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BTW, Lalasticlala and Seun, why dem ban me from religion section? You and your Egberes have started with me this year ba? Make una respect unaself this year cos I ain't got time for the bulshit you guys are cooking up. Seun, call you spam bots to order. If your programmer no sabi work, sack him.

lacreamieboie:
Yaaagi!

Thanks sir!

lacreamieboie:
Delishpot was that harsh. Nah.. . I wrote that smiling. Come on...

Oya, no vex. Me sef wrote mine smiling(for real o but I no know how you for take my smile). Abeg, Na God I take beg you, no vex you hear?

Yes. It will surprise you that when you free it, it will just run away instead of attacking.
The animal go to thief meat abi water?

lacreamieboie:
Trust makes us different. If they want I'd add her number so u can say hbd for me. And who said the coins was a problem?

Guy, abeg no take am personal. Dem no dey follow you play?
Oya, add her number .

lacreamieboie:
Their Problem...

Meanwhile... My sweetheart is a year older! How many likes for her


My day doesn't start with the sunrise and end with the sunset. It starts and ends with you!
I adore everything about you, from your sparkling eyes and stunning smile to your tender loving heart and soul.
The day you came into this world was (even if I did not know it at that time), the first day of my long journey to you. And this to me is truly a special day.
I could never have dreamed you. You are every fantasy I've ever had, rolled up into the loveliest of creatures.
Happy Birthday to my one and only. My here, there and everywhere!
You cannot imagine how happy I am to spend your special day with you. I love you so much more today than yesterday, but not even one-tenth of what I'll feel tomorrow.
You can slay for Africa, talk for Antarctica and find trouble for America. Baby, continue just the way you are! I love you that way.
Your Birthday is the only day of the year I enjoy as much as mine and that's because I love you even more than myself.
Today, you will receive many greetings for your birthday from many well wishers. So this comes with something extra: my everlasting love.
It must have been incredibly sunny the day you were born- because you've brought only sunshine and warmth into my life ever since I met you.
If I could, I would hand you all the stars in the sky on a silver platter as your gift. But I cannot, so I'll give you my love to keep for eternity!

Happy birthday, Darling!
Happy Birthday Eromonsele Gloria Onosetale
You're hearted,
Oyepitan Oluwafemi.
(@vj_oye)

Dem boys Don take am from you already. They gat her name and photo, hopefuuyl if they gat more coins, she would be pampered until she ports.I thank you on dia behalf.

onome2013:
Sickness that can't be cured must be endured.,but if you haven't gotten a child for him yet , pack out to your parents house so that he will wake up to do his duties as the husband

Naija woman would never dare do that o. Her man may be the type that his mother would bring new wife for him and he would say his hands we're tied he couldn't do anything but sleep with her and give her bele. Then he would blame OP for giving his mommy chance to go bring the new woman in the first place. That is why she is respecting herself and enduring. That man no be the type wey go tell his mom and dad no. Imagine custom that says a man can't leave his parents unless he is moving into his own home. So if his career takes him to another city now, he will carry his parents house on his head with him to the new location?

Women sef. He can't leave his parents unless he is moving into his personal house? That is the dumbest excuse I have ever heard. The man is just keeping you under control. He has issues and your just a victim of his.
Abeg, when you are ready, pack and go live with your parents until he is ready to do as his mates do. Leave father and mother and cleave to his wife.
OP if you are married to an understanding man, tell him you can't continue to live like this. If you marry a bag of wahala, and you are afraid that the moment you talk he would pack you out, and you would not want to be packed out even if he is killing you or if your wantbto stay with him no matter how missteable his choices make you, then do what LoveWifee says. Wash their clothes, become their Jackie, swallow their insults morning afternoon night and pray harder. May God help him build his house soon. And prolly import his family to live with him after building it. You Don enter one chance

LoveWifee:
Just keep your pace(No too much story) and respect yourself. Do chores and support your husband. Respect your husband and his in-laws.
It's just a phase, it won't last forever.
Treat them the way you want your DIL to treat you.

Typical Naija advice keep calm till they kill you with heart attack.

juntod:
I don't believe any story from anyone who's first thought is to take pictures for social media.

