₦airaland Forum

ubunja:
you just a frustrated woman with nothing to offer but bitterness. and it's gonna get worse as you get older. I pity the fool of a man who will marry you. better you stay unmarried with your bitterness and spare another Human hell on earth.

When men spill hate for women it is coool and logical but when a woman says her own she is bitter

Somebody tell me..... How does this logic work?

Jayslicky:
were u raped? Is your father also among the 90%? Just asking a question.

Yinmu! I have said my own. Leave questions for JAMB. Bloody rapist generation!

Na American fire fighters for come extinguish am ni?

Nigerians hate each other sha. How can people do such an evil thing for personal gains? Now 2 have died and many injured just because of the Greed of a syndicate.

Over sexed generation. Everything must have sexual undertone to them. Tufiakwa. While they talk sex the serious minded people of the world are owning them and their descendants to come.

Haaaaa!!!! That teacher needs to be thrown in jail. No need to explain nothing.

It's in their DNA. I keep saying it.... Trust a Naija man with your child at your own risk. 90% of them are rapists, pedophiles and closeted gays. The rest 10% are normal. Just that evil overshadow good.

AnanseK:
Fulanis are said to be from Senegal and Igbos are Jews from Israel, so who is more illegal a west African or someone from the Middle East who is not even an African?

Africa is the father of all mankind. They deserve to be where they are living in peace with others than Senegalese migrants who spill blood at any slight provocation. I'd rather a non African live peacefully as my neighbour than my fellow African who desires to see me dead.

eni4real:
"The woman beat sense" by maiming her??
Sarcasm is not appropriate on this case.. . This is a 100% child abuse...

I expect feminist like you to blow hotter on this case! Evidence is staring at you!!! Evidence is staring at everyone.

See those beating marks sef. Wicked world!!!

That one is trying to see if he can become the next Nwamaipke of NL. Pay him no attention.

Atiku, get in touch with me let's discuss how to move Nigeria forward.

If say na APC person dem for do like say nothing happen. Kudos to PDP they did not hide the sin of their member.

Na so all of them be. Rules of Organised Religion and its enforcement are for the poor and disfavoured. The leaders commit worse taboo and perversion than anything else.

Many women Don throway good morals for gutter. Celebrating sexual promiscuity and popating Naija with children who deserve the peace and unity of a loving home and proud of it. Tufiakwa!!!

Which one be sex assault again na? Abi blogger meant to say sex shop assault ni?

hemartins:
so because she called you drunk you gave a series of slap.
When i saw the video, its just a case of an irresponsible man with power that thinks he can get away with anything.

las las
Nothing will be done to him. that's the country we find ourselves.

It wasnt her that called him drunk. He was reffering to the sales girl manning the counter. As they were about to attack the sales girl who placed a call to her father for not putting her phone down when she was being spoken to, the one he slapped asked him to take it easy .... That enraged him and he left the person he came for to attack the one that asked him to take it easy.

bigpriik:
how much has women contributed to civilization .how much did women contribute to the Independence struggle of Nigeria

We all have different roles don't let your anger make you feel like women never contributed positively to the society cos they did not wear boots and go to battle. There are women warriors in some African tribes..
Now, look at your family, if indeed you have a good family, do you think the role your mom played in raising you and your Sibblings, the role she played in your father's life and your community as a whole added nothing to your dads life and Nigeria as a whole? You believe that unless she is making a ton of money or wearing boots and going to battle front she isn't important to the society? Please be sensible and know that a good woman even though not a money making machine is invaluable to any society. Bad women on the other and are worthless but then you have to define what makes her bad cos even your best foot can be called bad by someone who doesn't like you.

bigpriik:
The society has brainwashed us the men into treating women like queens and babies while they treat us men like trash even though they depend on us for survival.I usually shake my head when I hear people say respect women,respect women my foot! you respect people who do not mind embarrassing you in public,people who add to your depression by calling you broke when you refuse to give in to their financial demands,people who cannot assist you financially in general people who do not care about your emotions people who do not mind disgracing or embarrassing you in public wat the f*****

I was really ashamed of my self yesterday when my friend ask me how much my babe has contributed to my life men absolutely nothing just sex time wasting.

In summary we men deserve whatever women throw to us while they deserve to the pampered
I keep saying women should be treated like adult human beings not like babies ...Ask yourself this question and be truthful do women respect men?why are you afraid of approaching a girl down the street?its because you fear being embarrassed by her which is very likely to human I have seen a guy being slapped just because he said hello to a lady,imagine if it was vice versa will the guy slap the lady answer that ,when a woman dumps a man nobody will question her rather they will blame the man but if a man dumps a lady they will call him playboy,they say he he used her to satisfy his sexual urge..bla bla bla...,if you embarrass a lady in public for stalking you,everybody will come for your throat both male and female but if its a lady they will all laugh inside life

sometimes I just think women are more of a punishment from nature than a helper I wish the world was all male with no penizz,I wish we could just reproduce like amoeva without sex
call me a misogynist I don't give a hoot.

swallows the red pill......

