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FamilyRe: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by deflover(m): 6:07am On Oct 30, 2022
Shadysen:
haba, he didnt killed anybody, life imprisonment? who will now take care of the baby? calm down bro.
Rape is rape
He didn't have to kill her to make it rape
She is a minor
He needs to be in jail for life
PoliticsRe: Walk For APC Candidates In Ogbomosho (Pictures) by deflover(m): 6:12pm On Oct 29, 2022
INDOMIE9090:
jagaban is your next president
Yeah ....president of agberos
PoliticsRe: Walk For APC Candidates In Ogbomosho (Pictures) by deflover(m): 5:54pm On Oct 29, 2022
igbotormentor:
Jagaban is a master tactician of Nigeria politics, even when he is sleeping, he is strategizing. no shaking.
Yorubas are the reason Nigeria Is what it is
FamilyRe: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by deflover(m): 5:05pm On Oct 29, 2022
gfon:
The girl didn't say she was raped oga...that's how you guys accuse guys wrongly for rape. Not saying what he did was right,but let him take responsibility for his actions. So when the baby is born,they would take him/her to visit the dad serving a life sentencehuh You try
It's clear u don't understand the law
She is 16
By law she is a minor
And it doesn't matter if she is the one who bleeped him
It's rape
He is the adult
She is a kid
FamilyRe: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by deflover(m): 3:31pm On Oct 29, 2022
DSS1335:
I am writing this with a sorrowful heart!
This is quite a lengthy piece!!


In 2018, My wife brought a live-in maid toward the end of her gestational period as we eagerly anticipate the birth of our first fruit after 8 years of marriage.

We took the young girl as part of our family, she was just 13 years old in JSS2 at the time she joined us. She does minor household chores, like washing the dishes, keeping the house in and out clean, that's all. I made sure
her education was not interrupted, she continued her schooling from Js3 till she completed her SSCE this year. Outsiders thought she was my first child considering the way she was being taken good care of.

At 16 years age, the evidence of proper nutrition was so glaring in her physique, the young girl of yesterday was already a beautiful damsel. I protected her from ravenous men old enough to be her father. Even from her classmates. Perhaps the mistake i made was in buying her phone before WAEC exam started. Well, the need for constant communication can not be overemphasized because i and my wife go out for work in the morning. My wife comes back in the day while i return back in the evening. Living her our 2 kids in her care: My first Child is 3 years plus in Nursery, the second is about 2 years in Prenursery.

When her mother made a stop by to visit her daughter 5 months ago after 4 years, she was so full of praise and thanking us for taking good care of her daughter, and begged us to allow her stay longer with us rather than her returning back to the village after completing her WAEC. I and my wife plan that i will take up the responsibility to train her up in University so she can be light to her family. Her elder siblings didn't complete their secondary school!

Today, all those dreams and aspirations have been shattered! The innocent girl child i took as a daughter is 5 months pregnant without even knowing she was pregnant! How possible? I could have swear with my life that she was still a virgin and innocent. Damm it! Where do I start from eh??

Well, my wife was rattled up by a what she called a terrible nightmare, she dreamt that she saw her girl carrying a new born baby. That was around 3 A.M she woke her up from sleep and asked her if she was pregnant, the girl denied it ignorantly. My wife had no reason to suspect her as she always buy her pads for her monthly menses except for this month. Then examined her and her suspicion became heightened as she saw a remarkable changes, her bra can't fit any longer, her bellybutton was out with black line running down! She ordered her to pee and run her test kit, it came back positive! My wife broke down in tears.

That morning, we didn't go to work for the day. we grilled her with questions. She confessed to us that she had intercourse only once in the month MAY yet she was still seeing her monthly menses. That she had a boy friend whom they secretly communicate on phone every day. That she lost her virginity to the boy. And they did it only ones in less than 30 minutes as she came back to check the kids who were still sleeping in the afternoon.

The boy came to visit her grand mother who return from the USA, she refused traveling to the East due to insecurities and rented a flat opposite my compound for just 3 months from March to June. During her stay, all her children and grandchildren came to visit her. It was one of her grand son that lured my maid and took advantage of her innocences.

We contacted the boy on phone and told him what happened, he denied it that it is impossible for him to be held responsible that he had sex with her only once and that's not enough to get a girl pregnant! I swear,i could have dealt with him fatally if he were within my reach. Well, i was able to comport myself and explain to him in details after which he kept quiet. He is just 20 years old awaiting admission. We have informed the girl's mother too who became shock and cold! And asked her daughter to return back to the village!

Considering this scenario, i came up with the plan to make that boy and family take up the responsibility of the pregnancy, she can't remain with my family anymore so as not draw unnecessary attention. I will track down the boy and his family and file a statutory rape charge against them if all avenue to resolve this case peacefully fail. From Pregnancy to child care is no joke. My people that is no joke at all. I feel very bad and compassionate for the innocent young girl who will be forced to sacrifice her future to be in the family way.

