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Mercisharelove:
The thought of after this life should always fill your entire be. Because you see life on earth is so short that many forget to plan life after death. Never make the mistake of negligence.

And so, she died without the plan for eternity. At the end of the day, it was such a costly mistake that should never have happened.

The question is, those still alive, are they planning to live well after death or they are only planning to live well on the earth Life has two sides, now and after

Time shall tell!

Did you plan your life before birth?

Ilamina:
Nothing good about me

What exactly do you want us to do with this information? Pity you?

Head of HR—a whole Head of HR oo—yet seems out of touch with their own terms of service and procedures? Doesn't know if his office is the proper channel of communication or not. You're responsible for personnel management, where do you think their letters should follow. Continue grappling in the dark for answers and asking random internet people, this man will chop correct damages on your head and he'll deserve every naira of it because he did his homework and you're looking to copy answers.

What stands out about Natasha’s modus operandi is her power of bluff. I should clarify that this analysis of her personality is purely hypothetical. I don’t know Natasha personally, so my assessment is based solely on her public actions—assuming, of course, that this letter is legitimate.

Natasha is the kind of person who, if offended, will drag the matter into the public eye with a lawsuit. But her real weapon isn’t the lawsuit itself—it’s the reputational damage, or the mere threat of it, that makes it effective. She is adept at playing the victim, fully aware that public opinion tends to favor an "injured" woman, especially one perceived as attractive.

This brings to mind the case of Johnny Depp and Amber Heard. Depp endured years of abuse while Heard meticulously laid traps, collecting "evidence" in preparation for an eventual public lawsuit. When Depp finally threatened to expose her, she reportedly taunted him, saying:

"Tell them, 'I, Johnny Depp, am a victim of domestic abuse'... and see how many people believe or side with you."

I’ve come to recognize a pattern in how some women wield defamation as a post-relationship litigation strategy.

Natasha’s letter is filled with serious accusations but offers little to no supporting evidence. The emotionally reactive mind won’t stop to question this lack of proof before jumping to vilify the accused—that’s the real potency of this tactic. We have the letter, we have the claims, but we have no evidence. And that’s where the story ends.

Here’s a list of the accusations and the evidence that remains conspicuously absent:

1. Poisoning/Feticide Allegation

- No toxicology reports
- No medical documentation
- No police reports
- No witness statements from others at the dinner



2. Assault Claims

-No medical reports documenting injuries
- No photographs of injuries
- No police reports
- No third-party witness statements



3. Financial Loss/Appropriation

- No bank records showing transfers
- No loan agreements
- No business contracts or partnership documents
- No evidence of consulting work performed


4. Imprisonment/Servitude Claims

- No police reports
- No witness statements
- No documentation of restricted movement


5. Ectopic Pregnancy & Related Injuries

- No medical records
- No hospital documentation
- No physician statements


6. Loss of Business Opportunities

- No contract terminations documented
- No evidence of external interference in her business affairs


7. Forced Cohabitation

- No evidence of coercion in living arrangements


8. Armed Guards Restricting Movement

- No witness statements
- No photographic or video evidence



If this man is truly the monster she portrays, why did she agree to marry him after everything she claims he put her through?

Pharaoh4rin:
It takes the highest level of civilization for a lady to ask for a man's hand in relationship or complex enough, proposed to him.

Men have been doing this since Moses era in the bible. It's time for women to align

I like her gut.

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I've grown to dislike this woman over the course of this case. Her stubbornness is of the most foolish kind—causing all this drama simply because of her overblown ego. It was an absolutely legitimate request to change her seats, yet she chose to put on a public display of irrationality.

Were you the only one whose seat was changed? No. Yet somehow, you're the only one claiming to be sexually harassed and bullied. You acted foolishly—rather than apologizing and moving on, you dragged your personal baggage with the SP into the matter. If you have receipts, publish them and put an end to these antics. But no, you’d rather play the victim. Take your suspension in silence and stop disturbing the peace.

