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ashantigirl83:
I just feel like my life is a bad dream.

My mother was diagnosed with stage 3 lung cancer in July 2014 and given 1 year to live.

Thank GOD, she defied doctors and is still here almost 3 years later.

However, the cancer had spread to the bone and brain. Although they were able to 'cure' the cancer in the bone/brain, the one in the lung remains and still growing.

Therefore they have stopped treatment and said she only has months e.g. 3 months to live. This was in Jan 2017.

I feel like we are being punished. We have made mistakes in the past and repented, but I feel like we are being punished.

I am sad and angry at God, there are people who have done worse - those evil politicians etc and they are enjoying their life whilst a mother is just trying to train her kids and enjoy her life quietly (her children - I am oldest age 23, middle child age 21 and youngest age 18) with her husband (my dad)

I am confused, look at those girls who had children as a teenager or at a young age out of wedlock - should I have joined them so that my mother would have been able to see my kids and hold her grandchild? I am angry, bitter and jealous of a girl who is my age and had a baby out of wedlock age 20, her mother and grandmother are alive to see that child..whilst I am still a virgin age 23, and my mother is terminally ill only expected to live a few months and not see my children/her grandchildren - who gained?

I still have hope in God, as since November 2016 they were saying she only has weeks but she is still here, but now they said months in Jan 2017.

She has made 'some' progress considering her situation, e.g. she used to have seizures up to 5 times in one day but after many prayers the seizure has stopped on itself. She could not walk, and was on wheelchair - but now after many prayers and annointing oil she can walk and climb stairs. She seems to be having a sharper memory and she looks very healthy, but she still has that diagnosis over her and is still very unwell.

I feel like dying because I feel like my life is falling apart! Like we are cursed! Our enemies will be happy and those who have been jealous of my families previous success will be secretly happy if she dies.

Yesterday, I felt like breaking down - I am not from a rich family at all, but yesterday my dad paid a herbalist £1,500 which is 591,997.58 Nigerian Naira because we are desperately searching for alternative treatments as the doctors have given up on her. £1,500 is no joke, we are not rich at all and I know he suffered to get that money but we are desperate, and the man looks like a 419 but we are desperate.

This shame is too much, look what we have been reduced to!


I was originally catholic but now have joined redeemed and another church aswell as my catholic so I am currently running up and down going to 3 different churches aswell as praying at home. Plus trying to study for my final exams but finding it hard to concentrate.
My life is a mess,please help me

If my mum dies it is either because
1. God is not a good God and he let her die. Spare me that BS about if she dies its for the best and God knows best, what can be best about an 18 year old boy losing his mother? A mother who don dey sow sow sow and neva fit reap?

2. God is not real... and I have been living and defending a lie my whole life, and I have no divine protection...

So sorry sister. I will join you in prayer. What is moms name? Her first name. So that those of us who want to pray with you can know. It is a sad thing to watch ones parent die(I know, because I lost both my parents)
I shall pray with you . May her health be restored.

When she Don spend am finish ba? Why not return the balance when she first noticed that having money made her sad? Why wait till she spent it all before she realized that fact?

Gaara101:
If I remember correctly, it was a bloodless coup. So what are you saying?

Well, I did not say he entered through a bloody coup. He entered through coup, and left through coup is what I clearly said. Should I say he entered through coup and left through democracy? Besides, his hands ain't clean too. He may enter through a bloodless coup, but one ex military govt was executed for gross misconduct on his order when he entered office. That is blood. Maybe not a multitude but it is still blood. I am not here to judge him, but the military back in those days we're not a gang of I want clean hands.

Sad news

logica:
How many were killed when Murtala came to power in 1975?

He was not a part of the coup directly. He only agreedbto save their necks (cos he knows the price one pays for failed coup attempt) if they failed . But he entered office through a coup and left office through a coup.
One person was killed.
Ask any Army General what would happen if a coup attempt goes wrong ESP if the leader removed has very loyal officers behind him.
Coup are ussualy bloody. Even Murtala had blood in his hands. He it was if I am not mistaken was a strong influence in Northern soldiers killing igbo soldiers before the biafra war.

DIKEnaWAR:
Murtala was a killer and a ruthless one at that. Read your history young fella.

He also entered through a coup. He left the way he came in.

logica:
Really?

