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nagoma:
You have been brainwashed into believing all that malignant lies about abduction of Christian girls - sorry for you.

But chibok girls abduction is true ba?

Born in 1959. That man suppose be her father O.

olumaxi:
YES!!....restitution is to make heaven while arrest is to face justice

Restitution is not to make heaven. Repentance and living ones life according to the will of God is to make heaven..
Restitution is to seek forgiveness from the offended person and refund what you have taken. Sometimes it is used a s a form of punishment. And if the offender gets caught and can not make the payment, he/she can be sold into slavery. I do not believe Jesus would agree with that law if he was asked. If you read your Bible well, you would see where Jesus said the Pharisees burden people with law. Andnpretend God sent them but actually they do not belongbto God but the devil .
. It is not part of prerequisite to make heaven just a cultural practice.

gheruta:
I am just quite troubled. One of them is in a really bad place because of her loss. I just want to do right, she is quite a nice person.

Aww, then you should return the money of you can or any amount you can comfortably pay now and complete the money as time goes on.
You will do yourself no good by emptying your acct to make things right.
Write to them. Take note of what you owe them and stretch the refund over a period of time.
And yes, if they have proof that you swindled them and feel like reporting you rather than appreciating your effort at restitution, they may work to have you arrested.

I see some people freelance through phone, how do you do that? What I noticed on upwork is that they have screen tracker which captures work in progress and that app can only be down loaded on Laptops and desk tops.
I would like to be able to work from my tablet too so that I can work even while being mobile.
Please explain further.

Just concluded a project on upwork not a bad pay for 2 days task. Now onto the next one.

patriotic9jaboy:
Reno is a fool who likes to talk too much. Why the Efcc and Dss allows him to work free is still a surprise. He is a staunch critic of this government and deserves to be arrested and probed for corruption. I hope he is whisked away to kuje prison soon. Useless parrot

It this how you believe a government should work? To arrest anyone who you believe criticizes the government?
Buhari will deny people like you in public if he were sane.

HtwoOw:
Smoking or drinking does not automatically mean dying young

What work d you say of minute old babies who die?


Though excess of everything is bad, doesn't mean having fun equals untimely death


Those who claim to give keys to their fiance who drives them home when they are drunk,

I'm waiting for a Fp story with title :women / men are wicked, after everything she dumped you

I would like to know why you think she will dump him. Be cause no of his desire to drink until drunk?

Na wa. So Na hunger make Dem rape too?

Na wa. So Na hunger make Dem to rape too?

gheruta:
It is not a religious decision. All points made so far are noted.

Okay. So why are you doing a restitution?

You do not need all this wahala. They may arrest you in the end and don't go thinking you are sacrificing for God while you are in jail.
Being sorry and repentant is enough. Restitution is a personal thing not a pre requisite to enter heaven. All you need for that is repentance. Once you have repented and are sorry that should be enough.

Izen:
Kidnapper alert

Exactly my thought

pafestula:
I prefer rapist to face death penalty than a kidnapper that frustration in the country pushed into the act.

hit like if you choose rapist to face death penalty

hit share if you choose kidnappers to face death penalty

They are same thing. Kidnapper and rapist are five and six. Most of them end up raping their female victims. Why do you think kidnapping is a petty crime?

johnisaola:
Looters add warn u this BUHARI, u de see he will not allow you to choop our yam and go just like that, he is not like our past GEJ the drinking master, that will park our treasury and go, what he knew best to have sex, drink and sleep. HAHAHA...

Lol

hannyjay:
Good. U must vomit our yam

Lol. You get yam farm? Na for where him see your yam chop?

Haba!

Love knows no color

Dia own better.

ekanDamie:
all this grammar ur blowing dosnt hold water. it's not about culture or whatever was made women believe from birth.
try to railway your mind to the first woman and family on earth, uld clearly understand
d divine roles of each member of d family and accept your gender role.

