₦airaland Forum

Trexnemesis:
Wetin be dis lubbish. Mtchewwwww

Why you dey vex?

Don't know why the long story OP. Your friend marry is enough for us. The long epistle no dey necessary.

This one Na celebration of life o. She enjoy the harvest of her hard labour well well.

Greed. So because she was not the one paying, she decided to go to an expensive salon to do her hair?
Why are some women wicked like that? They drink garria all year round and as soon as a gentle man wants to take them out, they pick high class restaurants and eat the most expensive dish available.

Jesus send una message? I doubt Jesus would have encouraged this practice.

teebell999:
If they scrap them, do you have jobs for them? Bad Belle is what is killing us in Nigeria.
The guns they are giving them is not meant for shooting erring drivers or motorists, but for self defense against mob attacks and to protect themselves against wilful acts of killings by wicked drivers like you!!

I can't shout o

Most naija Nurses are wicked anyway, I guess most of those wicked ones learnt the trade from schools of nursing.

Opakan2:
Those fairly used ashewos who married unfortunate men won't agree with this..

no two way to it, new item go everly get value pass aloku

some don't have 'asiki' (fortune) again due to sex with several men of which some might be fetish

so they end up ruining the man's life with their misfortune, alongside those they make friends with on/offline

And men do not lose asiki after sleeping around with yemoja's girls.

hero2000:
The answer is 70 in 2016 just if you didn't see it clearly.

Putting a system right is by wailing and complaining. You were right in saying that in more developed societies, they would just take down the number and the police take it from there. But we are not there yet. I don't think we will be in the next 10 yrs. So for our level of development, this is a step in the right direction.

What do you want an official of FRSC to do when 30 vehicles face on coming vehicles? Tell me. He asks them to stop but they wouldn't. So he should go to babalawo to collect do-as-I-say medicine!

If government won't arm them, or won't provide a system where people who commit traffic offenses can be gotten easily(which I am sure we can't do yet) they should just scrap the organization. Enough of exposing them to needless danger!

So the answer to that problem in your opinion is to give them guns to shoot at anyone who refuses to stop. So you support the upside down ways of our government?
Nigerians, I don tire for una o. Abeg, I can't shout Biko.
I guess the nextbszep would be to arm civilians to shoot any truck, bus, keke driver that drives carelessly as many civilians have also died on the road. After all when they enter buses they may be faced with one chance guys, how do we expect them to survive? If govt can't stop one chance, let them arm passengers.
Yes let them scrap FRSC make we rest. Instead of arming them. Nigerian officers lack proper self control.

BabaRamota1980:
what horizon together?

What is the sexually attached factor for a woman to desire a virgin man, can you share?

Well, like I said, attraction for a virgin is not about the sexual prowess of their lover. Men who admire virgins do not see the women as sex freaks but rather as chaste women, same with a vitgin woman that chooses to marry a virgin man. If you are talking about a woman that had been about town not wanting an inexperienced virgin man, then I understand your point. But that is not what I am talking about now.

BabaRamota1980:
trust me, you dont want to marry a virgin man. Men are like babies, even into old age and always will need mama. The notion of mother is a transformation through our life stages from womb to grave.

If you have a brother, son, boy friend and still virgin by time he turns 19 something his ego is already fvked up!

False. Virginity does not mean ignorance. Both are virgins and as such learning to explore the horizon together.

So....... virginity =happily ever after marriage?
Even in those days when it meant life or death, pride or shame, it did not guarantee that the marriage was happy.
Virginity is good, for males and females. No woman should give hers to a street dog posing as a husband. It should be the woman's/mans choice and the virgin must marry a person who has a morally clean life.
Giving your Virginity to an abusive spouse doesn't mean they would automatically change and start treating you right.

Exactly how the yeye Nigerian doctors allowed my mom to die in a Ph hospital. They were watching her too instead of taking action. She reacted to an injection and the nurses we're saying it is a small price to pay for health. That was how we lost her.
This is really painful

teebell999:
I don't understand why we Nigerians will know d truth and refuse to say it. According to their boss, He said about 70 personnel were lost ONLY IN 2016 due to drivers' recklessness and wickedness.
Are these 70 personnel animals? Imagine the psychological trauma their families will be undergoing for loosing their loved ones, or may be their breadwinner.
I also had a friend who happened to be one of the 70 lost officers of FRSC.
Do we expect their boss or the FG to fold their arms while these people keep dieing like fouls?
It's we Nigerians (motorists) that need to check ourselves and do the right thing.
I have been to 3 European countries US inclusive, all their traffic police are armed with Pistols. Why would it be a taboo in our dear country?
Note: Any unemployed graduate today can join their organisation tomorrow.

