₦airaland Forum

Queenlovely:
I will never condemn him. Because I don't know about his upbringing. I don't know his shortcomings, I don't know how he is desperately trying to better his lot in society.

I blame the country. If they had given him something to live for he would have Been better off. One thing lead to another. So rip my brother

Yeah, say that when a group of them storm your privacy, Rob you, possibly beat and rape you.

The reason is because people don't trust APC like they used to. So to broaden his chances he wants to stand as a clean party

bitcoinmilliona:
My wife always tells her family all the details that happen in my home even the very messy quarrels. She spills our deepest secrets to the public when there is an issue. One of the times my father said he was very disappointed at me when i cheated once. This makes her family build resentment towards me and my father filled with worry. When I visit they all are never free and im isolated. This in return make me feel uncomfortable with my inlaws and also dislike my wife. Now we have anoder family meeting i knw messy details wont be spared. What should i do? I feel like running away i swear. Marriage is so much stress

Marriage is not so hard the problem is people marry people who are not in agreement with them.

Old men no want leave leadership to younglings. When. He is done, his kids would take over.

Bakrabas:
It's not possible for Muslims to attack fellow Muslims brothers. This is an attempt to reduce the population of Muslims throughout the world. We know the people behind this hoodlums. They did the same thing to reduce the Muslims population in the North East... Either they like it or not Islam is coming to prevail. The more they persecute Muslims the more the religion skyrocket. We know them, the world would not see them as terrorist, the media are not helping the situation. Had it been that the attack was launched on them, the topic on the front pages of newspapers would be like "Muslim terrorist killed hundreds in Egypt left thousands wounded"

We know them, if the Federal government make any move for the betterment of the nation, they will say "FG is on the verge of Islamising Nig" they forgot that the Muslims in Nigeria have been under their religion lifestyle since their colonial mentors colonised Nig

Muslims didn't complain of Red Cross as the hospital logo

Muslim didn't not complain the holidays given to them on their worship days i.e Sunday and Saturday

No holiday for Muslims on Friday o... Awon alabosi.

Yinmu!!!!! did Aisha The prophet's wife not fight the battle of the Carmel? Were they not both Muslims? Did they not kill each other? So please stop talking as if the rest of us are ignorant. Muslims fight against each other.

Speachless.

Transformation complete!

Bail ke? They will use her to teach wives with straying eyes husbands a lesson so that they will think twice before killing someone's child.

Bester44:
I'm thinking maybe a legal clause exist to prevent such unforeseen unfortunate occurrence.

Well, the if they can, the school has to prove that the child left their custody and that the parents had no problem with the child leaving school unaccompanied. Otherwise the parent has to prove that the school is responsible for their child safety ie if a toddler walks out of school compound without anyone's notice then the parent has every right to sue the school. But for a child that is known to go home alone and the parents did not object to it, the parent has to prove beyond reasonable doubt that the school knows what happened or is responsible for what happened to that child. That is to the best of my limited knowledge tho.

Bester44:
If a pupil leaves the school and get kidnapped, and his parents ask the school to produce their child, what is the preemptive step to take during admission?

Hian! Maybe insist the parent come pick up their wards or install a CCTV at the gate.

IBBG:
lol. which people are you referring to? is it the ones tribalism has destroyed their sense of reasoning. every nigerian thinks of his tribe first before even thinking of nigeria as a country. when charlie boy was protesting for our good, is it not same us that was bashing him and calling him names?

You talk true Sha.

bezimo:
Atiku isn't my favorite but given the option of choosing between Him and Bingohari.
Atiku will definitely have my vote..we don't want any daft religious and ethnocentric person as our president again.

That was how they voted Buhari in. You don't have to vote Atiku. Nigerians need to wake up and stop acting like helpless people. Say NO to both of them if you do not feel they are capable.

IBBG:
whether you come to vote or not government still continues. they will still declare results whether it is only person that voted. If buhari is still contesting, the only candidate that can defeat him right now is atiku. and between the both of them, i'll cast mine for atiku, because he is more competent than in issues of the economy than buhari.

Then let the people stand up and say NO. Power lies in the hands of the masses. Don't fall for that cheap scam of helplessness. They made you feel that way. In truth the masses decide who they want. That is what democracy is. When they force someone on you, it is no more democracy.

