₦airaland Forum

Pierohandsome:
Marriage is a good thing to live in.

But sincerely, any day my wife wakes up and open her mouth to tell me she no longer loves me, that will be the day the marriage will end, I'll throw her out immediately without looking back.

I don't think any man should fight to keep a woman, if she doesn't want the union anymore, please kick her out, simple

Exactly.

vicvan:
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I (33 f) have been married to my husband (36 m) for 7 years. A little over 5 years ago I got pregnant with our son. Long story short on that it was a terrible time for me. The pregnancy was rough on me and on top of that my husband demanded a pregnancy test. He kept trying to say he didn't think I would cheat on him but he 'needed to be sure'. It destroyed me emotionally and it didn't get better after our son was born and he got the proof he needed. I asked him to go to marriage counseling with me he told me no because it was my issue I needed to get over.

So, I asked him for just therapy for me and he said no because I just needed to get over it and we didn't have the money for it. I hated him for the first year of my sons life. Like with a burning passion. However, I learned about meditation and mindfulness and over time my hatred dissipated and I just felt indifferent towards him. I didn't love him anymore but I didn't hate him. I wanted a divorce but my family and his family convinced me it would be better to stay for my son and I did for him.

My relationship with my husband, if you could call it that was fine. I still did everything I was suppose to as a wife. I cooked, cleaned, and let him use my body to get off whenever he wanted. I just saw it as a chore that I needed to do. I thought everything was going fine, our son just started going to Kindergarten and I have been looking for a job while son is at school, I even started working out again. Now the problem is my husband came to me and said he wanted another baby. I laughed because I thought he was joking but he was serious.

I told him that I wouldn't have a baby with someone that I didn't love and he was shocked. He told me that he had no idea that I didn't love him Which was ridiculous to me because in the past 5 years I stopped wearing my wedding ring and have never said I love you to him. We didn't do anything together no date nights, didn't exchange any gifts for any occasion. We were just living like roommates who had sex some times.

Now, he wants to do counseling and all this stuff to save our marriage and I just don't want to or see the point. Am I at fault?

You are a wicked woman and God will judge you.
Satan wife.

Soludo is a huge disappointment.
That's just the truth.

Nauttyprof:
If you are pained, still go to the warfront and come back to tell same story. All the countries you mentioned treat their Soldiers same way as ours, right?

Sick thought. We are quick to always compare things with other advanced countries but fail to ask if the same experience applies in your own country.

So because the Nigerian government doesn't treat her soldiers right, the next thing is for the soldiers to let out the frustration on the Nigerian civilians? Why not let out the frustration on the Nigerian government if not that you're a huge coward.

Does the same Nigerian government treat her citizens right?

You're just a hateful, insecure coward whose only source of gratification is the brutalization and extortion of your fellow citizens.

But when you see real combat, you begin to run helter-skelter and screaming like scared women.

Nonsense.

cloud:
you didn't mention that same soldiers risk their lives to ensure people like you are safe. Irrespective of how some security agents behave, it is their presence at so many levels that serve as a deterrence to so many crimes. So focus on those carrying out their duties diligently instead of generalising your hatred from the comfort of your home. Better still, you could volunteer and become the change you want to see

Nonsense and balderdash.

Are they the only soldiers in the world?

Why is their case different when it comes to harassing, brutalizing and extorting their fellow citizens?

Nauttyprof:
Go to war front then come back to tell this same story.

Shut up please.

American soldiers have seen war more than the entire generations of Nigerian soldiers.

Do they harass and brutalize their own citizens?

Russian soldiers fight heavily in Ukraine. They do not brutalize their own citizens.

Nigerian soldiers are just so unprofessional. Hopeless bullies.

See how they are shouting like women in the battle field. Na only civilian body dem get power.


Israel is losing soldiers daily in Gaza but they don't harass and brutalize their own citizens.
. Nonsense.

Foodqueen:
Mind your business.

I can't imagine that u actually went to say that to her mother. Isn't she aware about what's going on before

No matter how much you try, that girl no go ever look your side, there are some girls that are destined to date bad boys, she's one of them.

U thought cos u are a cool guy, she should av been chilling with you ba

If u like part with your money cos u av the hope that she might start dating you. OYO.

Mind your business before them naked you for that house.

This is so funny

Israel is committing genocide in Gaza.
Israel is a terrorist State.

Josephamstrong1:
I don’t really understand some schools this days. My baby girl cleared all her subjects with distinction, all As and she was given 3rd position. She has been sobbing uncontrollably since yesterday. Yes, she was promised Christmas gifts and present if she takes first position in class this term.
I think she deserves the 1st position. I want to go to the school on Monday and appeal for result recheck. It can’t be!
I am not taking this o! My baby deserves 1st position with this result.

