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AllenSpencer:
Men easily walk away with the pain. Only on extreme cases you see men go mad.

An average lady has this inexplicable instinct in her

Men easily walk away? Unless na boyfriend girlfriend o. Not under matrimonial roof.

Xda59:
But are you aware Monica Lewinsky later confessed that her relationship with Clinton was mutual and that she set out from day one to seduce him?

He fell did he not? If your wife asks for a pass cos the man she bleeped set out from day 1 to seduce her.... Will it make you feel better?

Since na rapists full Naija pass.... Many men will look for a way to mock this news.

Just sit down and watch them complain (cos they know that at 1 point or the other they themselves have had forced sex with a woman prolly an underage child) they can not believe that their crimes might haunt them in future. They thought it will die as time goes by but na lie!!!

Cry babies..... Una well done o.

AllenSpencer:
Sigh...

The fear of women is the beginning of wisdom!


But at a time, polygamists have a strong heart.

The wahala of one girl friend alone, person one die! If dem be two, death is certain. And above 2 is just suicide.

Same way men feel when their women decide to rock a side boo. For sure a house with 2 women will last more than one with 2 men. Let's not make it look like this shit only happens when women are the multiple

Even hearing or suspicion of cheating has sent many women to the grave. Unlike men who mostly get a pass from their women

Sex Don scatter this home. The man want start phase 2.

The wife needs to be punished. She want kill person ni?

Racoon:
Then,their waterloo is closeby & the total disintegration of this contraption will be more hastened than ever before.

Are they not killing and destroying lives up and down? What Waterloo have happened? If they continue line this in the next 5 yrs, what Waterloo will happen at this rate?
In all honesty. Nigerians need to see that every tribe has turned against its own and others . Fulani crime is just part of the shit happening and not the only shit.

A friend of mine was into this nollywood shit in pH. She said when these top actors visit their producer those days, he organises up comming actresses to warm their beds. Any girl that refuses is kicked to the background. Those guys are a sex cult/syndicate. Many of these big male actors have slept with these struggling women. Although I wouldn't call it rape but still it ain't right. His wife knows about it too. The casting couch is real.

Rootprof:
Security in this country keeps getting worse day by day. Imagine not been safe in your own motherland It's very sad. If the news that the people that perpatrated the act are herdsmen then creation of RUGA may bring more of this and we may have not seen nothing yet. Abi can we say government is playing cards to proof that RUGA is the only solution to security challenges in Nigeria Just thinking from different angles.

Seems like their aim. They will claim that since people did not agree to give Ruga, herdsmen have become jobless and have decided to go into crime to make ends meet.


Solution? Allow RUGA

So if dem kill another person pikin.... E for no be declaration of war?

Kettle calling pot black

Igbos NEVER speak with 1 voice. They sell themselves for akara kobo kobo. Tufiakwa! Never met a more disorganised group in my life.

You guys should unite, speak with 1 voice wether for or against something. Let your yes be yes as a people and your no be no. Let majority win the vote. How can a house divided against itself stand?
Na wa

dochenaj:
So you'll rather have your husband think you cheated on him than to think that both of you were cheated?
Mind you the people who do this cryptic pregnancy thing, like the lady mentioned in the discourse do genuinely think they are pregnant, they are unsuspecting of any foul play.
And knowing that the child neither belongs to you biologically does not make the child any less your child, especially if time has passed and you have bonded with each other.
Finally, if I find out that my daughter is not mine, the onus rests on my wife to explain how that happened, it shouldn't be my headache. Moreover the mother of the child is the one who really knows who the father is or could be.

It's a tricky one but I will keep off the DNA thing and think it deeply. Esp if my husband is the Peper body type.

dochenaj:
If as a wife you were faithful to your husband and your husband does DNA test that shows your child is not his. Shouldn't you suspect that the child is not yours either, and do your own DNA test to prove that you're not the biological mother? In that case you might be suspicious of baby swapping.
But unfortunately the cheating lady would not have the boldness to do her own DNA test because she was unfaithful and there is that possibility that the child is not the husband's.

She might know the source and know the implication of what she did. We ain't talking baby swapping here by the way. We talking baby snatching/buying. If I am a wife that did this cryptic thing and my husband finds out I will not do any DNA on myself.... I will not want to lose bothways. I have bonded with the baby and will not want to lose it totally. If I am the husband tho, I will insist and if the child is found not to be my wife's, I may report the case and then be ready to face whatever consequence that may follow or I weightings and keep the shut cos I don't know if it will be loved as much as I will if push comes to shove and the child is taken from me or if the psychological effect will not be heavy on the child in question.

