₦airaland Forum

major466:
Yar'adua is shacking violently in his grave because of this man - OBJ.

kkon:
pls is it possible for a car windscreen to crack without any impact? and any idea on how much it will cost fix or get a replacement..tnks

ogawisdom:
Update
I finally went to my mech to check up d hiss sound my steering gives. D mech said d steering only makes d hissing sound on full turn n dt it is normal. He topped my power steerin fluid n asked me to drop chop money for him dt my car is ok and I shld go n enjoy my ride. I dropped sth for him n left.
Now do u tink my mech is correct dt a power steering is supposed to make a hiss sound if u turn it fully n hold lik wen making a u turn.

Waiting to hear frm u guys

GAZZUZZ:
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To the second part of your query NO is the answer.

To the first part I think you should think of replacing whole parts and not just bushings, consider replacing the FAULTY rear arm/s as a complete part. Tell your mechanic to take appart the rear suspension so you can inspect the various bushings and joints.

Source: my BIG head.

airfresher:
. Correct sir.1993 is 2.0 thanks

NEROSKY:
I haven't paid a dime, i haven't been stopped either, tho i haven't drive it not untill yesterday, but an experienced driver who always take tokunbo home jus lectured me.. The man who's doing my papers is a useless selfish man, had it been he told me about this i wouldn't have waisted 20k.. 15k for the permit n 5k for the fixing... Nonsense! I'm really pissed now... So I will remove it

lanreodusanya:
Waiting for a buyer

NEROSKY:
I don't want anything i just want to know how true is this man's claim & advice from those who have used it....

farano:
I don't know them

blesie:
So i narrated how little i can of my ordeal since i got married to this man here last week - https://www.nairaland.com/2030889/he-punishing-me-honey-moon

While i got alot of advises from our dear Nairalanders, i had resolve before not to tell the pastor or my parent but to talk to him as many advised, i couldn't look him in the eye actually, i tried to do that many times since that Friday but I couldnt, so i said ok, after sunday service i will build up courage to confront him and voice out my opinion to him.

So on sunday, it was going to be our first sunday after wedding, i had arrange our wears, his and my own, i woke up early to make breakfast for him and prepare him for church, before he woke up i was already in the kitchen so i ask him to take his bath and lets go early.

He took breakfast (i don't take breakfast so i didnt eat), we were all fully dressed and ready to set out, i packed our bible and writing note into the car and the gift we wanted to give our pastor too inside the car.

it was almost time and i said, so shall we, he said not yet and i said what is remaining, he said you're remaining, you havent given me nothing this morning, i said but you just took breakfast, he said nope, i haven't had you. This is like 10minutes for church to start oo.

He came closer and i said please dont let us waste time lets go. He changed. Don't let us do what? did you just say waste time? he dragged me down the couch and started what i will call rape again, at the process he had rough handled everything i wore, roughen my hair, i started crying, he walk down the wardrobe pick up something and ask me to wear it, i told him i'm not going to church again, he started begging that i can't do that but i keep refusing.

He shouted i should let us go, and i refused. He came back and raped me again till i agree i will go. So i dressed up and just ran into my own car, took off.

He thought i was going to church, he also entered the car and make his way to church. When he got to church he called me. I didn't answer the phone. i came home and was lying on the bed thinking of what next to do. i was actually thinking of running away without a word so he can come look for me forever.

So he got to church and the pastor and wife ask him about me, he said i must be inside. The pastor sensed something. did you say she must be inside? Did you two not come together bla bla bla. After serious enquiries he opened up that we had an issue in the morning.

I was lying down and i heard the door bell, i thought he was the one, i did not open it. The bell rang a thousand times i ignored it. The pastor wife called but i didn't answer, so because my car was parked inside they knew i was around. Finally i opened and here my pastor and wife have left the congregation standing there with him.

So they came in and ask me what happened, i told them i wanted a divorce, that my husband was killing me. They ask me what happened, if he was beating me or denying me of sex of not providing etc. I told them he raped me everything over everything and that my greatest surprise was to know he is doing all of these because i couldn't let him have sex with me while we were dating.

They then turned to him and ask him what happened. I never knew some people can talk so well that will make a bad case look good. Anyway he's a barrister.

He said: "Pastor i don't know why this happen but i knew i never ask God to give me a virgin as a wife. My brother married a virgin and till today he cannot enjoy sex so he has resulted to having sex outside wedlock but i have promised myself that i wont do that. Whether she likes it or not, she must satisfy me.

Ever since i met her over 3 years ago, i loved her, even though she told me no sex, i thought she was just been careful so i left her. For 3 years i never touched any woman. Here i was thinking she was practising romance, or sex style she will give me on wedding night because she did not have any virgin trait on her. She was exposed (works in the media), talks fearlessly, gives me headache so i thought oh she is a tough girl.

