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bitchcrafts:
Women love raw sex so much they dont mind the pain that might come later wd it. So, are we cleared?

I don't agree with that, women don't view sex the way men see it. Women have very low testosterone hence they have little or no urge for sex at all but for the exception of nymphomaniacs who are not very common anyway.

let me shock you that majority of women don't enjoy sex especially here in Nigeria and Africa as a whole because majority of them as high as 70% in Nigeria have been genitally mutilated (circumcised) while young hence further killing the urge and causing a painful sexual experience altogether.

foolinlove:
I don't actually know the statistics, I'm not sure anyone has performed that study, but I am inclined to agree.

However, I am wary of making sweeping generalisations. I don't speak for all women, I don't have a child. I am just quoting the currently accepted theories.

Neither do I, and I'm not dead sure about that percentage(90% and above i stated earlier) but like you rightly said, "women would have one child alone, which is not enough to maintain a breeding population when you consider mortality rates".

Thus nature will do everything possible to ensure continuity hence the percentage of women that your answer will not apply to must be negligible.

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foolinlove:
Like I said, there is genetic variation in the population. It doesn't apply to everyone.

But it must apply to a large percentage of women (at least 90% and above) If we take random samples around the world, it will be very hard to actually find women who stopped at the first child due to the experience of Labour pains and the fear of attempting it again.

I quite agree with the answer you gave on this topic earlier, but if you say it doesn't apply to every woman then, i want to believe that the percentage of such women must be negligible/insignificant.

Unique04:
I am a Christian, I cannot be in a forum where my God is being ridiculed by some persons including the founder of the forum. My Bible teaches me that, blessed is he who is not found in the company of the ungodly. I registered in nairaland last year after many years of visiting because I thought it was a forum to meet and interact with fellow Nigerians. I have suddenly come to realize that there is a conspiracy to ridicule the Christian faith and turn young Christians into atheists. I am a solid Christian and nothing can derail me from my faith, but I can't stand the number of baby Christians who get confused and carried away with all this Atheist and anti-christain posts I find on front page.
*modified*
I came to this conclusion after reading some of seun osewa's posts on Christianity.
With this I say farewell to all nairalanders.

You must be a baby Christian for considering deactivating your account just because of mere comments from Atheists. You are not serious. Just like one of the guys here said what if you go out for real evangelism/soul winning and you encounter an Atheist will you run away?

Won't you try to prove some points to him/her? In what way have you done that on this forum? Pls don't be a coward be brave and courageous like Paul and our mentor Jesus

ronald4lif:
So many Naija girls are trite and lacks originality. They always try to imitate what others do, especially their Western counterparts. It has even become strenuous to have a verbal conversation with a Nigerian girl without her forming some funny accents, sounding like clowns. Yes, anyone who tries to form Brit/American accent only ends up sounding like idiots. You can never have British accent unless you were born or spend your formative years here.

The worse now is that no one wants to bear their first names anymore. We no longer hear Temi, Nneka, Halima which delineate our roots and heritage. It's now funny foreign names, we will never emancipate ourselves from neo-colonial mentality.

Well done bro

foolinlove:
They forget how much it hurt.

That's how brains are wired, to forget strong unpleasant sensations.

When you are cold, can you *imagine* how it is to be very hot? Can you imagine the sensation of being too hot? It's difficult. The neural pathways involved are the same as those involved in pain and labour.

It's a positive genetic trait evolved from the requirement to propagate life. Without this ability to forget the pain, women would have one child alone, which is not enough to maintain a breeding population when you consider mortality rates.

Women remember "it hurts", but they don't remember the strength of the physical sensation. It is a disconnected memory. There is, obviously, genetic diversity - so this doesn't apply to *all* women.

It's the simplest way I can think to explain it. If you need clarification, just ask

Intelligent answer

This question has been bothering me for quite a long time now, but I think it's time i throw it open for mature minds here and get answers.

We all know that women go through a lot of pain during Labour, even though I have read about orgasmic Labour but I don't think majority of women experience it, or some shy away from disclosing it. But the fact still remains that Labour/birth is Still a painful process for many.

why is it that despite the excruciating pain, a woman still repeats the course for example a woman with four children., she still goes for the 2nd, 3rd and 4th. I know some women still have more.

