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SamuelAnyawu:
He then informed the lady's friend to tell the family where they can find the body, it was the lady that raised the alarm.





He Looks Insane Definitely

Not really. He may pretend to have found her body by accident in the farm. Maybe as he was the person that saw her body first, the people questioned him and he confessed. Some criminals can kobalize themselves out of hiding their asses.

I believe Lillaowow is trying to say, you prolly have another acct because, you stopped posting on Nov 17 last year and then, your next was this month. That means you were either totally off nairaland for months or you have another regular moniker you use while you keep this for fund raising.

Its all good. To be honest, if I had, I would have helped.
Sending pictures would not guarantee that it is actually you. Anyone could send any photo claiming it is them. I would only suggest that if people are worried about your Id, the person that wants to help should hold a Skype video call with you.

If you can not name the movie then remove ya false news. No time.

Tunexclusive:
true NL. . ? I dnt av ur NL information oo. . . . Can u flash me 08162666514 lemme call u

Use the message option. Click on my name, you will see the send delishpot a message option, send the message and I will receive it as an email. I will reply you and we can send emails through that.
I hope I am not being a bother, I just do that for privacy sake.

Tunexclusive:
pls bro, i need ur assistance. . . Can u snd me ur contact?

Hello Brother, send me a message through NL. I hope it is not something that pass me o

lillaowow:
how much do you need?
will $400 be okay?
send me Pm

Chai, I am so gladdened by this. May God increase both of you.
You guys should please give us feedback

frankmoney:
I thought they give 60 connect monthly

They do give. Maybe you missed the fact date the new points are due. Wait for a day or two and you will get your new points

Most who behave like that are just afraid to share what they have. You see, to you they have arrived small but they know within themselves that it is not as you think it is. Those kinds of people are on the level of, should I buy this shoe or pay my rent. You see, it is a step ahead of not having at all but it has not gotten to the main promise land.if they hit it big time for real. As in They can buy stuff without sacrificing other things, they will not hide themselves from you rather they would want to floss and flaunt. If they are good friends, they will help you progress but if they are not,they will only take you out to drink and eat isi ewu
The guy dey fear to share his money. Not that he thinks he is better than you. He just thinks you may start wanting him to give you out of the small he has.

Old news. The boy later confessed that they took that photo when all was well between them and that he just wanted to tarnish her image online.
Anyhow, I know some would believe a girl would post such on her wall.

Aluta !!!

When will girls learn sef? Which kaiin yeye help be that?

This is not just ambush. It was tip off given by a mole. Those who have relatives on active duty in the NA , tell them to be careful. Na they should not trust too easily.

And we complain about how the white man treats us bad? As if we treat each other any better. Our land has so much blood spilled on it that I do not know how long it would take to wash it off. If Satan exists, then he is happy with the way Nigeria is going.
See blood flowing in the street. Damn, I fear people.

Abenoty:
Give the northerners sound education and their fanatism on Islam will change instantly. The Yorubas have muslims and are well behaved. Is northern lslam different from the westerners? "Education is power"

You are very mistaken. Most of them fanatics do not follow strictly their religious beliefs in private. They only play the card when they want to achieve something. So do not think that education would help fanatics. It will only equip them better in playing their game.
Besides, those in power who are educated would not allow their soldiers behave differently ft ly even if you send them to Mars for education.

Donlamzy:
This nko

What about that? No story behind it?

Na wa o. Another round of terrorism in the making.

Wait till you guys are alone and then tell him two can play that game. If he wants you to be how the Bible said, he should also remember that the Bible also told him how to be too. Bible is not one sided. Unfortunately, many have decided to translate the Bible to mean men are excused and only women are held liable for their own short coming. Fafafa fowl. Jesus did not say men should respect their wives only when they "submit"

yemi1261:
My sister life is not a bed of roses, in fact I don't know what is happening this days in our marriages. Exactly what is happening to you is what am experiencing. In my own case, my wife is just too stubborn, if fact I have regretted marrying her, she doesn't only shouts on in publicly, she does not have any quantum of respect for me, she does not see me as her husband, our relationship is strictly formal, dead sex life at just 3 years of marriage
Honestly I know am a good man to her and I know I love her but she doesn't value my love. Am not contemplating divorce now because nobody in my family would support it having warned me against marrying her in the past. They said they see her as a stubborn lady who will be difficult to control. I knew her type before I married her. I complained about her attitude that time she promised to change. But now am going crazy. Am alone!

