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GOAT.
Penaldo is a tap-in merchant

VinnyBaba:
Ogbeni, the Girl don get Another Big Man wooing her and she wants to Accept him.

Our Nigerian Girls do NOT just Dump a Guy.

They Already have a Replacement who is Usually Richer and Financially Established.

They now Give Silly Excuses Like this Lady is Giving such as 'He is Stingy, He is a Mummy Boy, He is too Violent,etc.

FEAR Nigerian Girls o!

This is bullshit

You're both a disgrace and a disgusting excuse of a man.

We've said it over and over: Men, avoid single mothers. They of no good and will never be of any good. Avoid them like the plague.

But because you severely lack options and suffer a terrible, debilitating low self-esteem, you decided to marry a washed up, overused, dirty, single mother.


Yes, she won't have kids for you. Instead she'll focus on using your resources tu train her son.


Shame on you.
You disgust me.

henrimoto:
.."This is the traditional and religious view of marriage. Do you agree with it? I subscribe to the modern view but I worry about its practicality."

These days, when making decisions as the Father and head of the House, one has to put his Wife ( The Woman) into consideration. You consult with her, brainstorm with her.

..When no be MILITARY MARRIAGE - Obey before complain.

If not, peace no go too dey the house. ..

Yes, na man be the head of the house but na women get house. The women as wives dey make the home lively and interesting to stay.

A home without a woman as wife, dey dey boring and lonely.

The above paragraphs are some of the reasons why as a man, when making a decision in your home consider to carry your wife along.

No forget say, in many homes today, na the women dey cover the secrets of the man.

Dirty simp.

Jewessgratitud3:
nlfpmod

Oh. You're calling the mods.

For what? He expressed his honest opinion and that is not a bad thing.

After going round nairaland broke-shaming men, look at the village sacrifice you prepared.

Do better!

DonDraper:
Chux Nnodim

Rubbish.

Soludo is a disgrace

True. Very true.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Who is this lunatic? And who TF is that lunatic too?

EFCC is on your neck.. Just so you know.

Scammer.

Your time is up.

Prepare for prison.

Acidosis:
This is a senseless thread. Leaving the gate open or not wouldn't have saved the girl.. so what exactly is the association between the lady and the neighbours??

There is also no association between the late girl's issue and your narration about your husband. You said your husband called your neighbour, isn't? Why didn't he hit the gate instead from his location? Your husband called, the Abuja guy called no one.

It's important to understand the culture in your neighborhood and do your best to align. Leaving your apartment at night without a phone or key is the height of irresponsibility. You said he packed out of the apartment? Smh, pesin wey suppose dey jail for knacking somebody's daughter only to "throw her" out alone at night to die.

If you need people to open gate for you, go and rent an apartment, where everyone pays a token monthly to a gateman or a housekeeper. And if you want free access, there are many apartments without a gate. Just explain your stup!dity to a good agent, you'll get what you deserve.

Your IQ is very low.

Coconut brain.

santaclaws:
You can see the picture, of course it's a mother and her daughter. No normal father would bathe with his daughter, it makes no sense. Even bathing with your son as a man in today's society would be seen negatively...

So your in-laws like some nudity lol... That's probably their own way of welcoming you to the family 😆

Scandinavians have a weird culture, but hope say e no pass that one sha 👀

criminal hoe Biden bathed with his daughter. The pedophile will be arrested soon once Trump is back in office.

AkataWoman has not yet returned to this post.

Possible reasons: she went out on a crime spree (as is the Black American degenerate) culture and has been arrested by the police.
Or she has become a victim of black American crime and degeneracy and is receiving medical attention.

Black Americans and their culture are retarded, degenerate, crime-ridden and distasteful.

Olarewaju89:


Accept people as they are, but place them where they belong.

You are the CEO of your life. Hire, fire & promote accordingly.

This is child abuse. Why is the girl not properly dressed and why are they kissing?

Arrest those responsible for this photo immediately.

The best time to take down this post was immediately after you posted it, the second best time to delete it is NOW!