It's like a rich mans son who doesn't know that the whole property belongs to his father and in essence he has right over them but due to his ignorance he is pushed around by the house help his father hired to take care of the property.He is being abused and treated badly by this house help but He thinks it's better to lay low so that the house boy doesn't get mad and chase him out. If only he knows that he has authority over the house boy would he have endured hardship?

Aren't they all?

IBBG:
you are correct. i will glad ly vote an atiku over buhari, because of competence sake.

You don't have to vote in any, let Nigerians stand up and demand for someone they trust. Let us stop acting like we have no choice in our own destiny. We have the power not them. If we think Atiku isn't what we want, we should not say oh well.... Better him than Buhari. Rather let is say NO to both and make sure we do not come out to vote NONE of them. The people play the victim when they have all the power

ghostfacekillar:
I got married about 4 years ago to a lady i courted for about 2 yrs. since then we’ve not had a child, and it has naturally become a source of worry as my parents have not hidden their concern at all.

Now, as a born again christian, I believe in totality that children come from God and he alone gives at his time, but I also know that the bible commands us to ask, seek and knock and that he that asks, receives. But my frustration in this whole thing is the wife I married.

Firstly, for strange reasons, ten months after marrying her, I lost my job of 12yrs, and since then I’ve been struggling to make ends meet. I must thank God for his goodness and mercies all the way. At least there has been no reason to beg anyone.

Secondly, she has strangely refused to support any effort I try to make for progress. She sees things differently with no better alternative to bring on the table and each time I go ahead, she wants it to fail. she’s a graduate who has also refused to do anything for flimsy reasons, not liking a business type, lack of interest with her certificate, not even to teach as an educationist. And for these reasons, we have remained almost always at loggerheads.

Thirdly, in an effort to find solution to our childlessness, she has frustrated every bit of the attempts. She has refused us exhausting medical options insisting that the problem is spiritual. And on the spiritual options, she has been half- heartedly involved. My parents invited us for prayers with a man of God,we got there on my insistence at least to honour them and she ended up embarrassing everyone including my parents as she vehemently refused to stay back for prayers as advised by the Man, and even accusing me of ganging up with them! That was Oct last year. Even if she didn’t believe the man as she claimed, i thought she should have been polite and respectful about it..

Needless to say, my parents have been hurt with her actions since then and wish I can just divorce her. Most frustrating for me is that presently, I’m observing a month long fasting and prayer period.

Even though she claims to be fasting and praying too, she has refused to go with me for prayers in Church for once. Please advice me on what to do as various thoughts keep running through my mind…

I am still very young and i think letting a woman who’s mindset is far below my ambitions will be doing harm to my future. my friend snd this to me. help him

Okay, I have read through and I believe your problem is lack of communication before marriage. you did not encounter problems while dating her so I do not believe she has bad luck as such.
As for the medical treatment, maybe she is afraid her secret would be exposed if she submits to medical examination

You two should see a marriage counsellor. not a sexist one o. cos most pf them out there are just out to cause more difficulty.

Ritualist taxi, Keke and bus are playing our roads these days. Mber months are here again.

Their jail Don full ni? Drop her in jail.

idom101:
Please I need your advice,
I am a young guy, am about getting married I need every information before I get in there.

What is the best way to handle finances as couples?

Matured advise please

Both of you should know your income if you both work or if only one of you works it doesn't matter. It is considered FAMILY income.

Every month end or week, agree on a budget and savings plan and enforce it.

If she knows how much you have to spend as a family she is less likely to demand above your means that is if you are marrying a normal somebody o

UbanmeUdie:




If he likes, let him turn his head upside down to draw more of those caricature with eye pencils.

He is definitely not as good as Uncle T the legendary anatomy lecturer at college of medicine, Ambrose Alli University, Ekpoma.

Weldome faithful student. Uncle T would be proud of you.