Stop disgracing yourself here in the name of chasing clout.
Ignorant prick.

valdovas:
I hope her spirit haunts you for telling these disgusting lies against her.

Le her useless spirit haunt her useless feminist ancestors that have her the mind to disrespect, insult and maltreat the husband.

Just to be clear.
What happened on October 7 was a terorist attack.
Israel was right to retaliate and they are also within their own rights to defend themselves.

Even if they want to route Hamas out of Gaza, I've got no problem with that. Hamas should be routed out.

But no conscientious individual will support the mass slaughter and systemic extermination of a group of people.

More than 13,000 Palestinians have perished within 2 months, including children, women and innocent men.
Nobody with a conscience should justify the ongoing genocide.
The blockade of food, water, medicine, fuel and electricity is evil, wicked and callous.

Israel is not the first country to have waged a war against an external entity.

America invaded Vietnam and fought for 10 good years. They never blockaded Vietnam. They didn't try to systematically kill off the non-combatant civilians - even though the VietCong employed guerilla warfare extensively.

America was in Afghanistan for many years an never blockaded the country. They didn't try to kill off civilians or bomb houses just for the fun of it.

In real time, we see Russia invading Ukraine. Russia has largely kept to international rules of war. They have avoided where possible, civilian casualties.

Israel or any other country for that matter does not have any justification whatsoever to systemically eradicate a group of people from the face of the earth.

What is happening in Gaza is horrible and nobody should support that.

I was supporting Israel before and I still support their right to self defence. I am also indifferent of they wish to remove Hamas.

But I will never support the indiscriminate bombing of houses, hospitals and schools in the name of fighting Hamas. Innocent civilians are dying. Many are injured. Many more are left without basic necessities of living.

FoolishBoy419:
Lol. I suspect this guy is playing a big prank on all of you. You cannot openly admit that you know innocent civilians are being deliberately bombed and you love it only for you to type this less than two weeks later. Sure, it's possible but very very unlikely.

I repent from whatever I've said in the past.
I was blinded by religious sentiments. But now I see clearly.

Israel is committing genocide in Gaza.
I was blind before, but now I see.

There's no justification for the mass slaughter of thousands of innocents.
Israel is being inhumane, callous, evil and wicked.

Honesty, nobody deserves to go through the suffering that the Palestinians are currently undergoing.
Yes, Hamas attack was a terror attack. Yes, Israel has the right to retaliate and defend itself.

But nothing on earth will ever justify the mass murder of civilians by any government or country.
This is systemic cleansing of the Palestinian population...

Israel should be stopped.

Namaster:
Well said, OP.

It's difficult to listen to a typical Black American speak. Imagine an educated person saying things like "all y'all", "we was", "finna", "I ain't"etc.

It's disgusting.

The funniest and equally most pitiful thing about them is that they get an unmerited sense of superiority because they can say the word "nigga" and other races, especially Caucasians, are condemned for it.

They lay claim to meaningless things like being the better singer or dancer, etc. They act tough and glamourize gangsterism in their media.

One could argue that it's the black in them manifesting. 'Cause we have yet to see a predominantly black society that have their shit together in the 21ST century.

To understand dichotomy in the mentality of black and white people in America, visit Reddit.

Specifically, checkout r/blackpeopletwitter and r/whitepeopletwitter. You will see how dangerously low the IQ of the average black American is compared to his white counterpart.

In r/blackpeopletwitter, you'll find things like Celebrities, gossips, food and SEX. Overall, it's a bunch of meaningless things.

In r/whitepeopletwitter, 90% percent of the posts are about the political atmosphere in the country. The rest could be about gender and other social issues.

You visit one and your feel your mind expand. You visit the other and you can feel something s sucking out your IQ with a giant straw.

That said, they have some saving grace amongst them. People like Obama, Ben Carson, Denzel Washington,Dave Chapelle and Chris Rock are the reasons why black Americans have not been completely written off.

Very accurate.

Alamkir:
Atleast Spain tried more than Palestinian so called brothers. Very useless entity. Especially that Saudi who I think should be like the big brother in that region, is the most useless of them all.
Imagine the weapons and finance Israel has and they are still getting help. Iam even sure American soldiers are on the ground operating with Isrealis army

Cry more

Stoplying:
I agree, I can't do what he's doing neither. But I'm always harsh when I criticize people. That is how I was educated, and I'm harshest on myself.

Abeg get out
Mumu

That guy is the most hardworking guy here.

HolinessForever:
Judges in France issued arrest warrants for the Syrian president and three associates for using chemical weapons.

Judges in France issued arrest warrants for Syrian President Bashar al-Assad, his brother Maher al-Assad and two other senior officials for using banned chemical weapons against civilians in August 2013, in attacks that killed more than 1,000 people.