9jaceo:
Though, I regret my action but all in the past now. Those married men outside should please stick to their lovely wives. Women must not do what can kill her husband. Those guys are home breakers. Don't start what you won't finish. Do not collect numbers, money or gifts from opposite sex. Pray for your spouse to make it as well. Women should not give too much attention to men on social media. If you fail to say hi or hello or how are you to your husband and the next people to say such to is married men or male friends on social media, then you are not a good woman. Stop giving them attention. Like I said, I have learnt my lesson. My home is back. I pray my husband trust me like before again.

Scum.
Absolute filth.

You don't deserve forgiveness.

9jaceo:
This is a true life story. I want married men and women to learn from it. I am a young woman in my early 50s. I have 3 kids with my husband. We are doing great in the beginning our our relationship. I am a career woman. I worked in a good company but pay was not encouraging while my husband works with a company as well. We are both resident of Osogbo. We both loved each other. Due to salary issue at home, we both put resources together to start selling chicken foods very close to our resident. We got the shop through my father-in-law. Both of our parents are residing in Osogbo. I had all my children without CS, let us say I am a lucky woman.

My husband can die for his family. He loves me and the children. We don't do festive season in Osogbo. We always travel to Lagos and Abuja to explore good environments. We started this during our courtship. I do love the traveling. Though, we are planning to travel to Dubai this year if God permit. I am a fervent church goer. I love working for God. I love going to church, attending church programmes. We are members of a very popular church. My husband's work does not permit him to attend some of the programmes in church, I understand. That is why I am a woman to support him. Our children are doing great as well.

I started having anxiety over my husband. Why? He is a Marketing Manager in a branch. I did understand the work earlier but I don't know what happened to make me start having feelings that he is having affairs with colleagues at work. My husband does not smoke or ever see him with alcohol or beers. He comes home exactly 8pm in evening. Like I said, we started the business to be able to assist him financially. I don't like seeing him thinking over house rent, school fees etc. We have extended family members in our list as well.

Back to infidelity, I am a social woman. I am on Instagram, Facebook, Tiktok, name it. I believe in making new friends on social media. I thought making friends or using social media will boost my sales or give me connection I want. We need money as well. If I am permitted to attach my old Facebook account, all my friends are married old men which I think we may not have feelings for. I do love my husband and I can't exchange him with anyone. The mistake I made started when I started checking my husband phone. He is a loose type. He does not password his phone. I can't count series of messages I read on his WhatsApp, Facebook messengers from beautiful women. But I forgot that I married a very young and handsome man. He is every woman's dream. I too started giving chances to men on my social media accounts, dash out my numbers just to retaliate what he is doing to me.

I deleted all my messages with them before bed or immediately. Everybody does this, including my husband. Nobody can come out with opposite sex messages and show it to his or her spouse. I give him such respect. My husband too started noticing my attention with men on social media. I almost burnt down the our house forgetting I have soup on fire, I was busy chatting with an old man, though he asked me out and I told him I can't, he respected me for that. i did not know he had different agenda for me. I was having negative minds towards my husband that maybe one day, he will throw me out of the house. I had done all I could to frustrate him to do so but we could only fight verbally, he had never raised his hands over me. I slapped him one day and what he did was to leave house immediately. I even one day chatted with one of his lover on Messenger which he later knew about. I was looking for all opportunity to leave him because he is having an affair. Hold on, he has never missed coming home early after work, he has never missed my food at home, he has never stopped paying bills at home, then where is infidelity coming from. My heart does beat anytime I see him greeting an opposite sex.

My problem started when I mistakenly visited an old man I met on Twitter (X). The man promised me heaven and earth. He promised to take good care of me. I like good life as well. I want to end the struggling. I gave him my number, we do call on WhatsApp, chat on Instagram or Facebook which I always delete immediately. He gave me N800k to support my business and promised to establish supermarket for me. Had I known that women's brains are like that of cockroaches. I felt for his promises. He invited me to Lagos one day. I lied to my husband that I have an occasion with a friend. He always allows me to attend any occasion because of trust he had in me. After all, I am his wife. The man picked me up from Berger in Lagos to one of his hotels in Lagos. I was spoiled that day. I could not allow him to touch me because of my conscience, though I like to date him as well but he is married too. He asked his driver to take me back to Osogbo that day. It was just a day function I told my husband. He did not know anything.