Any honest advise on how best to tackle this issue at hand would be appreciated
This is a rape case
She is a minor

Hope It happened in lagos
Make the boy go life imprisonment
CrimeRe: Yahoo Boy Killed Schoolteacher For Complaining About Bashed Car – VP by deflover(m): 3:26pm On Oct 29, 2022
Oxtertee:
Police should consult those buildings around most of them have cctv i.e Samsung building, both Polaris and adjacent fcmb, tanterlizer building especially ideal computer. The new eatery before Mobil also have cctv which might have captured when the sienna bus was leaving the scene.
The question is are they working
CrimeRe: Yahoo Boy Killed Schoolteacher For Complaining About Bashed Car – VP by deflover(m): 3:25pm On Oct 29, 2022
OmoNla99:
This happened infront of a bank. They should go check the bank’s CCTV at the time it happened. They should have a clue how he looks and probably get his tag number. By the way, the former Governor of the state said he installed CCTV in the city of Ibadan, isn’t it to fight crimes? They could get a clue from there as well.
It will be hard to get how he looks if he didn't get off his car
The number plate his the only hope if it's caught on camera...

Or he should freak out if he hasn't killed before
Thereby confessing to someone or the police, cos of guilt
CrimeRe: Yahoo Boy Killed Schoolteacher For Complaining About Bashed Car – VP by deflover(m): 3:22pm On Oct 29, 2022
God1000:
This is heartbreaking, I don't like yahoo boys, they are reckless and wicked
So cos a man is with dreadlocks
He is a yahoo boy
grin grin

U Nigerians hate the police for doing the same thing u all do
TravelRe: World's Travel: 15 Most Visited Cities In The World. by deflover(m): 3:12pm On Oct 29, 2022
This survey is fake
U mean after tinubu built and created lagos is 1999
Lagos with its agbero infrastructure is not on the list
This is a lie
CrimeRe: US: Man Chops Partner's Head Off, Stabs Her Corpse Over 100 Times (Pictured) by deflover(m): 3:07pm On Oct 29, 2022
Any man who leaves young ladies to sleep with 33+ ladies will be frustrated in life

See how he wasted his life for a 58yrs old who still wants him to earn the pussy
When he is suppose to be with younger ladies who won't stress him.
PhonesRe: Elon Musk Considering Reversal Of Life Bans On Twitter by deflover(m): 12:03pm On Oct 28, 2022
Johnnyessence:
Congratulations to Donald trump as he recovered his Twitter account back fully. I can’t wait to see his tweets on Twitter. Freedom of speech have been restored back.
And mine too
I woke up one day and I was banned
Still wondering why
CrimeRe: How Chidinma Transferred N5 Million From Ataga Usifo's Bank Account by deflover(m): 6:36am On Oct 28, 2022
yinkus6750:
Ataga died for what he never bargained for.
Let this case be fast tracked, can't wait to hear the final judgement
He died cos he took a gal from the streets that's used to urgent 2k
Made her his regular bitch
She got so close
Saw he was so rich yet all he gives her is the regular 100k ...20k...40k...50k
Now the normal Nigerian ladies believe no matter what u have in ur bank account
Their pussy is equivalent to it
If u have 10billion dollars then their pusssy u Bleep is 10billion dollars in value
Now he only gives her change
This is where she got greedy and angry
And wants more
So the fault is his
He is a billionaire simp
PoliticsRe: Urhobo Nation Won't Vote Contract Racketeer, Rent Seeker -Mayor Blasts Omo Agege by deflover(m): 6:22am On Oct 28, 2022
LegendHero:
All of you are the same.
I swear
I do go home
If u see how our villages look like deserts
Even the so called towns are just filled with beer parlours
Nothing to show for all the power of my people.
Ibori and all of them just corner everything
CrimeRe: Teenagers Gang-Rape & Film 17-Year-Old Girl In Oyo by deflover(m): 6:08am On Oct 28, 2022
Basiljoe:
This one is very simple na. Jail their asses, at least 21 years imprisonment with hard labor.

Everyone involved, even the one that was later asking for sex.

Some of their mates on Nairaland decided to be responsible and already have 4 kids.
Na Oyo state..
If na lagos
Na life
They are 18yrs old
InvestmentRe: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by deflover(m): 5:39am On Oct 28, 2022
ChngedChnges:
Pls who can identify deflover's new monika grin grin cheesy grin
I wonder what u all want
I have given my TA
And the market is doing so
What do u want again
I should put my hand in the market and pull it
PoliticsRe: Lagos Blue Rail: Marina Train Station Nearing Completion by deflover(m): 5:32pm On Oct 25, 2022
Diligent1:
This is a good development, please don't forget to put camera inside and outside the train because of enemies of Lagos State.

