₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
Thankful to a potential home invader? Are you for real?

AustineE1:
'Bring up a child the way he should grow,when he grows up,he will never depart from it',bible!

chi900:
“I started nudity because of Rihanna. Until, a company offered me money to show myself more. My parents are pastors, they don’t support it.”

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N1KkXrdOOYc

nairalandadeux:
Nigeria produces crude a lot. They don't. So their costs are higher.

And it is a myth to believe any African currency is strong. All of them are weak.

iwaeda:
https://punchng.com/why-fuel-smuggling-thrives-despite-subsidy-removal-customs/

TimeManager:
https://punchng.com/fg-declares-minna-airport-as-alternative-to-abuja-airport/

iLegendd:
...that

Real men don't love and they don't want you to love them either. All they want is a good family history (from the woman), respect, loyalty and faithfulness.

(Feminist or so-called educated women, with Western ideology, see this as slavery. That's why most of them are single or married to SIMPs who have no say in the house.)

Ned Nwoko or Tubaba doesn't need your love. Just give them the things I listed above and they're good.

Love ruins men. All we want is peace of mind, not love. Keep the love for the children (we'll born) and teens of age 1 to 19 years.

From age 20, a man doesn't need love but money, good health and peace of mind.

Only wise men know this, but men brainwashed by Western culture don't and they're ready to debate this, thinking they're wise.

I have given you the truth no one will ever tell you, but I know most won't listen and you'll surely learn the hard way in due time. Mark my words.

The highest it'll take is 15 years and you'll come to your senses that truly, a man from age 20 and above shouldn't love, but focus on money, good health, and peace of mind.

Imagine knowing this secret early in life, you'll be ahead of your peers. When they're talking of heartbreak, disloyalty, lack of love in the relationship, you'll just laugh at them because you know where the mistake is coming from.

HE LOVED or expected to be LOVED BACK, but she betrayed his love. Mumu man.

"You don't need to prove anything to anyone."

Double0h7:
Why? Why over sell yourself? Why lie about your intentions? Why lie full 🛑!??

Sunshine34:
Many guys pay for this, imagine on a platter of gold and you go report

CodeTemplarr:
Hmmm. We need to develop a marriage video game and have couples play for days at a time to test waters and solidify their perspective.

busariabeyx24:
Why I Want to Separate from My Wife

Our relationship has become emotionally unsustainable for me, and after long periods of silence, inner conflict, and attempts to make things work, I have come to the difficult conclusion that separation is the healthiest path forward—for both of us. There are several deeply rooted issues that have contributed to this decision, and I believe it’s important to lay them out clearly.

1. Lack of Intimacy and Weaponization of Sex
Intimacy has all but vanished in our relationship. What’s more painful is that she uses sex as a tool—to control, punish, or manipulate. This has left me feeling undesired, unwanted, and emotionally abandoned. Intimacy is not just physical, it's also about connection, vulnerability, and shared closeness—and we have none of that left.

2. Emotional Abandonment and Loneliness
While she often chooses to go out and spend hours with her friends, I’m left alone in the house, feeling isolated and neglected. Even when we’re in the same space, we’re disconnected. Her priorities have shifted away from our relationship and family, and I feel like a ghost in my own home.

3. Neglect of Parental Responsibilities
Despite being a trained teacher, she makes no effort to support the children academically. Their homework, school needs, and learning challenges fall entirely on me, even though I’m also the primary provider. It hurts to watch our children miss out on guidance that she’s perfectly capable of giving.

4. Communication Breakdown
We barely talk. When we do, it's either transactional or tense. There's no emotional sharing, no joint planning, no meaningful conversation. We exist like two strangers under the same roof.

5. Disregard for My Input and Support
Time and again, I’ve offered her advice that could have helped her avoid unnecessary stress or mistakes, but she disregards me—only to later face the exact consequences I warned about. It feels like my voice has no value in her life.

6. Encouraging Poor Habits in the Kids
She not only neglects the kids’ school work, but she also encourages them to go to the next neighborhood to play or hang out—at times when they should be studying or resting. It undermines my efforts to instill discipline and focus in our children.

7. Lack of Respect for My Hustle
She shows no interest or concern in how I make money, the pressure I’m under, or the sacrifices I make to keep the family going. There’s no appreciation, no empathy, just entitlement and expectation. I feel invisible, like a machine that’s supposed to produce without rest or recognition.

8. Misplaced Priorities
Her life seems to revolve around eating, watching TV, and spending hours gossiping with friends. There’s little to no effort toward improving our household, our relationship, or our children’s future. That kind of passivity is damaging, not just for our marriage but for our family as a whole.

9. Manipulation by Friends
She allows her so-called friends to influence how she treats me, even to the point of disrespect. Rather than defending or standing by me as a partner, she lets their words shape her actions against me. This betrayal by proxy is incredibly painful.

10. Ongoing Emotional Disregard
As I write this, she has been outside gossiping with a friend for over three hours—leaving me inside, emotionally abandoned once again. This isn’t an isolated event; it’s a pattern. I’ve begged for her time, attention, and partnership, but she chooses others over and over again.

Parrot69:
I thought Gombe is a Muslim state?

Kobojunkie:
1. Nope!