One day, my husband was rushed to the hospital dead but later revived. I was called and he said that he did not want to see me around him. I did not know what is going on. How could my own husband said that to me. He left home healthy now. He called his father and narrated what happened to him. His father was so mad at him that he wanted to die because of a woman. He spent 4 days in hospital because he had attack (High blood pressure) all because he read messages I had with this rich man on my phone. He did not believe I could lied going to Lagos to visit a married man. He trusted me so much. Despite all this, I keep lying that nothing happen between us. He decided never to have sex with me again. He separated the room. Meanwhile, I still chat with other men on my social media. I still give out my numbers to them because I am addicted to it.

He came home one faithful day and packed all his clothes and left. I did not see my husband for months. He did not call or pick my calls. I had to visit his parents and apologise. A family meeting was called and all was settled. Though before then, my husband had started planning on how to issue me divorce paper. I almost lost my lovely husband. What surprised me was that anytime he advised me, my heart beat because I am giving audience to opposite sex on social media. To cut the story short, my home is back with love.

What I did?
I ended all relationship with opposite sex
I unfriend all married and unwanted friends
I focused on my home and business
I trust him and he does too

You're a very evil and disgusting woman.
Scum of the earth.

Get a job.
This is not the economy to depend on a man for everything down to your sanitary pads, so you can lazy about all day and post meaningless things on Nairaland.

Goalnaldo:
Yesterday I tried a subtle insult at you when you posted about your porridge but you never responded. You seem to be a very nice woman. Can I send a PM? Just want to be your friend if you don't mind

You no get sense

CORPSEFUCKER:
When una get to the other room, you go be bottom , she go be the dom

Clean your mind.
Stop watching strapon porn.

AbujaLagos:
rest

No. You rest. He's right.

I know you sorted your way through WAEC and JAMB.
Learn English now, for your own good.

fa4dmike:
the child looks like the dad

Lies

African Americans are the absolute scum of the earth.
FILTH.

Joe Biden is a criminal and the Biden crime family will go down eventually.

Senile bloody fool.

Anuofia.

NuclearWinter:
All those South American gangsters flooding into the inner cities of America will wipe out all black Americans .

True

And funny enough, they are too dumb to understand that they are being replaced.

The Democrat party is actively supporting and funding illegal immigration through which they will be finally replaced and have zero electoral value to democrats.

But they are too dumb to see it.

Degenerates!

NuclearWinter:
Name one thing Akata people contributed to American civilization.

(Do not mention hip hop and RnB).

Black Americans are instead destroying the civilization built by the whites.

You see them shitting in the streets. Using drugs in the streets. Committing crimes like they were called to a life of crime.

Zero positive achievement. All they do is ru decay the infrastructure, make the community unsafe and commit crimes..

Absolute scum of the earth.

ovcwality:
ignorant fools like you and people liking your post are the ones giving Nigerians bad name, is that why you you will keep insulting every black American/woman when there is a topic? Just imagine if the case is reverse, you will start getting in your feelings, because I have seen many Africans saying black Americans talk shit about them, look down on bla bla bla, why the sensible ones try to make them know that is not all of them or just the ignorant ones, in this case it might be safe to say most Nigerians that try to insult them on every instant are just stupid/ignorant too. Just like Nigerians they have a lot of problems too but it doesn't mean you guys will be running your mouth always especially from someone like you, or is same thing not happening here? drugs, cultism, banditry, tribalism, nepotism, terrorism? But do you see them insulting us?

Shut up you low self esteemed dolt.

Black Americans are mostly criminal morons and you don't need to pander to them.

Is that true..... because the stats don't lie.
Highest rate of abortion and single mothers is in the black community, murder rate (gang bangers and all) too. Not to forget drugs. I mean so called "African Americans". Not the ones from an African country or carribean who've settled there

True.

