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Ekiti state paid me #500 when I served

People react to us the way we react to them subconsciously. Believe me, when you stop feeling mad at her and start genuinely caring g aaput her in your heart(not saying go lick her ass, just like her soul even if you do not accept what her flesh is doing) avoid her trouble and see her like a sister.
I do not know how you too talk to her, I can not judge your idea of talking in a condescending manner to you.
Tell her the way she spoke to you did not go down well, and you are sorry if she picked offence in the way you replied.
Sorry nnu

mrsefan:
ur mum fa ? N sisters em get ? Abeg scan ur bae plz she get too?

Hahahahh I can't shout jor!

Hunger no know "later"

KDOniyide:
FEMINISM! FEMINISM!! FEMINISM!!!
I don't get it really, after many failed relationships, some ladies just sit at the corner of their homes with a bitten fingernails, dirty hair and porn-filled phone and condemn men under the guise of feminism.
Listen, the advocacy for women empowerment and gender equality is a great idea but shouldn't be a battle for superiority. I get pissed up each time I see these lonely single ladies dictating the fate of others in a 'working' relationship. Let me tell you a little secret, there is no gay nor lesbian out there who was not deflowered by the opposite sex. They usually end up fighting what they either couldn't get or handle so why allow them dictate your life?
Trash religion and culture for a sec. When there is an association, there must be a leader. Any institution or organization without a leader will collapse in no time, no matter how strong or corporative they may be. A lady naturally expects the man to make the first move, she expects the man to provide for the family, she expects the man to be her Chief Security Officer, she expects the man to do so many thing she could even do for herself. Isn't that assigning leadership (not emperor) role to the man?
Maybe you should also look at it this way, your boss at work is often not better than you. I've been a boss over people older than me and I've also taken orders from those am older and sometimes more experienced than. Same with marriage. The husband is not more human than the wife. He is just a leader. Brother and sister fights, Nations war against each-other. There's bound to be misunderstandings but we should look for alternative ways of settling our differences and not some frustrated bitches approach of 'give it to him hot'
I strongly disapprove abusive relationships. women please stop fighting back when he beats you, just calm down, give him some good dose of sedatives and deal with the bastard. Step aside or a while and you guys will 'settle as usual' Don't take my words for it. No relationship or marriage is common. find what works for you.
Back to my point.The Lagos state Government established something called the Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR) which allows people to SETTLE their differences before heading to court.
We should also imbibe this idea in our relationship and marriages. Lets have alternative means of settling our relationship conflicts. Everything mustn't end in a fight for all.
If you do not believe in your husband leading the marriage, you will have problem taking orders in your work place and even with your friends.
and to the men, indeed the governance structure in marriage allocates headship to the man but that doesn't convey any form of superiority but immense responsibility.
my little Saturday morning piece.
KD Oniyide
Twitter/IG; @kdoniyide

How do you equate taking orders from your boss at work to working hand in hand with ones husband?
So a man that does dish orders in his home will also find it hard taking orders from his boss. If we want to compare office boss to ones own partner in a unuion such as marriage.
Marriage shouldnt be about boss and follower. It is two people making joint decisions and compromises.

I don tire for some women. For her mind now, she Don SET

I can relate. A very trying time in my life.

We had ọsẹ Igberaga(The week after resumption) and ọsẹ Igbera sợn lẹ( week before vacation )

In naija, it depends on gender. And the type of relationship

If you lose your mate to death as a man, you are encouraged to start dating as soon as possible.
They give a million reasons to keep a woman by your side. They do not want you to be lonely and sad.
If it is a woman who is left single after the death of a partner, people do not expect you to move on quickly. They give you aamillion reasons why being seen with another man would be bad. They preference you to be lonely and looking sad to prove you lost some one of value



If you guys are just dating, then anyone can move on anytime. Girl can agree for her long time toaster if she wants, guy can fall back on his side chick or start toasting the babe that has been admiring him.

What an old Bully he is.

temiloluwasam:
re-watch the video lol

Lion king and lion queen lion Don become trans. LION QUEEN


Back to you OP,

Expect a letter from my lawyer. Suing you for mental and emotional abuse.

You shall refund my MB. No joke.

I for vex for this click bait. But I forgive the poster

GBAGAMMMM!!!!!!! No need to shout. Madam have hear

Raddie:
will you get any legit money and gladly part away with 350?

