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Op God bless you for this enlightenment. I pray the Lord strengthen you more and more in Jesus name.

Its not easy convincing people (intending couples) about the future dangers of two AS individual marrying.

Just two days ago, I did genotype test for a lady and the result came out AS positive. She said her fiancée is AS too and they are preparing for their wedding. I told her the dangers of both them getting married but she gave me this "what is your business, it's our life " look. So I encouraged her to see a Medical Doctor for better explanation.

ideamaster: have you solved the issue?

I may have to get rid of this n3 and go for L3. My friend bought it yesterday . My n3 looked like an idiot compared to the L3. So maybe I will just root the L3 instead of this.

My 18months old son tells me "how are you and answers ,fine" by himself.
In the cafe, time is almost up. will add more later.

emmydeep: thats my line of bussiness. What type do you need? Or call me. 07034551515. emmydeep@gmail.com

Ok. Are you the one that put up the advert here on nairaland before?

ideamaster: great job Ify. I admire your creativity...

Thanks.

Hello, someone please kindly help me with the contact info of the phone spy. The advert was on nairaland butbits no more . I saves it in my opera mini but my opera mini has stopped working.
Pls this is a bit urgent. Thanks.

Pls how do I turn off the vibate-touch feature ? I don't like the way the phone vibrates when I touch the screen, besides its consuming the battery. Pls reply .

Op are you sure?

xynerise: In Agbor, you dont walk pass a person sitting on the floor. They will ask you to stand up especially when the road is narrow

Am from Agbor. You don't CROSS OVER someone's leg if the person is obstructing the way.

My T shirt cake.

My shirt cake.

It majorly depends on your location. In places like Lagos, Abuja, Portharcourt and other big cities, it will be very very difficult except your wife has a fairly good job. House rent and transportation alone is enough to drain that 65k.

Acidosis: @de-gurl, check your signature (too many characters)

degurl@ what??

@yahoo.com.
I wrote the full email in my signature but nairaland cropped out the @yahoo.com. I have edited and saved several times but it onto reflect so I gave up. I even pasted a link of the pics of my cakes on my food section but it refused to show on my signature.

byvan: You did nothing wrong visiting your brother, reporting her will only cause undue tension.Why don't you try visiting only when your brother is available,that way you won't have much contact with this mean wife.Why does she hate you?are you not helpful around the house when you visit? Do your visit create extra tasks for her instead of relieving it? Do you act and comport yourself in a way that suggests you hate her?ask yourself these questions and make amend.


If she is just a mean person then you have to apply wisdom here.

byvan: You did nothing wrong visiting your brother, reporting her will only cause undue tension.Why don't you try visiting only when your brother is available,that way you won't have much contact with this mean wife.Why does she hate you?are you not helpful around the house when you visit? Do your visit create extra tasks for her instead of relieving it? Do you act and comport yourself in a way that suggests you hate her?ask yourself these questions and make amend.


If she is just a mean person then you have to apply wisdom here.

byvan: You did nothing wrong visiting your brother, reporting her will only cause undue tension.Why don't you try visiting only when your brother is available,that way you won't have much contact with this mean wife.Why does she hate you?are you not helpful around the house when you visit? Do your visit create extra tasks for her instead of relieving it? Do you act and comport yourself in a way that suggests you hate her?ask yourself these questions and make amend.


If she is just a mean person then you have to apply wisdom here.

You have already concluded she is a mean wife! Women!

The baby is freakishly large. How can that weigh just 4kg?

Whoa, its been long I visited food section. O almost abandoned my thread.

I hope everyone is doing great.

Whoa, its been long I visited food section. O almost abandoned my thread.

I hope everyone is doing great.

.........and its Sister Chaircover, not brother Chaircover because she is a SHE.

You are welcome.

This is now a trend on nairaland. People joking with suicide all because they want pity.

Hmmm y'all should be careful ooooo.
If you commit suicide, you are expressly going to meet Satan in hell!

