₦airaland Forum

So your woman who already has two kids for you decides to ask that you make the Union legal and formal, you decided to go steal money. Such a woman should not care about big wedding sef. She would just be happy that you have finally carried drink to see her father.
If we all start stealing when we are pressed eg to pay children's school fees, elderly parents medical bills, food for kids etc how would this world be? Anyways, he has to give reason for what he did and so he gave one. God help us

YabaLeftist:
She flaunts her mom a lot on the Internet that you begin to wonder if she's proud of her Nigerian papa at all. No single picture of the popsy.

Who knows you may or may not be right. But for now, she is sharing this cos its her moms birthday not her her dads.

cinoedhunter:
After ppl will be complaining that she was unjustly arrested...

People complain about the legal aspect of things. Yes today it is Kemi that the law wiuld be twisted to detain unjustly and people cheer the action of the lagal system because they hate kemi but dont forget that someone who hates you tomorrow( for any reason at all not related to Kemis manners) may also use that law against you and then who would fight for you? We are not fighting for Kemi, we are fighting for all of us, our children and friends not be victims of that same bribable law. If a rapist can be granted bail some even set free after a fine of #50-#500 k what has kemi done that she could not be fined and warned from speaking evil against others? Lets work with the truth not sentiments where our National law is concerned. It may be us someday.

Lloydfather:
Sheyi u have just shown ur enemy ur weak side, (low esteem, & not been proud of ur daughter). Why will u remove the lovely girl pics and videos? Because some foolish animals speak negative thing about her and u think they are right, see my dear u have one of the best daughter ever, I have a son who has the same stature like ur daughter while growing up, his's 4yrs this year believe me he has come down like toyin lawani son now, who told u she wouldn't come down? That is lie from the pit of hell mark my word before her 2yrs birthday u will understand what an saying. Be happy for ur girl and her mum.

I don't have twitter I would have send this msg to u direct, but if u come across it here on nairaland, Lloydfather says bros u have a beautiful family and we ur fans love u.

Less I forgot my advice is u should stop responding to negative comments about u or family in the future. God bless u, God bless Tiwaoluwa, God bless ur wife, & God bless us all.

He did not say he will remove her photos. He said his fans would still see her photos and videos. At least, that was what I concluded from his writeup

She isnt fat. Her cheeks are fat but it seems to be in the genes. She will lose them soon.

GeneralOjukwu:
Hmmm...Mr Julius Beggar, so all the money you got begging for your late registration is spent on browsing threads like this on Nairaland?

Delishpot....hope you can see this

I see it sir

pryme:
Well in my case I will happily give my phone to my girlfriend cos I have nothing to hide, and more so there will be this exhilarating feeling that comes when you make your girl know she can trust you (well am speaking for myself).

I feel those that have nothing to hide all will only feel more self worth.

But I want to ask will you blame him? Take a look at the world we live in today

Well, it could be nice to happily give her once but if she makes it a habit to not trust you then there may be problems. Cos in the case of perternity you will not do it for only 1 but for every child she has given you. So its like your babe asking to see your phone or fuel guage or any such things every time you go out and come back one day you go tire na. And it is a bit embarassing when she has it in mind that you prolly always cheat when she isnt with you. I dont see how any sane man woukd be hapoy to prove his fidelity every time he cones home. I did not say it is bad for a mans curriousity to make him want the DNA test o. I only said just prepare incase of incasity.

Think of it this way, would a man be offended if his wife insists on looking into and having access to his phone if the info in his phone can not be deleted after reading or sending messages? Answer is YES he will. Even though he may be innocent of her suspicions.He would be sad that she doesnt trust him right? So yes, I believe women would be offended and sad that their husbands suspects them of infidelity. Although the innocent ones would be vindicated. Only that I do not know how that marriage would work after that o. Cos the woman esp the innocent ones would feel really insulted by that act and even though they may continue in the marriage but a deep hole of resentment has been dug in her heart. It is a big deal for most women when their husbands believe they might have brought in another mans baby.
If you must do it, dont tell her. And be sure you are ready to handle the matter properly because innocent kids are involved here.

He has been visited.

Hian! He doesnt want western education? I am sure he was afraid of the power such education would give his wife. Many men fear the same too. They stop wives from going to uni so that they woukd control her through finances. These are the ones that fight against women empowerment.

