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monisade:
i lyk bad boys for dating but i wudnt wana marry them. they only for catching fun.

Then when the bad boy starts displaying his badness you start crying and complaining that all men are beasts! By the way what happens if this bad boy gets you pregnant knowing fully well you dont want him as a husband?

hackingisfun:
Nice copy and paste but it'll never work in Nigeria!

Why not? lol

Rebarobyn:
that's why you are a man, you think sey man na for mouth, you need to step up your game and be the mature partner in the relationship or at most end it, why would you hit or swear at a woman? you be woman?

i have never hita woman and never will, my query was that why would a woman hit a man especially if it wasnt in self defense, sewaring i can understand but for a woman to hit a man is just wrong, and for a man to do so is just cowardice

its like buy now and pay later if you like!

3. When she pushes you or hit’s you
(Grab her and don’t let go)
4. When she start’s cussing at you
(Don’t cuss back and make her feel worse,
just deal with it for the time being)


why would a woman be violent/cursing? it's hard not to practise tit for tat, do me i do you

countrygrl:
"Yes we can" then "So we will"

thats the spirit gal

Kunbee:
What substance r u on

igbo lol

countrygrl:
That's not hard, that growing up. Are you afraid that you soul mate is not gonna look like Beyonce.

not at all, just that for love to work or even last means at least one party or both must be prepared to make it work. That means you have to sometimes put up with a lot of shit, i.e. a cheating BF/husband, but in the words of B. Obama, yes we can

countrygrl:
What's hard?

practising what we preach lol

countrygrl:
yeah, you are right. And girls we look and the clothes and bling etc. etc. But like you say what happens when things go hay wire. Jobs fail, no more money being spent on us. Less time together, because he is now working more. We want perfection, Something that has to be bought. And, I aint got no money for dat

So I'm making my list and checking it twice, gotta go through the bad to get to da nice. So let all of us put it into play and start now and see were we are in a yr.

now that's the hard bit

nex:
Well, I've been in love with the same person for 4 years now and we didn't officially break up per se. Distance just drifted us apart and as long as she's not started a new relationship in the UK, I feel guilty getting into one.

I guess that's why I'm still single. Plus, I don't think I'm the fine boy I used to be. But the gym is fixing that.

she's in uk? trust me she don find new bobo

countrygrl:
There you go. But if we know this why is it hard for us to find and keep a relationship. Is it that we don't take our time? Do we need to stop judging a book by its cover? How can we get it and keep it.

cos some guys go into relationships by falling 4 ass and tits, and wen we get enough of it and the true love is challenged by circumstances, we often fail and find it easier to just move on. Unfortunately the next relationship often ends the way of the previous

"Right Love" is
1) \unconditional
2) Sharing
3) Sacrifice
4) Forgiving
to name but a few

or i havent met my juliet

Describe Love In Just One Word: LOVE

sexybabes:
Am planning to do that believe me. What I don't understand is why he keeps on bothering me. When I start 2 forget him, there he is again.

he keeps coming back because he liked what he had with you and you cant seem to get over him, thats why when he calls you jump. He sees that and is playing the game, i.e. play with your emotions long enough and he'd get sex with you, while keeping the new girl

badboym:
Someone dissing me again ?

badboym:
Me Mumu?I guess not.Na Stinking Jews like you wey dey pay Bitches like hotteju be Mugu and point of correction,I no be Ibadan boy.Me no fit boo babe,give me your elder sister,na the same day wey I woo am I go Bleep her wide womanliness.Na people like you wey be woman wrapper no dey fit woo babe.

Razz babes?,Well am not a saint and wouldn't deny I do some of those but you know what,you're way below most of the girls I screw.Idiot!!!

no mind am jare hotteju, even if the stat is correct you must belong to the 95%ile sha o, i mean that pic on your profile is that of a real african woman

sexybabes:
This is an ex of mine. After breaking up for 4 months, he told me he miss me blah blah blah, after considering going back to him I met with him and his fone rang twice and it was a lady, I don't know what she said but I cud make it up from what he was replying that he can't come out right now and he would see her tomorrow that maybe she wanted to see him. After that i decided not to go back to him even though I love him so much. But we kept in touch, tonight he came to see me,  called me & tell me his downstairs and  I went down, I didn't even finish 10min in his car his fone rang again and it was a lady again, from what he was saying i assumed she was asking where he was coz he was like I'm just checking something online(he was with me hey) and at the end of their conversation he was like "nice one baby thnx for calling". After i heard that i just repeated what he said last and then stormed out of his car and bang the door.

This is the guy I risk everything for including my career and now I don't know why he keeps on coming back if there are these ladies in his life, I mean the name I saw on fone screen when this one called is the same as the last one.

I don't even know why this is hurting so much coz i thought I was getting over him.

The warning signs are there gal, he might have been good to you in the past, but trust me the relationship is now "bitter" and the only one who is going to get hurt and left with the mess is you. My advice, muster all the courage and grace you can and end it with him, with time this will end up being the best decision of your life. On the other hand keep going back to him and like all men we sometimes think we can eat our cake and have it, without any concern for the "victim"
peace

countrygrl:
So how can we start a personal conversation. Do you have a e-mail or aim account? There are things that I am interested in. I am also a new muslim convert. So you can imagine my frustration with this person. Who is also a muslim(devout)LOL

dan_olumo@hotmail.com

countrygrl:
Thanks alot debestl

I love the Yoruba tribe and what it is about that I gave my 5yr old a Yoruba name.

But anyway, you know sometimes you have to learn your lesson by falling. But not this time around. It is just so amazing that you have to still squeeze through the bad oranges to get to the sweet ones. (So I guess squeeze on!)

You're welcome, ironically I like sqeezing as well, ha ha ha

countrygrl:
Hello,


I met this niqerian guy(well he is from Benin)but claims niqerian. He is a muslim, but married a citizen for his papers. She lives in Texas and he lives in Bklyn, NY. We have been dating for 3mths. I am a U.S. citizen (born and raised). The other day he ask me to marry his friend to help him with his papers. I work and am completing my graduate degree. Now unless I am stupid, why would he ask me to marry his friend(for atleast 3 1/2 yrs). Would you ask your girlfriend for this huge favor if you were truly interested in in her. Someone help me to clear my eyes. What the he asking of me?

Countrygirl, how are you doing? Well 1st things first I'd say forget the guy and his indecent proposal you are not a means to an end, secondly you really are cute and oh did i mention that I am from the yoruba tribe ,

stanza:
Must we all get married?ha!

I disagree on the basis that
1) you need a man and a woman to have procreate in a family setting and not just what we see these days.
2) Also, marriage is the ultimate sign of love and committment,

Our so called celebrities cannot don't seem to understand that keeping a home calls for commitment, and unfortunately sacrifices has to be made hence most of them choose to sacrifice their marriage for the career,

http://www.chevron.com/bowoto/chevronnigerialimited.aspx
http://www.shell.com/home/Framework?siteId=nigeria

Have you tried their global webpage

I guess what's more important is the grade you get and the course you study. Because while staffs uni may be 74th overall i'm sure they have a few courses they excel in and if you happen to study one of those you might be alright. That said, my advise is to go for a marquee school just in case you decide to work in the Uk; they can be very picky

Ebonyeyes:
In the clubs, the big white girls gravitate towards black men because word has got to them that black men love big women,

cos black men are REALLY BIG,

spikedcylinder:
2 Mscs?

Yeah, engineering and in finance (most engineering managers do either an MBA or Msc in finance if they are keen on management roles