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Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by Deepfeel(m): 9:48am On Jun 08, 2019 |
AmazonTopaz:Nigerian women Don't have high self-esteem, the training they got from their parents even contributes to their low self-esteem, most of them don't know their worth, marrying a rich man is an ultimate achievement for most of them in life, they see themselves as weaker vessels like their religion make believe, they see men as superior, even those women richer than men, give men money to pay for their bride price, to show they are under a man, the problem is right from the African culture and religion 15 Likes |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by Korllami007: 10:02am On Jun 08, 2019 |
AmazonTopaz: . Nice shifting of goal post. Have you seen any woman doing it? Like digging suck away digging well or pit. The answer is very simple. These jobs require a lot of energy and strength and men have a lot of strength and energy than woman, and you know it. So, no doubt about that. You know that Nigeria have female soldiers but none of them are in the war front and that's the area they are also specialized in. When it comes sport like weightlifting, the KG of the category of men is more higher than that of the category of women. Because if a woman tries the KG of category of men, she go quench. We're wired differently by nature so you can't fight it. So, what a man can do, a woman can but there are some limitations to what a woman can do. Women are wired to do soft work not hard work. It's nature. 22 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by AmazonTopaz(f): 10:04am On Jun 08, 2019 |
Deepfeel:I agree same goes for our men who not only lack self esteem are insecure and lack self confidence. I have adressed it in my post. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by AmazonTopaz(f): 10:08am On Jun 08, 2019 |
Korllami007:I never brought physical aspect to it you did. Even when you quoted you never initially stated physical aspect but all of a sudden you have gone there so who is shifting the goal post now. Besides is physical aspect the only thing that make men superior to women. Some women are exceptions to such notions. Soft work hard work yet men and women even though at different percentages still do the so called soft work and hardwork. Talking about war check on women in the israeli military. 6 Likes |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by bukatyne(f): 10:16am On Jun 08, 2019 |
donbachi: The day just started na. 1 Like |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by donbachi(m): 10:18am On Jun 08, 2019 |
bukatyne:ansa my kweshun 1st. |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by bukatyne(f): 10:19am On Jun 08, 2019 |
AmazonTopaz: My answer is always constant. Women, choose the right men and train up your sons to be same. I have seen a lot of women complain about their husbands and train their sons to be replica of their husbands. It seems the qualities most of them seek in husbands they do not want replicated in their sons. 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by AmazonTopaz(f): 10:26am On Jun 08, 2019 |
bukatyne:A guest of Tvc your view. Mr praise fowowe says this on the programme that since grown up men cannot change women including men should start by training their sons to be better men. Thanks for your input 6 Likes |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by bukatyne(f): 10:29am On Jun 08, 2019 |
AmazonTopaz: That is the only way. If sons are raised better, by the next generation, the bad eggs would be outliners. Till then, we are in it together. I however think that the quality of men are improving. You are welcome. 4 Likes |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by Korllami007: 10:39am On Jun 08, 2019 |
AmazonTopaz: That's why I said, there's no equal participation because we're wired differently. 11 Likes |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by AmazonTopaz(f): 10:43am On Jun 08, 2019 |
Korllami007:In simple terms Equal participation means it is open to everybody. Simple english, and yes we are wired differently even men among themselves they are wired differently and different in some aspects it is an individual thing that we are wired differently does not mean it should not be open to everyone which is where diversity comes in. 5 Likes |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by Korllami007: 10:45am On Jun 08, 2019 |
AmazonTopaz: So, why are female soldiers are not participating in the war against the boko haram? 4 Likes |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by AmazonTopaz(f): 10:51am On Jun 08, 2019 |
Korllami007:Ask your Nigerian military maybe it is the pre conceived notion that women are weak. In today's world going onto war does not mean fighting alone. You could go into war as an health official and take care of wounded soldier logistics wnd strategic personnel and so on and both men snd women can do this.Is it every man in the military that fights boko haram? In some countries women do it so ask your military men why. Google is your friend. Some countries embrace women participation in military affairs unlike ours. Take for instance women in the israeli military. 6 Likes |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by Deepfeel(m): 10:58am On Jun 08, 2019 |