Everybody deserves respect. Any woman that does not respect a man will also not respect a woman. I detest loud, noisy obnoxious women. A disrespectful woman is more about her character than disrespect for a particular gender in my opinion.

OK o. I Don feel sorry for am sha. Just make sure you apologise to the woman you assaulted too.. I hope Nigerians move past this. After all they support religious leaders who live double lives claiming they are humans and can sin like everyone else. decieving members until they can deny it no more. Then they remember to err is human. Let's hope this madness doesn't happen often.

emeijeh:
Where is the video?


He has to compensate the woman

Here it is. Main drama starts at 4:29


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3Mx4Ugy_32s

Boyooosa:
No mind ffk, na rotten naughty boy licking an easterner widow asss..,

If he doesn't lick her rse is it you that will? When has being a widow become an insult?

jlinkd78:
This is really lesson for all our overzealous politicians. Having realised d video was all revealing and no hiding place for him he has suddenly beat a retreat and apologised. We d good people are saying that d apology is not enough . Tot he was grandstanding about his lawyer making a more detailed explanation but las las none exists. Shame to him, shame to his wife that came to his defence, shame to d gun wielding policemen that stood by and encouraged his power drive. If we all we unite on common courses that affect us all irrespective of political affiliation then d revolution we all yearn for might be closer than we imagine. Watching Sowore and Nnamdi Kanu in their joint statement shows we can all come together to hold our leaders to become accountability, d true gain in diversity of ideas.

I wish the woman will get legal counsel and sue him. This is her moment. She should just keep quiet and sue his arse if she can afford to.

JayEntaur:
A gentleman, you say? No gentleman would pick on a defenceless person like he did.

Also, if "Oga, take it easy" provoked him to pummel her to that extent, then he urgently needs anger management classes.

Ignore that one. He did not watch the video yet he has drawn his own conclusion that the woman insulted or provoked the man.

His yeye is smelling. That is what he should have done earlier instead of saying he will make his own great reveal claiming he was also assaulted and beaten blue black before he lost it and fought back. He goat.

Artzdanielsz:
No be so pastors and Iman dey cram the part that benefits them.?

Na so

senbonzakurakageyoshi:
Exactly! If there was no evidence, half of Nairaland would be saying "she probably caused it", "she's just lying to bring the man down", "it doesn't make any sense, she's accusing him for publicity".

The righteous misogyny!

Gbam! Some will say a man can never just hit a woman. That if it happens it cos the woman was rude and manner less.
That guy is a disgrace and unfortunately there are many like him.

That video shows otherwise. That man needs to keep shut for now. He should stop digging the hole he already is in. Wisdom is scarce.

@OP in this life you have to remember that those who hurt you do so cos you left an opening whether deserved or not. Life is a game, the earlier you realise and start seeing that when all fails, only you can make you happy the better for you.

1 lesson have taught my kids is.... No one can make you happy unless you decide to be happy and vice versa. Even if a person buys you the world unless you operate on the same frequency you still won't be happy with that person. Granted you will love the gifts but not the person. Same way you should not allow anyone make you sad for long. It's okay to be disappointed but please don't allow the disappointment turn to sadness.
That is the difference between those who fall down and get right up and those who fall and find it difficult to rise up through no fault of others but their own broken heart. Your husband is just 1 man yet you have allowed his actions to impact almost every area of your life. Stop it. In everything note that people have gone through worse and battled till the end. Let's thank God he is not violent to the extent of hurting you for leaving him. This means you have the opportunity to evolve and emerge a winner.

Like some advised, go to your principal and tell her what you are passing through (enough info for your comfort don't give unconnected info and don't give info that look lije half story) . Tell her you are ready to let the past go and bounce back to work. Do it before they reach their final decision. Hopefully it will impact positively on the outcome.

Owiii:
I'm not married though but your mistake was working in a different town from your husband. It give serious room for cheating. If a man takes 4 - 6 months before coming to see you and the children except he is a military office or something, that should have been a red flag that he is doing something outside. How often do you go to visit him? Please don't go to your parents house as it would make things worse.

Sometimes it's the men who move from family to work in other state. Sometimes in life, we have to be away from loved ones for economic or social reasons... Self control is the word here. Self control and a desire to be with the ones you love at any given opportunity.
You people make it look like cheating just happens out of the blue. Unless you have made up your mind to cheat or you are dissatisfied with your present partner in 1 way or another, cheating doesn't just happen by chance even drunk people know what they are doing. Only those that are drugged don't.

dingbang:
have you been over banged before

No. But I can Imagine how a woman can be over banged she will run out and recommend a second wife for her husband. No be rice o.

Oh well, power corrupts. When you have power you can order your orderlies to take someone and lock them up for not greeting you first.

If she smart she should keep quiet and when the drama is over sue the Dick Tigger for physical assault.

dingbang:
being banged and being drunk ain't same sister.

Being over banged is worse. I agree with you.