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Novelistguy:
Social Proof

Believe it or not: There is one thing that attracts women’s attention even more than shoes. It’s “ social proof “. Let me explain this one using a short story:

It's about a waitress who used to work at a coffee shop. The pay wasn't very good, but her boss said that she could put out a tip jar as long as she didn't ask customers to contribute to it.

So she did. She took an empty jar from home, found a post-it note, and wrote on it with big permanent marker: "TIPS."

The first day, no one even noticed it.

She tried a bunch of things, moving the jar forward, putting it on top of the register, even changing the style of marker she used. Occasionally someone dropped in a buck. But she still couldn't just point to it or ask people to tip her.

Then, one day, when she picked up someone else's evening shift, one of her co-workers showed her the secret to getting more tips without asking for them. He took out a five-dollar bill and a few singles from his wallet and dropped them in the tip jar at the beginning of their shift.

Customers saw the jar, saw that people had been dropping money in, and figured that they were expected to do the same.

By the end of that day, the tip jar was almost full of ones and fives.

When it comes to your social life, you can approach people in one of two ways: with your tip jar empty or you tip jar already full of cash. Which do you think is better?

I have some easy hacks which I always use to social proof myself. And I really want to keep them to myself. Drop a comment and follow me if you want in and I will mail it to you.

paramakina202:
And you think the idiots knows the meaning of excellent.

paramakina202:
And you think the idiots knows the meaning of excellent.

iamadonis2:
Nice. Very nice, OP. At least the osogbo weed you just smoked led you to discover your talent at written English.

Lionessza:
Someone got hurt really bad , time and time again.

Tokziby:
Some of the things u postulated are very far from the truth about women. It is very wrong to generalize a group of people. Your case is like that of a fish in a pond that judges life based on his immediate environment. There are several women in the world from different tribe that are specifically govern by their culture or religion and live a very humble and straight forward life.

Fact is:

-Not all women are like what u described above. Its typical of promiscuous women.
-Stereotyping people based on myopic observation is really bad especially about human cos we are dynamic.
-You said, u only trust ur mother (no pun intended), does that mean that ur mum is the most truthful person in the world? were u there during her hay days? do u know anything of her past or secrets?

You would have been correct if you said 80-90% of women are,

-very good liars cos they'll never tell u what they really feel deep inside their heart
-they are manipulative, will always try out different tricks to get what they want
-They are the most jealous animal on the planet
-they are always worried about what people think about them, even when no one really cares
-They love to be treated like a 2 year old, loved and pampared.
-They love to be praised about their appearance or their efforts on any little thing they do. (Thats why they'll do everything to get likes on inst or FB)
-They are highly emotional human
-They have a very feeble mind, u can easily change it with sweet words, (Thats why they'll always fall for liars and con men)
-They are always suspicious of every nice guy that pampers them to a fault.
-Their tempers knows no limit when they are scorned, that the reason for "hell hath no fury as a woman scorned"
-They are highly possessive of their man when he's blessed with all the factors they require

The list is endless, u can add urs if u truly know women... Have a nice day

excadz:
I will agree that even though religion is not the only cause of evil deeds, people seem to gather more strenght in defending their religious beliefs than anything else.

pressplay411:
Preach!
Live and Let Live.
Religious Tolerance is the solution.

Unfortunately religion pitches us against one another. For one religion/denomination to be True, the others must be false and obliterated.
Jews obliterated the Philistines, Babylonians, Canaanites, Egyptians, simply for being of different faiths.
Early Christians were persecuted and nearly obliterated by same Jews but prevailed.
Early Christians likewise obliterated and persecuted other Faiths in the name of "Evangelism." (Our forefathers can attest to this)

Now Islam is still persecuting and obliterating other Faiths especially Christians in the name of propagating it's religion.

So the question is,
Has Religion Done More Harm To The World Than Good?
The answer is an emphatic Yes.

Religionists are quick to ascribe basic morality as one of the good religion has done for mankind, but truly it's society that has taught us morality.
People don't commit crime not because of fear of heaven or hell but because they would get caught punished by jungle justice or the court.

Hence Religion must be scrapped and abolished, Morality and Reason instead should be propagated.

Bumbae1:
The suit Nice and clean ...

megareal:
Definitely suit. Agbada hides too many flaws.

Suit makes us see and judge that huge sized belly.

frenchwine:
Being true to myself, I would take neither. I don't like clothes that draws attention to me. The last time I got me a suit was at my induction. Thereafter, it has become a cold protecting garment.
The only time I got me an agbada was as part of the grooms men to a collegue's trado. Thereafter, it has become my cover cloth.
I like to keep it smart and simple.

ZarZar:
Both are attractive in different ways. One shows pride in one's identity, which is very sexy. The other one gives off (a fake) impression of power & sophistication, which is not bad on special ocassions. If I were to choose one, I'd choose the "dress" because that's who the man is, his true identity.

jonaifame22:
pls tell me more I'm all ears

SNOWCREAM:
fvck formalities jooh, before suit nko?

dacovajnr:
You'll never know the Prestige derived from Wearing agbada till you wear one..Suit just get as e be..coz even madman dey suit diz Days

jonaifame22:
Well, agbada can hide er'ection while suit cannot

obinna58:
So that u join the likes of top atheist scammers in Nigeria, all this miracle pastors are those who really know the reality of life, uses it on their own favor for brainwashing, the likes of

1.T.b Joshua (no one top scammer ever lived in Nigeria)

2. Pastor Chris oyakilome (uses his members to shine, he delivers everyone that stepped in his church)

3. Apostle suleman (the criminal went all the way to Canada for sure puccy, unfortunately he was exposed, the wife plays she doesn't care but inside she z just a walking ghost)

4. Chilaka of IMO state (claimed he z a Reverend father and ready to anything just for cash, not smart enough like others, the fake miracle he performed z roaming all over the internet though he still got plenty of fans who never cared )

5.Rv mbaka (I call him rev smart, though he is not inform now due to fake prophecies he might bounce back anytime soon)

6. Oyedepo (the intelligent one, not crazy about miracles, talks maturely and also motivating)


They all need to be crucified like Jesus for their criminal activities

lastmessenger:
One day you get to the end of the road amd that time you will be willing to believe in a God just so that u can find your way.

lastmessenger:
One day you get to the end of the road amd that time you will be willing to believe in a God just so that u can find your way.

asuustrike2009:
You want to be a pastor because of fame,power not because of the passion. Pastors are called by Yahweh even though some personsl called themselves. Chose who will you serve? Yahweh or fame.

PrinzCarter:
This write up was definitely under d influence of weed

Kondomatic:
I don't believe that men are more intelligent than women.




I would really love to see how a Nigerian feminist can sell her feminist or equality ideas to someone that bought all these just to get a wife.