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I met this girl in school then, she fine but na her silky smooth black skin dey trip me die.

I liked her a lot, she was always too quiet and not social at all.
One day, i went to the female hostel at night to find one banny there way dey celebrate her birthday, I was directed to block C.

On my way there it was around past 6pm i saw one beautiful black smooth spotless @ss bathing outside in one corner, she didn't even turn to look, doesn't even care and i suddenly noticed it was my crush.

I forgot where i was going and stood there like an idiot staring at her behind. My whole system stood like sugarcane. It was when one of the lady shouted hey you!

That i reorganized myself and quickly ran faster than bolt to block c. Everybody could still see my erection, i didn't even care and i was wearing Jersey shorts, with lose boxers.

It took my system more than 10mins to calm down.

When I was leaving the hostel by 9pm, i traced her to block B to ask for her contact, she no gree.

Long story short after I left the country for close to 8years, i came back last year, i met her and she told me she was getting married, anger filled my stomach.

We reconnected but she's a married woman now.

Prenonjebose:
There's no way to deal with it. Try to have a talk with her outlining all her good attributes, and how much you cherish all of that. Then,let her Know how much tired you are of the curses and insults. Let her listen to messages on the use of words and power of the tongue. Give her time and look out for the desired change, though it will not be automatic. But there must be some observable effort on her part to adjust.
But, if this is not the case, then call it off

Sorry, but your initial submission is out. FOR THREE YEARS CONSECUTIVELY SHE HAS INSULTED OP, E REMAIN TO BREAK BOTTLE FOR IM HEAD AFTER 5YEARS OF MARRIAGE.

DONT EVER ACCEPT AN ABUSIVE PARTNER IN YOUR LIFE.

ANY WOMAN THAT CURSES OR INSULT YOU IN A RELATIONSHIP.

IN MARRIAGE SHE WILL POUR HOT WATER ON YOU.

SEE THE SIGNS AND DON'T ENTER BLINDLY.

the same for men. Any verbal abusive partner, chances of upgrading to physical abuse is just few years into marriage.

I personally will not take insult from a very grown ass aged person. E go my partner.

There's no respect.

Please listen to Dr. Myles Munroe on what men translate as love. RESPECT IS WHAT MEN SEE AS LOVE. GET WISDOM O.

MAKE GOD DELIVER YOU NOW!

DON'T MARRY THAT GIRL

How much for a bag of 50kg and 25kg

chatinent:
If you master the art of not letting the behaviours of women weigh you down even for an hour, you have mastered the process of long life.

Am sure you didn't read through before commenting.

Anyway, the man is a serial kidnapper. He just told that story of the wife to sound justified. Try to read all okay.

Probz:
I’ve worked more jobs and made more money than you would in 7 lifetimes. Gaslight me all you like. It’s you who’s living in poverty.

People that usually talk like this based on my little years I've lived on earth are mostly poverty stricken. Not necessarily you. This is purely based on observation.

Anyone who is quick to call another person poor are mostly very poor people or no self esteem worse off inferiority complex situation.

I hope you're not one of them, the more money in 7lifetimes, are you God that determines s persons lifetime's worth.

Be careful and mindful how you quickly brandish anyone poor.

pocohantas:
Which kind wahala be this?
See how he would have implicated his neighbor in a kidnap and murder case that he is also innocent of. Kai!

This is is the reason i never ever give my phone to people to make call unless its critical and i must know the person. Because am the one dialing the number and you'll stand right there and make the calls. I mostly put it on pre-recorded mode. If they insistmto move away.

I go back to replay the conversations.

I don't want wahala, am too young for nonsense

Unofficial i started at 8years.
Officially from 15 years.

Am 27 and i have 10 solid years of experience in sales and marketing
8 solid years of managerial position.

I give God the praise, i have my company now. Am not the CEO, but a co-founder and an executive director. I give God the praise.

My boss is just afraid of releasing money to a stranger.

Anyway, my coz in Abuja said she's interested what is the name of the park they will drop the goods in Abuja. How many days will it take from your place to Abuja

How much for buying one bag and transport.

Ulunne777:
Is there a life style the men are living which could be contributing?
This is one case too many.