LordReed:
They were marking one year today, I hope memory of the good times keep their hearts warmed.

Yep, part of it is there are too many maybes and the answers are just so contrived.

We shall all find out someday I guess. In good time.

LordReed:
So it decides that it will just stand and watch people rip themselves apart over who has the correct one true god? Sounds like a real stand up god.

How does this have any meaning for a 5year old? One who died in so much pain as her parents wept calling on the god to save her? How does it mean anything to the starving people who can't even lift food into their mouths because they so weak? It makes way more sense that there isn't a god then to believe there is one and the only consolation for all this suffering is platitudes that don't even mean anything to those in dire situations.

I now understand when people say they won't submit to such a god if it decides to show up because the it appears that the god if it exists is a twisted being that actually hates the human species.

Maybe we have not come to know the laws governing God's realm. Maybe when we reach that level miracles will just start popping and everyone will statghten up. That will be the paradise on earth Jesus is said to have spoken of.
Maybe God has not much to do directly with humans, maybe we are just interesting creatures to be watched and studied. Oh boy ehhhh too many maybes.

Sorry for the loss of your friends daughter. According to the bible at the fall of Adam and Eve, it did not say there will be wars when God sent them out, it did not say man shall be evil to man... Those happened when Satan fell. That was the consequence of Satan's presence on earth not tied to man eating the fruit of knowledge. Early death sickness, wars etc. Just a biblical perspective to death.
I don't believe early death is as a result of Adams sin.

LordReed:
No the loss wasn't violent. Guess what, I recently learnt of the passing of the 5 year old daughter of a schoolmate who was also a fellow christian brother at the time. How do you explain these types of things?

If there is a god and it does nothing, how is it different from not existing? If we don't know how to connect to it how is it our job to make the effort? If you wanted to communicate with an ant, would you expect the ant to make the effort?

What if it wanted to connect in the beginning? Sent people who could perform miracles, showed itself supreme but earthlings just wanted to use it for selfish gains? What if there are rules governing their realm and they can't break it until we hit a certain energy level? What if what we have been told is not nearly half the right thing? That is the big question there. But yes, sometimes even with my experiences, I still wish that instead of things happening far and in between, they happen normally.

As for the death of the lil one, take it this way.... Everybody has a time frame, we as humans don't know what it is we have come to do here. Maybe we are sent here to fix what was unexperienced in another realm. So each journey is unique and prayers most certainly won't affect much unless under certain circumstances. If that be the case.... We should embrace our life and should we decide to change things know that if the law keeper changes it here, we will most prolly return to experience it again but if all goes as plan and the soul completes it's earthly journey successfully according to the law and wasn't hijacked to go the wrong path by the opposing forces or laws that favours the opposing side (ie ancestral curses, demonic possession etc) such a soul experiences heaven. Those that did not pass through no conscious fault of theirs may reincarnate or who knows what it is the rule is.
Honestly it boils down to that knowing God's mind we were talking about. There are lots of unanswered questions in my head too

LordReed:
I didn't answer this part:



If pain comes through my words its because I am pained I believed this stuff for more than half of my life. Compounded by the pain of loosing a loved one and seeing other loved ones suffer which is further compounded by the pain of every human out there especially the ones that cry out to the god for relief and get a deafening silence in response. Not to mention all the ones that die enmass through no fault of their own while we chant on "God loves me".

I felt that pain from loss in your energy. I just did not want to say it straight cos e Don Tey I do this was it violent uncalled for death that hit close to home?
Anyhow, I have experienced things enough to say without doubt that there is a Force heading an unseen realm and we can only seek to know it. My opinion is that we humans don't know exactly what it is and how to connect anytime we want.

Good for her

LordReed:
I looked around and knew I could not in all honesty continue to defend my faith in light of our collective experience as humans. And the more I look critically at the claims of the bible and the bible itself he more problems arise so that I can't even think any of represents the word of a supreme, intelligent being.

I get where you are comming from. I personally know there is supreme force (God if you will) exists from personal experience although I know I would like to hook unto God's frequency more often ie be as close as a child or friend. I could (or used to be able to) connect to other people's energies (Used to test it out here on Nl but mods keep deleting after a few weeks) that makes me know things are possible. From me to you.... Believe it, there is something greater than us, maybe not the way we have been made to see or receive it. You prolly will be signalled at a point in time. God is real. There are God's but 1 supreme God head. Who is the leader of the unseen realm.