There is hope for the living!

I always always backfires. If the groom refuses to pay back, the wife will never feel married. I know someone (very close pal) who did that and it affected her so much because the man refused to pay back and she never felt like a married woman as her actions kind of hunted her. She eventually told her mum and her mum said the man didn't marry her that was probably why the man never acted like a married man. They were married for only 6months.

This is a very serious issue that needs wisdom in tackling it otherwise it will backfire.
Alot of people here have made reasonable points. You need to stand firm in whatever you decide to do, do not get scared and then chicken out.
*limit your friendship with your bil. Too much familiarity they say, brings insult. And that guy does not have respect for you at all.
*on a cool day your hubby is in a happy mood, take him out and have a heart to heart discussion with him cos from what I see, he is the one that can make all this go away.
*Don't involve your mil or fil for now otherwise they will see you as a witch that wants to scatter their family.
*There is every possibility that he tells his other siblings and parents what goes on in your home so you need to be a bit discreet in your dealings. Don't tell him anything that happens between you and your hubby.
*If he is looking for job, my sister fast and pray on his behalf so that he will get a job outside your current state of residence so that nature will seperate you guys permanently.

My close friend had this same issue Infact hers was worse. She is about 3years older than her bil but the bil never greeted her good morning. She prayed, God answered and the boy got admission to study in Ghana and has since left. She is enjoying her home now.

Na wah ooooo! People are just viewing and not saying anything. Its not fair oooo.

Suretrends: Couldn't you just expand your memory? Am sure what you want to do would void your warranty...since your fone is just 5 mnths old!

Ok. kindly explain the memory expansion procedure to me. Thanks.

Hello friends, i want to root my Tecno N3 but am scared to loose my datas. I have been using the phone for about 5months now and have lots of info and datas on it.

The constant low memory signal i always get is quite irritating that is why i want to root the phone and possibly enjoy other features that goes with a rooted phone.


Ok so my question is this: if i root my phone, will i loose my datas and infos already saved in the phone?

Can any of you please paste here, the rooting process (asked for it before Tecno N3 discussion thread but no one responded) or a link to an already existing one?

What other advantages are associated wirh rooting a phone?

Thanks as i await your response.

Pink/lilac hexagon cake.

Pink/lilac hexagon cake.

Good day friends.

ibizgirl: Equal parts of Spite and Fanta
Add lime and drops of agustora (spelling might be wrong) bitters and grenaldine for the right colour.

Thanks. Please what is Agustora bitters? Any alternative that can be used in its place and that of grenaldine? Pls respond.

Otses: Your cakes are really beautiful, how I wish we were in the same state...

Thanks so much for your compliment. Things can only get better!

AbyDee: Funny this thread came up again. I didn't come to nl for a long time, and here I am reading this. well, to give some news : hubby and I are still together, he got a full time job about 6 months after my first post. I passed my degree, quit my 2 jobs and got another one, better paid with better schedule. we moved to a new place and we both contribute about 50/50 to the family expenses. He is saving money to start a business on top of his job. We also had another baby.

I could say that many of our problems are behind now. His personality hasn't changed much, though. I'm still alone most of the time to handle the day-today- life and running of the house. Reading through my old posts, I realize we are just very different people. My personality hasn't changed much either. I am a bit of a perfectionist and tend to feel that nothing is ever good enough. My husband is not very talkative and doesn't really know how to calm me down. But well, I guess since we lived together til now, we can still do the next 50 years or so. I thought I would feel depressed reading old posts about us and realizing that we didn't change... but on the contrary, it makes me feel more peaceful. Now I can tell it's a personality/communication thing, and we just have to make do with it.

Altogether, our marriage is not perfect, we had some really good ups, and a few downs too... but it's still standing, and I don't think it will ever break up.

Thank God for his presence and patience in our lives. Thank you all for your replies and sound advices.

Thank God you were able to manage your situation. I am inspired, really. The Lord will continue to bless your marriage in Jesus name, Amen.