After reading about how people die in the hands of trigger happy men in black over #50? Yes.
Even more if it would save my life and help me fight another day.
What if they had shot them and said they we're criminals? Would they live to fight over the #350k lost? Their families may end up paying double to reclaim their corpses. Smart move when faced with someone holding avgun and asking for money. They we're robbers. They had guns and position, they intimidated those men based on those facts. I do not blame the guys. Different people react differently to similar circumstances. You were not there. So leave it at that. Fight the abuser not the victim.

adeaks:
So what about the suspected fruadster who gave them the bribe. He will just walk away like that?

You just said it... A Suspect.. he did not give them bribe, they forced him to part with his money. To receive bank alert is not a crime. No one has the right to query you because you got bank alert. They have no evidence to prove he was a fraudster. Just their method of extortion.
Dem Don chop bone wey pass their throat.
He wouldnt pursue the case if his by hands were not clean.

Why hide his identity Na?

Na so dem dey do.
if they post it online tomorrow after having evidence, his fellow loose men would call her names and support the "it's a set up" theory.

engrchykae:
we are smarter than we can ever imagine.
we can convert our innate criminal tendencies coupled with our desperate and cold ways of achieving goals at all cost.
we can run the world again,it started with Nimrod and ended at with Hannibal.
black brain is the ultimate brain,that's the reason why the Europeans try to make everything Euro-centric for the original man to keep doubting himself.

That is why I said we need resetting. We have it in us. We just need to realize that the interest of our people comes first before personal gains. That is where the black race lost it's value.

engrchykae:
I ADVICE AFRICANS ESPECIALLY NIGERIANS TO BE ANNOYINGLY PROUD,ARROGANT,CONFIDENT,PHYSICALLY FIT,FINANCIALLY FIT,SOCIALLY RELEVANT,CONTEST FOR POLITICAL OFFICES,ACQUIRES LOTS OF SKILL.
THIS IS THE SWEETEST REVENGE YOU CAN HAVE OVER. THE SICK WHITE RACE,ASK THE JEWS,RUN THE WHITE,NEVER LET THEM RUN YOU,THE. JEWS ARE DOING IT. SO. WE CAN DO IT BETTER..

Jews are smart. Black brains need resetting we have let ourselves go

She should find out what school the girl attends and see her there.

abbeyty:
lol, just like my mum it can never be enough. dont you feel pain when you go to toilet afterward ?

Nope. I don't even remember I had pepper.
I start looking for my next fix as soon as time for next meal approaches. Does it burn some ?maybe if Na small pikin chop am sha.

abbeyty:
joke apart, what benefit do people get from eating too much pepper self?..moderation is the key too much pepper wont even let you enjoy the food. that remind me of my mum then, if you steal meat from my mother's pot there is no need for investigation you have to give yourself up when pepper is blowing your head

The pepper is the enjoyment Na. To me, there can't be "too much" when pepper is involved. There can only be Enough pepper or small pepper.
Eg..... I like how you put enough pepper for the food. E make sense
or..
Why you put small pepper for the food Na? E for make sense if say you put enough.

Shii. I DON LAUGH TIRE

ayamAgenius:
I'm entitled to my own reasoning, if you don't like it, MAKE YOURS!

OK sir

What do they do? What sort of inventory? Do they have a website?

ayamAgenius:
Sadly there are many *itche* like this culprit. Fast forward to 15-20yrs, there'll be wondering reason for their barreness.

Stop this propaganda not every woman looking to conceive has had an abortion. There are millions of women who have aborted and yet have plenty kids. There are women who never had abortions yet are looking to have kids. This kind of reasoning is bad.

Atmmachine:
Foolishness

Let me not brag about my wealth
I'm 20 times richer than that Mc Galaxy but let God strike me dead any day i spend money on any girl who is not my wife

This is a girl whose sister just bought an 800 million naira house in Banana island while the Foolish MC Galaxy still lives in Magodo

Spits

Hmn, he may be investing in the "business" maybe she no talk exactly as e be. But no dey vex by like this Na, you may meet a girl with good project that needs some support.
My only wahala is how she come talk all that plenty talk . She for just thank the guy and let matter rest. Why talking about not dating or toasting her? She just spoil the whole thing with that.

Politics and it's wahala.

I like this. Looking forward to the probes that will follow Bubu's clique after their tenure. The cycle is gonna continue. God would use them to fight and torment each other.
Na so dem go dey probe dey go.



Probe me I probe you o
Oh yeah
The thing wey you dey find o
You go see am today
If I dey run before o
I no run any more

Me I am liking this.

Na wa O. I just went to check mine to be sure. I no get power abeg.