LordReed:
I don't believe there is any supernatural force or higher power that has any active interest in us and while I cannot categorically say such a being or beings do not/can not exist, I have seen no evidence that they do so I reserve belief (and of course is such beings become known belief is useless anyway).

Fair enough. Any thing pushed you to that belief or you just looked around and decided it was how you view it?

LordReed:
I understand but I don't believe. I don't believe anybody is hearing from any god.

Fair enough brother. Fair enough
Just curious tho, is it that you don't believe there is a God, or you think there is a higher force but it ain't God and it deff ain't interested in what we do here on earth or you just believe the earth just exists as its own entity and there is no higher force at play here it's just us and us alone no other dimension, extraterrestrial etc force at play?

Honestly you sound like some people who have lost a loved one to violence. They first go into the why me phse, then why the victim, then where was God when they were asking for the person's safe return then they go into the there can be no God mode.
Most times people go into the there is no God after experiencing or hearing someone lose experience bad things happen.

Funaki:
you're muddling everything up. Are you doing this intentionally? So people knew God less the more they're born? So Abraham knew God more than Moses, Moses knew God more than David, And they all knew God more than Paul and his other apostles . I told you earlier that what Moses wrote were types and shadows of what will later happen. He spoke of tabernacles, slaughter of lambs, the priesthood etc. They were all imagery of what the apostles explained in details in the new testament. If you read the bible, there was progressive revelation. People continued to "know" God the more they approach the new testament. There were things Moses couldn't explain that were later explained by David in his psalm or by Isaiah in his book. For instance, Moses never explained what happened to Satan. It was years later that Isaiah explained it. Moses didn't explain how the priesthood was talking about Jesus, It was David that saw the revelation. Even Jonah had more insight because he was very close to the time of Jesus. His 3 days and nights in the fish is a shadow of Jesus burial. Daniel and Ezekiel saw some very confusing visions. But when John saw it, it became clearer. Paul explained most of everything in the old testament except the concept of Jesus' priesthood that was explained by the writer of hebrews.

It'll be very dishonest to claim that Paul didn't have revelation as the old testament prophets. Paul brought about reformation to Christianity in his teachings and books. Peter and his colleagues wanted to continue the status quo until Paul came to the scene and brought clarity to everything. The early Christian doctrine were centered on Paul's teachings. That's why after the Acts 13 meeting, the book of Acts were totally focused on Paul till the end. Even Peter that was the leading disciple of Jesus that stayed with Jesus throughout his ministry testified to this.

2 Peter 3:15-16 KJV
And account that the longsuffering of our Lord is salvation; even as our beloved brother Paul also according to the wisdom given unto him hath written unto you; [16] As also in all his epistles, speaking in them of these things; in which are some things hard to be understood, which they that are unlearned and unstable wrest, as they do also the other scriptures, unto their own destruction.


It's been long I did this. But I can still remember bible hermeneutics.

If you read through my comments you will see that I never disproved the fact that Paul was inspired by the most high to share the gospel. He also made it clear that he also uses his human understanding to teach.

1 corinthians 9:19-23.
Though I am free and belong to no one, I have made myself a slave to everyone, to win as many as possible. 20 To the Jews I became like a Jew, to win the Jews. To those under the law I became like one under the law (though I myself am not under the law), so as to win those under the law. 21 To those not having the law I became like one not having the law (though I am not free from God’s law but am under Christ’s law), so as to win those not having the law. 22 To the weak I became weak, to win the weak. I have become all things to all people so that by all possible means I might save some. 23 I do all this for the sake of the gospel, that I may share in its blessings

Paul is whatever you want him to be as he made it clear in that chapter I quoted. He admits his human side and stated that he uses his judgement to preach depending on who he is speaking to

PeachtreeReside:
That women above 30yrs of age who give birth are most likely to do it via scam like the one in the thread.

An educated and learned person would know that due to a lot of factors women above 30 give birth without the need to resort to scams like this.

Even above 40 too.


Sorry if I came across rude with my first post but you make it sound like it's a death sentence or very unlikely to give birth even via natural means after 30yrs.

