₦airaland Forum

sisisioge:
She raised the bar of the kind of girl you really take fancy to...until you match or exceed that bar on another girl...you will keep remembering her...Pele.

lacruz12:
This is what happens when you give your all and expect your partner to do same. You were the drive behind the relationship and she was just a passenger hoping to alight when due, you gladly pick her up whenever she loses interest regardless of her sins.

You gotta move on bro, she doesn't deserve your love one bit. You know quite well you are never gonna be 'perfect' even if she comes back to you, so kill the feelings and see the light in your new girl.

Stop stalking her, start steering your life in the right direction. There's more to life than meets the eye, you are wasting precious time. Invest your energy and time into improving yourself. What's wrong with you is just inferiority complex.... Thinking you ain't gonna find another like her. My guy na lie

Build your self esteem and confidence, think about the lies and cheating and tell yourself you don't deserve a filth like her. No better revenge than being successful, give her reasons to see she lost a gem

EVILFOREST:

Organs:
Spouse/wife/significant other/ is not what is referenced here. The gist is about someone you take out on a date. Mumu read and comprehend. Again, it is you that lacks maturity bros, just stick with the akara sellers and the cleaners and waiters you date. You cannot, i repeat you cannot date the people i date. You are too poor mentally to start with.

Sixfeetbelle:
There's no need to whip anyone cause you're both saying the same thing.

If you invite someone out, you're mandated to foot their bills, be it a date or a business lunch with a prospective investor. Like he pointed out, paying for meals shouldn't be a problem if you don't have a poverty mentality.

Now with dates, you can weave your way out of footing the bills when you let your date know they'll be paying. Like you said, Mark can ask his wife to pay for their meals and she will. It has nothing to do with if she's working or not. However, you can only request for your date to foot a dinner you prompted if you guys are familiar with each other, in this case, it's completely normal to ask your girlfriend/fiancee/wife to foot the bills. However, do note, you can't pull this stunt on a first date though. The best you can get is a "split bill" arrangement.

Point is: paying for food shouldn't be such a problem in a civilised world, but I know it is being abused in this part of the world. And also, hope you know It's simple courtesy to let your date know how bills will be footed before the date.

dosage150:
Alright, but the salary is through bank, should I have to call him and thank him or thank him whenever he visits, I feel uncomfortable saying "thank you", he is not doing me a Favour

WoundedLamb:
You must be talking about a petty business where cash is handed over to the employee by the business owner at the end of a period. If that's the case, saying 'thanks' is only polite and not necessarily appreciation. Even if the it's the secretary that gives me the cash, I'd still say 'thanks'.

However, salary payment does not always involve the employer and the employee physically coming together to even necessitate any form of conversation. The common thing is that everyone gets alert on a particular day of the month and life goes on.

Organs:
Bros, now let me break it down for you. You are poor and wretched. You are requesting for a babe to foot her bill and making a fuss about it and talking about who is who on the internet? You complaining about babe paying for herself is talking about feeding someone? Nope youre not capable of it. Where i am from, we do not regard feeding people as being better than them, its just mercy from God that you have and you share. Conclusively, bros, do not take it personal, to each his own, you are poor and consider paying for food as a lady milking or cheating you, i don't. I pay for food for people i don't even know. Food is gift from God, it's not something to boast about or flex about. Its poor, hungry, bitter people like your wretched self that do that.

Madibah:
Yeah at 15 I was done with college
Same 15 I got admission
At 21 I did my nysc
Before getting to 22 I got the federal teaching job
Though it was connection

Before 23 have gathered enough money
And pregnancy is the reason behind the marriage

PAGAN9JA:
I believe the hatred against homosexuals came with christianity and islam. Africans were not so concerned about it before. Us Traditional Religionists are generally tolerant of everyone. Also notice the Traditional Ruler's amiable behaviour towards the Area Scatter. He even stood up to applaud his performance. There is a big difference in attitudes today. Also homosexuality was not as rife as before because nowadays it is being marketed. Homosexuals today have also become very outrightly vulgar unlike before. There are faults on both sides.


I am a practitioner of Hausa Traditional Religion (Boori) myself and many of the spirits worshipped and those people possesed by it during religious rituals are known homosexuals (Yan Daudu). You will find large number of women and homosexuals and all the discriminated sections of society in these rituals as it gives them relief from the fanatical world outside.

There is a propaganda being spread by christians and muslims to say that African culture abhorrs homosexuals.

Madibah:
I'm happily married with two kids
Its been 6 years now
I got married at 23
My wife is a year older than me .and she's 8 months pregnant
She has what is called understanding .
The best woman ever
She's a boy girl when we became friends
And I fell in love with her
She isn't prayerfull but she can never fcvk up
Ajeh

Madibah:
I'm happily married with two kids
Its been 6 years now
I got married at 23
My wife is a year older than me .and she's 8 months pregnant
She has what is called understanding .
The best woman ever
She's a boy girl when we became friends
And I fell in love with her
She isn't prayerfull but she can never fcvk up
Ajeh

FirePower1:
Most of what we regard as peaceful situations are in essence cold war. Is China as a nation really at peace? What China has is actually the subjugation of the weak in the society and that is far from genuine peace.

Organs:
Poverty has bastardized you so much youre calling paying for food, materialism, i mean "FOOD"..... Na wah oh. Why should you invite a babe out if you are too poor to take your own self out? Bros, its not by force to flex and blame the babe. Why should a babe pay for her own food when youre the one asking her out and asking her out on a date? Remove your poverty ridden mentality from my mention. Good advice, keep your broke economic reality harsh condition in your father's house or in your wretched apartment. Nobi by force to trip babe then blame babe that she did not pay, or she use too much toilet roll at your house, or asked for plantain with jollof rice or that she did not leave her takeaway for you to use for lunch the next day. Poverty deadhead.

