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[quote author=Jenifa_ link=topic=580012.msg7485552#msg7485552 date=1294450882]yes the man is the head of household. don't mind these westernized women that are trying to wear the pants.[/quote]Head of Household only come into play when they are married. Girlfriend taking money from BF should be outlawed using your logic

LvGaal announced that he might drop Hans Jorg Butt for Kraft significantly dropping the average age of our team


--------------Kraft/Neuer (22/24)

Lahm (27)-----Breno (21)----Badstubber (21)-----Gustavo (23)

-------------Tymo (31)----------Schweini (26)

Robben (26)-------------------------------------Ribery (27)

-------------------------Mueller (21)
----------------------------Gomez (25)

Average age for starting 11 would be 24.5

Thats the benefit of an English coach

Siasia wasnt a bench warmer in US1994. Okocha was the benchwarmer.

US 94 first team was Rufai- Eguavoen, UCHE OKECHUKWU, Chidi Nwanu, Ben Iroha/Emenalo- Oliseh, Finidi, Amokahie, Amuneke- SiaSia-Yekini

^^ I also hope all guys too can take a cue and stop giving their girlfriends money all in the name of love bullcrap

Em em em Use am joorrrr

^^ Love definitely stands on something, In most cases I am yet to see a banker woman loving a carpenter or mechanic in the village. Love is very calculative and dey shine eyes

Quick question:

If you find out the man you love is a ritualist or serial killer, What happens to the love?

When is GEJ hosting the next tea drinking competition after a bomb?

Can GEJ tell us who did this one? He told us October 1 WASNT MEND.

What does GEJ want us to do this time around? The last time he said we should pray that the come and confess? Should we fast this time around?


CLUELESS President

tensor777:
Look here Buzugee this argument is becoming circular.
In the  grand scheme of things does it really matter what one does to legitimately earn income. Taxidriving, cleaning, portering, teaching,soldiering,nursing etc.
Who cares as far as the bills are paid as and when due.
As I said before MONEY is at the root of this problem and many other cases of marital discord in Nigerian homes in the West not occupation.
That is that.
BUT men also need to be wise also and consider developing themselves even as their wives do the same.

2 people cant do it at the same time, WHile one is schooling the other should be working else na stavation go kill them. The man opted to work and send the wife to school. He could have chosen to develop himself and leave the woman at home. I wonder what adjective you would have used to describe him then.

Is it strange for in a family, The elder bro to drop out of school learn a trade and sponsor his younger ones to school? Would you blame him also for taking the "hit" the whole family?

Dumb, CLueless

tensor777:
Speculate what you like . Anyway she knew he was a taxi driver before they married and his earnings from that profession were used to bring her over to the West and train her. So basically she is into that profession as well whether she likes it or not. There is NOTHING wrong with being a taxidriver and she would be quite silly really to think so.
On the other hand she is bound to feel angry and resentful if this guy wilfully refuses to improve himself whilst she herself upgrades her status. That is just human nature.
Anyway the key to success in life is continued personal and business development. That should be seen as mandatory since nothing stands still in this life

Have you considered that the money the guy could have used to develop himself was what he invested in bringing her over and sending her to school?

If the guy had taken that option of developing himself only, then the woman would still be a Baby making machine or community - baby sitter.

The guy sacrificed himself for the union and he is now viewed as an ordinary cab driver who isnt good enough for a NURSE

Can believe Hannie is actually posting in the section for attention seekers, Can we say he is also seeking attention or Bros are you alright?

Mekiko:
Better for you.Better for all of us.Only the lazy and needy b***hes would fall for your freaging whim and caprices.
May i add that any man that has no qualms receiving money from a woman should be classified as a jigolo.

Would it be fair to " add that any woman that has no qualms receiving money from a man should be classified as a ASHAWO".

Is that OK by all?

If its bad for Boyfriend to collect money from Girlfriend before they are married, It should also be bad for GF to collect money from BF before they are married? Are we in the clear now?

Atiku na him send us for Abuja December 31st, Buhari send us for Jos Dec 24th and Ribadu na him send us for this one.

Even pat Utomi sef don dey try call us

Semen, sorry Semiu.

By 2011, I would use the power of incumbency and sweep all the ward votes

It happens many times.

The cab drivers bring their wives from Naija and use all the money from their cab driving to send her to Nursing school, She graduates starts making money and next thing its insulting for her as a Nurse to be married to an ordinary cab driver

Thats what happens when you contest against GAYYners.

They are too weak to maintain an erection

Call [size=18pt]Tinubu[/size] to give us our balance

Come meet me for [size=18pt]Ribadu[/size] campaign office make I yarn you as we take do am

pslm23:
@ poster, the moral of this story is this: STOP GIVING YOUR GIRL[/b]FRIEND ANY MONEY. Don't let [b]her become too reliant on u doing stuff for her, She will take it for granted, She has already started showing u her true colors by reluctantly giving u back the money u loaned her. That's how it begins. You are not Bank of England!

Would it be right to correct your post and change it to the woman being dependent on the Guy As it reads above

Yours is a deadlock, Mine is clearcut, Even if we add my 2 opponents votes together and multiply by 2 they still lag behind

Ujujoan:
That being said, it's a bit alarming the increasing number of men who depend on women for their livelihood. I'm trying to imagine how a man will be so comfortable living in a woman's house without contributing a cent and I'm appauled. Apparently, men have sold their shame for a pot of porridge! Pity.

For someone who preaches gender equality, How come you didnt have a problem with over 5,000 yrs where women have depended solely on their men for their livelihood without contributing a cent.

If men have sold their shame, Should we agree that women from time immemorial are born without any shame.

Cos a girl wont blink twice before she asks you for 1million Naira

All these GAYYners shouting all over.

It seems they have forgotten how wenGAY and his cohorts parked the bus against Villareal?

^^^

For delaying to congratulate me, Report to my room and kneel down sharp sharp

WHat Dayokanu sees in August 2010, Illusion say in January 2011

ifyalways:
Dayo is married to my sis,take your virgin somewhere else.

Yes oooo. Tell them.

Wey your lil sis BTW?

chizee1:
girl u are messing up big time and i beg u to withdraw b4 u land urself in a big mess. Haba girl why must spend so much money on a guy who is not even your husband it is suppose to be the other way round,they should spend on us and not us on them.

WHy should a guy be the one spending on you? Cant you spend on yourself or are you not able to earn an income and spend it on yourself?

Now have our South South people seen what a free and fair election under GEJ means

Na wa o

spikedcylinder:
Relationships are a two way thing nao! How comes women get to complain the most when the man is down but when the woman is sitting her lazy backside at home, buying Brazilian wigs and getting fat, no one hears the men complain.
From what you have said (about him working not to stay idle), I can guess that the man is not a silly man. He wants to work, he wants to earn a living and he wants to take care of himself and you but he simply cannot at the moment. He's not even the parasitic kind of man that will depend on his wife for everything. You are lucky, as far as I am concerned.
Please support your man at this critical moment especially if you believe as I do that he is not lazy. When he gets back on his feet, he will resume his 'duties' - whatever that means to y'all.

Spikedcylinder for the comment in bold, I offer to marry you tonight sharp sharp.

I am not in support of partners dependent on the other but would it have been wrong if the girl was the one without a job and the guy paying for him?

I cant depend on any woman and I dont expect any woman to depend on me

^^ See what GAYYners have turned to? spamming? Delusion leads to mediocrity which leads to Trophylessness which leads to spamming and later suicide.

See wetin wenGAY don turn comfort momsie to?

Can mods pls do the need ful to this poster

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?action=profile;u=628811

^^Oya send am come but first post the picture here.