Oga, FRSC is not traffic police. They are not there to bust crimes or look for criminals using our roads. Plus most officers do not face threat by fire arms. Most that die were struck down during car chase. They do not face any threat that would cause them to carry arms. Worse case, pepper spray and tasser. NOT Guns.
So you are saying they should carry guns so as to shoot anyone that doesn't stop for search or?

harrison1234:
my
its high time i am a road safety personnel and i will till you we are nothing like the police if only you can reason with us will you will never have a problem, Road users here can testify with me have you ever had your papers complete and road safety wont let you go? unlike our sister agency the police but u will agree with me that alot of violent people will prefer to speed off rather than stop for you and we are not in the habit of going after someone in other to prevent accident, as a personnel i have been told i will be killed on the road several times by people i dont even know, i have been insulted and told how stupid i am by people am only trying to help, i have been mobbed just because the only weapon i have is my word and uniform, dont get me wrong there is a joy in doing this work when you rescue an accident victim or when you give a motorist an advice that will save his life there is this inner peace you get and that alone keeps me going. if i was not a personnel i will also be sounding like you all and personally i dont support guns in road safety but alot of personnel has died because a driver wants to be smart because he cant see a gun and you cant imagin how a nigerian will talk to you on uniform if you dont have a gun he sees you as a disturbance but i can assure you that road safety personnel wont be shooting anyhow or even put a gun at you if you can only do the right thing..............i once met a white lady being rude to me on the road because she thinks all i want to do was to extort money from her cos her nigerian husband told her so and i had to remind her that she wont act like this in her home country . so please we should all reason before we act

That is why you need a traffic police officer to work with you. You are not a crime fighting squad. So, how many FRSC officers have been killed while checking drivers license? Howmany havebbeen shot on aczive duty? How many die on active duty compared to police men? The moment you start carrying guns, that is the moment you become marked by criminal road users.
Guns would not save you, guns would mark you as a potential enemy.
If not for the fact that naija is a jagajaga country, simply taking down the car number and color you could report to the police and they take up the mater from their. But naija government like to solve problem from bottom up. They build a house before buying the land on which the house would sit

Nigerian drivers Don die finish be that o.
Abeg, road safety Don become security outfit?

sakbio:
Pls these people need arms, they wil be on d road both day and night, they face attack both day and night from violent motorists, smugglers, arm robbers. May them start carry it on time, I would like to join the organization now self. God bless Nigeria, that was how they against civil defence wen they were about to carry arms. Abeg let them carry arms, ordinary vigilantes are using guns.
quote author=Btruth post=51592162]It's not a good decision sha. Very very wrong.

Then they should work with qualified arm carrying personnel. Yes, they should get assigned Security personel when on duty. Besides, what has road safety got to do with guns? If the government wants, it should create a traffic police department and arm them for security checks on roads. FRSC should not be armed.
FRSC, should train men on First aid, road safety and Emergency care and that is all. They are not out there to catch criminals or track crimes. There are departments built for those sorts of projects.

penzino:
This hustle get as e be o.

This no be husle o, this Na crime.

rabex123:
Go and check again..bigot

He clearly said Self defence. Why twisting the mans words?

bart10:
The man is right. This Government has failed Nigeria. However, any form of war or violence isn't an option. We must dialogue and have mutual positions. Though I doubt if this Government understand such word! Let's stay calm for now and not overreact. God bless us all.

Dialogue with extremists or with who? Hahaha, a Christians goingbto dialogue with Isis or Shari'a propagators? And you will believe them of they say they allow you sleep in peace at night? You will believe and sleep like a log? No one said to go harm Moslems, he said buy and keep it by your bed side, in case you need to use it someday. If the goverent fears the outcome of such idea, then they should act to protect citizens

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henrydadon:
do you know what it mean for people in a country like nigeria to take matter and law into their own hands..you have seen the horrible case of jungle justice in nigeria..do i need to say more..?

Are you the only one aware of this? Is the government also ignorant of this fact? Why wait till people are pushed to take drastic measure before lives are secured? Everything has a beginning, a wise government sees a crack and seals it quickly before the wall falls down. If a roof has a leak, a wise home owner starts mending it in dry season before the rain starts. What is the goverent doing to protect Nigerians? Do you think this system of denial would keep on going for donkey years?
My dear, I no want fight, I no want fight, that is because your enemy has not thrown a painful punch. When he does throw one and is showing signs of continuously doing so, you would be forced to fight back. If not for revenge, you would do it for self preservation.

sinkhole:
Why are the nurses in that hospital/clinic standing like that, looking like it is a nollywood drama?

Typical Naija nurses are like that. They do not save lives unless the patient buys card.

henrydadon:

indirectly suggesting war ..