SalamRushdie:
I always advice every woman never to give up the man they truly love for any opprtunistic woman, stay there and fight till your man comes to hia senses , dont make it easy for any mumu witch to take the love of life with ease ..These days I see women give up their homes because of common text they see in their husbands phones thereby making it too easy for opportunist stealer women to have their way ..Yes your husband will definitley get infatuated by a strange woman in course of your love journey but remembet those infatuation spells have short term span and could be over from 3 weeks to year but most women just easily give up to fight to keep their man at the sight of the first text message and thats how love stories are being spoilt daily in our generation .. Women don make it easy for scheming women to steal your man just like that.

Well, if they all get the price for their foolishness, no woman would have to fight. The fear of leaving the known for the unknown would keep such men focused. No woman should fight. Leave him, let him go and taste the wahala. He will use his mouth to advice his son in the future.
Same way they tell women to endure the devil they know because the one they are jumping on may be worse and it has kept women in check for loooong!
Y'all are the reason men don't take you serious. Would a man fight so hard if he knows you banging another man outside? Would he say I love her soon much I will keep fighting for her? It may happen but hardly does. Why should a woman accept morraly bankrupt men? you feel it doesn't matter because you are just a woman afterall.

Women wahala. Let me sit and think if a full blooded Naija man (who was good and kind to his wife only to be dumped) would write such tribute for a wife who abandoned him for new di.ck only to be killed by the new flame.


Ta!!!! Which Kain tribute? All man would say.... She deserved it. She left a good man and she paid for her loose morals. Even if the ex was beating her sef, people would still say why did she jump ship? Why did she not endure? Me sef, I am feeling like that in this matter.

All these mourners who can't mourn without soliciting social media likes. It's well.

ireayomide2015:
I saw this beautifful machine made in china on the internet, I have studied it, researh on it, I think is what I can do and the material needed is here. My questions are
1. have I commited anything against the law if I make my own for commercial use with little changes.

If eventually I succeeded can it be patent?

Please no abuse am a technical personand I believe that anything can be done..

To patent it, you must make sure that the original designer did not patent his own or you recreate your own and exchange some very critical part or item the original creator has patented with your own. Example, if someone patents a particular oil powered battery using WiFi to connect and charge phones you can use the same WiFi idea and patent a water powered battery design. So yes they both use wifi but the means of power makes them unique.

I do not think it is bad to make and sell it as long as you do not use the original creators name, logo and brand and claim it as yours . Just like cars and other inventions, people copy and recreate their own designs.

4kings:
Wirinet and Delishpot i think your advice is needed here.

BeeBeeOoh:




11years old girl gulping 54years old deek with courage






Angel Michael abeg where your trumpet dey

What are you saying na? Are you mistaking this for the jokes section ?

See money making venture. It's okay o. Let's hope the money raised would be spent well.

thorpido:
What kind of anaesthesia did she take?Was it General Anaesthesia?

Me I don't know. She just told us she woke up and was crying. She said they(medical staff attending to her) knew that she was feeling it (pain); and they told her she had to endure that they could not give her more medication. I did not probe further the story tire me. We just happy say she survived. Although she said the pain would last in her memory forever.

Good news

kingthreat:
I like the Yomi Fabiyi guy sha. Good for all these upcoming actresses that cant act. When the producers realize you are talentless, they look for other talents in you. And since you dont want to share the other, please get the hell out of my car.

Very false belief. They don't care about talent, they place babes who "open" in leading roles not necessarily those who have talent. It's just like contracts in govt organisation, they don't care what quality you bring, they care about what kickback you bring.

Let us not cover evil because we hate the victim. If he truly did what she alleged then he did wrong. Let's not coat poison with sugar.

nonut:
Baby wife indeed. She was married as a second wife and the religion she practices encourages more than two wives, yet she's jealous of what we don't know.
If the first wife was wired the same way she was, she may not even have a husband to stab.
If you're a woman and you're married to a Muslim, be ready for a second wife, if the man chooses.
If Ahmed Musa can do the same in London, the silly woman should have known better.

She needs jail time.

coluka:
She's actually a 2nd wife if I read the story correctly. If she didn't want to share, why marry a man who is already married then cause discord between him and his first wife, family and friends. I think that woman is just a wicked soul.

I did not say otherwise. I said some women are not coming to be co wives to younger wives. They either want you all to themselves or want to Lord it over the existing wife. They don't want rival is that strange concept to you?