₦airaland Forum

jennykadry:
A woman can do what she darn pleases, her money should be for her and what she wants to do with it. I have said it before dayo, if a woman wants to help her man, let her help him. But a man shouldn't expect her to give like say na by force.

Ujujoan:
My decision not to marry a poor man is largely because I can't compromise on standard of living and good education, especially for my kids.      

That being said, I don't think we should discourage those who want to  'manage'!  

jennykadry:
My point exactly. Say my kids are going to good skools and have to be pushed out to an agbero school because daddy cannot afford to pay fees and the little money mummy earns is for feeding and other things.

jennykadry:
I know it is a lot but haba I was in Nigeria in december and the price of food stuffs is so darnnn high, even meat is so expensive so tey you go go market with 102,000.00 naira and come back home with nothing.

jennykadry:
^^ Because it is a man's job

women are doing it but what do you blokes call them? feminists that hate submission.

jennykadry:
Nope, if he wants to get married, he has to prepare his pocket for it. Not all women are desperate to be killed a MRS

Ujujoan:
'take care of them' how? Shebi the man will not be a gold digger if he marries a woman who will 'take care of them'?

jennykadry:
Money. Say he earns 15k naira per month , it's nothing

armyofone:
this ya own don pass addiction, you need deliverance, ogbologbo.

jennykadry:
Please do not marry any woman now. Wait till you get something

armyofone:
see you, at old age who go care for you? when you are 90 and can't do anything more than shitting for bodi and spitting from your mouth, someone should be available to help you. but you must be stinky rich. or else na retire home them go lodge you put

honeric01:
^^^

Ashawo 10 10kobo, by now you should have won the best male love-peddler on NL with different kind of panties (ladies and even gays own self join) as trophies. (at least u go still win laurels pass Arsenal)

armyofone:
no be only phork una sabi as live safer in nigeria, when you don't have money to think of vacation or going out of your abode, what will you do if not to phork anything in skirt and be grandpa at a young age.
i hope you dayo do take your lady out for summer vacation and make it a habit

[size=18pt]The Feminists' War Against Marriage [/size]
The war on marriage that the feminists in academia are waging hit me this year when I received the Winter issue of my alma mater's alumnae magazine, the Radcliffe Quarterly. In 52 pages under the heading "Scenes from the Family," the editors didn't include any discussion of a successful family based on a man and a woman honoring their solemn promises "to have and to hold . . . for better, for worse . . . till death do us part."

Instead, the feature article laid down the feminist line that a woman's identity disappears in marriage and that "marriage is bad for you, at least if you're female." Without any shame, the author admitted that she acquired her husband by breaking up another marriage that had lasted 15 years and produced three children. She argued that, "Instead of getting married for life, men and women (in whatever combination suits their sexual orientation) should sign up for a seven-year hitch." If they want to "reenlist" for another seven, they may, but after that, the marriage is "over

http://www.eagleforum.org/psr/1997/dec97/psrdec97.html."

http://www.eagleforum.org/psr/1997/dec97/psrdec97.html

ajigglin:
and where do you get this information?

FeministsSome feminists seek the end of formal marriage -
"The institution of marriage is the chief vehicle for the perpetuation of the oppression of women; it is through the role of wife that the subjugation of women is maintained."[4]

Individuals such as Sheila Cronan claim that "Freedom for women cannot be won without the abolition of marriage."[5], and point to historical, legal and social inequalities of wedding, family life and divorce.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Criticism_of_marriage

Once upon a time, marriage made sense. It was how women ensured their financial security, got the fathers of their children to stick around, and gained access to a host of legal rights. But 40 years after the feminist movement established our rights in the workplace, a generation after the divorce rate peaked, and a decade after Sex and the City made singledom chic, marriage is—from a legal and practical standpoint, anyway—no longer necessary.

http://www.newsweek.com/2010/06/11/i-don-t.html

lajaja:
SOUN OGUNLOLA OF OGBOMOSO

The traditional head of Ogbomoso is called the Soun. Soun came to the site where the town is today over three hundred and fifty years ago. At that time, the area was a dense forest, however, the area is now an open Savannah . Ogbomoso traditions insists that Soun was a great hunter of Bariba origin who Migrated Southward about 1659. The migration of Soun was consistent with the usual pattern of north-south movements that were common at that time.

Soun Ogunola was a great hunter who enjoyed hunting expeditions. In one of his hunting expeditions, he pitched his camp under the Ajagbon tree. The site of this tree became the centre of Ogbomoso town where the Ogbomoso Palace stands today. Not far from Soun's Camp three other hunters had also established their camps. One of them was a Nupe elephant hunter who had his camp in a place known today in Ogbomoso as Oke-Elerin (Elephant Hill). Another was an Otta Prince who left his place because of chieftaincy dispute. His descendants became Baales of Ijeru. There was also another hunter who had his camp at Isapa. It is related that Soun Ogunola observed that these hunters were not far from his camp because of the smoke that came out of their fires. He later went to invite them to his camp. Ogunlola established his supremacy over these hunters because his wife was very good at preparing tobacco snuff and corn-wine which always attracted the tree hunters to his camp. Apart from that, disputes were always settled in Soun Ogunlola's camp as the settlement became bigger.

As a restless warrior, Soun Ogunlola heard of the developments of Oyo-Ile during the reign of Alaafin Ajagbo. The Alaafin was faced with attacks from a certain Elemoso, who with his arrows put many inhabitants of Oyo to death. He therefore engaged Elemoso in a battle. Soun Ogunlola shot Elemoso with an arrow. After his victory, he returned to his camp and continue his leadership. Subsequently, his camp was called “The camp of him who took Elemoso's head” meaning in Yoruba. “ Eyiti Ogbori Elemoso. “This was shortened for Agbelemaso and over time it evolved to Ogbomoso.

This history of Ogbomosoland was very peaceful until the early 19 th century, when the Fulani launched the Jihad (or holy war) against the Yoruba.

naijababe:
^ Still defending Hypertension FC and and Mr Wonga?! Me I still dey vex o . If Wonga know what's good for him, he better get a trophy next season, else he'll be getting some dog shyte in the post!

usbcable:
o.k then,

the reasonable thing to do in mid-season is to sack any sub-performing or non performing coach.

does ^^^^ sound like a better approach.

ifyalways:
@OP,I'm going to tell u what i wud tell my sister and also pretend your hubby is my brother.
This man endured alot,deprieved himself alot of things to be able to get u over there.Perharps he never envisaged things wud get rough this way,maybe he had dreams and visions of u coming over and somehow,getting a "miracle job",could it be that things got rough at work for him?Don't go yet,pls this is a phase that wud pass away,biko.
What do u do spend all your day doing?when he gets back from work do u care enough to ask how his day went?His food ready and warm,house well kept?
You are not his slave honey but such lil' gestures goes a long way.
Make a joke out of the accent ish,when he walks through the door,meet him with a deep kiss,take his briefcase and in your best thick "igbotic-americana" accent go "love of my life hope u had a good day".Give him body massages at bed,talk abt your unemploymed state with him often and remind him daily to check out openings for you.

This phase too shall pass,stay and tame him!

armyofone:
OP where you now, bia you dey do all dis one so? if not oya change your style and foolow dis strategy.
even call him the creator of your universe and maker of the ground you are standing on. help am cut him toenails (eww) sef and run bath for am.
do anything o, naija for obodo likes to be worshipped.