The record holder for the most prolific mother in the world is a Russian woman and she gave birth to 69 children imagine!

Please my question is what keeps you going as a woman? ( asin daring to repeat the painful process again).
Is there any logical explanation for this? because i have heard of several cases of women swearing during Labour that they will never do it again, but before you know it, they are pregnant again.

Please no bashing i believe we are all mature, If you do not have any reasonable contribution to make you can pass.

thanks.

Op get your facts right, check out this extract from Wikipedia:

Blue waffle is a fictional sexually transmitted disease said to affect only women, causing severe infection and blue discoloration to the vagina.

The disease has been confirmed as false. According to Dr. Elizabeth Boskey, the fictitious disease may have started around March 2010 after an image of a gentian violet stained vaginal yeast infection was circulated by the shock website Documenting Reality.

New Jersey councilwoman Kathy McBride fell victim to the hoax during a 2013 City Council meeting believing the disease was real.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blue_waffle

I believe some of us must have gotten this type of message before, this is the second time i will be getting this type of message and i have decided to expose them this time.

The first time I got this type of message was late last year, i called the number, one guy picked it and started asking for sensitive informations, i just dropped the call.

Now i got this one again this morning, but the funny thing about this one is that it was sent to the number i didn't even register with in the bank.

Pls let's be careful, i have read and heard about how this guys go about extracting sensitive informations from people and gaining access to their bank accounts.

donnffd:
You said late 90s....Yes i grew up believing in those things, bakassi boys, gbomo-gbomo and the likes.

Do remember we ddnt have the internet(or rather it wasnt as rampant as now), we ddnt have smart phones with cameras and the likes

Now we do, all those things seems to have run underground. there is videos of aluu boys burnt alive, there is videos of chibok girls and so on
BUT
Guess what we dont have up till now, No video of a bakassi boy chesting bullet, or no video of a child turning to yam because she picked money from the floor even with the sheer number of smart phones with cameras across the country and planet.

And you want us to believe these things really did happen.

It is written in the bible and i would para-phrase, when i was a child, i walked and talked and acted like a child, but as i became a man, i put away childish things...

Oga you again? Remember our last protracted argument? I'm not ready for a re-show again biko. So I won't argue with you any further on this, else we derail this thread completely.

Darnyel:
Mr, your comment is laughable. What was your motive for asking the questions anyway?

Your reply is extremely ridiculous, did you read my first post (that contained the questions) at all? I doubt it, because if you did you won't be asking me the motive behind the question. Pls go and read it, before concluding haphazardly.

Op, and so what? Is she not a lady? And why was the writer shocked? He should pls leave her, there is absolutely nothing wrong with her.

Women are wired differently from men and don't have problems with sexual urges due to their relatively low level of testosterone. And coupled with the fact that majority of them (especially in Africa) have been genitally mutilated (circumcised) while young, it further kills the urge to nearly zero.

I don't see any big deal in women keeping their virginity for as long as possible or even becoming nuns i don't really appreciate their efforts at all because it's very easy for them. I can only appreciate it in men.

And for the girls that have Lost their virginity I can put a large percentage of the blame on rascal guys always disturbing and convincing them to engage in the unholy act with them.

Although there are exceptions, for nymphomaniacs, but those are rare types of women.

Lilbrown007:
OK O But M Still Skeptic About This Sha

Yea, that is how it is, if you also narrate a paranormal event @ your vicinity that didn't get wide publicity and little or no substantial evidence i and every other person that reads or hear about it will also be skeptic about it. But it will be real to you and others in your vicinity.

I usually try to avoid such stories in arguments such as this that involves guys who are still skeptical about the paranormal. But I just don't just say things I haven't verified. That is why it pains me when someone calls me a liar. If something is not true, i refer to it as speculation and I will declare it in the story and not make bold claims or authoritative statements .

