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i see that u are also making the work comfortable for her. let her driver herself to work or probably pays her transport to work then she will put one or two together and know if the work is really worth it.
as for you reduce ur urge for sex, too much of everything is bad. u cannot be having sex every day. na somebody pikin be that.

dtrend:


Wetin concern these cats with una conflict.....?

If you dey find wetin to kill/target, point the barrel to your cranium and do the needful.

we should always try to know why before concluding . Those lions are being feed with humans they had been warn to stop but they refused. If the lions are dead at least they won’t hunt for human being to feed them with. This bring me to asking if the people they hunt to feed the lion are blacks or Libyans

Sodiq3:
https://guardian.ng/news/bill-to-jail-non-voters-scales-second-reading-at-house-of-reps/

mad country !!! Always chasing mouse and leaving the real thing behind. What happens to bill like jailing corrupt politicians , corrupt INEC chairman and judges.
What if I don’t find all the aspirants worth?. Anyway I’m just asking on behalf of my neighbors

Osiris12:
Make dem auction their stuffs they left behind.


Rubbish

How I wish black nations will be able to recall all the blacks in the whole americas

t this once no get anything that why they are leaving.

Have u tried Benson or chesterfield

Timayi don finally marry.

Something is wrong with this list. I can not find kogi

Unclebayo:
I’m just hearing about it for the first time… I browsed it now but I saw different categories, which do you recommend among all please

if u just heard of longrich it means u have not really tried many toothpaste. My concern is why do u think ur teeth must be white. There different colours of teeth urs is yellow and u want it with at all cost. I see inferiority complex disturbing u. Don’t stop till u use a paste that will remove ur teeth.

Firebox123:
footballer name

it is true he is even a black man married to white lady. And she waited for him. His name is Jean-Pierre Adams

You just want to justify ur caution fee. Is he the one that pull down the POP?. When u people are busy using fake and substandard material. Same thing is happening in my apartment now. They used mdfplywood for the wardrobe and the kitchen cabins everything is just falling off at will tomorrow someone will come and say I’m the one that spoilt them.

South4sure1:
Good morning engineers in the building.

Please I want to ask a question. Is it possible to start roofing immediately after casting the parapet?

Just 24hours gap.

does he has problem with his landlord.

Let’s not deceive ourselves most Nigeria made breads are best eaten by soaking it in the tea.

busariabeyx24:
Why I Want to Separate from My Wife

Our relationship has become emotionally unsustainable for me, and after long periods of silence, inner conflict, and attempts to make things work, I have come to the difficult conclusion that separation is the healthiest path forward—for both of us. There are several deeply rooted issues that have contributed to this decision, and I believe it’s important to lay them out clearly.

1. Lack of Intimacy and Weaponization of Sex
Intimacy has all but vanished in our relationship. What’s more painful is that she uses sex as a tool—to control, punish, or manipulate. This has left me feeling undesired, unwanted, and emotionally abandoned. Intimacy is not just physical, it's also about connection, vulnerability, and shared closeness—and we have none of that left.

2. Emotional Abandonment and Loneliness
While she often chooses to go out and spend hours with her friends, I’m left alone in the house, feeling isolated and neglected. Even when we’re in the same space, we’re disconnected. Her priorities have shifted away from our relationship and family, and I feel like a ghost in my own home.

3. Neglect of Parental Responsibilities
Despite being a trained teacher, she makes no effort to support the children academically. Their homework, school needs, and learning challenges fall entirely on me, even though I’m also the primary provider. It hurts to watch our children miss out on guidance that she’s perfectly capable of giving.

4. Communication Breakdown
We barely talk. When we do, it's either transactional or tense. There's no emotional sharing, no joint planning, no meaningful conversation. We exist like two strangers under the same roof.

5. Disregard for My Input and Support
Time and again, I’ve offered her advice that could have helped her avoid unnecessary stress or mistakes, but she disregards me—only to later face the exact consequences I warned about. It feels like my voice has no value in her life.

