’t know what I was doing or where I was 24/7, he would spam call me and “like” comments/photos/etc. on Facebook and message my friends.

“In addition, he was a loser who lived at home with his mom with no job, while I was working and going to school. I always had to drive to him *an hour+ drive* because he had no money and no car. I broke up with him several times, only to get suckered back in because he would threaten to kill himself. Basically, his controlling, psycho-mind-game attitude drove me to cheat on him. I have nightmares about him still.” – Pewpton

#4 It was never going to work. “I was a chronic cheater. I was acting on my needs for multiple sexual partners, but I didn’t have a model of how to do it ethically until I was in my 30s. Once I discovered the polyamory model and began to live it, all of my cheating stopped. I wish someone had told me about this model when I was 17. I could have saved years of heartache!” – Searedscallops

#5 Transference of unrelated emotions. “I was afraid. There was serious talk of him, my now ex, taking up a new job and moving to NYC. He wanted me to come with him. This meant I would have to leave my comfy and awesome job in a smallish town, to the unknown in a very large, busy city. I was only 20 at the time.

“For the two weeks he spent in NYC scoping out the place and working in his potential new position, I cheated. I really can’t come up with a better reason other than fear. There was no emotional attatchment to the guy I saw. It was just sex. When my ex returned, I told him what happened and explained how I felt. He was pissed, of course, but we worked through it and he didn’t take the job in NYC. I’ve stopped dealing with fear in such a poor manner now.” – Megandharma

#6 What most men say. “I cheated on my ex because I was in a very serious relationship way too young and did not know how to act. For me, personally, I needed to go out and explore myself sexually and even in different relationship dynamics. I couldn’t find this in my partner and took the easy way out. It was a confusing time in my adult life, as he was my best friend and we had no real issues. I was just not romantically in love with him.” – idontswearsweatpants

#7 Couldn’t fight the feeling. “In my case, my relationship was already over in my mind. I’d fallen in love with someone else and planned to break up with my boyfriend. I just wanted to wait until after the holidays—they were always hard for him and his family because his mother died around that time several years before. I didn’t want him to have to deal with all of that and a breakup.

“But things moved way faster than expected with the other guy. I still feel awful about it. I should have either waited or broken up with my boyfriend before anything happened. I broke up with him the very next day.” – DiMyDarling

#8 Because he might have cheated as well. “I cheated because I had a hunch he had, but every time I confronted him, he denied it. Despite knowing in my gut that he cheated, I didn’t have any evidence, so I didn’t want to break up with him and be wrong. He didn’t give me enough attention and pushed me into thinking I was crazy and insecure.

“I ended up cheating on him with his college teammate because I figured a) if he found out, it would piss him off the most b) I knew the guy would sleep with me, no questions asked and c) I was semi-attracted to him.” – TitsMcLovin

#9 To stop feeling numb. “I did it because I was going through anxiety hell and was looking to feel anything, because I couldn’t feel a single thing. My husband was fine with going along with things the way they were. I never told him. I love him very much and once I realized what I had done, I vowed I’d never to do it again.” – secret sexy

#10 Personal choices. “I was selfish and insecure and liked the male attention I was suddenly getting. Also, we were long-distance, and I had just started university and wanted to experiment with other people. He didn’t do anything to push me to cheat. To this day, I feel so guilty for having done it, but at the same time, I think it was a good learning experience for me.” – jack_hugeman

Any way you look at it, the reasons may be different for men and women, but the root of all cheating leads to one particular thing: lack of control. Why? Because if there was even an inkling of control in the hands of the cheater, none of the transgressions would have happened in the first place.

Imagine yourself in any of these women’s situations. What would you do in their position? Would you still cheat, or is there another way to solve things? Tell us in the comments below!

obafemee80:
You may be right
May be he his Reverse-Flash

abi