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What an analogy!

My nightmare!

@poster tell her your mind,let her know the consequence of what she's doing.

@poster it is certain a part of her is still with her ex,but be carefull how you deal with this cus they might have parted in good terms and consequently they still communicate as friends. I think you should talk to her politely and let her realised that what she did was wrong. Because you can't really conclude they are still involve,the only option you have is to confront her lovingly and make her understand you don't want her communicating with her ex again,if that's your decision.

Why not! If my presence won't make her feel uncomfortable.

If all you mention is not a problem to you,go ahead and marry her if you love her . It's your life,and your happiness comes first;i know with time your family will get over it and they'll respect your decision.

@ poster why not google it if u really want to know?

If u're not willing,let him understand that you don't have to come all the way ,especially when your work will be affected.

The world is in a confuse state that good moral values are been condemned while bad morals are been celebrated. Even virgins that should be bold and proud are ashame of themselves, while sexually defilled ones are been celebrated. Sad!

@poster it could be that he is sure too busy. Pls weneva you have the chance of speaking with him,ask him questions about the progress made on the project,be involve in ur own little way. I tell u,the project mean alot to him,and he'll appreciate u the more when you get involve by encouraging him.

@poster maybe during ur conversations,she figured out u're setting standards for her that must tally with your taste in the woman you want to settle down with. Knowing that she presently can't meet those standards,she ressolved in lying to you because of the fear of lossing you which is definately wrong on her own part. She must have struggled with herself before being courageous enough to tell you the truth about her educational background. If you really love her and want to marry her,make her feel comfortable and safe enough in telling you the truth about her educational background and other things she's not telling,which probably do not meet your standard. There is no crime with you setting standards about the person you want to marry,but if you really believe she's the right person,then help her in meeting those standards.

@poster well, you don't have to talk too much to win a girl's love,cus your positive action and behavior around her can also speak for you and make her know you care. Besides, a chatter-box with a sugar coated lips often say what they don't mean.

Epiphany-revelatory manifestation of a divine being.
Igbo name-em,ehh,i'll be right back!

No one is likeable by all,its just not possible! Pls don't try to make people like u, cus u can never meet-up with their unbeliveable demands. Just love and appreciate yourself first,and be positive and fair in your relationship with others. Though christ shew great love and extraordinary compassion towards all,he made more enimies than friends.

@poster do you value yourself? If yes,then you shudn't find it difficult to value others irrespective of the gender. And if no,then value urself so u can learn to value others.

@abekeade08 this thread of yours is on the verge of hitting a record,i salute o! I beg i dey look for nana o! Pls help me o!

Has anyone seen by val ooo! Av been very unstable i know. Nnnnnanaaaaa! Where are uuuuuoooooo!

@poster for you to be paranoid about marriage is too extreme,but it's natural to be scared when you are about to take a step u've not taken before,especially a big one like marriage. U can't really get through it,until u go through it!

@poster saying you don't want or can do without something becuase u don't know how to get it does not maintain your ego!

Stick to the steek!

@abekeade08 i bet this will take a whole eternity if u don't make the final recal. Let the unlucky ones wait till next year.,,,,,co pilot.

Ladies shud understand that they also have the absolute rigth to go for the man they luv. Also tink that being dumped has nothing to do with who made the move;cus either way,there can still be heartbreak. Do trust me when i say that there are guys who just wouldn't see it until u make them. And its has nothing to do with ego or pride.

@abekeade08 what da heck! Am in a terrible traffic. When is the final? recal

@nana thanks. I had lunch. Hav to go no;.wish u luvly night. Be happy!

@nana working my head out at work. Let's relunch!

@abekeade are u with me or against me? Tink nana has 4givn, pls do the recap!

bammiedaylaex14's back! I know a lot has gone wrong while i was away. I'll try put things in order ASAP.
@nana wat an irony this is(caln me a player). Doesn't just compliment me,cus an not a player. Here's the upsigth;let's start on a clean slate. Wat say u?

@nana u're such a hard nut to crack. Couldn't sleep nor eat cus of u! Do u wanna kill me?

Now tk! Dat's wat am talkinbout! Pls convince her.

@abekeade08 happy u're back! How was ur nite? Pls help me in fixing the rift btw myself and nana. I'll be glad u did!

Bigrod! Dat sounds scary,don't u think?

Berra go to the val thred sponsord by abekeade. Hope u'll find ur val!