Tell her how you feel. Tell her she is pushing you to do the act outside and you are worried she may break the hone.
That aside, how do you treat her? Many women are not sexually attracted to men who treat them badly(in their opinion) its like a nagging bad wife commingvtovask you for sex. Many men woukd be turned off by such women too. So oga, go fix your home. Both of you shoukd seek counseling. Such things are not what anyone can just resolve online. I can even counsel you guys FOC if you want it doesnt have to be physically. We can chat on skype or meet some elder you both trust to handle the case maturely without making her feel like her voice was not heard rather they tell her to overlook her own complaints becaise she is a wife and do as you say or make you feel unheard too and both of you must be ready to put in good effort. that is if you dont see the effort as a challenging one that you can resolve easily by having sex with someone outside your marriage

Thought they said only women abuse step kids? That men never behave badly in families unless pushed to the wall by their wives? This mentality needs to stop. Any human cab be evil we all need to watch out! I keep saying it men abuse step kids and their own kids(in many cases)as much as the female folks. The only diff is that women do physical bodily harm which is easily noticeable and reported while men abuse them sexually which most victims keep to themselves hence we do not hear about it except it le(a)d to pregnancy and even then it is barely made public. Many physically abused kids grow up and say it but the sexually abused ones hardly say it even after they grow up. All those sexists take note. The fight is not a sexist war but a battle to notice and help abused victims.

NLbetterchild:
The deadline date was shifted to 19th of July Cus of an excursion the NESA students had today

Good for you bro . I have replied your mail.

lofty900:
my dear ask ursef this question. How come Jesus saved an adulterous woman who was about to be stoned to death but left John the Baptist?? The fact is that John the Baptist had completed his mission on earth which was to announce the coming of the Messiah and baptize him. Of course Jesus was saddened by his death and the bible recorded how Jesus went away by himself to be alone after he heard what happened to John the Baptist but the truth is that, John should have mind his business. Jesus was also a preacher during the time of John the Baptist. He knew what herod was doing but was clever enough not to interfere. I admire ur bible knowledge though

Tjat question is what you should ask yourself. Howcome he saved tge one that crossed her boundry but not the ones that were killed for the kingdoms sake? Stop twisting the bible. John finished his mission and was killed afterwards. If not, john would have died sooner even before Jeaus came along because I am sure that method of speaking the truth without fear or prejudice has been his nature before Jesus came for baptism. Do you think John was the only prophet that was killed because of what he spoke against the king and people of the land? Do you mean to say God did not save all the prophets who were killed becaise the crossed boundries? Biko stop. A self tittked MOG is a serial adulterer Nigerians say he is human but when real MOG is killed for speaking about Gods work and correcting even the kings and rullers of their evil deeds, you say he crossed boundry. What kind of bakward biblical teaching is that?

Oga, if you uplift Nigerians, who would be hailing twale to the polithiefciaans? Who would they pay #200 to for votes? You want pour sand sand in their garri?

Easy solution. To clear all doubt that the baby was not switched they should go for DNA test. If the baby is related to the wife but not the husband BUSTED! If the baby doesnt belong to any of them then the hospital should be trced and action taken to recover their real baby.

lofty900:
David was a man after God's heart, he had great relationship with God even better than most prophets so forget about the tittle of 'prophet'. John the Baptist made a mistake by interfering in matter that did not concern him. He had no business condemning king herod because of his choice of wife. That's herod's business! So when he made the mistake and got imprisoned, Jesus knew he would be killed but did nothing because he crossed his boundaries

He was not a prophet. She asked about prophets not about people who God loves. Forget about tge title of prophet? Who anointed David to be king? A prophet The role of a prophet in those days was never toyed with. David WAS NOT A PROPHET!
John the baptist did not make a mistake. He spoke the truth as many prophets do when they see evil. They speak and sometimes have to run away and hide because those whom they speak against are looking for them to kill them. Jesus did not ignore anyone what a blasphemy!!! . Even on the cross Jesus said My God my God why have you for saken me? Does that mean jesus also crossed his boundries hence God forsook him? Stop twisting the bible. That same Bible mentioned God saying he has sent many prophets but they got killed by men whose hearts are hardened. God never complained that they got killed because of what they did but rather because men couldnt handle the truth told of their evil lives. If God forsakes us for crossing boundries I am sure even you would not be here today.

lofty900:
Same way John the Baptist made a mistake by cost him his head and Jesus refused to help him, same way David made the mistake of snatching someone's wife, etc. All humans are prone to mistakes so long as we remain in this mortal bodies and the whites who brought Christianity to us understand this.

