₦airaland Forum

The rate at wish stroke is killing Nigerians is alarming. In the next 10 years it will be worse.

Ojetayo17:
Oyo people will be enjoying 13 month salary. another one is coming on 25 this month. hurray hurray hurray.

My friend who was asking me for support this Christmas just shared the same news with me. You can imagine how happy he was to divulge such information. There will be more money in circulation in oyo state this Christmas which has never happened in years. APC is indeed an evil party.

Omituntun! I just got information that oyo workers have been receiving alerts since yesterday. Congratulations GSM and oyo people in general.

Akiko Dangote and co-owner of dangote refinery tours dangote refinery alongside minister of finance.

Head slamming sypcohantic morons.

proudly Anambra! Igbo amaka!! Ihiala Amaka!!! Where is my ticket, am coming home soon!!!

Ifeanyi ubah should go and lick thiefnubus ass more, it won't save him because he is a goner. Dr uzoh is better than the I'll educated bastard who betrayed igbos to support Pawan Ahmed. It's payback time for you bastards. Orji Kali gone, ifeanyi ubah gone, next in line is Dave umahi, willy obiano and co

Future tense criminals are at it again.

iCauseTrouble:
If not for the money my mum has been borrowing from me since I was small, how much is Benz that I can't buy

Lmao! Werey.

StupidNLmods:
Kanye West should be bonded and taken to the nearest psychiatric hospital. That nigga is something else lately, calling himself jesus and shi. See his big head

You need a good shrink.

dannyla:
I opened a new account to remain anonymous.
This story is a bit long but pls bear with me.

I met this man almost 2yrs ago at an event a friend invited me to. The next week, he collected my number from my friend and called me, we began talking from there and agreed to go on a date. He proposed marriage to me on the first date which I rejected. I told him that I can't marry outside my church and from the little I've heard from him, our life dreams differ. I decided to cut him off from that day and I stayed away for about 3months. Meanwhile he got my friend to introduce him to my sis, mum and another friend who happened to be from his place, I'll call her Grace.
He made them all aware of his intent towards me and my stand and asked for their help to change my mind. Grace became his biggest ally and convinced me to have another date. He asked that we date for a while and see if we can work out our differences. During the date I noticed he has a very hot and quick temper and he listens to gossip a lot so I do tell Gracethat I don't see a future with him but he was too persistent, Grace always had words of encouragement and considering the fact that for some strange reason, it was mainly married men always approach me for a relationship with stories of how they got married to a wrong woman and they are or are almost divorced, dating a single man with no kids was very tempting and I decided to give it a try.

He asked me to tell him everything about me so there are no secrets between us and I did. Starting from secondary school to that day, I told him everything, from my first kiss, the colleague who tried to rape me, my ex who lied about his marital status and disvirgined me etc. he did the same too and I felt a burden roll off my shoulder.

Few days later I began to notice changes in him especially towards my business. I thrive in a male dominated industry in a ratio of 9men to 1woman. He asked me to show him the pictures of my colleagues which I did, he also asked if they make passes at me which I said is almost inevitable but my boundaries are clear and rigid.

Fast forward to now. I noticed that whenever I drop my phone, he goes through it. Facebook, sms, WhatsApp etc. He even picks my call when I'm not close to the phone. He asked me about a certain colleague who cracks dirty jokes like how I rushed to get married (I told him I'm already married). I didn't think much about it.

He later began to complain about my partners and how I'm sleeping with them like the prostitute I am, called me an unrepentant liar, unsubmisive, manipulating etc. Said he regrets asking for my hand at all and he's just waiting forthe day he'll catch me redhanded so he can dump my sorry a*s.
I told him to end it now cus I'm fed up, family came in and I later found out that Grace has been telling a lot of lies against hoping to get him for herself as well as hate filled advises from some aggrieved friends who felt ladies from my tribe are no good and just there to "chop money". Apologies were said and received and we continued.

Another time I visited him and we had an argument, he gave me several heavy knocks on my head and I developed a headache and began to insult him which resultedin more heavy knocks. I broke up with him and left. Later my mum called him to ask why he laid his hands on me, he denied it swearing with his life. Said I insulted him and he lost his temper and insulted me back that he's sorry. He began to drop messages everywhere and I eventually gave in.

3rd incident happened on our way back from an event. He saw a message from a colleague he told me to stop doing business with cus he feels the man has his eyes on me which is totally not true. He flared up, stopped the car and was even threatening to beat me up. I came down from his car and stood by the roadside. He came down too and gave me the insult of my life in full public view and glare and told me to enter the car which I refused. I had no money on me and had to beg a stranger for money. By that time he was coming back, he quickly took a picture of both of us and sent it to everybody of how he caught me in the act with my lover on the road. He called me and said that if he must marry me, I must break my business sim card and look for a wife friendly occupation or sit at home.

