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sure u can, there's a gurl for every dude out der , watch the weight though, you're still young

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dont get yourself confused, he's just like any other man, unique in his own way tho; maybe with a very strong family tie like most igbo men. Get to know him for who he is 1st then his family,

ogagbe oke:
this gurl is in serous but she dies for all time, the problem is dat when this visited we became gud frd and ever since then we have been communicating very well, now i just want her 2 be my frd but she refused. nlander wat do u think i do. pls i'm so serious aboutr it.

iyatrustee:
please do so immidiately good riddance  

^^^ spot on

no, but u can keep ur boyfrnd's name

18-20's,

why not take some time off rships, go on a holiday to clear ur mind or something. U jumped out of d 1st rship cos of atitude, now jumped back in cos this one cheated on u soon you'll be jumping out again for god knows wat this time, Must u alwz be in a rship, gosh!!! Many guys are becoming more sensitive than ladies these days,

pick ursef up n move on, nothing is worth your sanity, next time learn to invest wisely,

what are u scared of, if he/she says no *gunshot!!!*, lol, on a serz note if u aint bold enof den let it ride,

, , sori dude , she's happily married,

do em both,

4get abt her tribe or waheva, jst get 2kno d gurl,

sick sick sick, i'd run away fast b4 she takes my own life 1st, u kno wah em psychos are capable of, lol

yes she luvs u buh luvs d phone more,

lol, dunno buh it feels wrong, she's kinda married n i'm vry principled,

^^^ , LMAO!!!, i did'nt remember writin dat i screw her brainz out, i swear i havnt touched her since she came cos i now see her as somebody's wife n i dnt do dat type, lol

@beync, lol, i didn't plan for this, i thought we had an agreement.was jst a teen den.

@Dyt, tnx gurl, will do as said.

Phate, sorry about that just had to break it down like this.

^^^, no sir i cant, mayb in 5 or 6yrs,

ok, mine goes lik this, there's this chic i dated back in sch during ma 2nd year. Her name was Jessy. She was 2yrs older than masef n i really loved her. Twas tough getting her 2 date me cos of d age stuff but soon she fell in love with me cos i was more matured than other guys ma age from the way i do ma things, dress n stuff also i am a vry pretty boi lol (so she confessed).
But d problem was we knew dis rship wasnt headin anywer(marraige) cos der was big pressure 4rm her family 2get married. I wasnt ready but i promised her i wud stik wit her til she gets married.
Few wks b4 ma graduation she told me dat she had 3 suitors 4 marriage n dat i shd help her choose 1,twas a tough decision buh i finally chose 1 guy 4her.knowin fully well dat d dude in question luvs her so much, he's a nice guy n a broda 2her best frnd n most importantly he hates me SO MUCH as this wud mak her 4get abt me quickly, she agreed.
i graduated (2009) left 4 Abuja 2b with ma family & also 4my NYSC. We stil kept contact n she told me dat d guy had don d introduction n was now prepin 4d marriage stuff. At a point she kept remindin me of our past n that she stil luvs me n wished i was d1 she was gettin married to & d whole tin scares her alot. I felt the same way buh i wanted d best 4her so i always adviced her 2 channel all dat love 2wads her to-be-husband she complied, Till dat faithful day.
Twas a sunday morning,i was in ma flat which i shared wit a cousin jst few blocks 4rm my family house. I heard a knock on ma door n went 2 kno who it was and BAM!, der she was(Jessy) with a fainted smile on her lips n tears in her eyes, almost cryn she said 2me ''baby i tried buh i cnt go on wit it'', i stood der transfixed as if ive jst seen a ghost. She also said she got ma address 4rm a close frnd of mine cos i neva gav it 2her. A part of me didn't want 2 let her in but at last i had to, i hav bin pleading with her evryday 2go back 2her husband but to no avail. I left ma room 4her n i'm presently sleepin on d couch 4 2wks now. I dont kno wat 2do & im so scared cos her family might be searchin 4her. Im stil not ready 4 marriage as i am starting my Masters in september, pls i need ur advice wat shd i do , throw her out or notify her family, sh*t im so confused n mad ryt now. Thanks

Imo babe<<<<<<<wrong choice bro

OP, you are gamblin and u might end up loosing both ways, its quiet obvious u cant handle long distance rship, so beta stop foolin d poor sch BF n set him straight. Mehn!! Wats wrng wit dis NYSC gurls, u probably got fed up of d poor boi cos u wer goin 4 service and wanted 2b ready 4 any opportunity, gosh!!!!!!!!,

her age