Tundeprintz:
Too many hungry fools, the worse part is them trying to act posh. I remember meeting up with this biitch at one eatery early this year. After chatting for a while, with laughs and all. She then asked what i wanted from her, i bluntly told her strictly FWB, as i just got of a relationship at the time and was never looking forward to getting into another for a long time.

Her mood changed afterwards and the chat became so boring, i then told her i was not going to stop her if she wanted to leave. Biitch said okay and ended her words with "dont call my number again", in my mind i was like, you just spelt out my intention.

But what surprised me was this biitch had the nerve to still demand tfare, I sha vex drop am 1k, then she left with my hollandia youghurt that i hadn't opened. I was more surprised than angry, I just dey laugh for my mind say hunger dey this land no be small.

Organs:
Shut up poor man. Only a poor shameless man complain about buying food for a lady he is wooing. Double your hustle and change that stupid poor wretched mentality.

Brachaa:
Lol.... Funnily enough, when I'm going on a date, the last thing on my mind is food especially if it's someone I really fancy because I'll be filled with the excitement of meeting you. But Truth be told, if I don't fancy you, I'll chop you to stupor so that next time, you won't reason a date with me.lol...

Dcoy:
If you can't feed a girl, why you want date am.. you don't wanna work but you wanna chop....if you don't feed her well you might end up eating bone...whey fit hook you for throat

maiquel:
I went on a date with my long-term friend and babe... the date was a proposal to settle scores (a fight that had lingered for 2 months)
After we talked and established the problems, we settled it with smiles.
Then we ordered food. We ate until we couldn't stand up again. This was at ICM lagos.
We said our goodbyes and headed home.

In all of our outings, food is part of the agenda.
Even if I don't have money, I just tell her and she covers the bill.
If she doesn't have, she tells me.
We do what we can afford.
Sometimes cooked corn was just okay.
Other times, I take pizza, she takes sharwama...

When we were in school, we had a regular joint.

Life no hard like that.
[/b]Get yourself a good girl/guy [b]

Food shouldn't be an issue in your relationship.
Nah...

maiquel:
I went on a date with my long-term friend and babe... the date was a proposal to settle scores (a fight that had lingered for 2 months)
After we talked and established the problems, we settled it with smiles.
Then we ordered food. We ate until we couldn't stand up again. This was at ICM lagos.
We said our goodbyes and headed home.

In all of our outings, food is part of the agenda.
Even if I don't have money, I just tell her and she covers the bill.
If she doesn't have, she tells me.
We do what we can afford.
Sometimes cooked corn was just okay.
Other times, I take pizza, she takes sharwama...

When we were in school, we had a regular joint.

Life no hard like that.
[/size]Get yourself a good girl/guy [size=8pt]

Food shouldn't be an issue in your relationship.
Nah...

maiquel:
I went on a date with my long-term friend and babe... the date was a proposal to settle scores (a fight that had lingered for 2 months)
After we talked and established the problems, we settled it with smiles.
Then we ordered food. We ate until we couldn't stand up again. This was at ICM lagos.
We said our goodbyes and headed home.

In all of our outings, food is part of the agenda.
Even if I don't have money, I just tell her and she covers the bill.
If she doesn't have, she tells me.
We do what we can afford.
Sometimes cooked corn was just okay.
Other times, I take pizza, she takes sharwama...

When we were in school, we had a regular joint.

Life no hard like that.
[left][/left] Get yourself a good girl/guy [right][/right]

Food shouldn't be an issue in your relationship.
Nah...

maiquel:
I went on a date with my long-term friend and babe... the date was a proposal to settle scores (a fight that had lingered for 2 months)
After we talked and established the problems, we settled it with smiles.
Then we ordered food. We ate until we couldn't stand up again. This was at ICM lagos.
We said our goodbyes and headed home.

In all of our outings, food is part of the agenda.
Even if I don't have money, I just tell her and she covers the bill.
If she doesn't have, she tells me.
We do what we can afford.
Sometimes cooked corn was just okay.
Other times, I take pizza, she takes sharwama...

When we were in school, we had a regular joint.

Life no hard like that.
[center]Get yourself a good girl/guy [center]

Food shouldn't be an issue in your relationship.
Nah...

maiquel:
I went on a date with my long-term friend and babe... the date was a proposal to settle scores (a fight that had lingered for 2 months)
After we talked and established the problems, we settled it with smiles.
Then we ordered food. We ate until we couldn't stand up again. This was at ICM lagos.
We said our goodbyes and headed home.

In all of our outings, food is part of the agenda.
Even if I don't have money, I just tell her and she covers the bill.
If she doesn't have, she tells me.
We do what we can afford.
Sometimes cooked corn was just okay.
Other times, I take pizza, she takes sharwama...

When we were in school, we had a regular joint.

Life no hard like that.
[center][/center]Get yourself a good girl/guy [center][/center]

Food shouldn't be an issue in your relationship.
Nah...

Kekereekun123:
learn boy. Population 7k. Makoko alone has over 200k. Gypsies all over Europe are known to be poor and live this type of life

Mustiboy:
Thing is, most people castigating this show wouldn't decline an offer into the BB House.

Be that as it may, I still think the show is meaningless and adds no value to its followers. That's why I don't watch it and have never did.

While I'm happy for the one who emerged winner, I still think Nigerians will fair better if they directed their attention to more resourceful things.

Look at how messed up the country is, yet virtually no one is bordered. We've embraced suffering as a way of life.

Osobi32:
They even added groundnut and milk..... ahh they are lucky ooo