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Wife's mom Na. If your wife is not comfortable with her mom, then she can decide to pick husband's mom. Its the wife's choice whom she feels comfortable with. Child birth can be very demanding from a new mom, she needs someone who can lovingly guide her along. So, let her decide whom as he is comfortable with.

3mmyz:
Before you insult me just know you are entitled to your own opinions. Anyone would get confused on what to do if inexperienced about this issue... I just hope you are a saint and not a hypocrite.
Case Closed

Saint. All the way. Not afraid to say it . No vex say I insult you. This thing just dey pain me . The poor child. Its all good I hope she finds a better home and a more peaceful life ahead of her.

Growingboi:
lol. taken. I beat her cox we are very close as, we play alot why hide such act for a very long time from me and i didt want to do false accusation, i wanted to hear the truth

Nna mehn, I dey vex for you O. Okay. But you for no beat her.it wouldn't change a thing. Her words are her words. Beat her or not, you would still confront the man anyway so why the pain on her?
I can't believe you are worried about the man, about how people would blame the girl for the actions of the man
About if he could bail himself out of jail
Damn, I Don calm down now.

3mmyz:
Why the harsh words? He had only hit her to bring up the truth! you should know it's quite hard for a child to tell such painful tales to her elders because of fear, rather than blaming the worried brother give him an advise.

Shame on you. May people hit you to bring out the truth when you fall victim of circumstance.

I dey vex O. Keep off. Abeg, for our own sake and good.
You support the hitting of a child to bring out truth? He beat her very well we're his own words. You agree to it?
He is not a brother at the moment. He is a facilitator and almost an enabler. He cares more about the abuser. Who gives a Bleep if he can't bail himself out? Is he worried that abrapist can't bail himself out? Damn. I guess the human side of me is out today. Make I leave this topic before I explode.

Growingboi:
I received a call from my elder sister yesterday, she was weeping bitterly on the phone saying I should leave whatever i was doing at work to come to her house that she is devoicing her hubby, even she has started parking her belongings. I asked her what was going on she said the issue is to heavy for her to pronounce that i should just come. I had to quickly take permission from my office cox i was very scared. When I got there she said my little niece that is staying with them says her husband has being molesting her for a very long time. She is just around 10 years and this very man which is a father of four from my sister should be around 45 years. I personal asked my niece and beaten her very well to tell me the truth, she said she was saying the truth and i asked her why was it not reported to my sister or me cox she always come to my house for visit, she said she was threatened by the man not to report to anyone or else she will be expelled from the house. So I confronted the man but the man denied it but the the hospital confirmed it that it is very obvious if the man denies it that I should get him arrested the they have all the files prepared for a police case. Sincerely, my sister is the bread winner of the house cox her husband who is a bus driver and who hardly goes to work cox he will complain of faulty vehicle. I personally paid almost 500k for purchase of the bus just for my sister's sake and to ensure that the man is working cox i love my sister like my wife and she respects me alot.
Early this morning, he called me that everything the girl said was true that we should forgive him that it was caused by the devil.
This is the man we(the mother of the little girl in overseas and me) have build a 3-bed room flat for around sango just for them to leave rented house and for them to be happy. They are suppose to park in this September ending. My sister says she doesn't want to see the man again as he has since left the house to unknown destination for the sake of arrest.
If i arrested the man, he has no money to even bail himself not to talk of court case, my sister on the other hand is still insisting on leaving the id*iot cox she can be happy with a man who sleeps with mother and daughter saying she might commit murder. If she devoice the man it will also be on record the it was my niece the stayed with them that cox the devoice.
How should i handle this? should my sister leave the man? should I arrest the man? how do I tell the man sister and her hubby in overseas? Meanwhile the girl is in my house now for security reasons.

You are very wicked sha. Why would you beat a child like that? She had to be punished even after coming out? No wonder many victims hide the fact. Cost they know they would be beaten and disgraced by their very own family who will sweep the incident under the rug even after truth is established. You sir are one of the reasons rape goes unchecked in our society.
To you your sister must be a "Mrs" whether she is Mrs to a beast or not is not important to you. She should just have the tag Mrs to her name. That is all you car about?
You are worse than the rapist. Trading your sister and the little girls happiness because of what people would say?
If say I know you, I for come slap you or organize boys to beat you up for real.

