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your story and headline doesn't add up..

another stupid thread.

Chuknovski:
from nnewi

Chuknovski:
from nnewi

you are just so silly ....and it is not a compliment.

.........

even after the whole one hour wasted ...she no still fine .

Funky123:
U don't need anybody to direct ur path here,u know where ur happiness lies....ideally 15 yrs is nt a joke but if its from God then sis continue but don't do anything dat will make u regret

am so confuse now..

abeg I that's cocoa another breed of the fruit.

enemyofprogress:
i no get money for star o, but I get money to buy weeds and alomo

OK carry am come.

yme1:
bitter leaf banga soup

hmmm how do you prepare it ...or do you add bitter leaf in place of sent leaf or you join the two.

Emary:
Are you in school or doing your own business? That is the only thing I would like you to make sure you accomplish before getting married. Now is not the time to be overly dependent on a man. If you pray and you are comfortable with him, go ahead. 15yrs is not too much at all. It will be very difficult for you to find a boy of under 20 who wants to get married unless his parents are forcing him.

but ..I wanna get an education first ..like get more aware of my environment ..b4 ..I consider him.

Emary:
Age is but a number, dear. if you find someone you flow with like that, don't hesistate.

and he is not extremely wealthy ..but the little he has he shares with me without hesitation.

naturalwaves:
I mean the man that is 20 years older than you. Is he 33?

yes ...but the age gap is actually 15 ...he lied b4 about his age.

thank God ..she cover her K leg today.

enemyofprogress:
no problem, I don dey come

abeg make eba.. and bring two bottles of star ...make we use wash am down.

Dicedpineapple:
Milady..hez a bit on the ancestral syd in my opinion o..bt if hez single nd matured nd u don't wanna marry him out of pity nd d gifts he gives u,den go ahead.Bt how old are u if u don't mind？wanna add it up

OK he is 33 ...and the difference is 15

Emary:
You are right to give it a good thought before jumping in. There are other factors associated with marrying older men which may not immediately be evident while dating.

1. He may be buoyant now but how many more years of his working life are still available for him to cater to you.
2. What is his health condition now? Does he have underlying ailments like hypertension or diabetes that may soon prove health challenges? You might soon find yourself a nursemaid or worse, a young widow if he does not take proper care of himself.
3 What is his attitude to you? Given the age difference, he might be controlling and you would be in no position to express yourself properly as it might appear rude to "challenge" him. He should at least be your friend and hear your opinions before taking decisions.

A lot of younger guys are afraid of heavy responsibilities so they might not be ready for marriage. A young man can also die young too as they tend to take more risks such as drunk driving. The main advantage of marrying an older man is that he is usually already established in his business or career so he has more money to spend. He can, however, lose it in an instant in a bad business deal or an act of God. I was just talking to a friend who told me he lost his house to unforeseen structural damage at 55 after 20 yrs of being in the US and the insurance company wouldn't pay so he is basically restarting from the scratch.

Pray very well for God to show you if he is truly your husband. If you do go ahead, ensure you establish a business that can sustain you and your kids as well as life insurance policies and educational plans so your children would be well catered for in any case.

I wish you all the best.

he treats me like his age mate ..and we roll well together ...the guy is good in all aspect ..just the age . if he was younger I would have married him sharp sharp.

naturalwaves:
You seem a bit immature from what I have seen. There was no place in your post where you mentioned why exactly you like him apart from the fact that he is caring and takes care of you because you mentioned that other guys are handsome too. Are you incapacitated or something? With the way you saying he takes care of you, gives you money bla bla . It seems like you do not have a regular good paying job thus being vulnerable to such gestures.

You failed to name concrete/ genuine reasons why you love him except the ephemerals. What happens if all those things are gone? Huh? It takes more than all the things you mentioned to settle down with someone. You need to think deeply and I do not even know where you have been going that you have been meeting childish younger ones. I do not think this is absolutely correct. You just wanted to use the point to justify your decisions.

Moreover, it is obvious he has also extended the financial care to your family or your family can feel it through you. Either way, they won't be the one to live with him and let no one cajole you into making critical, personal decisions.
How old are you if I may ask? Why is he still single or his he a divorcee or a widower? Answer these questions and let us pick it up from there. Cheers!

he is 33 .....and sometimes I feel love for him...sometimes I feel disgusted ..I wanna grow old with someone in my age bracket ..and I dont wanna become a widow at a young age ....

enemyofprogress:
i like your sense of humour. Some frustrated nairaland babes don't have it.

Your egusi soup still remain? I wan come over with my pounded yam to deal with am for my Belle

egusi don finish ....you fit manage okro soup and goat head .

enemyofprogress:
big plantain is all I have

lolzzzz or cassava tuber .

enemyofprogress:
big plantain is all I have

lolzzzz

zuto4u:
I deserve it

hmmmm actions speak louder than words .

johnbuck81:
ma dear no mind them..their head no fit carry. but I know they wish it would.

lolzzz you are very truthful..

December 6

enemyofprogress:
you nko? Na wetin you dey find here? Are you looking for cucumber?

not your carrot for sure..abeg go sleep.

just like one 4 yr old girl in my neighborhood .....she is so spoilt ....when she came to stay with us because her parents traveled ..all that came out of her mouth was pussy and dick ....she even said she loved dick ....I was dumbfounded...... I dont know what to do ..or who to report to ...her dad is a lecturer ...and her mum ...an alcoholic ...who is still schooling....and her dad will never believe me ...I think he was the one that spoilt her.

enemyofprogress:
abeg go sleep jo

yeye dey smell ....your mate don sleep since 6pm you dey here dey bla..

[quote author=enemyofprogress post=57937361][/quote]lolz

;Dlolz

AwesomeDuru:
Girls are very tender and delicate. Please treat them like princesses

AwesomeDuru:
Girls are very tender and delicate. Please treat them like princesses

you deserve a bottle of red wine and 501 ...

even if he bleeps so good ...I can't loose my self respect .....no guy deserve that.

enemyofprogress:
e pain am

lolz ....crayfish ...






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