That is why I will vote for Tinubu because he will only put qualified people in positions.
I can see the performance of Abike Dabiri.
The enemies of lagos state are ur owo mi da younger brothers
Who have no skill nor education
PoliticsRe: Kashimbilla Hydroelectric Dam In Taraba Awaits Commissioning (Pictures) by deflover(m): 5:12pm On Oct 25, 2022
ejieddy:
As much as I fault Buhari for a lot of wrong in this country, his administration has done more for our infrastructure than any other administration. I give that to him, plus signing the electoral law.
Not his administration
China has done more
InvestmentRe: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by deflover(m): 6:54am On Oct 25, 2022
Titanium001:
All I feel for you is pity embarassed
Yes feel.pity for the man who gave u the DNA of stupidity
U carry it with ur full chest
InvestmentRe: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by deflover(m): 6:53am On Oct 25, 2022
jamiudarex:
Maybe he converted it into usdt and sell who knows cool
In the market
There is no vacuum
One is buying
One is selling
Even if he converted it
There was a fool buying.
Coins don't just exchange for air
InvestmentRe: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by deflover(m): 7:30pm On Oct 24, 2022
Titanium001:
See question, smh. Later dis wan qo follow de form 'guru' sad
If u read to understand
U won't shoot yourself on ur foot
U said a coin is about to be delisted
And u sold it
Meaning a fool bought it
Now do u understand now
InvestmentRe: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by deflover(m): 12:43pm On Oct 24, 2022
Themainboy22:
God saved me yesterday. I've been holding this coin DNT for a long time now, I wanted to check it yesterday only to be met with warning that the coin will be delisted tomorrow (that's today) by 10 am.
You need to see the speed I used to sell the use.less coin.

My advice; if are into hodl, make sure you inspect the coin at least 2 times in a week and make sure you read the warnings.

And also the need to research about a coin (especially shitcoins) before buying, can not be underestimated.
So who bought it from u
U mean a coin to be delisted
Someone bought it
Christianity EtcRe: Is It Morally Wrong For Pastors To Drink Alcohol? by deflover(m): 8:05pm On Oct 23, 2022
It's shocking that everyone just read and believed the posted
No name of church
No pictures
Nothing
But it's a church and even Christians who should know better are bringing up scriptures
This is madness
InvestmentRe: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by deflover(m): 3:33pm On Oct 23, 2022
Hmmmmm

PoliticsRe: “Do I Look Like A Sick Man?" - Tinubu Asks Business Owners In Kano (Video) by deflover(m): 10:28am On Oct 23, 2022
HoneyBee23:
Young male room mate needed in a lekki duplex.

Available space is a shared master bedroom/parlor and kitchen.

Must be open minded,a neat personality,working and any religion,any tribe is welcomed.

200k /4 months
service charge 50k

Service charge covers Electricity,water, security,dirty bills other house equipments,just come in with your luggage only.

MUST BE WORKING PLEASE.

What... app
081 69. 147...884
If babe wants to come sleep over
How will it work
PoliticsRe: Atiku Condemns Inter-Communal Violence In Benue by deflover(m): 10:23am On Oct 23, 2022
LadyExcellency:
Fulani Oligarchs will always refer a well-known act of terror as a communal clash when Fulani Bandits and Killer herdsmen are on a rampage.
Did u notice he said integration
Just like they did in hausa lands
The goal is to integrate dem into the society and they plot to get their emir
InvestmentRe: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by deflover(m): 11:50pm On Oct 21, 2022
Kai volatility ohhhh sweet money grin

InvestmentRe: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by deflover(m): 11:28pm On Oct 21, 2022
Clinical entries wink wink

I dey find plane ticket to Abuja

InvestmentRe: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by deflover(m): 11:25pm On Oct 21, 2022
Some of my many hubbies

grin grin

PoliticsRe: Manifesto: Tinubu’s 10 Promises To Nigerians by deflover(m): 3:44pm On Oct 21, 2022
iwaeda:
https://punchng.com/manifesto-tinubus-10-promises-to-nigerians/
All these are mere words
How does he want to achieve it
I will strengthened the naira
How will u do it
Exporting you say
What are u exporting
Raw materials or finished goods
U don't have industries so it most likely be raw materials
All he is saying are just words
He just wants to die as a former president
PoliticsRe: Lagos Was Bankrupt When Tinubu Took Over In 1999 - Gov. Sanwo Olu by deflover(m): 1:29pm On Oct 21, 2022
[quote author= post=117751876]IPOB/BIAFRA VS TINUBU/YORUBA:
TOLERANCE BECOMING A CRIME.


