vicvan:
https://anthonyex.com/5-genius-ways-to-make-money-from-home-using-ai/

I (33 f) have been married to my husband (36 m) for 7 years. A little over 5 years ago I got pregnant with our son. Long story short on that it was a terrible time for me. The pregnancy was rough on me and on top of that my husband demanded a pregnancy test. He kept trying to say he didn't think I would cheat on him but he 'needed to be sure'. It destroyed me emotionally and it didn't get better after our son was born and he got the proof he needed. I asked him to go to marriage counseling with me he told me no because it was my issue I needed to get over.

So, I asked him for just therapy for me and he said no because I just needed to get over it and we didn't have the money for it. I hated him for the first year of my sons life. Like with a burning passion. However, I learned about meditation and mindfulness and over time my hatred dissipated and I just felt indifferent towards him. I didn't love him anymore but I didn't hate him. I wanted a divorce but my family and his family convinced me it would be better to stay for my son and I did for him.

My relationship with my husband, if you could call it that was fine. I still did everything I was suppose to as a wife. I cooked, cleaned, and let him use my body to get off whenever he wanted. I just saw it as a chore that I needed to do. I thought everything was going fine, our son just started going to Kindergarten and I have been looking for a job while son is at school, I even started working out again. Now the problem is my husband came to me and said he wanted another baby. I laughed because I thought he was joking but he was serious.

I told him that I wouldn't have a baby with someone that I didn't love and he was shocked. He told me that he had no idea that I didn't love him Which was ridiculous to me because in the past 5 years I stopped wearing my wedding ring and have never said I love you to him. We didn't do anything together no date nights, didn't exchange any gifts for any occasion. We were just living like roommates who had sex some times.

Now, he wants to do counseling and all this stuff to save our marriage and I just don't want to or see the point. Am I at fault?

Hezzyluv:
Too much wahala in marriages.

Like some people selling motivational books like "ESSY WAY TO BE RICH", but they themselves are poor, even the marriage counselors have their own marriage problems, they're just pretending all is well.

vicvan:
https://anthonyex.com/5-genius-ways-to-make-money-from-home-using-ai/

I (33 f) have been married to my husband (36 m) for 7 years. A little over 5 years ago I got pregnant with our son. Long story short on that it was a terrible time for me. The pregnancy was rough on me and on top of that my husband demanded a pregnancy test. He kept trying to say he didn't think I would cheat on him but he 'needed to be sure'. It destroyed me emotionally and it didn't get better after our son was born and he got the proof he needed. I asked him to go to marriage counseling with me he told me no because it was my issue I needed to get over.

So, I asked him for just therapy for me and he said no because I just needed to get over it and we didn't have the money for it. I hated him for the first year of my sons life. Like with a burning passion. However, I learned about meditation and mindfulness and over time my hatred dissipated and I just felt indifferent towards him. I didn't love him anymore but I didn't hate him. I wanted a divorce but my family and his family convinced me it would be better to stay for my son and I did for him.

My relationship with my husband, if you could call it that was fine. I still did everything I was suppose to as a wife. I cooked, cleaned, and let him use my body to get off whenever he wanted. I just saw it as a chore that I needed to do. I thought everything was going fine, our son just started going to Kindergarten and I have been looking for a job while son is at school, I even started working out again. Now the problem is my husband came to me and said he wanted another baby. I laughed because I thought he was joking but he was serious.

I told him that I wouldn't have a baby with someone that I didn't love and he was shocked. He told me that he had no idea that I didn't love him Which was ridiculous to me because in the past 5 years I stopped wearing my wedding ring and have never said I love you to him. We didn't do anything together no date nights, didn't exchange any gifts for any occasion. We were just living like roommates who had sex some times.

Now, he wants to do counseling and all this stuff to save our marriage and I just don't want to or see the point. Am I at fault?

Pierohandsome:
Marriage is a good thing to live in.

But sincerely, any day my wife wakes up and open her mouth to tell me she no longer loves me, that will be the day the marriage will end, I'll throw her out immediately without looking back.

I don't think any man should fight to keep a woman, if she doesn't want the union anymore, please kick her out, simple

vicvan:
https://anthonyex.com/5-genius-ways-to-make-money-from-home-using-ai/

I (33 f) have been married to my husband (36 m) for 7 years. A little over 5 years ago I got pregnant with our son. Long story short on that it was a terrible time for me. The pregnancy was rough on me and on top of that my husband demanded a pregnancy test. He kept trying to say he didn't think I would cheat on him but he 'needed to be sure'. It destroyed me emotionally and it didn't get better after our son was born and he got the proof he needed. I asked him to go to marriage counseling with me he told me no because it was my issue I needed to get over.