If she no take picture now, she come divorce am or later he goes back to beat her and she stabs him then he posts his own pictures or if she vex call police now and he gets killed in Nigeria a few weeks later, shebi Nigerians will not believe I her if she says he has been doing it and she had to fight back in self defense? Or that she decided to separate because of beating. Na same Nigerians go say she Dey lie. If not, how come she had no evidence. I will encourage any domestic violence victims to take photos. Because lack of evidence would make the guilty party look like a saint when shit hits the fan.

Show me Nigeria OP

Goodlucl

So leadership is no more Democratic where the peoe decide. Now it is the filling party that decodes who will rule and who will not. Anyway, what are we even saying? Democracy is a fallacy. The people have never chosen their leaders. They only chose the leader selected by the elite to rum for positions. I can believe in democracy when the people personally pick their candidate and make him their leader party affiliation or not.

oloriooko:
OP na wa for you o
So the pro govt protesters were not hired abi?
Why is TVC - Tinubu TV the only station to corner this woman to say this rubbish?
OP so for your eye now Nigeria is improving abi where a litre of keto now goes for 500 and car battery is 25k?
We are not being foolish like some of you who have been so deceived that you now result to deceiving yourself.
Bubu missed it and plunged our economy into the mess we find ourselves today. He was very had any viable economic plan to salvage Nigeria all he had in mind was to be called president and push his Islamic agenda at the detriment of our economy.
We voted him in, we can also "protest" him out!

You understand wet in this topic Dey talk so? Cos of you did, you would not type this ya comment

Sabo

Well, if Na lie, let Nigeria Army deny it Na. After all they were tagged abi Na mentioned in his tweet. Doesn't look like he is making claims behind their backs.

He did not ram into them for the fun of it. He was driving and did not expect cows to be roaming the road. It was an accident and the herdsmen should mind how they move their cows accrosa Nigerian roads. That man could have lost his life.

Yeye dey smell. He cares so much about his ex but told her story to not 1 not 3 but almost half a dozen people? Sonner or later someone would have spilt the beans. Linda just wanted to be the main source of the spill.

olyrayy:
If the client doesn't end up paying, how would you enforce the contract? Would you go all the way to the US just to sue the client?

You make an official complain to up work. Make sure before you do any job, that the client sends you a contract form and you must accept the offer all on up work. That is what up work would use to pursue your case.
It happened to me a while ago. The client wouldn't pay the $400 job I did. Complained to up work and they paid me my money. I do not know how they got it. But I got paid. If you start off the contact on Upwork and later decide to work and earn the pay outside up work. Forget about complaining to them if the client vanishes with your pay. They will delete your and the clients acct and not let you back.

Nigeria can work and will work. MY heart is happy for this improvement.

Jglad:
Is she really serious? Or sarcasm?

He has Davido on his speed dial and u wan die? Tooor... I guess u both deserve each other since u both gat Celebrity fever

So he made it by being in one video? Or she feels he is a ticket for her to meet Davido?

Ama nor understanding

Sarcasm of course. That he played a waka pass role he thinks he has arrived.

Omoakinsuyi:
Her father busy looting under Buhari and she is protesting...hypocrite!

Is she her father? People like you hate to take advice from well meaning people based on their past mistakes or circumstances.
If a woman whose son is a thief advices someone like you not to steal, and how stealing is a shameful bad thing, you would call her a hypocrite because of what her son does? Is her speaking up against it not enough to tell you that she doesn't support what ever you believe her father is doing under buhari?

lefulefu:
If Atiku enter by 2019 naija don para be dat.he would rob naija blind.

Nice one. I was once foolish enough to think Atiku would do any better. He and his old group ruined Nigeria. I say NO to Atiku2019. It will never work.

You guys want tuface to come and go and die for Nigeria ba? The so called youths of today are barely able to do better job at government any way take power and give to most youth of today and they would sell Nigeria and put change in foreign accts.
When I am ready, I and some good Nigerians would run the country come 2019.
Atiku2019 tell your pay master its time for him and old cargos like him who have been looting the national treasuryto retire to their other rooms. Their group ruined Nigeria and destroyed the honesty in the hearts of the citizens. Enough if that madness..