This is not the kind of representation women in politics need. It only reinforces the misogynistic belief that giving a woman a little power leads to unnecessary drama and confusion. Meanwhile, we have women like Prof. Moji Adeyeye risking their lives to safeguard ours, yet it's this one, with all her theatrics, who gets the most attention.

Which one be Lamba-di again? Abeg park one side!

E don dey sub, WWIII loading... world don dey end.

Samantha125:
There are some women who have the same or more resources than the husband, but would still choose to fight the side chick instead of the husband.

We tend to be in denial of the fact that the marriage has hit rock bottom because we want to continue having that picture perfect of our marriage in our head... And again we're trying to avoid the stigmatization that comes with being a divorced woman, the society alone can be cruel towards female divorcees... Now instead of addressing the elephant in the room, we'll look for a scapegoat.

But yes, some women would choose to fight the side chick in an attempt to guard their resources even though it hardly ends well... Imagine fighting the side chick, only for your husband to end up leaving you for the same side chick...

That makes sense, and it’s an interesting perspective. I can see how a woman who has become addicted to the validation and admiration that comes from projecting an image of marital bliss—being every lady's "couple goals"—would fight to preserve that. I think many tie the apparent success of their relationship to their self-worth and desirability, so when it falls apart, it can feel like a personal failure.

That said, a woman who gets cheated on often has the world's sympathy. In her best interest, she could choose to throw her husband and his "small chops" under the bus of public opinion, further eliciting pity for herself. It doesn't even matter who she's calling out, as long as she's the victim. That’s the strategy I think is at play here. The side piece is trending? Perfect—let me use the opportunity to get my 15 minutes of fame by crying foul while posting the hottest picture in my gallery. I’m a survivor.

Samantha125:
It's like we women tend to be in denial whenever our relationship or marriage hits the rocks... Instead of facing the root of the problem, we'll look for a scapegoat instead and in instances like this one, the side chick is always the scapegoat, when the husband was the one who decided to chase after another woman knowing very well that he was married.

Even if she managed to chase the side chick away, he was still going to get another one since she'd have not addressed the root of the problem.

Yes, but why is that? Why the preference to confront the side piece instead of the husband? Share your perspective on what the reason could be.

To my mind, it all comes down to resource guarding. What the husband supplies is what gives him value. When an outsider is perceived as a threat to that source of resource—whether she arrived through seduction or entirely by the man's initiative—the instinctive response is to fight off the intruder and secure what is yours. Turning against the source of resources could risk pushing him farther out of your territory, which is why the focus remains on eliminating the perceived competition.

I don’t think women fight over men because of any genuine, deep love for their partners, but rather due to a primal, territorial instinct tied to resource protection; to remain the sole beneficiary of all that the man can supply. Did you notice how fixated the wife is on the jewelry her husband gave the side piece that she felt was supposed to be hers? That is possibly more painful to her than all the intercourse the two must of had. At the end of the day, why fight the supplier and risk completely losing what he supplies if you can secure it for yourself alone? Which you're not likely to achieve by simply sitting your husband down and giving him a piece of your mind.

That’s my take—what’s yours?

Samantha125:
But I don't get it, why is it that whenever I man cheats, we blame the side chick?

Is it not the responsibility of the man to do away with other women in order to keep his marriage intact? I mean he's the married one here and not the side chick... The wife should deal with the husband head on because he's the root of the problem.

Good point. It doesn’t sound like she’s sparing him, though—she called both of them out.

Why do women get upset with the side chick while letting their husband off the hook? Let’s look at it this way: Imagine a business has a very valuable employee who generates huge profits, and other businesses naturally try to poach him. When that employee is successfully poached by another company, wouldn’t we expect the original business to be more upset with their competitor, the poacher, than the poached? The employee is still potentially valuable and they wouldn't want to risk permanently alienating him, the competition is still the competition and remains a real threat, worthy of attack.

