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Na will power bro. Only you can help yourself at tgis stage.

Chei, I dey try to read up. Will be back.

Mans inhumanity to his fellow man.

I think its because men use and dump girls in the past.
In those days when girls were naive, boys will profess love and care and then when the girl thinks she has found the real deal, boys were just chopping and cleaning mouth leaving girls with broken hearts and nothing to show. So babes then decided to not give the honey for free. Now they do not trust a man based on his words alone. Now its show me your love by meeting my needs and then if you dump me tomorrow, at least I have something to show for it.

Chei chineke, help your creations o

Seduction? If a woman.married or single is expected to respect herself and ignore seduction from males around her work place, why then are some men acting like its impossible to ignore seduction too?
As for harrassment, ehn, I can understand that one. .But I do not believe a student can sexually harass her lecturer. Wetin he get to lose if he doesnt sleep with her? If she is his boss that I can understand but in both cases, the men involved are the "bosses" so what can they claim they will lose if they do not give in to the seduction or harrassment?
My answer is NONE

No be small thing o

tupem:
this guy! you quoted the above now! what is the white mans fault again?! [color=#990000] this guy! you quoted the above now! what is the white mans fault again?!

Ehn, how do we patch the leaking holes na? We agree there are leaks and holes but we need to find solution to those holes fa! How do we push forward the good peace loving people and pluck out the bad eggs? If a man knows that one of his sons is troublesome and spendrift, how does he plan his wealth to keep his crazy child from getting his claws on it? That is what I want us to discus here.

Yes o. I love his music. I love Harcourt white. He give me courage and he keeps me pushing forward against all odds. He is a remarkable man

missclasssy:
I would like to use this medium to sincerely apologize to Ishilove and other moderators for my poor display of character and judgment, especially in the last four days.
I was angry and I let that anger get the best of me.
I said a lot of things I shouldn't have said and I broke some delicate rules in the process.
In a feat of annoyance, I made a lot of mistakes that I regret, mistakes I would not want repeated ever again.

I am really sorry for the silly threads I created and the venomous words I used, all in the foolish attempt to incite members against a moderator for doing her job
Please accept my solemn apology.

I would also use this opportunity to apologize to all Nairaland members that I have provoked and insulted in the past, and to all those I have been rude to. Please from the bottom of my heart, I am sorry.

I promise to be of good behavior from now on and I promise to fully abide by the rules of this forum.

Thanks.

Go and sin no more!

Still looking for him oooo. Abeg make una join me in searching biko nnu!

siraj1402:
Only in Nigeria and yet we don't care.

We care o. But our cares and worries dont mater to our private jet flying ogas at the top. Thererin lies the problem.


@Topic

Hiannn! Naija na so we go dey?

My dear people of Africa, I was wondering today, how can we as a continent break free from western destruction? It is clear the western world is destroying Africa. Using our own brothers and sisters to destroy our dear continent. Using our faith, our greed, our anger, our hate and our inability to see life beyound "today and now" to destroy us. Please how do we break free from all this and creat a beautiful green continent called Africa? Please lets rub minds and see what we can do o.
The news around the world don tire me. Africans are now seen as the pests invading modern worlds. Biko how do we save Africa and save the face of the Black man?

mencade5:
i wont regret it delishpot. I know what i am saying. He simply asked for a simple help and i tried to assist him. I must not know everything about him and this lady. It is still the same thing. Bang and dumped or bang and stay. I am only for the bang and thats all.

As a realist, i dont pretend just to please people.

Ok Sir. You have spoken well sir.

Yet some cant pay workers salary?

Wey GenBuhari? Do we blame the white man for this too?

Jaycool18:
bro.. that tin na billions oo

Hiaaannn! Supreme God, see my hands o. Na wa, BILLIONS its well.

Fireflame144000:
How many times do I have to say this? My father wants to see if he can trace his family tree father back he has a family tree at his house in Nigeria.

Someone from loooong looong ago tango with people from those parts at one time or the other. Maybe 1000bc some asians did some thing to a black sister and that asian had those blood in him.
See, if an Asian whose parents have mixed parents should make a baby, that baby inherits those genes too. So maybe sometime ago, a woman had some relations with a mixed breed and then he passed Genes into your family. All it takes is for one parent to pass a million years anccestory gene to creat kids with such complicated or mixed DNA. No big deal

In

Ngwanu, make una no fight again.

