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chomytex:
This life eh,u fine wahala..u no fine trouble.which way to go??..well i sense insecurity on the ladies part.

gab264:
Just stop dis for ones.
Ave seen a lots of yaa comments, you can't detect when some ones is actually serious on a matter dat concerns him/her, just stop dis abeg.It looks creepy to me

prettythicksme:
Op is beaurifool

LordOfTheWeed:
Hmmmmm.. .. .. Bros if you the same person on that DP, then you are indeed handsome!!!

hertz9te:
ok this is it,I give up.......Am going to get a gun..op it's you first

Teempakguy:


you must have approached pigs.

boxer022:
Excuse me sir but this your story is too long. I understand what you are passing through. Your girlfriend is not being sincere with you. She is attached to you only because you have little money. I will like you not to make the same member mistake your father made that led to his untimely death. That girl is not your wife and if you go ahead to marry her then you are following your father's foot step. Your father married a woman that is not his missing rib and instead of the bone to match where it came out from it got bigger than the rib cage. Please stop spending your hard earned cash on her, even if you must give her, them give her small.

Ucheosefoh:
Bro sorry for my choice of words but you na comfirm mugu and that girl is only managing you, only time will tell she will dump your sorry ass and go for the highest bidder. Another guy de enjoy the toto together with your money, don't be surprise to see the properties you brought for her with another guy, if you are my friend I swear I for don arrange for your flogging maybe that will make you wise. Take a look at yourself in the mirror, look at your future and tell yourself if this is what you need. Your mumu no get part two you buy 160k laptop give her, how many you don buy for your sisters de on top de pay her salary for doing what? Dating you. Infact stop everything you are doing for her instead start doing them for your sisters, you may know book and brilliant but guy you no wise especially street wise, open your eyes before you end up in poverty because of yeye love. You get luck say your father left investments for you and na one bitcch wan finish am. Dump her and face your papa business for now, as only son I know pressures will be on you to get married early I said no gree until you find your soul mate I am only son too, older than you but marriage is the last thing on my mind. Lastnote make yourself your priority, nobody can love you more than yourself so ignore her threat it is her lost. One day her eyes go clear she will understand what she lose.

Ucheosefoh:
Bro sorry for my choice of words but you na comfirm mugu and that girl is only managing you, only time will tell she will dump your sorry ass and go for the highest bidder. Another guy de enjoy the toto together with your money, don't be surprise to see the properties you brought for her with another guy, if you are my friend I swear I for don arrange for your flogging maybe that will make you wise. Take a look at yourself in the mirror, look at your future and tell yourself if this is what you need. Your mumu no get part two you buy 160k laptop give her, how many you don buy for your sisters de on top de pay her salary for doing what? Dating you. Infact stop everything you are doing for her instead start doing them for your sisters, you may know book and brilliant but guy you no wise especially street wise, open your eyes before you end up in poverty because of yeye love. You get luck say your father left investments for you and na one bitcch wan finish am. Dump her and face your papa business for now, as only son I know pressures will be on you to get married early I said no gree until you find your soul mate I am only son too, older than you but marriage is the last thing on my mind. Lastnote make yourself your priority, nobody can love you more than yourself so ignore her threat it is her lost. One day her eyes go clear she will understand what she lose.

alkonami:
Resisting ke?... Na by force?

naijathings:
so u read my comment and all u could see was that I was writing shiet huh ? this is indeed a very serious case because if u did not see that I said she is a a demanding school girl whose father probably doesn't have a wooden stool in his house and she is telling you to double up your investments or she will go to the highest bidder and you are here saying that you want to marry her. if u r a man who wants a happy home and a good wife and u saw these things in my comment and yet u do not know what to do, then there is no need giving you any advice cos it would be like pouring water into a basket.

sorry for the loss of your dad, maybe God should have let him live longer so he could teach you a thing or two about women of such materialistic gluttony.

juitar:
Boy don't b a prodigal son,so dt ur dad sef no go dey curse u 4where he dey now , even if u av billion dollar investment on ground if not well managed it will finish in no time. Get a beta girl,if u nid a beta home dan ur dad's. Discard d girl now b4 I open my eyes,dere are thousands of gud/responsible girls out dere praying n fasting 2 get som1 like u.
So henceforth cease 2b an ATM cos I'm not sure u'r 1

andromida:
I hope you have the courage to drop her. Tell her why and move on don't be afraid of emotional pain you will come out better on the other side simply because you do what is good for you.