Unfortunately lifestyle contributes 90% of it. Most Nigerian men don't even believe they fall sick. They don't believe they can get STI or STD.

A lot are gluttons, eat carelessly and drink recklessly.

Most of them don't even plan for tomorrow. They wallow and eat up whatever they have now.

Lifestyle plays a huge role in the increased death of Nigerian make actors.

May God help the sick man.

Anngal:
Hello guys Am Ann Maurice by name please who can link me with companies that buy soyabean in larger quantities I can supply in bags and tons 07050670129

Like how many tons

Promzy99:
Its very easy 4 u to give ur opinion online without tryin to first imagine urself in someone's shoe. My mum brought d man. My mum is directly involved here. What if my aunts children or even people around town finds out, how do u think dis will nt result to a very big family crisis? Do u knw d traditional implication of dis? Mind u, am nt interestd in her affairs. Am an adult nd so is she. But sometins hv to be done d right way.

Get lost. If that was your uncle am sure you won't flinch.

Akalia:
The person you quoted was partly right. The right woman in a man's life will always go out of her way to keep the man. She will idolize the man with her whole heart. Like he rightly pointed, most often than not it is only a wife that can do all that and more for a man called her husband.

Yes, idolizing is a beautiful thing when a man establishes his role as a father figure in his children's life and as a loving doting husband.

I completely agree with you on that.

Emmypure:
I am igbo but nnamdi cow nu should be hold responsible for his dead.

Since he is the leader of ipob he should be held responsible for his death.

Uptil now I am still shock on the jazz that he used against my brothers, for them not to see him as a fraud and Yahoo boy.

Aboki zo, give me that your empty skull.

Even if they born you inside middle of Igbo land you're still abokina

FreeSpirited:
See wetin 19 years old dey do...see her carriage self...are u going to tell me she started all this just a year ago after clocking 18 which is believed the year she became adult? Make we dey reaosn for this country o.

19 years of today is 26 years of yester years in terms of sexual experience and gut.
..
17 years of today.....is 22 years of yester years in terms of boldness and sex...

Therefore it is foolish, and grossly anachronistic to think a 17 year old gal is a minor and prude in 2021.
...Age of consent should be reviewed to 15 in Nigeria

Potential rapist to justify your immoral acts against children.

There are so many 19yesr old who are innocent and deviod of moral decadence

shariff84:
pay 18500 per bag.transport 1500 per bag.

I will call you. Let me tell my boss. Thanks

Tzar:
Most women are evil. This is similar to what happened in my marriage before I divorced the witch!
She accused me of cheating & gave me the Bible we used in our marriage to swear when I told her I had never cheated on her after I proposed marriage to her. After a few minutes of pondering on what she made me do, I decided to ask her to also swear that she had never cheated on me in our marriage, ALAS! the b*tch couldn’t! She claimed she couldn’t swear with the Bible & I was the one that didn’t know what I was doing when I swore!
I learnt a bitter lesson about that gender that day. I never fall for their manipulation therafter… NEVER!

You sound like a child, like a fxxlish child in an adult body.

Just grow up and live your life. The person you divorced has moved on. Learn to move on too and stop allowing bitterness to hold you hostage.

Forgive yourself and forgive the mistakes of the past. You'll be fine I promise you.

Afodot0022:
But i had the intention of forcing her to swear else there will be issue in the home and things will not go well with both of us cos its through that swearing that will make me seeing her faithful. If she is innocent as cliamed, why is it difficult for her to prove her innocent. I need to know. I gave her the condition that things will not be normal in the home again except she prove her innocent by swearing.

Reading this made me give up on you.

Mr. If you life buy petrol and light your home on fire.

There are certain things you let slide. Imagine if you saw your wife chatting with other men and doing silly things online. Whether you have had physical sex or not does not matter. So many of you do sex chat and video sex.

Your wife caught you with proof and you have no proof on her. The wise thing to do is to let it slide what do you mean by the house will not be normal again.

That's your decision, in the next few years don't regret your actions and come here to wail. Your children will easily follow thier mum and not you and you'll end up breaking up your family. Be wise and don't let the devil creep into your home.

As innocent i might be in a thing, i would never ever swear with anything like anything. Except if am in the court room.

Be wise o and make peace in your home.