You are quick to conclude. I said tests should be carried out on women married for 30 yrs and suddenly give birth. not that it's impossible. If I say parents/spouses should look well and ask questions when their struggling kids/partners suddenly start making huge money, does that mean no one can make it huge at a sitting? My point is, make sure a woman is not missing her baby somewhere.
I will say it again..... When a woman who was barren for long in her husbands house and has hit menopause claims to have given birth without any IVF or a reputable professional medical intervention. esp in Naija where they see IVF, CS, adoption as a curse...... The govt should require them to have a reputable Dr verify their claims.

LordReed:
You were trying to say you don't know the mind of the god and were trying to use the argument that you don't always hear the god. I never said you always hear the god so it has no bearing on what we are saying which is, in the times were you claim to be inspired by the spirit, you know the mind of the god.

I still don't know God's mind sha. I might claim to hear from God but NEVER claim to know his mind. Gods mind , I don't believe it can be used in this context. You made it sound general. But if you insist that hearing or being inspired by God is knowing his mind as it concerns that ocassion then yes. At such times you can say its God's mind in that scenerio.
All of us can agree that we know the creator doesn't want us to steal, kill, bear false witnesses etc. So to an extent we all know "God's mind" even you. If that is what you are driving at.
My point is I wouldn't call what you are explaining as "knowing" God's mind. As in first of all, does God have a mind? It's deeper than we know in my opinion.
Anyone can always hear God, depending on your energy level, how you vibrate..... I believe you understand that part?

PeachtreeReside:
Waoh!

Please Google, proof read and subject your posts to proper scrutiny before you post .

Your point exactly? So I can Google, proof read and subject my posts.

LordReed:
Where did I say you always know someone's mind just out of one interaction?

Na wa o. Okay not always, occasionally. Is that better? Does it calm your nerves down now? What is the point you are even trying to prove exactly? Cos now I am scratching my head

Thank you.

psucc:
It is very simple and clear. Any Gov that will keep the killer herders must donate his community land to them. Nothing more nothing less.

After all north has the largest land mass, why the crave for for southern land?

So if he does, will you agree? na from that handshake dem go take grab una whole body.
Be wise when allowing your neighbour to sell his farm to your enemy. That means your enemy now is right at your doorstep. Don't chop off your your nose to spite your face. . You guys need to be smart. No Fulani will agree for his saboteur ruller to give his own land to their joint enemy. If una dey reason like this naim be say una Don die within 1 night

princeisah26:
Another reason you should stop the habit of buying used phone,phone without receipt..
Now the robbers will sell the phone for cheap price..
And the police will start tracking the phone..
I just pity the buyer shaa

He will lead them to the sellers which will lead to arrest.

tsinzu:
That doesn't look like bullet wound

Na shakabula. Like dane gun that hunters use. It releases pellets into the body. There are small pellets lodged under her skin.

mekuxiani:
do they still do police report for gunshot wounds

My brother, its such a shame that Naija in 21st century still requires gunshot victims to first go to police station to get clearance before they can receive life saving treatment. It is disgusting.

But it's okay if they decide to shut all bars within their jurisdictions, decide who cooks and eats in public places during fasts, Ban sale of alcohol in Their land, kill anyone who preaches in the open and the Fed gov chucks it up to..... "Please respect other people's religion and there will be peace" etc. If they can choose to do away with anything they feel affects their people and faith, why can't others also weed out what they feel affects their people negatively? No one said no Fulani should be seen in those states, they are against catles destroying lands and herders destroying lives.

LordReed:
Knowing someone's mind is a figure of speech and does not mean you can actually read a person's thoughts. Rather it means you have an idea of the direction of the person's actions or words or motivations. If the spirit is inspiring you with things that are not coming from your own knowledge then it is doing so from its own mind thus you do know what the mind of the spirit is because you can interpret those inspirations into action or words.

You can only hear/feel God speak as it concerns certain things when you get an inspiration in that circumstance not know God's mind. No figure of speach in this case in my opinion.
I can tell you to run in a certain circumstance and at another I can say stand and fight. If it happens that someone sees where I said stand and fight and uses that as a sign that he knows I will want him to fight in every situation as such that presents itself. Isn't that a wrong assumption? Does he really know my mind? That is why everyone is encouraged to know God personally. Cos one time you may be advised to stand, at another time you may be led to flee. It's a personal walk not a one size fits all thing. Build your own relationship. The foundation is the 10 commandments. Start from there and build up. The bible is a guide.