6. Encouraging Poor Habits in the Kids
She not only neglects the kids’ school work, but she also encourages them to go to the next neighborhood to play or hang out—at times when they should be studying or resting. It undermines my efforts to instill discipline and focus in our children.

7. Lack of Respect for My Hustle
She shows no interest or concern in how I make money, the pressure I’m under, or the sacrifices I make to keep the family going. There’s no appreciation, no empathy, just entitlement and expectation. I feel invisible, like a machine that’s supposed to produce without rest or recognition.

8. Misplaced Priorities
Her life seems to revolve around eating, watching TV, and spending hours gossiping with friends. There’s little to no effort toward improving our household, our relationship, or our children’s future. That kind of passivity is damaging, not just for our marriage but for our family as a whole.

9. Manipulation by Friends
She allows her so-called friends to influence how she treats me, even to the point of disrespect. Rather than defending or standing by me as a partner, she lets their words shape her actions against me. This betrayal by proxy is incredibly painful.

10. Ongoing Emotional Disregard
As I write this, she has been outside gossiping with a friend for over three hours—leaving me inside, emotionally abandoned once again. This isn’t an isolated event; it’s a pattern. I’ve begged for her time, attention, and partnership, but she chooses others over and over again.

you did not mentioned any of ur own bad habit. Has she ever cough u in extra marital affair?.

Treasure17:
I dare Tinubu to try this.

nah from far somebody go strangle am.

Our budget is in what currency?. Just asking for my my friend

The problem with Africa instead of preparing for farm other things will be on our mind

SeeWahala:
So no pressing of breast?

imagine u. I never tot of this

KnowledgePower7:
So enviroment dey affect skin color?? i no understand

u will really don’t understand

It depends on how much Dey ur pocket

3m I pick it up

4m let me pick it up

24errand:
It’s normal Obi is from Igbo tribe I don’t expect anything short. They don’t love Yoruba and they don’t hide it right from Zik time, reason they don’t vote Yoruba

send OBJ there and see if they will not accept him as their father. But frankly are u proud of Tnubu and his cohorts?.

Alphafeezay:
When I saw the pictures of the dane guns in the earlier thread I just knew innocent hunters have been unjustly mobbed to death.... May Almighty God rest their souls and justice be served

we have problem in the country. Why would they even travel with Gun. Can some other tribe in Nigeria move from one state to another state with Guns. Mind u most kidnappers on our roads uses similar fire arms. Don’t quote me wrong I’m not saying they are kidnappers, I’m only saying they shouldn’t have been on our porous road with any kind of Gun. I have seen who was detained because he was traveling with an unbranded tablet. It pains me they where killed without investigations.

If this happens in the East,they will send all the soldiers to come and start killing innocent people.

bea1234567:
1 millions yolobas cant do you nothing bby gal.

we nigerians are solidly behind you

Na so!!!!! Now weh she no fit sleep what are u doing about it.

Nothing we no go se for this country because of frustration

Having read all the comment, we the “Narialand elders, had a close do meeting and came out with a resolution that u should run ooooh!!!

iamnotillicit:
It's career pls and not carrier...

u’re bad person. I hope there nothing to correct in my sentence.

Xammie001:
It was purchased sir/Ma

better

Nigeria my country everybody is now helping us because bad leaders

SouthAmericalif:
look at the time i am writing this after having stressful day with work i can’t sleep because i am in pain
because of business i bought him toyota camry, bought big nylon machine he no work all this money na from legit struggles when i suppose package my self japa
but the business i dey use my hand do dey work even with this i dey run 2bedroom flat rent ,expensive act fees and all the bills myself include food. I no complain
my complain now is that while carrying out all this struggles one neighbor out of joblessness and jealousy of what i am not even enjoying will be bullying me psychologically publicly

introduce him to ur business and monitor him.