2. Again, the answer is an emphatic No! Jesus Christ of Israel's claim, as recorded in Israelites-only Scripture, is that only individuals born from their mother's womb of the bloodline of Jacob require this supposed atonement of sins and could help obtain it by way of the Covenant, which is the Kingdom of God. The same Jesus Christ of Israel went to state that those who were not born of that bloodline had no capacity to handle that which is Holy... His Covenant.. and hence warned His followers to avoid them where it concerns the details of the Covenant. This all directly conflicts with the religious narratives, all of which mostly insist that all humans require atonement and all qualify for Jesus Christ of Israel's death.

3. thinking emoticon ➜🤔

4. The existence of mainstream Christianity in Nigeria is a perception, though not a reality. You only need to directly interact with some of the members from the many different Christian organizations to realize that they do not consider themselves the same. The competition between the various sects is palpable in some communities. Within the same organization/denomination(complete overarching interpretation of scriptures), you are bound to find several other mini-denominations with their own additional ideas regarding the core interpretations fed to them from the religion's overlord higher up on the organizational hierarchy. RCCG and Deeper Life are two particular organizations/denominations that I am aware operate in this manner. Mainstream Christianity does not exist in Nigeria as far as I know.

4. It sounds extreme, but if you reason it clearly, you will find it isn't.
⚉ Can a book written in plaintext — not alien language or by aliens — really have over 46,000 different interpretations?
⚉ Does any book written by human authors in human language for the direct consumption of humans, no formal education required, require interpreting?
⚉ If the contextual content of a book— author's message — points to logic A, but the reader's particular forced interpretation points away from logic A, do we conclude that the author was wrong and the reader is instead correct?

The God of the Book took on the title God of Israel alone, declaring Israel His only inheritance in the land of men — Humans. Jesus Christ of Israel came declaring His Father, YHWH, God of Israel, sent Him only to the Lost Sheep of Israel(He never went on this declaration). All of the prophets of Israel before and after Jesus Christ of Israel were Israelites. But somehow Religion of Christianity(Islam as well) would have us believe that right after the Roman war against the Jews which lead to complete decimation of Jerusalem, the exile of the Jewish Population from much of the Roman Empire, and the destruction of the nation of Judah by the Romans during the first Century AD, the Romans — non-Israelites — took over the reigns and became the chosen people of this very same God of Israel and His Son, Jesus Christ of Israel.

Truthseeker10:
In the above scriptures that you've quote
1)what part of human burn in hell fire?
2)where will people burn forever, hell fire or lake of fire?

Truthseeker10:
Does the Bible teach that God will burn people forever in Hell?

Matthew 13
49 So shall it be at the end of the world: the angels shall come forth, and sever the wicked from among the just,

50 And shall cast them into the furnace of fire: there shall be wailing and gnashing of teeth.

Matthew 25
31 When the Son of man shall come in his glory, and all the holy angels with him, then shall he sit upon the throne of his glory:

32 And before him shall be gathered all nations: and he shall separate them one from another, as a shepherd divideth his sheep from the goats:

33 And he shall set the sheep on his right hand, but the goats on the left.

34 Then shall the King say unto them on his right hand, Come, ye blessed of my Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world:

41 Then shall he say also unto them on the left hand, Depart from me, ye cursed, into everlasting fire, prepared for the devil and his angels:

Mark 9:43
And if thy hand offend thee, cut it off: it is better for thee to enter into life maimed, than having two hands to go into hell, into the fire that never shall be quenched:

Revelation 20:15
And whosoever was not found written in the book of life was cast into the lake of fire.

Thankgod89:
You're right, it wasn’t murder or theft in the usual sense. It was disobedience. But not just breaking a random rule, it was a rupture in relationship. God gave humans everything, life, freedom, purpose, joy and one boundary to honor His authority and trust. Eating the fruit wasn’t about snacking; it was about saying, “I want to decide what’s right and wrong without You.” It was a declaration of independence from the very Source of life.

The consequence of separating from God isn’t just punishment, it’s death, because God is life. If I unplug a lamp, it doesn’t get punished—it just goes dark. Sin is unplugging from the Source, and darkness naturally follows. It’s not about God being offended over a technicality. It’s about the human race stepping out of harmony with the Creator and everything else unraveling from there.

Could God have just forgiven them? Absolutely. But forgiveness, even for God, isn’t ignoring the reality of damage. True forgiveness costs something emotionally, relationally, even spiritually. And that cost is what Jesus eventually bore. But even in the garden, God didn’t sever ties. He went looking for them. He clothed them. He promised a future Redeemer (Genesis 3:15). Discipline came, yes but not abandonment. It was a fracture, not a final goodbye.

Now about the analogy of parenting, it’s a good one. We don’t disown toddlers for breaking plates, true. But we do teach them that choices have consequences. And if that child one day grows up and says, “I don’t want your rules, your values, or your love, I’ll live how I want,” that’s not just a broken plate. That’s a broken relationship. That’s the tragedy of sin and it’s not that God won’t forgive, it’s that people can choose to reject Him.

I believe in the Holy Bible, guided by the help of the Holy Spirit. I don’t compare my faith with Islam or any other belief system. Someone once asked you question from Hebrews 11:3:
“Through faith we understand that the worlds were framed by the word of God, so that things which are seen were not made of things which do appear.”

From there, the conversation just kept unfolding…

Christianity isn’t filled with heavy doctrines, the message is actually clear. The problem isn’t with the faith, but with how it’s often misunderstood. As Jesus said in John 5:39:
“Search the Scriptures; for in them you think you have eternal life: and they are they which testify of Me.”
The heart of it all is Christ. If you truly seek Him through the Word, the message becomes clearer.