So, I asked him for just therapy for me and he said no because I just needed to get over it and we didn't have the money for it. I hated him for the first year of my sons life. Like with a burning passion. However, I learned about meditation and mindfulness and over time my hatred dissipated and I just felt indifferent towards him. I didn't love him anymore but I didn't hate him. I wanted a divorce but my family and his family convinced me it would be better to stay for my son and I did for him.

My relationship with my husband, if you could call it that was fine. I still did everything I was suppose to as a wife. I cooked, cleaned, and let him use my body to get off whenever he wanted. I just saw it as a chore that I needed to do. I thought everything was going fine, our son just started going to Kindergarten and I have been looking for a job while son is at school, I even started working out again. Now the problem is my husband came to me and said he wanted another baby. I laughed because I thought he was joking but he was serious.

I told him that I wouldn't have a baby with someone that I didn't love and he was shocked. He told me that he had no idea that I didn't love him Which was ridiculous to me because in the past 5 years I stopped wearing my wedding ring and have never said I love you to him. We didn't do anything together no date nights, didn't exchange any gifts for any occasion. We were just living like roommates who had sex some times.

Now, he wants to do counseling and all this stuff to save our marriage and I just don't want to or see the point. Am I at fault?

vicvan:
https://anthonyex.com/5-genius-ways-to-make-money-from-home-using-ai/

I (33 f) have been married to my husband (36 m) for 7 years. A little over 5 years ago I got pregnant with our son. Long story short on that it was a terrible time for me. The pregnancy was rough on me and on top of that my husband demanded a pregnancy test. He kept trying to say he didn't think I would cheat on him but he 'needed to be sure'. It destroyed me emotionally and it didn't get better after our son was born and he got the proof he needed. I asked him to go to marriage counseling with me he told me no because it was my issue I needed to get over.

So, I asked him for just therapy for me and he said no because I just needed to get over it and we didn't have the money for it. I hated him for the first year of my sons life. Like with a burning passion. However, I learned about meditation and mindfulness and over time my hatred dissipated and I just felt indifferent towards him. I didn't love him anymore but I didn't hate him. I wanted a divorce but my family and his family convinced me it would be better to stay for my son and I did for him.

My relationship with my husband, if you could call it that was fine. I still did everything I was suppose to as a wife. I cooked, cleaned, and let him use my body to get off whenever he wanted. I just saw it as a chore that I needed to do. I thought everything was going fine, our son just started going to Kindergarten and I have been looking for a job while son is at school, I even started working out again. Now the problem is my husband came to me and said he wanted another baby. I laughed because I thought he was joking but he was serious.

I told him that I wouldn't have a baby with someone that I didn't love and he was shocked. He told me that he had no idea that I didn't love him Which was ridiculous to me because in the past 5 years I stopped wearing my wedding ring and have never said I love you to him. We didn't do anything together no date nights, didn't exchange any gifts for any occasion. We were just living like roommates who had sex some times.

Now, he wants to do counseling and all this stuff to save our marriage and I just don't want to or see the point. Am I at fault?

jadyclem:
You told your husband you don't love him anymore and he wants you guys to go for counseling?
What a very stupid and insecure man! If I was in his shoes I'll be very glad to let you go. Openly telling me you don't love me is the end of whatever bond we have. The sooner men starts treating entitled and thriffling women like they truly deserve, the better the society will be for everyone.
Marriage that can't give you as a man peace and some form of comfort is a waste of time, energy and resources.

anthonyuncle:
Kukuma leave him and the house.

You can't be with a man you call a husband, see sex as a chore, and perform your responsibilities as a task.

Look inwards and see if you gave him reasons to suspect you in the beginning.
People grow in marriage.
Everyone wasn't perfect or ready for marriage when they got married.
Neither were all in love when they did.
Your husband seems like one of such.
Flip the table and if you were on the other side, how would you feel.

For your own sake, you better leave now or change.
This your stance will only favour you at the present.

DrFunmisticGlow:
I hope you know that it takes resources to leave a marriage

vicvan:
https://anthonyex.com/5-genius-ways-to-make-money-from-home-using-ai/

I (33 f) have been married to my husband (36 m) for 7 years. A little over 5 years ago I got pregnant with our son. Long story short on that it was a terrible time for me. The pregnancy was rough on me and on top of that my husband demanded a pregnancy test. He kept trying to say he didn't think I would cheat on him but he 'needed to be sure'. It destroyed me emotionally and it didn't get better after our son was born and he got the proof he needed. I asked him to go to marriage counseling with me he told me no because it was my issue I needed to get over.