David was not a prophet and what he did was not a mistake but a sin which he repented from and did not repeat again. He was not a serial wife snatcher like most of the hypocrites calling themselves MOG just for the benefits that title brings. John the baptist did not make any mistake that cost him his head. Stoo twisting the gospel.

That is not the answer to that question. A serial fornicator, wife beater, pedophi.le, drug pusher, religious merchandise seller, do as you want dont worry God still loves you person that hides under the cloak of MOG should not be over looked. The small mistakes some genuine MOG make are not what makes them false. A MOG that maybe uses some church fund to buy a new suit or collects tithe without knowing its proceeds from crime etc we can say is a mistake a spouse deciding to leave a MOG because they cant cope with the pressure of the flock I would somehow understand with the said MOG( as long as Adultery of the prophet is not the main reason the spouse is leaving. you cant force a spouse to stay) But a serial sinner who has been doing oposite of what he preaches for donkey years and would have gone on doing it if he wasnt exposed is not just human. He is a false prophet. Even the bible warns that people should not follow them. If it did not matter the bible would not have asked believers to zest the spirit and not fall for the false prophets who would come in Gods name. It would have just said overlook and keep following them.

NLbetterchild:
Bro if you can help me I'm going to really appreciate

Send me a mail. Sorry for the late response. I slept off If you can find someone to lend you so that you do not miss out on the deadline, please do so for now judging by the time left.

NLbetterchild:
He requested i drop my bank details which I did an hour ago still waiting to get a feedback from him

Did he get to you yet?

Hypocrites

But an old top govt official had a thr€€some and many people gave him a pat on his back. Hypocrites full Naija.

NLbetterchild:
He requested i drop my bank details which I did an hour ago still waiting to get a feedback from him

Ok. Hope he does as promised. Goodluck.

NLbetterchild:
Not at all someone asked me to change my moniker he'll assist me

Its all good. He wil help you with the money or with the moniker?

connectpoint:
It's the spirit of the new generation o..Senseless evil

The thing dey weak person. Thinking of the future our children would contend with or even us sef. The thing dey tire person at this rate in 30 years person no go even safe for house sef.

iamrealdeji:
shouldn't you have known I said most of it is caused by the way girls dress and I didn't say all. this woman's case could have been some set up or maybe those guys were high on codeine,cocaine,meth,weed or any of those rubbish your daddy gets high on whenever he wants to rape. where did I remind any victim of their abuse. you're the one that keeps reminding them by calling everyman rapist since you want them to get raped once against

Hahahaha, you don carry start again o. You called me a rape victim na. And I said so what of I was.? Did I say every man is a rapist? NOT ALL MEN ARE RAPIST OOOO. Hahahahahah abeg no kill me with laugh jor. See you were busy insulting and calling names on the the person who said rape is a "no no" no matter what! And I asked if you were a rapist to challenge him for saying that. Na bad question? If someone says God punish all violent armed robbers anf another person insukts him for saying that....wouldnt you think the person insukting him must be a criminal too?

connectpoint:
You're right..I believe you... What's in a 50 year old woman to desire for young men it beats my imagination

Many mad people dey this world bro. Some would not do it directly but produce victims to be abused. Some would cover up for the criminals while some want to do the crime. Na differents stages of evil.

NLbetterchild:
A good heart here should help me with 5k to pay for my faculty and departmental fee which is ending tomorrow please. After tomorrow it's going to be increased to 15k,Please Nairalanders help me

Why create a new NL acct for this? You shy or embarasses? Abeg dont be.

connectpoint:
It's common in New York these days...I thank God for her life..the one that happened to a white lady earlier this year, after raping her they killed her...in fact two ladies died this same way this year...they were raped in ..what do they call those public spot.. but the sh*t is why take a gun scare people only to rape a lady in broad day light.. they could have easily offered money and interested people would offer them sex in xchange...

They are mentally sick people. Just like pedos who seek out kids to prey upon some men go for rape as a form of terrorising and puting fear in people. To them its just the way it is.

connectpoint:
My brother how can i support such evil tendencies...I'm not supporting it oh.. Kongi or no Kongi, no man has the right to take from a woman without her permission...sex should be consensual so i didn't imply that they had any right to do that to her

Its all good bro. No hard feelings.