AmazonTopaz:So it's a 50/50 thing |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by AmazonTopaz(f): 10:59am On Jun 08, 2019 |
Deepfeel:Maybe |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by Deepfeel(m): 11:03am On Jun 08, 2019 |
AmazonTopaz:Waiting for your second thread of how some Nigerian ladies have low self-esteem then : 2 Likes |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by Nobody: 11:04am On Jun 08, 2019 |
fieryy:that phrase " toxic masculinity" is the dumbest thing I've ever heard in my whole life. It is just one of the propaganda in the west which they are using to further weaken their men and turn them to sucklings. Why should the society care whether a man decides to cry in public or hold himself till he gets inside his house? If a woman does not cry or show emotion in difficult situation she is strong but if a man does not show emotion or cry it is toxic masculinity. The notion that men feel "threatened" by "independent" woman (lol, I'm yet to see an independent woman that is truly independent) is another bullshiit that you women come up with to make yourself feel good that it's the society or men that make you leech. Why should I be bothered that a woman I'm dating is able to buy her own pant and bra or even a car? I'm not telling her to buy me one. Men buy cars everyday and use it to carry their girlfriends and wives with those females feeling entitled to the car but why can't you females too buy cars if you could and drive your male partner without having to remind the broke man that he is broke? 33 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by afinotanjnr(m): 11:08am On Jun 08, 2019 |
PhenomenalMorgan: Any guy that do not understand the female foxes... Need to do that....until they do that then we can't lives quietly 1 Like |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by Nobody: 11:12am On Jun 08, 2019 |
AmazonTopaz:the men who patronise them don't cry that women objectify them 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by liberalchick(f): 11:13am On Jun 08, 2019 |
Please may I ask what those qualities are? PhenomenalMorgan: 2 Likes |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by liberalchick(f): 11:17am On Jun 08, 2019 |
“Molosho” never heard this before, very funny [quote author=AmazonTopaz post=79124267] And the men who patronise them are moloshos and shovels right? Focus your energy on your fellow men. [/quote 1 Like |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by Bossjakande: 11:20am On Jun 08, 2019 |
my new rule wen I see stupid topic like dis I look throway face and pass. 5 Likes |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by Nobody: 11:21am On Jun 08, 2019 |
In as much as women are bought in the name of bride price, there can never be such thing as equality. The very true step to gender equality is complete abolishment and criminalization of bride price 3 Likes |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by Bossjakande: 11:22am On Jun 08, 2019 |
liberalchick:are u a christain.am writing a blog now it will be out Sunday afternoon or evening so I can mention u. |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by Nobody: 11:24am On Jun 08, 2019 |
You are just a feminist...a woman ought to be submissive to the man, it's life, nature, even all religions proffess this...it can't be the other way round...it's the way it is. 4 Likes |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by liberalchick(f): 11:31am On Jun 08, 2019 |
What is wrong in cooking, cleaning and having sex with your husband/boyfriend/man? If I may ask. luminouz: 1 Like |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by liberalchick(f): 11:35am On Jun 08, 2019 |
“She is too emotional” it’s a sexist slur. It insinuates women are devoid of logic and incapable of making rational decisions. AmazonTopaz: 1 Like |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by essenceplus: 11:38am On Jun 08, 2019 |
AmazonTopaz: You believe Perceptions and Conjectures Outta here 2 Likes |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by essenceplus: 11:40am On Jun 08, 2019 |
PhenomenalMorgan: Sharp Last paragraph so one point. I'm going to order hot amala cause of that statement 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by liberalchick(f): 11:40am On Jun 08, 2019 |
Thank you!!! If you have to put down or denigrate another group just to feel like a top dog, then you are weak!! The gag is, in real life no one takes them seriously. AntiBrutus: 1 Like |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by Safiaa(f): 11:42am On Jun 08, 2019 |
It’s actually disgusting. PhenomenalMorgan: |
Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by luminouz(m): 11:42am On Jun 08, 2019 |
liberalchick:U asked in a mature manner,so I wanna reply u. Check the thread again and see why I posted what u quoted! I only have issue when women like OP come all out and claim they are chained by men yet they still depend on men, cuz they won't accept equal responsibilities (the man still has to pay for everything,including her bride price). Women already have equal rights (school,work, positions), so I just dont know where the inequality issue comes in. Is it in cooking and cleaning? Or taking kids to school? Or what? Check oluwaseyi000 and lilbest4 posts for the rest... Cheers! 10 Likes 1 Share |
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