So, I asked him for just therapy for me and he said no because I just needed to get over it and we didn't have the money for it. I hated him for the first year of my sons life. Like with a burning passion. However, I learned about meditation and mindfulness and over time my hatred dissipated and I just felt indifferent towards him. I didn't love him anymore but I didn't hate him. I wanted a divorce but my family and his family convinced me it would be better to stay for my son and I did for him.

My relationship with my husband, if you could call it that was fine. I still did everything I was suppose to as a wife. I cooked, cleaned, and let him use my body to get off whenever he wanted. I just saw it as a chore that I needed to do. I thought everything was going fine, our son just started going to Kindergarten and I have been looking for a job while son is at school, I even started working out again. Now the problem is my husband came to me and said he wanted another baby. I laughed because I thought he was joking but he was serious.

I told him that I wouldn't have a baby with someone that I didn't love and he was shocked. He told me that he had no idea that I didn't love him Which was ridiculous to me because in the past 5 years I stopped wearing my wedding ring and have never said I love you to him. We didn't do anything together no date nights, didn't exchange any gifts for any occasion. We were just living like roommates who had sex some times.

Now, he wants to do counseling and all this stuff to save our marriage and I just don't want to or see the point. Am I at fault?

DrFunmisticGlow:
so you ignored the rest of that writeup. She has checked herself out of the marriage.

jadyclem:


The man is a mumu for wanting to go on counseling with someone that has already "checked herself out of the marriage" like you said.
A woman telling you she no longer loves you as a man should quench whatever interest you have in her. She should become a stranger to you and be treated as such the moment she opens her mouth to tell you that.

Men need to understand that they deserve better

jadyclem:
You told your husband you don't love him anymore and he wants you guys to go for counseling?
What a very stupid and insecure man! If I was in his shoes I'll be very glad to let you go. Openly telling me you don't love me is the end of whatever bond we have. The sooner men starts treating entitled and thriffling women like they truly deserve, the better the society will be for everyone.
Marriage that can't give you as a man peace and some form of comfort is a waste of time, energy and resources.

DrFunmisticGlow:
The man landed himself in his present pot of soup, he is responsible for his misfortune and his destroying his marriage himself.

jadyclem:

The man did nothing wrong to me o. What's wrong in conducting a DNA on ur child to be sure it's truly yours?
The only wrong he did was entertaining her nonchalant behavior and allowing her seem like she has the upper hand in the relationship.
Have you noticed that women always try to make things work and be in their best behavior when the man care less whether their relationship with her work or not?

Place a woman on a pedestal and she'll think she's better and deserves more. Weak men are very annoying people. They're the ones that empower such type of nonsense behaviors

jadyclem:
You told your husband you don't love him anymore and he wants you guys to go for counseling?
What a very stupid and insecure man! If I was in his shoes I'll be very glad to let you go. Openly telling me you don't love me is the end of whatever bond we have. The sooner men starts treating entitled and thriffling women like they truly deserve, the better the society will be for everyone.
Marriage that can't give you as a man peace and some form of comfort is a waste of time, energy and resources.

Pierohandsome:
Marriage is a good thing to live in.

But sincerely, any day my wife wakes up and open her mouth to tell me she no longer loves me, that will be the day the marriage will end, I'll throw her out immediately without looking back.

I don't think any man should fight to keep a woman, if she doesn't want the union anymore, please kick her out, simple

DrFunmisticGlow:
It's like you being falsely accused of raping a person and being tried at court only to later be found innocent, meanwhile damage has been done and some people still think you are a rapist.

If you don't trust the woman who you disvirgined, then you are the issue.. You might as well have not gotten her pregnant. Why did you ejaculate in an untrustworthy person. Shows that the man is truly disingenuous, irrational and emotional in his thinking.

DrFunmisticGlow:
I agree that he is a stupid and insecure man. His stupidity qnd insecurity made him demand a DNA test from his virgin bride. It also made him fail to see an issue in the horizon when she reached out to him for help with the way his actions made her feel, thereby killing the trust and love in the marriage.

I don't see what the woman has done wrong here at all. The man bleeped up, he lacks responsibility and is failing to hold himself accountable for his role in this. Now you men are advocating that he divorces her, hiding his head like an ostrich in the sand. Even if he gets a new woman I guarantee that the same issue of his stupidity and insecurity will ruin the 2nd relationship.

ExudeLoveToAll:


Remove insecurities, a word women bring up when men want to hold them accountable.

Accountability and responsibilities are alien words to most women.

NEUDUDE:
I think this woman is cheating and shes leveraging the DNA thingy as a way out. Shes even surprised the child is his and scared silly as it stands. To the man you can do better give her a divorce and be done with it. At least kid is yours, make that a priority and dont look back