₦airaland Forum

9jaganja:
@ Lucrabasi
I'm not a Christian and don't feel threatened by any Muslim no matter how stupid he is. Don't tell me you haven't heard of Sharia law in Nigeria and how they planned to make it a Nigerian law by constitution before Obasanjo shot it down (one of the good things he did).

We need to sort out our religious differences by eradicating religion entirely and focusing on humanity. Even Yoruba Muslims will fight Yoruba christians over religious differences. We need to put Women in their rightful position which is the position of power cause only the nature of women can handle power with humanity, men can't. That been said the crusade against women which they call Islam and Christianity must end before we even think of uniting Africa. We can't unite Africa with the Arabs and Islam being their religion. They have it in the Quran that a man can beat his wife . Women are the pillars of creation but men's lust for power can't let that be.

As for the question of whether African Muslims will see them selves Africans first, dreaming!! They see themselves as Muslims first then Africans second and will destroy anything for the sake of Islam. The Christians are the same too. MOFOS!! I hate religion cause it destroys culture totally!!!!

sistawoman:
You are correct this is a hindsight list. I made my list after my first husband before my current.

If I had been schooled before by older wiser women I would have had this from the start and would have married one time.

I am not saying that the man should come with millions of dollars; I am just saying he should be where I am. I date older than me and have always dated older than me. Therefore I feel like if I have accomplished things in my life so should he. And if he has not then he is not the type of man i want or need. I am way beyond my days of looking at the potential. I am way beyond my days of pushing a man along and helping him get his feet on the ground.

My man must come in the door carrying the table not just bringing something to put on it.

Women should never date down. I believe they should date up because most women date older. And if an older guy does not have his act together then keep it moving because he might never get there. He might forever be stuck in the "dream".

sistawoman:
I am just saying he should be where I am

sistawoman:
My man must come in the door carrying the table not just bringing something to put on it

sistawoman:
Women should never date down. I believe they should date up because most women date older.

honeric01:
Are u drunk with honey mixed with ogogoro? Why the zigzag comments? Wetin last wey u dey find for online?

Husband Material:


It may be different in Nigeria but one of the first things I look for is a man that is not still living in his mothers basement, unless he is saving up for a house.

A man with a job, good paying job, a job that pays more than or almost as much as mine.

A man that pays his bills on time

A man with good credit.

A man that is faithful

A man that see the value in me

A man that is romantic

A man that loves, adores and treats his mom with the highest respect (the way he treats her says how he will treat me)

A man that does the above to his sisters

A man that understands I am independent and also dependant

A man that understands I too have a voice and respects that voice

A man that stands behind his decisions and deals with whatever fall out there is behind them.

A man that respects me ALWAYS

A man that would never dream of disrespecting me in my presence or behind my back.

A man that can cook and clean

Be back lata

BlueDiva:
When u don't do what u're being paid for, u're shown the gate. Period

banom:
All these predictors/prophets, we have never heared anything good and promising from you people, Every time God said that this death, accident, fairliure or anything very terrible will happen,

dean2725:
By Akinwunmi King
Daily Independent.
http://odili.net/news/source/2009/feb/3/712.html

According to him, "we have witnessed one of the deaths and definitely, we have one more to go. Before the end of the year, we are going to witness the death of another governor.

Charlesmud:
, OK I dont wanna talk on points that is totally not useful at this point cus am having head-ache talking and thinking about Nigeria.

, My worries is why cant or why are we not doing anything on this issue ?

, I strongly believe that if some certain numbers of people can come together, no matter how little it is. it will be meaningful to make a positive impact.

ode remo:
which GOD?

**osisi:
I wish I could dash you the 10 pounds I already lost.
Life is so unfair.

JJYOU:
very unfair

Becomrrich:
What nonsense did you say, you are talking. You need God in your life. Without God you would be confuse. GEt him back in your life.

Go to yorubaland children are dropping out of school. can some one post the picture of lagos school. they sit on the floor. where is the money to build new class room or new chairs.

they can even pay for teachers. I know someone in one of the south west state that is a teacher and for about 8 month they never got paid.

The south west state have no more money to do any single project . They are broke. They go from bank to bank to borrow money to meet thier monthly duty.


If you talk about bad road. there is no place in nigeria that have bad road like the south west.

The north have stable electricity. But most part of the south west have not seen light for 2 or 3 month.

and after this , you now compare yourself with the north or igboland. Who have good school and they are leading in education.

Is it the light that is stable in Abuja , you want to compare to lagos where there is no electricity for 2 or 5 month .

Northern city and igboland city are far far modern than the old mud houses in the south west. In development. The north is 50 years ahead of the south west . Go to abuja , kaduna or kano and see, And come back to the south west and compare with rubbish building. Go to igboland too and compare with the rubbish of the south west.

Is it the road in lagos or ibadan or akure that fashola , akala or agagu is looking for money to repair. You want to compare with expressway in abuja, kano or kaduna or even port harcourt or owerri.

Or you want to compare akure stadium or liberty stadium with abuja stadium.


Look go and visit other part of nigeria and you see it is better than the south west. The south west is the most underdevelop place in Nigeria. Even igboland or south south is more develop than the south west. Please . The only answer is for us to go to the republic of benin and get develop.

MrCrackles:
POSTER
I reserve my comments till you get the visa

Omolola1:
@ dean 2725
The internet is also a public place, any of her family relations could visit the site and discover she is the one with the story and everything.

Omolola1:
we are talking about a world wide web here so there is no hiding place.

Omolola1:
@ dean 2725

Am not doubting the possibility of this happening, but the thing is if it truly happened to her and she's embarrassed about the whole thing, she would not come to a very popular site to wash her DIRTY LINEN IN PUBLIC!