Man must buy fuel jor!

mencade5:
sister i dont do all these christian, muslim or atheists behavior most nigerians do deceiving themselves at the same time.

I tried it before and now am regretting it. A matured man seek for our advise, are we to ignore him? Please dont bring the devil into this.

This hypocritic behaviour is what is killing this country. Sorry to burst ur bubbles God will not hold me responsible. Ur idealogy is false.

Op....try ur best i assure you she will succumb.

Ok o. In other words you say no supreme power exists ba? Ok o. Carry go. But o. Dont regret anything you did. Living a clean life does not mean denying yourself anything good. What is there to regret? He clearly isnt talking about having sex with the woman he loves. He is talking about sleeping and dumping a woman as a means of punishment for playing hard to get and as he claimed loves money. You do not care to know what she has asked from him yet you encourage him to bang her and dump her. Its well.

Na tete dem dey do? which one be try again!

mencade5:
wetin? Na ur sister him want fvck? Why u go dey talk like this sef? Abi boy no dey fvck you? Abeggi


op....somehow u have to spend but na small thing u go spend. Na with hook them dey take catch fish.


Spend on her, take her out , use sense spend small money then lie for her say e get one pepper wey u dey expect. Say u go lavish her enough. Even dey promise her tings wey she like.

Her mind go sweet, lure her to ur caban, na she go pull her pant by herself without u telling her.


Goodluck bro

Haaaa!!! Fear God o. Today you dey lead a man astray, tomorrow you go enter church or mosque to pray. God go ask for this brother's soul from you o.
OP, leave the girl. If she form tough, waka and leave her. No be must say you must spend on her. She nor dey drag ya purse. Dont be an end time child OP. Tge ones you do don reach you. God is watching you.

Taylor86:
bad belle

. The poor boy dey recover from the good wey him do wey come turn around treat him like mugu. You dey there dey ask wetin you go do the poor boy. Abegi, carry ya gwongworo commot make ya brother see road park his bentley jor
If you want know wetin you fit do to him, I go tell you.
Now, Open ya ears and hear me........go boil water give the young man make him bathe. Then buy am suya with malt and let him eat. After that, rub his feet and console him. The poor boy's heart is broken and he needs you to tell him that he did no wrong by helping someone in need. Next time make him tell baba to wait make him go house drop his load before comming back. Poor lad.

Taylor86:
here in ph

just sent my younger bro to go get 10 liters of fuel from sobaz filling station

my little bro bought d fuel on his way out of d station

an elderly man begged him to cue up for him dat his health is not much ok dat he should leave the fuel in his care

as a kid with respect and honor for d elderly he honestly cued for the old man so to relieve him d stress

after like 10 minutes my bro came back to check the oldman and his fuel,he couldn't blv d man has disappeared with the fuel and rubber


pls what should i do to him

Which kain question be that? Kill him nau


I learnt not to trust anyone again. Even elderly people too. An elderly woman stole my wristwatch once and Since then, I respect elders o, but I do not trust them with my property again.

Lucky guy escaped death. As for the kidnapers, if found guilty death sentence straight.

Raysly:
thank you very much for your answer honestly its has been a problem since i knew how to differentiate between my right from my left but always shy to say it out but i think i have to do something about it now thanks lot God bless you

Amen and you too.

E don happen!

OP, don make me laugh tire o

Ehm OP, going by the white man's rule, A drop of Negro blood makes you a negro. That you did not live and drink with Negros doesnt make your DNA change.

He is a man na. Those haters dont have any point.

Raysly:
Pls is thier anything one can do to stop it?

Omo, its to pray o. See, when you pray, do it as thanking God. For example say, Lord God, I thank you for delivering me from the forces holding me back. Thank you for moving me forward and making me accomplish my goals in life. Etc etc.
Then, hope you know that the Bible us against those who live in sin yet are expecting God to answer their prayers as soon as they call.
So fix where needs to be fixed in your life too physicaly and spiritualy. Take care of physical aspect i.e be active, dont give up, keep siezing chance when it cones your way, forward your education if need be and if you have resources, just do everything you can do in pgysical ajd then let God work on the spiritual.

I heard its a sign that life isnt progressing for the dreamer as he would want it to be. Dreams like writing exams and never finishing, going to market and never buying or selling etc.