I don talk my own.

Am suspected you've already made up your mind on what to do what donuts need us for

shariff84:
Am still accepting order,you can place urs @19000/bag for a clean, destoned and polished rice.

Hello sharif, you seem to be a trustworthy person.
How much does a 50kg stone free and sand free bag cost.

I need tomato or big bull bag

I want to buy like 50 or more bags

Transport to Portharcourt is how much for a bag.
Please reply as soon as possible.

Mourinho24:
Someone said in the Igbo culture, when a child is born out of wedlock, that child belongs to the mother. Thereby, the father doesn't and can't lay claims of ownership over that child but in this case, the story change because say Davido get money. Guys, shebi una dey see say money nai dey make iron float? Have money and trample on traditions/culture.

Money or no money that bo won't answer Davidos name. It's just the fact.

tollyboy5:
Both serap and govt are funny.
Even WhatsApp don't have access to people's message.
Its end-to-end encryption

It can be read. Forget this end to end encryption thing.
An Israeli spy company is already selling the decryption system to government.
Saudi Arabia uses it to read messages.

PrinceOfLagos:
At this point, I will advice all man to do a DNA on there children because this women are wicked

I will get a DNA done on all my kids to be sure I've not been fooled

This is all you could say on a dead person's issue. May your death not be worse than hers and i hope you are your father's son.

Evil, no compassion whatsoever.

All men please always do a DNA test to avoid living the best part of your life in prison.

Illumined9933:
But you know I ain't gonna argue with you abi?Every man to his beliefs. Goodluck.

I didn't write for you to argue. It's the reality we live in.

Maybe when you'll settle down you'll understand properly.

Stop the responsibility of a good husband and see if respect would be there.

Then you'll understand certain things your father went through.

You're not a prize to be won. Rather you're a father to looked up to, to respect and honor.

Continue red pilling

Rahkman:
Na this bald ostrich be the American woman?

We know you're depressed and sad and we know your parents failed to love you. We know you're damned ugly and no woman will ever find you attractive enough, we know how bittered you're and how envy and jealousy gets the best part of you but do yourself a favor and start loving yourself.

It's all going to be fine. May God help you.

Illumined9933:
The redpill should help you live happily by yourself, until you find a woman who WANTS to be in your life.

So, I'd advise you stay on those hustles that would improve your life,and at the same time talk to women you like. The right woman who is desirous of you will at some point be in your life.

This woman will break her rules for you, she will give you one hundred. I'm closing in on 30, and I tell you - It is better to be by yourself than be with a woman who doesn't see you as the prize.

No woman was designed to see men as the prize. Where do you guys even get this. Disappointed though.

Women will respect, honor, and submit when you treat her as the prize and continue chasing her even after marriage.

As a man making it is very important because this will enhance and polish the respect she has for you that's what men sees as love.

Get your head out of the cloud cause no woman was ever designed to see men as the price.

You can study your parents.

chatinent:
Our own African CR7.

He is Drogba not cr7

Am a cr7 fan but seriously drop that backward mentality

Righteousness2:
No Mother will do this Ordinarily!

This act was Definitely not done with a Clear eye.
I have constantly maintained that there are Various Principalities, Powers and Unseen Forces everywhere. They are looking for who to Enter and possess.

It is Huge risk to live life just Casually or Carnally in this evil and Wierd Endtimes.

There is Need for us to Conciously seek GOD and be filled with HIS Spirit.
We Desperately need JESUS in these Perilous times.

Please with all due respect shut up.
Do you know the effect of post natal depression to now talk of acute post natal depression.
Go and ask women that just gave birth how they struggle with it.
Thank God for African system where the girls mum or inlaw visits her and stay with her for some years.
Due to that, this issue is drastically reduced in Africa.

Please just shut up and morn the woman and her kids.nonsense.
Not even a single RIP

verybadmouth:
I totally agree with the aboki. Wife material no dey again jooor. Women dey do anyhow now. No more respect for their partners. I definitely will never slap my partner for her wrongs but I wouldn't hesitate to walk away from the marriage when her wahala gets out of hand.
Women, Una own sef don dey too much. Make Una go train Una selves. Abeg

Make sure you keep walking and never look back o because marriage must be perfect