[quote author=Itannooluwa post=47048613][/quote]*modified 1st corinthians chapter 7 vs 8, 32, 33, 34, 37 and 38

Itannooluwa:
Now concerning the matters about which you wrote: “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.” But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband. The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. ...
1 Corinthians 7:9 ESV / 149 helpful votes
But if they cannot exercise self-control, they should marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion.
Hebrews 13:4 ESV / 138 helpful votes
Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.
1 Corinthians 6:18 ESV / 94 helpful votes
Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.
Genesis 2:24 ESV / 90 helpful votes
Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.
Proverbs 5:15-19 ESV / 88 helpful votes
Sex s ordained by God between legally joined couples xo therefore ur ansa to No 2 s Yes( they will definitely make Heaven)

Why quote Bible verses for me? Do have any idea who you are chatting with? Well I believe you quoted it for the people who may read Tru your reply. because as far as I'm concerned you are only making repetitions of what I have already read/known.

I observed you only quoted the parts that suits you and your argument but can you also read 1st corinthians chapter 7 vs 8, 32, 33, 34, 37 and 38 i would have typed it here for non Christians to easily read but I'm typing with my phone and its not easy.

See, according to Paul, marriage is meant for the weak. Those who can't shun every carnal manifestations of the flesh. But it's still better not to marry thus avoid sex completely to increase your chances of making heaven. Pls revise those verses above.

And you couldn't answer my first question. Why it had to be like that.
For your second question, please don't deceive your self in order to justify your weakness in the flesh.

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Temysteve:
The bible says 'Once you av been join 2geda, your body is not your again. (means) The wife shld submit herself to husband, so i think once the huband says that exact time is the best condusive for him, the wife shld just concur. I don't see that has a sin. And why would i not marry?? I'm born by some1, so i shld also reproduce nah.

Oga, you didn't answer my questions, you are only beating around the Bush. Anyway you even tried to comment, notice how people have been avoiding the question like a plague. Since the the truth is bitter

Lilbrown007:
THATS Not The Point
Bank Robbery!!
Explosion!!
Some One Died!!
Exchange Of Bullet!!
And News Didn't Carry This Its Suprising

And so,? What is special about this case? will it be the first case? There are several bank robbery cases across Nigeria with varying number of casualties and property destruction

And who told you it was only one person that died in the case i told you? His case was only publicised due to his popularity in the community and his defiance while trying to force the robbers to retreat (even though i find this funny asin only one man against many heavily armed robbers i guess he overated his charms)

Actually newspapers may Carry the news but do i need to still scan newspapers in order to read the report that happened in my locality and everyone is aware of it and its no longer news?

Let's not deceive our selfs, the fact is that SEX is an unholy act, regardless of who you have it with (your wife or not) or the time. Paul made some elaborations on this in the book of corinthians on why it's better not to marry and avoid sex altogether.
Now who can answer this questions for verification

1. Jesus conception

2. If married couples are having sex and coincidentally the trumpet sounds, will they rapture.? Or one of them dies suddenly in the process will he/she make heaven?

I need honest answers please.

Lilbrown007:
JUST Saying Caused Av Watch A Similar Yoruba Movie To That

U dey craze

[quote author=CAPSLOCKED post=47045131][/quote]U HAVE BEEN READING ALL ALONG AND YOU KEPT QUIET WHY DIDN'T YOU QUESTION THE CASE OF THE BAKASSI BOYS? U ARE KRAZY.

CAPSLOCKED:
YOU EVEN HAVE THE GUTS TO CALL THESE THINGS POINTS... YOUR TRUCK LOAD OF JARGONS, YOU SAY THEY ARE POINTS.


AS THERE'S NO NTA IN YOUR LOCALITY NO SINGLE PERSON OWNED A PHONE TO HAVE CAPTURED EVEN A BIT OF THE INCIDENT.


TALES BY MOONLIGHT.

U DEY KRACE? CAN YOU RECORD SUCH AN INCIDENT WHEN THERE IS SPORADIC SHOOTING AND EVERYBODY IS RUNNING HELTER SKELTA FOR THEIR DEAR LIFE'S U MUST BE KRAZY TO HAVE DEMANDED FOR A VIDEO EVIDENCE. SMH.....