Yes... if the ploters succeed, they kill all those loyal to the disposed leader to avoid regrouping and fight back. If they fail in their coup attempt, they all die. They and anyone loyal to them to avoid any future regrouping and re attempt. Both sides, winners and losers would draw blood. The victims would depend on whose side they are in the coup.

tonyx4x44:
The last story is very tragic and touching. why the speedy executions? Nigeria has always been a zoo... Not a country...

Okay, jokes apart, military coup is always bloody

I talked but I changed my mind. I focus on what is on ground.

OP, that Wya's surviving son said he suspects foul play. That his mom never killed herself. He also said his uncle in the Navy died a month or so under uncertain circumstance after the government killed his dad.
So first they killed wya, a month and half later, they killed Wya's brother who was a naval officer then a few months later the mom died in a car crash. His siblings are still alive. He said she was going to visit her family members when the accident happened. He doesn't believe she killed herself.

AlvanT:
bro no be small thing,everything I learn I keep it secret cos I come from a core Christian family, my quest for knowledge eeh? as for the unkempt side it just that I'm an introvert and can stay days just reading and thinking and "being one with nature"...a little dirt won't hurt will it?

I'm obsessed with metaphysics,I'm an art student but do you know how much I know about quantum mechanics? lol.knowledge won't drive me loco but if that's the price so mote it be!!!

Well, I understand where you are coming from. It would be nice to get together and form a group with people of like minds. That way, you would have place to go and be with people who think like you.
All in all, be careful and hopefully you find wisdom.

coolesmile:
Mtshew you want to sell it not give.

I almost called your number until I saw the price.

Awoof still Dey naija?

So, the Mopol is working with Fulani men or..... I don't get it. The old man died, material was reported to the police, then the fulanis also have casualty, then the Mopol carried them along for a house to house check?
Eye for am eye makes the world blind.

abumeinben:


This is Nigeria...

You divorced and he should call. Una don spoil like Sokoto beans

In those days when woman leaves her husbands house due to some wahala, ESP if the man was at fault,
The woman's dad sends messages to the mans family. He then gathers his family to go and beg her dad to let her return. Then both families settle the matter. The father of the bride advices his daughter and her mom talks to her and the mans family also talk to him. After that, they decide if the wife should go with the man that same day or give a date when he should come pick her. Na so Dem Dey do am before.
The only time the woman's family goes to beg is if she was caught cheating on him. As in red handed o. Not Dem say Dem say.
But cultural differences may be at play here.

But Tonto was wrong in cutting off ties. How would yshe block him and expect him to call nanny? Or does he always insult her when he calls her phone hence she asked him to call his care taker when ever he wants to ask after the child to avoid tension between them?
If he asks for visitations would Tonto grant him? Does he know where she lives to enable him visit the child? Too many factors at play.
Oh well, I guess we all handle emotional stuff differently. Men and women can be irrational after a breakup. One man did his to the extent of even asking the kids teachers not to allow his ex wife visit her kids. He wouldn't pick her calls and wouldn't let her visit them in school or at church. Tomorrow he would also tell them their mom doesn't care about them that she abandoned them.

AlvanT:
It might seem odd to you but when ever I embark on esoteric knowledge and practices I am no longer myself again,I'll feel detached and I can go unkept for days just "talking to myself" as others observed. I temporarily paused not to go loco but I'm heading back now full time.

You are going loco pal. Abeg take am easy.

Ishilove:
I think it means antidote... I stand corrected.

Ẹrọ is antidote/relief I believe. My source? Yoruba movies

Missed opportunities or near success sydrom may be the cause of such dreams. That is, when garri comes, water would be scarce when water comes the sugar and garri has been taken to neighbours house to look for water, when the garri and sugar returns without water because neighbour no Dey house, the person offering water has given it to someone else. OP, are you experiencing such? You see the goal but something stops it it from being fulfilled. Not that you fail at it o. You don't even get to start it.
Na question o. I ain't saying it must be the case.

I smell Ritual killing.

leemat:
Pls can someone who knows the meaning of this dream translate it for me, I dreamt that i was talking to one of my Neighbor that he should help me to tell his sister that i want to fetch some water in their drum that the sister can take water from my own drum when ever she need water.
But the water inside the drum i wants to fetch from is dirty while the one in my drum is clean but my thought in the dream was to finished my neighbour dirty water first before using mine
And i also dreamt that a child pee on m[y body

You prolly have someone, ideas, plans etc which are good but you love to seek counsel or invest your time with others which mudles things up for you.
Why not try to do things on your own without involving someone else's ideas, opinion or get someone new who will put in as much positive effort in your life?

cstr75:
Yes, OMG. Bleeding illiterate.