And you were there when the first woman was created? How did you know for sure? Were you there when God created woman and family? You can say 100% that God said those things. you can swear with your life? or as usual it is the story you have been told that someone wrote that God said?

Billyonaire:
Its possible, but there will be too much suffering and such a husband can not say for sure, that he is the only one visiting the wife in the other room, cos electricity bill alone is about 15k monthly where I live and refuse disposal is about 3k monthly. Domestic staff is 30k each person and you need at least 1. What of petrol and diesel, nothing less than 100k for that one oh.

Ladies, please go for the money, cos poverty destroys love and leaves you hopeful. Truth hurts.

You are smart . Its a shame many women fall for this shii and get burnt. I will tell my daughter, make her choice. She owes no one nothing. Let her own heart lead her. Not societal expectations. If she is comfortable marrying a rich man, let her marry. If she wants to hang to an average man, her choice. if she even decides not to marry, her choice. She should not be cajoled to marry a man because he feels entitled to her heart no matter what. When women refuse some men, they start saying she is too picky, she is doing shakara, she will grow old alone, she will not be happy. No be by force Na.
People would say money can vanish, yes, is there anything that cannot Vanish? Even Life can Vanish. So, let someone live in peace and enjoy some happiness abeg.

Ajinoride:
thanks dear.
dnt mind online girls, living on sugarcandy mountain, in Neverland. I know of several marriages that started on far lesser amount . but today , some of them are in millions. thats why they are only been used as stress- machines.

You just wantbto bash girls. that same person you we're thanking, isn't she an online girl? Abi Na her other room you dey dey thank her? Is her response not an online one? Must you force women to Marry broke guys?
FYI MANY WEDDINGS TAKE PLACE WHERE THE MEN EARN LOWER THAN THAT. Some men just like to look for reason to mock and hassle women sha.
No be by force. If with your salary you can't find a wife, then look at yourself very well. Maybe you are the one with big eye and long throat. I have noticed that many men do not hang their coats where their hands can reach. They earn one cent and decide to toast a babe who has high expectations for herself and the man she wants to date. Why not go for the simple girl that kovesbyou just the way you are? So you can decide to have big eyes bit if the girl in question has big eyes too you will cry fowl?
Even school boys have babes who would marry them as students if the choose to. Even secondary school boys and girls find love.
What OP should ask is, if he can run a home on that salary even if 10 women rush to marry him, he should ask himself if he can successfully live his life managing a home on that budget. Not to be bothered if a woman will marry him. His mates are getting g married everyday. I have seen drivers, gate men, shoe makers who get married.

That you married after making it big does not justify treating your wife as a stress machine. It is the lamest excuse I ever heard. I u derstand if the girl rejected the guy when he was poor but later started running after him when he became rich. I may understand that. Or if the girl is an active gold digger whom makes the man feel his only duty is to make her purse heavy. But to marry a regular girl and treat her like ahit because she made the mistake of marrying you as a rich guy? That is too low.

GlorifiedTunde:
I never said a man should not do domestic work. Responsible men help their wives in the kitchen. Both of them belong to the other room also.

However, the primary role of the husband or wife must not be transferred.

The husband is supposed to provide, protect and lead the home in love; the wife is the home maker. Simple.

Feminist are on the increase, pushing off the responsibility of wife hood and motherhood they ought to enjoy.

Wives are home akers but they do not Belongbto those places. Can you not see the derogatory aspect of it? No one is saying women don't cook or care for your families. We are just saying, no one should be said to belong to anywhere in any house u less she is a slave.
If you respect your wife, or mom or sisters, you will see the shii in what he said.. The home should also be the woman's own. Not She belongs to MY . Where is the sense of comfort for the woman?
She is his wife, his partner, his lover. They two are 1. She should not Belong to HIS ......... that only shows that she is there to serve him and nothing more. Every other thing she does is jara. Say the truth, if you we're a woman, would you like to be viewed as such? As an object created to serve men? With no rights except the one given by your husband? And when you dare question things, you are tagged a feminist.
I just believe he did not understand the interpretation of what he said. I think he just use Typical Moslem mans interpretation of those words. Unfortunately, those who should know better have latched on to his misleading statement and are making it a rulle

For those loving this post.
Michelle did not say She belongs to Obama's, Kitchen, Living room and parlour. I hope you noticed the difference in both statements.
She belongs to "the" anyone can say that. Even unmarried people.
Wake me up when she posts another that says

I BELONG TO OBAMA'S KITCHEN, LIVING ROOM AND THE OTHER ROOM.

then I will review the case.