1. Why do we hate Tinubu?
What for?


2. Tinubu never worked with federal or Eastern Nigeria let alone stealing money from Ndi Igbo.
He never worked as Minister or taken any Federal Appointment!

3. He never joined APGA let alone sabotaging our Party's interest?

4. Tinubu didn't meddle in Igbo internal affairs either!

5. Why do we call him thief?
What did he steal?

6. We call Yoruba "slaves".
We never reflect on what it means to be slaves in the true sense of the word.

7. We are putting mouth in Lagos politics without caution, yet we have a proverb that says it is the foolish housefly that follows the corpse into the grave.

8. Can Yoruba man become an Association or Local Government Chairman in the East? Let us be sincere with ourselves.
Yet, we enjoy all these privileges here including Assembly Membership!

9. Why asking for what we can't give?

10. We are here helping the "slaves" to develop their land. Who then is a slave?
10b. You call their city a no man's land so that we can further be enslaved slaving to develop it, and our generations are wasted gloating over mere privileges.
Who is a slave?
Do we actually think?

11. Can Yoruba tell Okorocha "o to gee" in Owerri?
He doesn't even need it.
He is too intelligent to die for a pot of ofe manu or nothing.

12. After the civil war, for many of us who were old enough to have witnessed it, the Yoruba were the first to open their arms to receive and accept us as we were, crude savages in search for means of survival.
It was regardless of what we equally did to them before and during the civil war. No party to the civil war was innocent!
I also remember not paying any rent among Yoruba guys without a penny for my first 3years in Lagos and another 2 years in Ibadan.

13. Can we survive Yoruba attack in Yoruba land if they actually mean to?
Will an Mbaise man cooperate with the Nsukka or Afikpo, or the Imo with Anambara?

14. If we all decide to relocate at once, Babangida send me home phenomena is still in the memory of some of us who survived the incessant and uncontrollable spate of robbery across the Onitsha bridge.
How many people will want to go in spite of our empty pride?

15. If Yoruba people are as foolish as we foolishly think, why agitating?
How will agitating be to our benefit?

16. Why not "O to gee" in Abia, Enugu or Owerri?

17. Can a man from Aba become a Commissioner or Perm.Sec. in Enugu State Civil Service?
Yet it happened here!
Why not be careful.

18. We adopted APGA and but "wisely" voted PDP.
How was Tinubu our headache.
Was he the cause of our downfall?
Why always blame others for our inabilities and want to take glory for any small thing we think we have done well and even overblow it?

19. We claim we were so creative during the civil war.
Now history.
We also claim every made in Nigeria is from Aba.
But go to Oyo and Osogbo to see what "lazy" mechanics are doing quietly in the automobile industry, yet we make noise that other ethnics are either mumu or lazy except we (alagbara ma mero baba ole; the most hardworking humans who cannot develop their own land unfortunately).

20. Why looking for avoidable problem? Why?

21. It was you in the North being attacked, in Malaysia being killed, in Gabon and Ghana being molested. 99.9% of Nigerians killed in South Africa are of Igbo extraction, and sometimes by fellow 'hardworking' Igbo. Why?

22. We choose Kanu and he dictates to us without consultation with any one of us. They choose Tinubu who becomes a hero among them by bowing to or adopting the choice of their majority.

Why are we angry?
We chose Azikwe and they chose Awolowo.
How are they more mumuish followers than ourselves?
Zik became a President and we gained from it, Awo was only a Premier, but we are only struggling to beat their records in all ramifications including education till today.
How are they mumus?
We chose APGA and they chose APC, why agitating?

Yoruba are yet to say Tinubu is their problem why do we want to die for nothing?
Why working in APGA but planning to collect salaries in APC?

If your Biafra comes, but do we still remember that as Igbo we will automatically become foreigners on the streets of the Lagos we call a no Man's land?

How many of us will actually want to relocate home, should Biafra actualises or if citizenship is on the condition that you relinquish all other citizenship in Africa?

We leave that answer to the individual.
Nwayo nwayo biko unu.
[/quote]Don't mind igbos
A whole lagos was like this before 1999
Tinubu did all this and we hate him

PoliticsRe: Lagos Was Bankrupt When Tinubu Took Over In 1999 - Gov. Sanwo Olu by deflover(m): 1:18pm On Oct 21, 2022
A state where the federal government spent $400m on festac and infrastructure
All of a sudden it was a barren land
And the Lord and savior of agberos built it to the level of Toronto canada
grin grin

No be same lagos wey dem born me
I grow
Go pry school
These People will blame their mothers if tinubu raped her for not positioning well grin grin
All to force him on us to go and sleep there
InvestmentRe: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by deflover(m): 10:58am On Oct 21, 2022
doyin01:
Ask your father...grin
Did my dad Bleep ur mum too
No wonder my relationship with her didn't work out.

She refused DNA so I couldn't claim u as a son angry

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