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attackgat:
A London based Nigerian has posted a picture he took of a poster in a train in the city, that is circulating all over public transport in London such as trains and Buses.

The poster is sponsored by a charity called Christian Aid, and claims that Nigeria has over 10 million children out of School.

iLegendd:
If Boko Haram captures you and the only way to be spared is to learn and write Arabic in 1 week, trust me, you'll master it in 3 days and have 4 days to spare. That is how the brain works. Andrew Tate's father learned Russia in a week.

Freedom is the reason we're lazy or find things difficult. Take away that freedom and watch how smart we are.

Kaiser20:
Yes sir

Kaiser20:
Better Lifestyle than the USA, I am a testimony
Germany to be precise

Kaiser20:
Most Third World and developing countries still believe the USA has Everything, but No.
Europe is more

Winnin009:
Lol. Leave that guy with his selective comprehension. When I saw that comment, I honestly couldn't muster a sensible reply because wtf is going on in that head of this?!

WriterNig:
With the way the US brags about being a super power, you'd think it will be them supplying electricity to Canada.

Even Nigeria that they look down on supplies other African countries with electricity.

Ordinary electricity. At this point the US isn't even a regional power, Canada is.

Because with just one click, the whole of the US will be thrown into darkness, into stone age.

From Trump's rant you'll know that Canada is the biggest player in North America and the US relies on them for everything.

They couldn't even put off their wildfires without Canada's help.

jesusjnr2020:
What God Gave To Adam When He Was Lonely

God gave Adam a woman not a man.

Genesis 2:18 (KJV)

And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.

Genesis 2:21-22 (KJV)

And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof;
And the rib, which the LORD God had taken from man, made he a WOMAN, and brought her unto the MAN.

Therefore whenever you see humans doing anything to the contrary, you should know that tendency didn't emanate from God but the devil, because that's not how God made them to be in the beginning.

God bless.

Ilamina:
That I am a failure

Cutezt:
No doubt about that. The same Akpabio was unruly and did exactly what Natasha did over seating arrangement while Saraki was SP, he was never suspended, but suddenly, he is suspending another person for following his footsteps.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gPXH7jkxgZs?si=C7AY4WUDnIIre7lk

Ilamina:
yea

Morbeta11:
https://x.com/Laurestar/status/1898305990988005772?t=qVdSi2FYrj9YlvIVVXIFAw&s=08[/quote]Used to work with this lady in a small office about seven years ago. We got hired on the same day—three of us in total—but the other guy quit not long after, so that kinda grouped us together by default. She had a car while I was still trekking, which meant most evenings after work, she’d drop me off at my bus stop on her way home. So yeah, we spent a little extra time together outside of work.

She later started an NGO, and I helped her out because I considered her a friend. That led to even more time together, eventually spilling over into a few non-work, non-NGO events—just the two of us. Now, to be clear, I had zero intentions because, honestly, she was way out of my league. But this girl? She'd always leave her space and come into mine to get physically engaged whenever we were alone in the office.

Then, out of nowhere, the boss casually mentioned wanting to install cameras in the office and called me in to ask questions about my coworker. At the time, I thought he was being paranoid. Never really considered myself sexually harassed, even though, yeah, her “engagement” was definitely sexual. But with all y’all butthurt MFs constantly bringing up sexual harassment, I’m starting to think… maybe I have been SH’d in the past.

purples25:
Thanks, your concern is appreciated.

As long as I keep ignoring troublemakers and gossips in the area, we are good.

purples25:
Moved in two years ago or so. My first time of living in a neighborhood like that. Me and hubby trying to sit tight until things got better.

I came in right after having my baby and looked like shit with my natural hair. I relaxed the hair next month and it was very long. I also lost weight and started dressing nice. They weren't laughing anymore. I spoke good English. They looked depressed and intimidated. All the girlfriends of drunks in the area, all the market women wearing wrappers around and some even refused to greet me, that is they refused to respond to my greetings. My first few days there I was passing with my baby and attempted to greet a guy, he muttered that I should dey my dey while he dey on his own, with so much malice and contempt.

I made hair after hair. I used a baby carrier, I never really backed my baby. First day I did that, a drunk passed us and set his red eyes on my baby with such a glare that I was wondering what the little child did to him, is it his fault that his mom got something different to carry him with? My child was fair and cute at that point. People said I was fine and my baby was fine, some kids said when they grow up they want to have my style, some people came up to me and praised me. I didn't know the fire I was lighting up under my own ass ...