Nigerians generally accepting any thing posted online as true storey.
Just throw in a video and claim it's two politicians and people would not care to ask for proof of who they are.

Bumper

Daviestunech:
Dats show woman has been our problem since day1

Because the story is written by sexists. Not every culture sees women as evil. Adam and Eve strory is a Jewish tale. That was how the Jews narrate creation from their own pointbof view. Their women we're seen as the Arabs see theirs.
It is a borrowed belief for modern day christians and moslems who adopt chriatianity and Islam. In your village in those days, there is no name as Adam or eve. other societies have their creation story too and in many societies women were seen as beautiful sacred creatures who nurture the world and I am sure their creation story would reflect this.

KevinDein:
I think most men have accepted the cold harsh reality that fatherhood is a thankless job. We'll keep striving to do the best for our kids and when they turn out fine, excellent, that's enough satisfaction for some of us. The moms can take all the credit, no probs.

Fatherhood is bonding with your kids. Not just providing money for them. It s just like a mother saying providing food, clothes and bathingbtheir kids is all they have to do as mothers. You guys should stop blaming women. Women bond with their kids on a level dads don't. That is why the kids are closer to moms. Believe me, if a dad bonds with his kids, even if he sees that kid once in a year, the kid would still love him to pieces. As long as he spends the days he has with the child, bonding.
A mother who is detatcjed from her child emotionally, even if she does all a that providing, cleaning and feeding stuff, it doesn't make the child love her automatically. You guys should use your own selves as examples, which parentbdo you love most and why? That should give you the answer to why a child may lovee a mother more than a good providing dad who was never emotionally involved with the child. Please lelts stop the bias of we keep acting ignorant and follow the trend of I provide money what else do you want? Then the trend of kids seeing dads as strangers would continue. Lets tell ourselves the truth without sentiment against women as Nigerian men always do. Misbehave to wives and kids when they are young because they are "feeding" them and that is the critical time kids emotions get imprinted.
I have even seen kids bond with bad moms more than they do with good dads, because, the bad moms devote time to emotionally bond with those kids, even if it is leading them astray.
Things they saw, heard, learnt gets imprinted at that tender age. If you use that time to show dominance, detatch yourself from home etc, the kids would just block you out and mom would try to fill in the gap by loving them some more. Then when they start growing older, you decide to calm down but they have already painted a picture of you in their hearts, they have already bonded with themselves andnthe one parent they feel cares for them emotionally, then you start complaining of how kids treat dads as strangers.
OP has advised, but many men would still blame the women for the problem.
All in all, there are times a dad would do all he can yet the kids would still dispose him because he does not support their attitude or their chosen career etc it happens but it shouldn't be the norm.

Atk1nson:
if the card is fake or damaged, the ATM would have out rightly rejected it.

Oh really? Then it's prolly from someone whom they robbed before. They may also exchange her own empty blocked one for another victims own.

God would have sent Eve out of the garden and then created a new woman for Adam. Or he would punish Eve and let her continue with Adam. Humans prolly would be half as good and evil as they are today.

That fathers work take them out of town or homedoesn't make their children not care for them after all we have industrious mothers who still come home and bond with their kids after a hard day at work or shop. What stops dads from doing same? When a man acts like king even to his own kids, he has his no own plate, spoon, chair, cup etc and no one not even his wife dare use his things without regreting it. He sees it as a mark of dissrespect if they touch his stuff
He is not worried they may destrly it, je just waats them to know that he is boss in his house.(Dont get me wrong, that a woman keeps a special plate or stuff for her husband doesnt mean the man is bossy but for him to make it a rule, punish them for breaking his rule and bitching about how disrespectful they are makes it messy)what kind of bond would such a father have with his kids?
Also, because children see or hear about their father's treating their mothers like second class person. Making her sweat to keep the home united, leaving her responsible for any chore in the home front. We have dads who don't lift a finger in childcare or domestic duties. They see bonding with their kids as a big no no. Those are the types of dads who find out at old age, that their kids seem like strangers to them.
Thank God the era of such super sensitive dads is slowly passing. Now men are spending time with their kids, openly showing love and hopefully treating their dutiful wives with love and respect. Kids love their dads as much as they love their moms these days o.