DesChyko:
What physical features does a man have that makes him not meant for these?

Just ignore some comments. Some people just believe that because they can pass some cultural practices that means God intended it to be so. Ask some people with this mentality, they would say Dogs and cats were created to be kept as pets and horses were created to carry mans load. That women are weak and can be subjected to some cultural lock down means they were built for those roles in some people's own minds.
They will tell you God created women with instinct to cook. Not knowing that it is not so. Rather women were trained to accept cooking as their role from childhood. Same with sex. Same with monogamy and staying with one man no mater what., same with child bearing and house keeping. Women can go well without doing these things. God did not put it in their DNA to know how to do them automatically. It is societal expectations that makes women train and hammer it into the heads of younger women from generation to generation to make them play their designated roles as expected by the society they are born into. Hence making it seem like they were born to know iand do it. Many men cook better than women when exposed to the same training g given to girls even. Does it mean they belong to a kitchen?
No woman belongs to anywhere in a mans house. MARRIAGE SHOULD BE a joint effort and each partner out of love, sacrifice and understand ding should play their role based on the situation in their home.
It is a shame when people support Buharis word, they do not see the fact that he is saying NO womans complains, suggestions or ideas should be paid attention to. A woman is not important, in societal growth , she is only built to cook, Bleep and entertain her husband. That is low. Many men would say they do not know why women are not happy with that statement. But when so.eone says your only purpose in life is the kitchen, living room and other room. That should not make any sane woman feel important. It should make her weep.

That is why I laugh at those who use Solomon and adavid to justify polygamy. They say it's in the Bible. I tell them, if we we're to follow the Bible, they would be dead by now anyway, many things that they do, they would have payed with their heads. And their ancestors may be slaves cost Bible does not speak against slavery.

When men decide to fight for their gods.

Hello guys sorry I have to take down the post

Barney11:
that is good. but why didn't the man marry from his age group(if na Muslim now, yawa for don gas here) why did they cover their nose, is benin people smelling?

What are you saying? Do they look like babies that are taken as brides in the north? These are mature women capable of reasoning. Can you compare them to the 8-14 year old kids men in the north are marrying? Una sabi make comment wey go make person miss yarn.

Gudfrie:
Op this story could be true but the video is not the true videos that potray the story. This video is a videeo of a girl who was kidnapped and buried alive sometimes around early 2015.so Op get ur facts right before posting

Vanguard carried it . Its quite an old story but the shock is fresh in the hearts of sane people
https://www.google.rs/amp/www.vanguardngr.com/2014/07/driver-masterminds-kidnap-murder-employer/amp/?client=ms-android-samsung&espv=1

That is the full gist.

[quote author=armadeo post=50370442][/quote]This one is old true it happened in 2014

https://www.google.rs/amp/www.vanguardngr.com/2014/07/driver-masterminds-kidnap-murder-employer/amp/?client=ms-android-samsung&espv=1

She would Never post this.

Shior. What is there to be proud about being in the other room. Who cares what you do that in that room. It is no ones business but your and the man who is screwing you there. While we are at it, can you also post videos of your prozd achievements in the other room? Since you want to go public about how proud you are of the rooms in your house. Stop already women. Men don't come out to say how proud they are in the other room. Stop making yourselves commodities. Keep what happens in your homes to yourselves and those in your circle. You owe no one any explanation. No award for being in the other from or kitchen. Learn to respect yourselves.

Did she know them personally? As in can she mention their names?