You want meaningful advice? Oya leave them, build another house for the man, renew his and your sisters wedding vows and then get an even younger neice for him to rape again. Then beat her up very well like you did the first one when she manages to come clean about her abuse.

See how you blame the little girl already for the cause of the divorce? Too blind to see that it's the mans actions that caused the divorce rather you are seeing the little victim as the cause of her own rape and destruction the dirty marriage.

Argghhhh, I have to calm down O dey vex for you no be small. Poor child and stupid guardians. Only your sister get sense for that una family? Wondering how to report a pedophile? Wondering how to hide the shame of a pedophile? Argghhhhh!

Talk2Bella:
honey no one comes into this world 100% loaded and perfect, you got everything else u want in a man, and because of preeq you want to leave? common

I don hear you O. When no be say Na height or skin color or shape of head we dey talk about here we we go say one can overlook it and enjoy the marriage.

See reply, lol. Why do peoe down play the importance of sex in women's lives .
As if you tell a guy, she can cook, clean, she loves you, you love her, better marry her and forget about sex before someone else would take her from you.

If she cheats on him now, they will still turn around to say
Shebi you O knw about his situation before you agreed to marry him, why did you not move on then? Why did you stay only to cheat on him?
Women wahala sha.

adewumiopeyemi:
in case he reach front page ok nice...today na my birthday i need 100 like in this comment... today na my birthday make na show me love...[b][/b]

Pkele Birthday boy. Many many happy returns of the day.

Na wa, it's a nice time to be a man ESP in naija.


I have one kwesion, why is it that some societies are quick to say......

Ori omo L'oun pe omo wale
when they suspect it's the woman's fault there are no kids in the union. And ask her to allow hubby bang other women in a bid to make any of his sidebabes have kids and maybe the wife would have hers too.

But if it is confirmed that the man is the problem, the same principle doesn't apply. The wife is asked to sit down and fast and pray for husbands shooter to recover fast and do it's natural job. Why doesn't the Ori Omo L' oun pe omo wale apply to the man too?

Another nairalander go still kill am chop later. You wait and see.

World people, learn to control your tongues. You no know who death want knock him door, you come open ya dirty mouth tell am say s/he go see. When death come do his job finish, world people go carry blame put for ya head.

iwadobo:
Naira land can't help you. If you are sure she is the one, look for a way to eliminate her and live in peace for life . Is she in the village or city? If she is in the village, better . She can easily be taken care of . No child , no husband. Yea, she would probably be staying alone or goes to the farm alone most of the time
Plan it well , do the needful and live in peace . It works !

For real? You asking him to kill someone because of his dreams? You sir, are beyond redemption.

obowunmi:
She appeared to me in a dream and threatened to kill me.

It is not her first time.

I was close to several Pastors for prayers but they keep asking me for money. So I stopped calling them.

She won't stop threating my life.

This is a woman who never married or bore children. She has given her womb to the witches society.

This makes no sense. Soon someone would also tagg you a wizard because he/she keeps seeing you in the dream and threatning her. Should we also believe their claim?

Geist:
3coins, the boy has been found oh. Thank God

All is well. I knew he would be.

pyyxxaro:
When a MAN is in LOVE a new MUMU is born

For Nollywood

# The Woman go be Patience Ozuokwo while the BINGO naaa Mr IBU #

Don't be naive. Its a fetish. Some men ask their women to walk them like dogs. Google would help you explain better

IamTheMask:
Like seriously

Hahaaha yes Na. Very possible and seriously

Person dey tire to run Na. I stand and fight or attack back. No time. Well unless it's something that scares me in real waking life like snakes.

How could dreams be real?
I am able to control things happening in my dreams. I don't run when being chased. I stand and fight and make sure I beat the he'll out a what ever it was attacking me

Food for lala. This topic will move to the front page like lightning.