angelchinny:
Am a well dedicated nairalander but I created this new account for this issue. I have been married for 4 years now with 3 children and since the 2nd year of our marriage my husband has been constantly cheating on me.

The way he goes about it is even heartbreaking, he does it like his into a love relationship with them and not just for fun.

There is this particular girl that he calls like 3 times everyday because I check his call log and saw they keep in touch more than twice everyday. I stupidly called the girl and warned her to stay clear off my man and she confessed he didn't tell her he was married, I confronted my hubby and he was forming defensive and was telling me dat am accusing him wrongly and he will soon start cheating. I called the girl back in the evening and she told me that even as am calling that his call is entering her phone, that he called earlier to beg her to give him chance to explain..The next day I left with my children to a far away state and he pleaded that he will change and all that. The issue is that he continued with this shameless behaviour, our live-in nanny later confessed to my cousin last month that he approached her and I was so devastated. He knelt down and begged and I easily forgave him..

Forgive me for my long episode but I really need your help on how to punish him cos I went to his call log yesterday and saw the same girl that made me take the risk to leave with my children to another state calling him again and he is reciprocating the calls..his a very jealous person, he goes crazy when a male friend calls me..I want to make him pass through all the pains I have endured all these years.. What do I do pls?

please do not cheat .. you would be doing yourself ...just give him the silent treatment ..pretend like he doesn't exist . while you are still living with him....it will make him think you don't love him ..and that would frustrate him .....and I bet you ...you are gonna get good results .......but if he is not repentant ...take the walk and leave ..he doesn't deserve you.

dynamite11:
My problem started shortly after our wedding this year, and ever since its like I'm in a versus kind of relationship( I versus my wife and her family). She is so controlling, she knows all of our business my wife makes sure she keeps her up to date on every little details that goes on in our lives and she is never out of our lives not even for a week and I think my wife is ok with it because her mother can never be wrong.

She worships her either she is right or wrong, she is always visiting every weekend and sometimes stays with us for a week or two only to come back the following weekend saying she misses us, when I got married to my wife I didn't ask for a bonus, I don't know why we can't be left alone, and the worse part of it is that she comes with other family members and we always have a full house, I'm an introvert and I love my privacy but with my mother in-law I will never have that. I have become sad over the past few months and it's affecting my home because I can't even talk to my wife anymore because she is her mother's ear piece, I'm losing my sanity, she is coming over this weekend and I think I just need to go on a vacation alone this summer to clear my head. Have you ever had this kind of problem before? I need help please.

abeg if you can't take it anymore ......take a vacation ...for the whole week she would be around ...your wife will know what to do ..if she really loves you.or better still talk to your wife ......

dynamite11:
My problem started shortly after our wedding this year, and ever since its like I'm in a versus kind of relationship( I versus my wife and her family). She is so controlling, she knows all of our business my wife makes sure she keeps her up to date on every little details that goes on in our lives and she is never out of our lives not even for a week and I think my wife is ok with it because her mother can never be wrong.

She worships her either she is right or wrong, she is always visiting every weekend and sometimes stays with us for a week or two only to come back the following weekend saying she misses us, when I got married to my wife I didn't ask for a bonus, I don't know why we can't be left alone, and the worse part of it is that she comes with other family members and we always have a full house, I'm an introvert and I love my privacy but with my mother in-law I will never have that. I have become sad over the past few months and it's affecting my home because I can't even talk to my wife anymore because she is her mother's ear piece, I'm losing my sanity, she is coming over this weekend and I think I just need to go on a vacation alone this summer to clear my head. Have you ever had this kind of problem before? I need help please.

abeg if you can't take it anymore ......take a vacation ...for the whole week she would be around ...your husband will know what to do ..if he really loves you.

enemyofprogress:
the op is a man and not a woman. Na so una dey fail exam, no wonder.......

idiot read my post again ...b4 you talk out your tongue ..

please doesn't she have a house ...or wasn't she married ..abeg she should go to her husband house ..I love my privacy.

even if you want to please her that doesn't mean you should loose your self respect ...stand your grounds and tell her to stop touching your phone and respect your privacy ... and always open up stop hiding anything that is wrong just because you wanna please her ....talk to your wife and if she does nothing stand your ground....you are the man of the house for Christ sake.

I pray for you dear ...God will always stand by you and he will wipe away your tears ...in no time ....Amen ....you can try a fertility clinic you might get so help there . as for your husband ....he is just a coward ..spits

NaeChris:
The cause of the problem actually happened in the dream. She pour person acid, damaging both breast and one eye of A YOUNG LADY for that matter. Think am na. Not that she snatched her husband in the real sense.

holy mose ..

Ayiibobo:
I dey sell chilled plastic coke o....na just 100naira

give me am 70 naira or no deal.

Hoodfriend:


Bitch please

who is this one ..nigga

Hoodfriend:


Bitch please

who is this one ..nigga

bayocanny:
Well, its good that you aren't lieing. Good morning to u

lolz good morning how was your night..

bayocanny:
Smsh

what at least am not lying ..

donbabajeff:



Delilah spotted

and you must be Samson ..

ashewoboy:




yes, slay queen.

ashewo boy

did you get a kiss..

Maleka1:


I'm just too scared of hrtbrk

you need to toughen up guy..

Maleka1:


I'm just too scared of hrtbrk

you need to toughen up guy..

the guy stole the poor stove wick ....hmmm some people are heartless.

Maleka1:



u are ryt sis but u knw is a bit difficult to move on just like that. I don't think I can love again bcus I hate hrtbroken with passion. I mean I hate it more than anytin else.

then you still have a Long way to go..

rip English

lolzzzz OK na




Mr cork and martins come make we start our own here .....e don dey hungry me since..

lolzzzz OK na

so frank has lost his job ......and has joined the unemployed masses ..recession why ..

Maleka1:



so u didn't read my post. anyway, im suffering from love. my gf said she lost interest for no reason after 6yrs.

oh that......but there are so many single fishes in the river ......just throw your hook and catch one again.

NaeChris:
The worst part be say the thing no happen for real life. Thats the most annoying part. Thats why thunder go damage am.

lolz. you mean say no be true life story..

Maleka1:


tnx sis

no p ....so what was your post all about again..

what a red beautiful.....


















cap he is wearing..

don't worry God is always there to help ohhh..

na this kind occasion I dey like go ...19 plates gone already..

I knew this stupid thread has to be created by you ...Mr cork .....




still lacking sense sha ...don't worry you will grow up soon..

why are you so pretty ...and I was like



ask God