I saw a lot of things from those people. I was mocked, they sent their kids to ridicule me in the market, their kids on their own started insulting me and my child. Once I couldn't make that hair again it was a great victory for them, the boys from the betting shop close by will actually call their friends to where i am, point at me and laugh. They observed me very closely and mocked me anytime I wasn't able to keep to the former standard of nice dressing and hair, and dressing up my kid. They started loudly complaining that I never allow my child to walk even if he was just a year plus and walked well at home. Some people will even come up to me and tell me to allow the boy to walk. Someone directly told me it's because I use a baby carrier and not what Is common to the neighborhood, which is backing babies with wrapper.

When that mockery with intensity set up on making me an object of ridicule started, even aboki join in o. When the kids were following me with songs and the women and drunks in the area that I never greet were sated, aboki sef start to dey feel important, they will pass and look me up and down slowly, they would laugh. I had ignited so much hatred by suddenly moving in looking nice and being different with my baby.

A woman dropped a fetish substance of boiled eggs and God knows what at my door to scare me or anything else. A line of women sat in the narrow path we cross every day observing me and my son. They didn't stop observing until when after things got bad, my son turned dark in complexion then they stopped their close up mockery and left in smiles.

I cut my long hair to get them off, if that was the thing that made them angry. They didn't stop, they mocked me more. They started saying I looked like a man, some people will loudly comment to my face when their friends point me out. The stupid drunks in the area felt important, the cowards now felt confident that they now swerve when I pass, idiots. Who should be swerving for who. The same drinks that start playing abusive music about cheating wives and saying all sorts of things to make themselves feel ok because I don't greet them, they said I'm old, they said I've given birth, they said I used to sleep with senators and later they said na me go dey look for senators.

I started speaking pidgin because of the hostility and angry claims that I'm just a poor person who was forming, but that changed nothing.

I can't say all but it really affected me, I went down to feeling like nothing. Leaving for a while never stopped them , when I came back they resumed mockery and monitoring. I left again and now it seems they are sated because they have ridiculed me to a point when they can now take their eyes off me and afford not to care.

I now don't dare to do any hair style that the old women in the neighborhood don't do again, nothing flashy. I don't have that self esteem again, I became hard towards my son, I frown whenever I'm out because I wake up every day remembering my 'downfall' in the neighborhood. I don't know if I will regain my former softness or self esteem, right now I'm like whatever. Sometimes I hit my kid In public, I found myself acting just like those women tying wrapper, those old unfashionable women with hairstyles that make them look even older. I decided today that I'll try and mend my relationship with my son because he no longer looks sad when I hit him, he just got home today and started smashing his most loved toy on the wall. That's anger issues starting because of me, so I'll try to heal and fix things with him.

There are many animalistic people and most, not all, people in the hood are of that type. They can't see you shine and not make you miserable.

I'm glad we may be moving out soon.

Mercisharelove:
The thought of after this life should always fill your entire be. Because you see life on earth is so short that many forget to plan life after death. Never make the mistake of negligence.

And so, she died without the plan for eternity. At the end of the day, it was such a costly mistake that should never have happened.

The question is, those still alive, are they planning to live well after death or they are only planning to live well on the earth Life has two sides, now and after

Time shall tell!

Ilamina:
Nothing good about me

Pharaoh4rin:
It takes the highest level of civilization for a lady to ask for a man's hand in relationship or complex enough, proposed to him.

Men have been doing this since Moses era in the bible. It's time for women to align

I like her gut.

Samantha125:
There are some women who have the same or more resources than the husband, but would still choose to fight the side chick instead of the husband.

We tend to be in denial of the fact that the marriage has hit rock bottom because we want to continue having that picture perfect of our marriage in our head... And again we're trying to avoid the stigmatization that comes with being a divorced woman, the society alone can be cruel towards female divorcees... Now instead of addressing the elephant in the room, we'll look for a scapegoat.

But yes, some women would choose to fight the side chick in an attempt to guard their resources even though it hardly ends well... Imagine fighting the side chick, only for your husband to end up leaving you for the same side chick...

Samantha125:
It's like we women tend to be in denial whenever our relationship or marriage hits the rocks... Instead of facing the root of the problem, we'll look for a scapegoat instead and in instances like this one, the side chick is always the scapegoat, when the husband was the one who decided to chase after another woman knowing very well that he was married.

Even if she managed to chase the side chick away, he was still going to get another one since she'd have not addressed the root of the problem.

Samantha125:
But I don't get it, why is it that whenever I man cheats, we blame the side chick?

Is it not the responsibility of the man to do away with other women in order to keep his marriage intact? I mean he's the married one here and not the side chick... The wife should deal with the husband head on because he's the root of the problem.

ItisWell22:
Why do I feel it was all staged.

Yea, albeit, shamefully.

But how many of us been know this girl before now? 🤔