Hahahaha OMG

cstr75:
Illiterate. Like the rest of the Nigerian low-lives in that shitthole.
No wonder your average Collective IQ is shitt.
Madam common enemy.

Hahahahaha, OMG

cstr75:
Yes hahaha.
That is how i laugh when i read about you savages on fox news.
Illiterate.

Hahahah

cstr75:
Shut up. I hate willful ignorance.
I was reading through your mountain of nonsense and i was just amazed at how someone can be so arrogantly ignorant.
Who is a biafran? And where did i tell you i was a biafran? Is there even any nation currently called biafra.
I am not a savage. I don't live in your savage country where people are treated like animals, and btw, biafrans like you want to call them are not muslims that are ready to bay for innocent blood so i don't see where and how your life is supposedly being threatened.
You are just an ignorant illiterate yapping a lot of nonsense. And it is just annoying to see how ignorant Nigerians like you can be and how they still arrogantly defend such ignorance.
Get some education and stop commenting on stuffs you have very little knowledge of.
Common enemy, my foot. Bloody savage living in a savage shitthole married to one savage Nigerian somewhere.

Hahahahaha

cstr75:
If you say what, you mindless illiterate.
Who are your common enemy, one naijerian simpleton.?

Hahaha, I can't shout o. When last did you take vaccine for rabies? You need to get a new shot.
You are too ignorant for me to start any meaningful dialogue with you and even when I say okay, if you say so...... you still thirst for blood. Hahahahahaha is this how biafrans are? Blood thirsty and ready for the kill? Lol. Hahahaja, it's all good. Like I said before, "If you say so"
I don't dialogue or discuss with mad men. It would seem like I am also mad you get the drift right? So permit me to ignore your rants.
****You just had to open a new acct to attack people. You are quite a coward tho. Typical

cstr75:
The whites are your common enemy?
Is it the whites that are responsible for the massive killings perpetuated by fulani herdsmen? Is it the whites that are responsible for northocracy of Nigeria that have perpetuated northern backwardness on every facet of Nigerian life?
You are an illiterate.

Hahahaha, okay. If you say so.

Fp things. Lalasticlala, oya food she Don done o

Yujin:
Lol. If you are smart, why can't you outsmart the white elites by granting Igbos a referendum that would confirm if their concensus choice was Biafra. It's your lack of regard that will plunge Nigeria into the abyss that she can easily surmount. Unlike the Libyans who were enjoying under Ghaddafi, Igbos don't have any sense of belonging in Nigeria. We shall be glad to see all Nigeria lay to waste. At least after that, we can all go our separate ways. Ndigbo can always bounce back.

I rest my case. At least you managed to spot the common enemy.

fellis:
From what sources?
Where do you learn from?

Cant say for sure. My Mom was interested in dreams and their meanings. The rest, I get from what other people ESP elders have to say. I also read a lot but not particular authours. And YouTube has a wealth of teachers too. You just need to know which to weed off and which to study some more.

IpobExposed:
Please read the section 248 of the Nigerian Police Act.
He was reasonably suspected

So? If arrest is allowed and it doesn't mean guilt, to enable police investigate her claims.
why are you against ? As according to you he Must first be arrested.
I still insist that he doesn't have to be treated as a criminal but he can be tracked down and the case investigated.

IpobExposed:
U arrest and investigate because this is a crime. Sec 248. Of the NPC gives u the right to arrest first to investigate criminal offense

He doesn't have to be arresteedddd oooooo.
He could even be invited and asked to show at their station. It is when he doesn't play ball that he may be arrested.
He would be tracked down taken in and questioned.
Me I don't know how else to explain it.

IpobExposed:
How are we sure this accusation is not spurious. We just see a car and they want us to believe the car threw someone.
So we just believe only your part and arrest the person right?

They don't arrest. They investigate. There is a difference between the two.

Hahaha, so every VAL day naim you Dey free and alone? Hahaha NL bad boys.

She is giving the money to a man. Make una look well. A man is using her head. Under Love or religion. Many women sabi waka yeye waka