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well, i've always believed that if "Betty has a problem with everyone, then the problem is Betty", it would be foolish of me to ignore the obvious for the sake of love, suffice to say that if I find some of the issues raised valid then the relationship wont last long,

POSAKOSA1:
This is some funny ass story-------hehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehe!  

now whats the revenge ? im listening-----

i wonder oooooooo
i guess her idea of a revenge is spending $1350 to get a naija-styled hammering in her own home, abeg me sef i no seke oooo if he cant make it i dey available  

[quote author=rita@NL link=topic=343727.msg4810416#msg4810416 date=1256657424]Ani you dont get it , these guys alwaz beliv they can get alwaz with lies and they alwayz beliv we ladies are mumu ,sometimes it gud to teach them lessons mayb they will stop.[/quote]Rita, just lahun for us jare, u wan taste the guy's gbola! the marathon sex he bragged about na im dey shack u, on top of all the advice from men and women alike u still insist on going ahead with ur small-minded game, i trust the naija guy sha, he will shine u well well and den we shall see will laff last. Am with Kanye west on dis one, ur muguism no get Part 2 at all

candylips:
God designed that your body weli weli o

my neck nearly break while looking at it

omo Platinum get body no be small, haba, infact whoever named u platinum knew wat they were talking abt.

platinumnk:
@amaka, Kunbee, Debest1- LMAO hahahahah

u r welcome

ThiefOfHearts:
and who are you

Debest1, i'm suprised u havent heard of me,

Gamine:
maybe you can

In that case plans are already in motion to effect that change of heart, "Watch this space",

Gamine:
i thought i was, i thought i wanted to
Now, not so much.
so @topic, No

maybe i can persuade you otherwise

Stella N:
debest1 we know that the story is not stange what advice do u have for her

None whatsoever, its her call, if she wants to hang on in the hope that the other woman's love fizzles out then good luck to her, but at the end of the day if the guy is not keen on the woman helping him with the papers he aint gonna stay with her. All in all the woman must decide if she really wants to get involved or just move on and find someone with no baggage

That i should never trust a woman with my credit card EVER AGAIN, no matter how wild she is in BED

Th reality people will always resort to desperate measures when they are up against the tides of life, we know of women in naija who will gladly sleep their way to meeting targets for their bank, or those who will sleep with lecturers just to get the degree. Equally immigrants who do not have the requisite documents to work or live in western nations will resort to any means just to regularise their stay.
That he married for paper is something that has been happening since God knows when, people have done it and once they get the pali, they fashe the woman/man kia kia, infact some only ever get hitched on paper wihtout ever consumating the relationship while still living their gf or wife.
So poster, the story is not strange,

Member Platinumnk

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Description: Black body-hug dress showcasing her "indigenous African Assets",
Says to me: I'm pretty sure I'd get banned if i dare say what is on my mind, better left to your imaginations, suffice to say she is Well "SET"

Ebonyeyes:
Im sorry but this is why society is a mess instead of minding their own business they poke their nose in other peoples business. If a woman chooses to remain single until she finds the one, let her be. Look at the condition in Nigeria many girls are pressured in marriages they are not happy with.

I agree, women and even men should not be pressured into a something like marriage, and unfortunately our culture has a lot to answer for when it comes to this. Our parents feel that its just a case of finding someone and sticking with him/her like they did.
Since the two people are going to be the ones in the "firing line" i think they should be encouraged but never bullied or blackmailed into marriage,

@poster, abeg take him back jare, afterall love is blind and he has realised that he should never have married the other fellow in the 1st instance,

waidi akanni

chidi nwanu

ah i c, so u agree with my earlier post that the guy is playing Big Boy, and he is not showing any level of seriousness here, if this is ok with u then play along, but if u want any modicum of self respect let him prove that he respects u and come down,
What wud probably happen is u get there, he sleeps wiv u then turns round and say u r nt what he expected,

denilson

Santiago Cannizares

A woman/wife

poster,
the whole arrangemnt smacks of desperation, and the guy is taking full advantage of that fact. You being introduced by your aunt, agreeing to visit a guy who hasnt deemed it fit to at least come down to see what u really look like, at the end of the day, if u make that trip he will keep taking advantage of you/emotionally blackmail you til u get married (if he ever takes things that far)
My advice, wriggle out of the trip and let him show some committment by coming down to Lagos, even offer to pay 4 his fare if he's skint

nkiru okosieme

ya honduras vs argie 0-0

What is ur footie team

then dont go, abi na by force?

fill in the gap

what ____ is the ______ like ____ there

i dnt like lucky, i prefer ngozi,
wats d quickest route to ur heart?

i have shakira on my laps rite now,

i dont lie

daniel alves--Barcelona