He later apologised over it. Meanwhile he and my sis don't flow as before as he once called her a prostitute.

I want to call it quits but everyone around me feels it's a mistake and he is saying everything out of anger and if I'm patient enough, he will change completely.

I must admit that he has changed alot since we met but the progress compared to the timeframe and the heat I face everyday is nothing to write home about.

He loves me to a fault and I don't know if I can find someone who loves me like him but his other attitude is sniffing life out of me. Do I stay or quit?
Thanks for reading and pardon any typos

Pocochantas, leave that asshole. I got you anytime, anyday baby. I would be home soon. I miss you like crazily, like crazy Poco baby.

Arsenal should better sack the bastard ozil. Muslims are terrorists this is a testament to that. Instead focusing on how to help arsenal escape relegation he is here promoting violence against the chinese. Ozil should know that China can never be cowed to unban Islam in their beloved country. Any afonja muslim that wants quotes me should think of a sensible reason why ozil shouldn't focus on playing a better football for arsenal than getting involved in religious fanaticism before he/she does so.

Dedetwo:
Nigeria gave its soldiers enough weapon to prosecute the war. However, they lacked tactical know-how and internal discipline. I honestly believed there are Boko Harams in Nigerian armed forces.

shut up and stop mocking the dead.

davillian:
When you know its death or death
Its better you stand up and die like a man.....
Me I no go lie down...

I swear I say these each time I watch their execution videos. I will rather die from gunshot wounds than let an uncircumcised bastard decapitate me. God forbid!

Ipobs releases another propaganda video depicting Nigerian soldiers in bolo haram captivity. Signed tukur buratai and afonja media.

Afonja ewedu gobblers and their kunu counterparts will not like this.

What's one eyed Sunday saying?

Afonja morons will not like this.

letusbepieces:
Can the Yoruba now retrace their steps to an all Southern brotherhood.

It is very important. North west has the North east and the SE has the SS.

Who does the SW have?

Fulani masters!

Thegeneralqueen:
Since her marriage can't be broken despite your evil plot go and help him divorce her retard

Hey Olosho, pls don't mention me again. Am not a hoe drilling nigga ok.

Preciousgirl:
A friend requested my picture on Facebook and I sent him.

My hubby found it out and for three weeks he is not talking to me. I have apologised, tried everything but he is not talking. I am so confused and sad. Please what should I do?


Only sensible comments

Your husband should divorce you, because he married a hoe.

johnmartus:
Kid this is not an achievement. Your governor is going to jail at the end if his tenure.

I know your real moniker you hatred filled zombie. You need to channel your hatred energy to getting proper education so that you can compose sentence in a better English next time or better still beg your sponsors to send you back to school instead of nuisance causing tout on nairaland.

Nina4u:
its all good ... Thank you. I never seen naija girl in a bikini on fb ..i understand they are modest and covered up ..here we ware bikinis and like to show our bodey lol dont mean that ur a ho ...lol i aprishiate you though

Yeah! I do understand your reason better now. Are you swedish- American?

Stupid fucking gray haired cultist. Why not say dogs are more civilised than president buhari and see if you won't die in jail.

Nina4u:
u are really rude and called me an ashawo basicly ..u dont even know me

I am sorry! I sincerely apologise.

Gopitoto:
Thanks my man

Uwc! I wanna ask you something, did your friends warn you about her?

Kelvin30286063:
Dating students is stressful, especially if she lives in the same city with you.
I dated one some years ago, she got to my house for the first time. Mobbed the floor of every single room despite the fact that it was a 3 bedroom flat.
Then cleaned the kitchen cabinet and washed all the plates. I was like...why now. I have someone that comes in to do all this things. She said I shouldn't worry...i know she was only acting responsible cuz she noticed I'm all set for marriage.
A week later, she billed me 59k for her school fees. I just laughed and send 20k to her cuz I remembered all the work she did the day she came.

You bleeped up my name sake. Wtf will you even give the bitch 20k, money wey go buy red label for club. Why not give her 5900?

Gopitoto:
Exactly...... You have spoken the truth..... Am experiencing the same thing now, I supported this student (Girlfriend) all through, today she is a graduate and dating another man she met this year because the man is well to do than me. She even celebrated her birthday this week and preferred to tag that new man than me. Never again I go date any student again.

lmao! Sorry bro.

Ikenga is dope