When I advice people in relationship not to go ahead with the marriage if their parents are against it, people term me to be a bad person claiming they are marrying the boy/girl and not their parents, love conquers all etc. Until you hit hard time in marriage, you would never know that love alone is not enough to keep a marriage happy. When shit hits the fan, shebi Na still parents you go expect to escort you go resolve am? Its well. All the best bro, may only the best happen to ya.

So, they are quick to anger and attack or treat people badly but it's okay....... they pray every morning so they are good to go.
I pray their be prayers work miracles in their lives sha.

Kingjude1:
Girls have that attitude boss, i can bet if i call her now she wont still pick, send someone to talk to her she will say we are fine, i will keep my distance maybe later i will use a girls pix as dp on whatsapp

You want settle mater or you want move no on? To use another girls pic as dp? Yoruba dey call am one thing
"Mo fi ợwọ ara mi se ara mi"
Na only you waka come o

That sister Don over stay her welcome for her papas house

patriotic9jaboy:
This guy should be picked up by DSS. He is talking too much. Can't efcc find a corruption case on him?

Up Democracy!!!!!!!!
Up freedom of speach!!!!!

So, Na to dey set up opponent for kwaropshion anytime they do not shout Sai Baba!

Kingjude1:
guy she usually worships me i swear but i always beg quick because i was scared of another guy man getting her attention but i felt like the begging was getting to her head so i rested this time, see what she posted like 2weeks ago, i dont want to lose her , if na game she dey play i ready

Naim be say she Don vex. Cos if she worships you, she would hardly do stuff that would annoy you. That is to say, Na you dey find her trouble most times . Oh well, just keep sending her SMS. 1 joke per day.
You guys need to sit and talk cos her acting this way would not help her live happily with you.
But bia, we're you guys quarreling before the phone cut? Haba, this can not be the first time phone is cutting while you guys we're talking Na, why did she wear this particular one like helmet?

WomanOfRace:
A transaction gone wrong. Whose fault?hers, yet the poor guy did all he could to please the madam at his own discomfort. She still went a head to do things that will drown him. Just trying hard to end his happiness and in this recession period, a possible suicide.

Damn, too bad. Hopefully he bounces out triumphantly.
The woman in question, why is she so vengeful?

Kingjude1:
boss just call that i ended by mistake its been 5days now that this stuff has been going on , i decided to chill and wait for her to come and talk then i saw this post

Hahaha, post new photo of you hanging out with your pals chilling and caption it...... some people appreciate good people as your dp then do not call her.
This only works if she has been the one giving you wahala O. If you have been treating her nonchalantly and she feels that call drop was the final straw then abeg no do wetin I recommend O.

She dey do you shakara. But, do you do it often? Does she do it often or it is just this one time? Were you guys quarelling when it happened?
She is prolly throwing tantrums.

Men have done such to ladies too. It is not just a ladies thing.
That is by the way, pray tell us what happened so we will not give a one sided judgement.
Same Advice I give to anyone dating, he treats you right and beats up his ex when she came to pack her stuff but he refused because he just wanted to punish her. Don't you know it is the same way he would treat you when you become his ex too? She smiles at you and calls you darling but hates the sight by of poor people? Don't you know she would hate you too if you are unfortunate to experience a down moment in life?
He slaps his gateman and pours soup on his cook because they we're too slow to open the door for you and you think it is because he loves you so.... sister you will be next.
So OP, tell me what happened.

jagugu88li:
Sir, this is the kind of behaviour I dislike. You cant just attack me just because you feel like it. But its fine

I think you should have asked the OP not to say word about his girlfriend for starters, before attacking me. If there's anyone who hates woman bashing woman, then that person has to be me. Do ask those who know me better in this forum. But no, I did no such here, I just added to what the OP already mentioned. As usual, you a typical guy saw nothing wrong with him outing his girlfriend like that, but you are here doing what? Maybe there is a trend amongst us hating on ourselves, yes. That doesn't necessarily and automatically qualifies me as one of them. I only stated the truth as I have experienced it, the same way the OP did. Now if you want to blame, start with him

I don't have a son and yes this typical woman has spread the word about her family members, people you don't even know, not that you know me yourself.


I think you could have carefully read my comment before attacking. I'd appreciate it if you stay away from my mentions.