But on our wedding night, my wife here comes into the room. Before i could finish a call, she rushes to take her bath, cover herself up like she is going for a Mecca trip. She comes here lying with her back facing me. I thought to myself, but this is the same lady that smiles and laughs throughout na. What would have happened? i said ok pls come and bath me. She refused. i had to beg. Then she came standing 50 metres away, throwing water on my body, i got so angry i wanted to beat her up but i calmed down and before i could say jack, she got angry that she is not bathing me anymore. I met her again in the room and she said she tired and want to sleep, i tried to beg her she refused I then say to myself, so after begging her for 3 years to date me, kneel down to propose, beg her parent, beg the church i have to beg again for sex in this house. Not in my life! So i had my way, and i made sure i wasn't hurting her because i realised the first time she was a virgin.

Just to please her that she was a virgin which wasnt much of a big deal to me, i entered a car shop, got her a car, i told her this is for you, she said thanks like i bought her a biscuit and the next morning she left to her office in her own car.

She returned and i wanted to kiss her and she said i was disturbing her that she is tired. I was so angry. Whenever i I'm angry, i just have sex with her to calm myself down so i dont go drinking or even beat her. The only day i can admit to raping her was when she returned from work and i had sex with her. She stayed on the couch crying. I took wine in two glasses, gave her one but she pushed the wine glass away from me.

He continued. "I then said jokingly, 'you see its your time to cry now, im giving you those hot sex so you remember the times you used to punish me, insult me and make me go through hardtime but you've got to change now because I'm your husband, if not you will be crying like this.

Then my wife stood up and said to me, 'God will judge you for your wickedness!'

What!!! So i am wicked for having have sex with my wife? The same woman i paid a huge ransom to her calabar relations to marry her? I got so angry so i raped the hell out of her that day. She almost fainted, though i felt bad afterwards.

So this morning, we were set for church. I wanted to kiss her and just touch her a little because she was looking beautiful. She started that stubbornness again. She pushed me away like trash so i showed her I'm more powerful by having sex with her and she said she wasn't going to church anymore.

I brought something else for her to wear she refused and i remember she does anything i want her to do while having sex with her so i gave her another round and she ran out to the car. I thought she has left for church but no. So, this is what i have been passing through."

My pastor wife was first to comment. She said "What!!! Did you do all that i heard?"

I said, "No ma, he is not saying it the way it is. He raped me."

So they started asking the questions one after the other. ''Did you bath only you on your wedding night?''

My husband jumps in. "Ask her if she ever bath with me together since we were married!"

At that point, i felt like asking him to stop talking. My pastor said, "how old are you again? In case i have forgotten". i said "26, sir".

He said "Why na.. why, did you not read? But you are learned na. Why did you have to do all of these?"

The pastor turns to the wife and said, "mummy, did you not put her through counselling?"

They all started blaming me and apologizing to my husband. My pastor's wife had a one on one with me. They asked me to kneel to beg him.

They ask me to dress up lets go to church, it was suppose to be our thanksgiving sunday. I told them, "i wont be able to go as my eyes was already red". In my mind I'd rather sit and start thinking of how i can satisfy this man.

As advised, i bath with him last night, as expected he had sex with me in the bathroom, i felt like fainting but i kept quiet this time. I bear it like its a price i have to pay.

We had sex 3 times before the night was over. Now he is happy.

HONESTLY IF I KNEW THIS IS WHAT MARRIAGE IS ALL ABOUT, I WOULD HAVE JUST STAYED IN MY MOTHER'S HOUSE. THEY DID NOT PURSUE ME OUT

herald9:
Seems everybody got an EX but WHY ...Can't people just start up a relationship and drive it to the end without breaking down?

Seems this relationship thingy is all about trial and error .

Curiouscat:
Nope..you ain't getting it,the he/she was actually directing the question at dechantel not you.

b1327:
wo call u gay

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b1327:
did u like him(DECOtech)

Tallesty1:
But that was kiddish nah?

madridguy:
SITREP FULLY COPIED.

Gombs:
I like to think he means well.

amunkita:
Hmmm... I jst hope oo
Cous havin diz feelin dat d 1 world order wuld b coming frm d church...

dechandel:

Lmao
She wan come reclaim her blessings na
Not so her fault

You sef
What stopped you from buying her chinco iphone?

Aprime:
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And even if she really needs the education, whatever happens to adult education?... Can't she enroll in one? [/color]

lanxlot:
But, what are they even safe guarded

dechandel:
Lol
Just kidding tho

The part where she Literally begged to come back
Naija babes are smarter than that na. Hian

Rockvicie:
And what if you're driving at midnight in a not so busy mileu, would you stop for a red light?

dechandel:
LIAR

livingstone2013:
whats the process to sell it? And how is Daar shares doing in stock market? I am totally broke cause I have no job at the moment.

adamdbt:
hi op,
try mini importation i have some manuals i can gv u for free just email me and i'l do just that adamdbt@gmail.com