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Yeah, instead of him to encourage peace by asking all Christians to stretch out their necks to be behaeded by Islamists. HE must be a terrible man for asking people to defend themselves.

bonechamberlain:
it's not a crime, but what's our business with his wife being a virgin, simple youth should abstain from premarital sex, what a governor should be telling people in an HIV forum is abstinence and living health not about how his wife is a virgin. His wife being a virgin does not stop her from contacting the virus.

I guess when he goes to marriage retreat, he is also going to tell them how his wife pleasures him in bed.

Did it stop him from sleeping with sugar girls?
Well, since virginity is so special in our part of the world, I see no reason why a man can not boast about his wife's virginity with megafone. Back in those days shebi they used to dance around with blood stained bed sheet the morning after? this one is better na. He no flash red stained cloth for our face. Hopefully we get to the stage where women can boast of their husbands 3rd leg size and his bedmatics skills through the media.

Charlentine:
Thank you. I Wish Christians could just say "True" like that instead of directly or indirectly condemning anyone who dares to say such things even if it's their family. Attacking the truth doesn't stop it from being true, it just exposes the individual's insecurities (Ie. they are uncertain, yet afraid of their own uncertainty)

You seek approval? That is not a good place to be but.... we all pass through it.
Its a shame you are biased, vindictive and in a way out to show who the boss is calling anyone a bat, a Roach or a lizard wouldn't help your soul, unless the person is directly attacking you then you can use terms to show what you think. You are Quite far from enlightenment. When you get there, you shall see the difference. Hopefully you find the approval you seek. Even though human approval is as good as useless.
I do not have interest in discussing with biased and vindictive souls that is why I will not contribute directly concerning the topic. May those like you feed your ego fat.

KINGinVAHALA:
thanks boss and longest time, where have you been?

I dey o. Have been around.

Thanks best of the year to you too

Young03:
But u told us, u will clear his mess

Na wash. To catch monkey, you must put what monkey likes in the trap.

Now wey he Don enter, eyes Don clear. Not saying GEJ was a saint o, just saying PMB bit more than he can chew.

Charlentine:
What a pessimistic way to view an argument. Lol. You sound like a Christian bat urself. Always trying to outsmart and evade things instead of actually addressing the issue. Just look at your two replies; nitpicking, accusations, unnecessary digression etc. Typical! Next thing is to get angry and start calling me names. Before nko

Hahaha, why you mad, fix your face its not my fault you be judging. if only you knew. Lol. Enjoy your imagination. If you like call Christians shit and puss e nor remove hair from my armpit. am I christ that I would fight you over your writeup? Just wanted to know if You are biased in your judgement that's all
Hahaha, address what? That Christians are bats? Abegi, carry ya jallopy commot make my Bently see road pass.
Guy thinks I give two ticks about what he thinks of Christianity.
Hypocrites like you do not deserve my addressing. If you had said organized religious folks as a whole versus your points, I may consider contributing to your talk.

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keishik:
I'm facing a very knotty issue here that I would really appreciate your opinions. I just had my contract suspended because the clients' means of payment is unverified. Thing is, I noticed she wasn't verified before starting the contract and pointed it out to her but since the Milestone was already funded, She expressed some confusion at the system (it's her first time) but promised to keep an eye on it. Since it was a pretty easy task that I'd successfully negotiated upwards, I was really keen to see it done so I proceeded only to be told by upwork to stop work as the contract had been suspended 4 days after!

I've reached her (we communicate primarily through email) and she's even more bemused and has sent me the details of her payment even though She admitted not being able to verify her method because the deductions didn't reflect in her CC. According to her, She has called her cc company but they can't help either. A red flag went up when She asked for samples of what I'd done in the midst of the brouhaha, but I weaved my way out of it and she apologised for asking.

Thing is, I've done a background search on this girl and everything checks out. Her naivety seems to be quite honest. I've verified She's a university student that she claimed and by the way, she's an American hottie I swear, like someone out of a Hollywood movie, you know the type that....

Anyway, I'm not considering circumvention, the risk is too great. I'm just wondering if I can encourage her to opt out of the contract and hire outside - she's almost crying to me at this point. Would my encouraging her to opt out be breaking the rules? Secondly, who knows the associated fees to be paid for opting out? Any long-term consequences for me, since I intend to inform upwork if it comes to that. Any knowledgeable advise would be welcome.

CC victor101 etc.

I believe upwork would not stop a project unless you or the person who gave you the project decides to pause it.
There is one asking for samples from me too but doesn't want to hire me yet, he confessed to having others he is considering. I believe he is asking us all for samples and then when he gets the sample, he would reject us all and compile his work based on our samples.
Told him that I will not start without a contract.