AkataWoman:
I don’t post often and decided to check out my own threads. When I googled “akata woman Nairaland” the 1st thing to come up was the 43 page thread Tips on Dating an Akata Woman. It was filled with foolishness: be prepared to deal with 4 babies with 3 different daddies, tattoos, gay family members, jailed family members, 90-minute bjs etc.

smh A group that’s looked down on worldwide doesn’t get bored trying to look down on others?

If you search black Americans on this site it’s negative threads that go on for pages & pages.

Have you guys noticed black Americans don’t spend any time thinking about you guys? We don’t write articles about tips for dating you-positive or negative.

1-Can some of you grow up?
2-Do you not realize your negativity and hatred is the reason we didn’t give a shit about your EndSARS protests? We found it hypocritical you were asking lazy, tattooed akatas for support. Why not ask whites to support you? Why bother Beyoncé and black American celebrities and websites? Better yet, why not call on your fellow Africans?

More importantly, what’s with the obsessive hate?

Just to add, we also didn't give a shit about your Black lives matter rampage and arson (disguised as protest).

George Floyd was a Fentanyl abuser and a violent criminal who died due to his criminal overdose of Fentanyl.

You all used that to activate the in-built criminal mindset in you and destroy many businesses and steal from stores.

We didn't give a shit about you guys and still don't give a fuckkk.

Nigerians who migrate to America perform way better than you fools that were born there. Have you asked yourself why?

It is because of the victim mentality imposed on you guys by the criminal Democrat party and the fatherless families that you have.

Entitled, lazy, prone to violent crimes and less tendency to actually work hard.

Nigerians migrate and perform better than you guys. Shame.

Black Americans need serious help and will never get it until they divorce themselves from the Democrat party.

AkataWoman:
I don’t post often and decided to check out my own threads. When I googled “akata woman Nairaland” the 1st thing to come up was the 43 page thread Tips on Dating an Akata Woman. It was filled with foolishness: be prepared to deal with 4 babies with 3 different daddies, tattoos, gay family members, jailed family members, 90-minute bjs etc.

smh A group that’s looked down on worldwide doesn’t get bored trying to look down on others?

If you search black Americans on this site it’s negative threads that go on for pages & pages.

Have you guys noticed black Americans don’t spend any time thinking about you guys? We don’t write articles about tips for dating you-positive or negative.

1-Can some of you grow up?
2-Do you not realize your negativity and hatred is the reason we didn’t give a shit about your EndSARS protests? We found it hypocritical you were asking lazy, tattooed akatas for support. Why not ask whites to support you? Why bother Beyoncé and black American celebrities and websites? Better yet, why not call on your fellow Africans?

More importantly, what’s with the obsessive hate?

Go fuckkkk yourself.

Black Americans are vermin.

Always displaying, disgusting fatherless behavior.

You have probably been arrested once or twice for either a crime or a misdemeanor.

You also probably didn't grow up with a father in the house - cause your father was languishing in prison for his thug life and thug crimes..
.

You Black Americans need help fast.

Disgusting, brainwashed creatures. He democrats use you all the time and dump you.

You fail to listen to people like Candace Owens, Kanye west and co. Instead you embrace thug life and decrepit behavior and you wonder why you are the scum of the earth.

Low lives.

Black Americans are the worst of the worst. Absolute vermin. Complete trash. Scum of the earth.

Disgusting, low-life, fatherless creatures.

It was this same attitude they are exhibiting now that made our ancestors sell their ancestors to slavery. 100s of years later, they have not repented from their decrepit, degenerate behavior.

Scum of the earth!!!

Balablue64:
Exactly he should take it as a gentleman, smile, accept their apology, take some paracetamol or alcohol and move on. Also he shouldn't allow his so called friends to mock him.

Paracetamol and alcohol is a dangerous combination.

Stop leading people to untimely death.

osuofia2:
Keep jumping the message. Tell your brothers to embrace peace and stop causing the world pain. Use Nigeria as a case study. When next are your people going to detonate bomb and shoot god is great. Sick

Deflect as much as you want. I am a Christian and I do not support the genocide of the Palestinians.

You're just a sick, evil, twisted, dumb, ignorant and brainwashed Zionist.