Don't let fear of emotional pain make you stay with this girl and do not be in a hurry to marry rather be patient to find a woman who is good for you and good to you.

Forgive your mom for sins you perceive her to have done to your dad so you will not attract another woman like her I know you will say you are not angry at her but reading between the lines you sound deeply wounded by the thoughts you have about your mom's action.

The forgiving is for your own good and freedom.

collinsVP:
I know for a fact that being less privileged is a relative thing. You are far better of than she is.

Bro the only reason she is still sticking around you is for the money you give her. And she threatens to leave, should you stop given her the money. No man does that in this contemporary time.

You have to break up to make up and gain maturity quick.

What keeps marriage in the long run is not love but keeping to your commitments. Love fades quicker than we realize.

klassic:
I love kids and i am crazy about em kids especially cute guys of not less than 8months old. Even thinking about it gets me smiling .But i hate marriage. The tort of it scarces shit outta me. What do you advise i do? Should i adopt, keep a lady preg and make her a baby mama, or get a single mom and adopt her child as mine?

Toks2008:
I dont advice you go for an older lady above 4 or 5yrs.

Apparently at 23 you should focus more on building your life then maybe as you grow older you will have a broader view about life and decide on what you really want.

collinsVP:
To be candid, OP is not yet ripe for marriage. Her attitude alone is a write off. You should not contemplate ditching her immediately.

Is she a destitute or less privileged that made you place her on salary for the past seven months? And probably intend to continue. Not that she does anything sensible with it, but lavish it on campus.

Honestly love is blind especially in your case. As for me, I can see through my mind's eye, if love blinded the ones on my face.

Am sorry to say this, another ungrateful parasite thy shall not add to already existing one.

Oliviaarims:
So many pieces of advise already, but I must chip in mine coz I was pained while reading ur story. And really,why are u seeking 4 advise anyway? U should already know what to do..send her on her way,biko..imagine the nonsense! What's she offering u anyway that gives her d temerity to mk threats? Mtchewww. This OP,u've really got time 4 rubbish. She's just got to bounce!Tnx a lot;









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Davindal:
[/quote][quote author=Oliviaarims post=38829187]So many pieces of advise already, but I must chip in mine coz I was pained while reading ur story. And really,why are u seeking 4 advise anyway? U should already know what to do..send her on her way,biko..imagine the nonsense! What's she offering u anyway that gives her d temerity to mk threats? Mtchewww. This OP,u've really got time 4 rubbish. She's just got to bounce!Tnx a lot; I have made up my mind. Am gonna ditch her at once. I knw it ain't gonna be easy, but is the path worth treading.









#Philosopher Quëën#

Odogwu007:
bros, it would seem that your heart is already telling you something; I suggest you follow it. Buh then again don't be in a hurry to get married....take your time and be sure -of whom & ready- for what.
safe....

naijathings:
Good God. Oh My God

this is the funniest story i have read this week.

OP, how old was your father when he died? Just look at how you are wisely investing your father's hard earned
wealth and investments on a demanding school girl whose father probably doesn't have a wooden stool in his house.

Investing in bank of the TOTO, deposit only, NO WITHDRAWAL.

she is telling you to double up your investments or she will go to the highest bidder and you are here saying that you want to marry her.
you better send her that 50,000 naira now before that karishika starts chasing you in your dreams.

dominique:
Stop indulging her, you owe her nothing. You can only give in your own capacity not by her demands. Then again the girl in question is barely out of her teens, she could be displaying youthful exuberance. Try and see if you can make her change her attitude and let her know that you won't be giving into her demands anymore. You can also call her bluff by telling her to go and hook up with the richer guy. If she goes then she's not meant for you.

donTbone:
You see those two guys above me, they are lazy just like ur mum and that lady in question!

My girl friend threatens me that if I don't give her the money, that I gonna loose her to other young men around, Perhaps that I only care for my younger sisters.
#RULE 1, love your self and family first before your girl friend.

#RULE 2, while falling in love, go with your instinct.
From the story, I could detect your age range should be around 23/25yrz(I stand to be corrected). Thank God for the wisdom you've applied and for not loving blindly. Now that you know, the investment of the family lies in your hand alone.

#RULE 3, break up can come anytime...so be prepared!
I'd just advice, if u wont let the break up come from you, stop giving her even a kobo. Try doing that for 4months and see if she still stays.
The truth is, if you keep giving her...after you marry her and you stop giving her, she will definitely jilt you and there is a high tendency of premature death just like dad!

Be wise bro, focus on the family investment and surely...the one who loves you but not for the money will come.