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Croissants, bread(sandwich), okele in that regimented order, (ya i knw its sad),

tboy1:
They are worse back home

not in my village, they are very docile,

What does the poster mean by "Responsible men in UK"? As if the problem is only peculiar to UK. Whitelexi has actually stolen my thunder in that the problem lies in how naija women are soon transformed the moment they enter jand, besides the fact that some (and that is just being nice) have very little home training, cant cook, dont have a clue about domestics have no identity whatsoever, its kinda hard for ppl like me to settle down with such a person hence most guys tend to resort to naija for wifey material.
While, i agree some naija guys in UK are nothing short of "useless", the same can be said of guys back home, so one just have to "open eye" well well to find the good ones. Ultimately, most of these girls get what they deserve,

well i dream of buying her a diamond ring, quite expensive to signify her inestimable worth to moi,

Godmother:
My was when I was 13.I just started developing breasts and I was very shy about it. my mum was doing our laundry that day (which was a once in a while thing). She wanted me to have my birth and I was going to the bathroom when she insisted I remove my clothes outside with all our neighbours there. I had to parade in my birthday suit all the way to the bathroom.And the worst part was that my brother was around with his friends. She felt I had nothing to hide

OMG, dat one is bad ooooo. it must have been so embarrassing, lol still i wish i was one of ur brother's friends, lol

spikedcylinder:
They can use stools, pillows even ladder sef.

spikedcylinder:
They can use stools, pillows even ladder sef.

how is the pillow/stool going to help now? haba
since they wud most likely be doing it lying down his miniature stature need not be a hinderance, me think

well one of such moments for me was a day I had arranged for a gal i was going out with 2 come over with her friends for some fun; now the gal in question is someone my mom didnt really did and she had warned that I stay off her. Anyway, i ignored her warnings and knowing that my parents wont be back till nighttime, we had arranged 2pm, but unfortunately i was held up and the girls arrived before me only to be met by my mum who queried them and embarrased them that she never wants to see them near the house again.
By the time i got home i was shocked to see my mum back so early but that was nothing compared to when she asked what the girl was doing with her friends, it was like what exactly was i planning to do with 3 girls, of course i couldnt tell her i had arranged what i had arranged with my friends,

Ujujoan:
Why should a 29-year old do your chores for you

Me I know that when I go home I dont even life a broom (and I'mnot 29 oh)

Dont you have younger kids, dont you have helps, can't you do them youself? Me I dont see why this is an issue!

Tell me you are kidding right? Whether she is 29 or 40, are you telling me she cannot do house chores for her mum(orstep-mother in this instance)?
To make matters worse tshe still lives at home, and i bet the sluggard will eat, and feed her friends and guests at the same house she cannot be bothered to maintain.
I feel sorry for the girl and u if this indeed is your honest opinion; quite sad!

spikedcylinder:
Yes, please help me spread the word of my "munistry".

u can count on me to do that, but how abt the offering, how r we going 2 share it?

spiky,
so you've gone from the girl next door picture of you jejely on your bed to this Religious-419 character, hmmm na wa ooo
Anyway, sey if i help u spread the word, we can 50 the offering?

This is a no-brainer for me, tall or short, thin or plump the overriding factor in marriage has got to be Love, anything else is just icing on the cake

dont we all? from beyonce to a.dixon we all wish they were in our arms,

abi na the juju wey dey do 4 u be that, on the condition that u marry an oyinbo then u go hit £$sssssssss

guguru and epa for me anyday,

Member== Godmother
Pic==https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?action=profile;u=287802
Description of pic: red top well complimented by black vest, and jeans

Says to me: She is a model or intending to be one, her smile is inviting, brightens up the gloomiest of rooms, quite pretty face and i have to assume intelligent as well,

Godmother:
So no one is sexy enough to post his/her pix

i am, and tnx for smiiling @ me G'mother,

ladies tend to go low top, mini skirt and , emmmmm

[quote author=Dr. Lorenz link=topic=339620.msg4762896#msg4762896 date=1255966419]Personally, i don't care if a girl asks me out. I'll treat her the same way i'll treat her if it was the other way round. Only problem is, i won't be 100% sure if she's serious because if she can ask me out, what stops her from asking another guy out?[/quote]dr how far with ebonyeyes?

bluespice:
he he we said the same thing

lol
The so called "suppressed" and mentally tough women are the ones who might actually feel the need to liberate themselves by grabbing any opportunity to cheat.

eldee:
Vaguely, white people are brought up in the Europe and America. . . and Africans have a totally different upbringing.
The way Africans are brought up toughens them emotionally

and what has emotional toughness as u put it got to do with unfaithfulness? Unfaithfulness and mental strenght are not the same!

bluespice:
i honestly can't believe in this day and time some folks still belief the hogwash that human characteristics can be determined by skin colour

it beggars belief

hentee:
Let me analyse it well people, My younger cousin came 4a visit 2my house. Him and my wife aint close at all. we all went to church including d visitor(cousin) but the latter came back b4 us. when we got home we saw him eating yam n stew which means he cooked d yam himself n dished out of my wife's pot of stew. my wife was so angry that he wanted to confront him but i asked her nt to that i will do dat myself which i did not. Back to the question ladies, how will your reactions b. it will help me address the issue well (very funny but i have to do this cos there some things we men neglects that really matters.)

Lol, the guy was hungry ooooooo. In this case i feel he should have waited for you everyone to return and let the Mrs do the cooking for the whole house, this is unacceptable and i understand why your wife should be angry. At the end of the day, the cousin is a guest in the house and needs to behave accordingly

bluespice:
are you saying this has something to do with skin color sir?

This has nothing to do with skin colour, upbringing or what have you, there are well trained ladies who decide to be wayward, oyinbo or black

WhiteOne:
What reasons could the woman of the house have not to greet her visitors properly?
Where did this thing happend? Nigeria, USA or Europe?

the poster never said anything about not greeting properly did he? so if the woman is feeding her suckling she should drop the child and go and fix the brother-in-law's food abi? There could be a no of reason, i.e. she is cleaning the house, washing, bathing, the guy if he's that hungry should either go to his house, use a restaurant or be polite and wait to be served.

Faithfulness has nothing to do with colour, its a matter of meeting that special someone who will persevere with you through all weathers.Now i'm sure there are blacks and equally there will be white folks who possess such virtue; I have seen many a white folk who are comfortable in having sex with strangers in night-clubs and still go home to their partners as if nothing happened. equally the deeds of some naija gals are there for all to see,
So mr poster its got nothing to do with colour/background at all

WhiteOne:
Is it not the job of the ladies of the house to ask visitors with they would like to eat and to drink?
Is the brother junior or senior to you husband?
If it is a child or a teen than she or he must ask aunty naturally

of course it is, but i'm sure you know there could be a number of reason why she may not have asked before his action, i.e. if she was busy with something else, and the man is so hungry he cant just wait. Personally i wont do that in my brother's house, and would have politely asked her for food,