Okay o. No vex of I annoy you. But, I never for once support the OP for coming out to give virtual description of his woman's body and the abuse she endures from his friends. I would have adviced him better and appreciated his effort if he had said, please help me know how best to get my woman interested in what is happening around the world. Instead of all that trash he wrote.
As for you, a simple my Uncles wife is like that too would have been enough instead of bringing his personal life online. If that was your husband and your sibling does this same thing would you like it? would he be happy if he sees all you wrote about her? If no, then you have no business posting those details.
All in all, if we vex you, no vex.

jagugu88li:
My paternal uncle needs to see this, he also has the same problem.

His wife first heard about Brexit from my 12years old cousin whilst busy with a project. She watches AfricaMagic day in, day out. Any disagreement between them is uploaded on facebook the minute she sees her phone. They have a housekeeper who is the wife's cousin, who unfortunately has the same dumbness. With a housekeeper and the madam of the house both present you'd expect the house to be well kept, NO.


The flies have the same stamina as those Afghanistan bullets, if you've seen their war zone. The conversation with her has to be about who stole whose husband and witchcraft, if she shows a little intelligence then she'll talk about how much a litter of diesel is currently, compared to whatever year.


You'll think I'm exaggerating when I say she looked very puzzled when we were talking about Oprah and Queen Elizabeth, so much that we didn't bother asking if she knows them. We never even talked amongst ourselves about that "incident". She hates magazines and anything like a reality show. See her watsapp statuses, AMEN

Please do call me when you win with her

Typical woman, all the uncle and his wife's dirty laundry has been spread for the world to see. You forgot to mention their names and address. Also don't miss out how many kids they have and where they school. If possible throw in their village and the location of their ancestral burial ground .
She is here saying the woman posts family issue online. Pot calling kettle black. Why do women hate each other so? Men would hardly come out to shame each other like this.
She doesn't know about brexit? Oprah and Queen Elizabeth, she was surprised when you mentioned those but in your high glory you decided not to educate her any further because she doesn't know them in the first place? Biko, do you educate those who already know? Your son is 12 he heard about it because he was taught in school not because he bought magazines to read about the world.

armadeo:
How many men know this. I don't know myself.

Don't worry, you are safe from his attack. Only women who do not know are guilty.

sekem:
Bikonu onye bukwa onye nkea?

Who is this one?

In this information age, you are defending a dumb girl?

You should be ashamed of yourself, seriously.

I guess you don't know how terrible it can really get being in a relationship with a dumb person.

Who knows, maybe you are very dumb yourself which is why you cannot understand what the OP is trying to say.

There's a saying in Igbo land that the mad man feels no shame but it is his family members who does.

A dumb girl in a relationship probably will think everything is okay but just for one moment think about her man who will have to deal with the public disgrace or embarassment she may cause him at any given time without any warning!

My point is simple. Encourage your fellow girls to become more aware. Read novels. Become conversant with current affairs. Have ambitions. Become a problem solver, and stuff like that.

Don't just limit yourself to the point where a man will look at you and say that you are only good for cooking and fückïng.

I guess because I said what I said, it means I am in support of girls not learning ba?
Those that are good in other ways, do men treat them any different? Ask half of the men who had such babes, they will tell you they dumped them, they did not know her value, they we're just playing games when they met her etc (even though they may regret later) so abeg, that you chose to settle for a girl your level does not mean all females in naija are on that mental level. I know many women who started out not knowing much but met guys who are mature and speak with them with much respect and with time, they started seeing the importance of learning and being aware of their surrounding. But most guys seem to expect a girl they picked because of her low IQ in the first place(as such girls are easy to conquer ) and then instead of lovingly showing them the joy of learning, they start acting like assholes throwing shades and questions like they know it all. You that you claim to be learned, can you swear that there arent some basic questions that someone else would find easy yet you may find them tricky?
Abegi, this story Don tire my ears. If a girl came here to create this topic, you guys would not see anything wrong with the guy, you would say she saw him like that before she decided to date him and she should just confess that she has seen another man who in your opinion would dump her anyway.
I no dry answer una gain sef.

Abujabir24:
Thats women for you. My wife to be graduated with a 2.1 and I a 2.2 and she told me to buy her an iPhone cuz I'm using one myself so I asked her what OS is iPhone and the difference between an iPhone and the android she's using and all she says was she doesn't know that I phone's camera is better

So? That calls for mockery? And, did you try to teach her in a caring manner or did her ignorance make you feel like Nikola Tesla?