"The issuance of arrest warrants by the French judicial system against the head of state, Bashar al-Assad, and his associates constitutes a historic judicial precedent. This is a new victory for the victims, their families and the survivors and a step on the way to justice and sustainable peace in Syria." said lawyer Mazen Darwish, founder and CEO of the Syrian Center for Communication and Freedom of Expression (SCM).

He added, "The investigating judges in France have spoken their mind about this type of crime; no one is immune. And we expect the French authorities to respect the suffering and rights of the victims along with the decision of the French justice system."

Lol

WrriterNig:
⚡The spokesman of the Yemeni armed forces, reading a short statement, pointed out two very important issues, firstly, he emphasized that the missiles and drones of the Yemeni army have targeted the positions of the Israel throughout the Israel. The targets of the missile and drone unit of the Yemeni army have been targeted.

But the second issue that was emphasized again in the continuation of the Yemeni leader's statement today was the warning to Israel ships that want to pass through Bab al-Mandab. The spokesman of the Yemeni armed forces emphasized that these ships will be destroyed as legitimate targets wherever they are seen in the Red Sea and in front of the coast of Yemen. This issue will be very dangerous and costly for the Israeli regime, whose economy is 90% dependent on the sea and most of its trade with Asian countries via the Red Sea and Bab al-Mandeb

Poverty stricken Yemen dey make noise.
I love how they've been largely ignored by Israel and US.
Let Israel finish with Hamas first, Yemen will face the music.

Kingsnairaland:
they should have stayed home.

Death is everywhere

lanre316:
Very stuupiid statement. You want to help someone but you will wait till he's completely killed before helping him. How fuulish is that. Just admit you cannot face Israel. Some Arabs are worse than I imagined they are.

Cry more
Thousands of Gazan worthless souls perished already.
Many hospitals are out of service. More hopeless souls to perish due to lack of medical care. Even more to be bombed to death.

Cry more.

Gazan deaths must reach 30,000 in Jesus name. Amen.

ahnie:
When nairaland was nairaland those good ol years, TEHN would have gone to make investigations,then takes up the case.

Not this nonsense nairaland has turned into now.

May his soul rest in peace!

Seun allowed Nairaland to lose its true value.
. Back then, there were sensible people on Nairaland.
Not anymore.

ahnie:
One was spanking his wife yesterday like goat....he sat on her and so beat this woman eeh,a nursing mother to a 3 months old baby...he doesn't give her good food to eat,he nor dey even drop money for house,he dey carry woman upandan.


It was her cries that attracted us...I had to pour him my bottle water when he was pressing the wife's neck to kill her.

Boys gats rushed him and decorated him with few slaps...I told the woman a young mum of 2 kids(boys) to run for her life....she nor even get strength away take cry,she said she has bn enduring the beating for years now.

I think this domestic abuses are the reason why wives are killing themselves by commiting suicide.

The said woman said she doesn't know what to do...

She never ready to move honestly...


You see men that spanks their wives we have so many of them online....I think women too should learn how to fight back....take tekwando lessons if you ve to....make the vawulence go round.

If I dey there I for beat you.
I go shoot you, shoot all those boys.
Nonsense.

If na me, I will assassinate you and your family.

I just pray mek we I jam your type one day. You will meet your maker that day, I promise you.

motayoayinde:
Just making the daft soldiers pose for pictures in the desert for nothing.

After 30 minutes, they will post his obituary.

Show me the obituary of 10,000 Gazan bastard worthless souls.

Stoplying:
When a terrorist attack which made 117 victims took place in France, the king of morroco showed up in Paris for a protest against the terrorist attack, he was seen walking amidst French government officials in the protest.
But when Israel kills 11000 of his brothers, his reaction is: "show must go on..."

Russia and China and South Africa have done more for Palestinians than morroco and Saudi Arabia and UAE

Cry me a river.

Fash20:
Arabs are their own problem. They are just too divided.
Divide and rule. The oldest trick in the book

Cry more!!
Thousands more of Gazan worthless souls to be wasted.

HolinessForever:
BREAKING!!!!
Pope Francis forcibly removes leading US conservative, Texas bishop Joseph Strickland

Evil pope.

Al Shifa hospital has fallen!!!!

IDF soldiers are now inside the hospital complex.


For the Hamas terrorist head slamming sympathizers here, Go and hug a live electric transformer.
. Useless people.

IDF is in Al Shifa hospital as I speak to you now.
. All you useless Hamas terrorists, cry more blood.

More Gazan souls to be wasted in Jesus name. Amen.

15,000 Gazan bastards perished. More 15,000 useless souls to be wiped off the earth.