What do you mean by faith in God exactly?

Belief that God exists?
Belief in a religion that brokers your access to the Divine?
Belief that you'll have a good life guaranteed by the Divine's particular interest in you?

ItisWell22:
Why do I feel it was all staged.

Yea, albeit, shamefully.

But how many of us been know this girl before now? 🤔

You make a very sensible point, I'm wont to believe that's the case too; a publicity stunt and nothing more. The whole thing is ridiculous.

This people don come carry their private matter disturb the whole country. Natasha this, Akpabio that, everywhere you turn. Make dem go settle their sef in court and stop disturbing the Internet abeg. We're tired.

Make dem show you koret pepper, maybe you'll learn your lesson. To be honest, hand suppose touch you, abi how you see am?

God don catch you! No peace for the wicked!

Samantha125:
If you're a legal immigrant and you don't feel safe or at peace in South Africa, then leave because no one is forcing you to stay and contribute to South Africa's economy.

I'll personally never live in a country whereby I don't feel safe or at peace.

That's the xenophobia we're talking about. You shouldn't have to feel that way in the first place if you're a legal, law abiding immigrant. Personally, I don't even want to know what SA looks like, not to mention breathe its air.

Bike taxi is okada, right? Why do I need an app to hail an okada? Something that is everywhere, I just need to walk out of my house to block. Why all the bells and whistles, AI, GPS, voice recognition, etc. What problem are they solving exactly?

Shouldn’t the term "labelling" apply to situations where someone is falsely accused of something? For example, Black South Africans are, in reality, some of the most welcoming people on earth. Yet, they are often (and falsely) labeled as xenophobic by their Nigerian counterparts.

If there’s one person in a neighborhood who has issues with everyone else, isn’t it more likely that the problem lies with that individual rather than everyone around them? Similarly, when a group has issues with people from different countries, aren't we justified in looking into this group for why they can't get along with different other groups?


It’s true that some Nigerians enter South Africa through illegal means and engage in criminal activities. However, this doesn’t mean that all Nigerians fall into this category, nor does it negate the reality of xenophobia in South Africa. This xenophobia isn’t directed solely at Nigerians but extends to other African nationals as well. South Africa’s own cyberspace is filled with evidence of this deep-seated hatred. And let’s not forget the incidents of outright violence that have erupted in the past as a result.

If foreigners are in a country illegally or committing crimes, shouldn’t law enforcement and immigration agencies handle the situation in a civilized and lawful manner? Why must citizens resort to murder and the destruction of property to address issues that their own government seems unable to resolve? How can a legal immigrant—someone who is actively contributing to the economy of their host country—feel safe and at peace when the air they breathe is saturated with so much hatred?

Will it help me "meditate" better?

And you didn't upload pictures?

I didn’t realize y'all took your bags so seriously. I guess we learn something new every day. As a child, my mother would send me to her bag to fetch things—usually money for an errand—and I can’t recall ever finding anything remarkable, even though I was a very curious child. Now, as an adult, no woman can send me to her bag for anything. The idea of snooping through a woman’s bag feels far beneath me. What would I even be looking for exactly? If I ever suspected my woman of running monkey business on the low-low, there are far better ways to gather evidence than rummaging through her bag.

papyjaypaul:
I don't think so. There's Chrome OS.

Touché, just checked, Desktop isn't even their major source of revenue, server and cloud are. So even if another company competes in the desktop os market, it won't be enough to take them out with their hold on Azure and server OS. As at Q3 2024, Azure was doing better than Google Cloud with 20% and 12% market shares respectively (according to statistica.com).

Thanks for sharing your insight.

If Google decides to enters the Desktop Operating System market, Microsoft will be dead in a decade.

fergie001:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6ssGVtUb5Hc
Natasha Has Had the Most Privileges Among Female Senators, l have been moved 4 times from my seat...There is hardly anything done to us that is not done to other men in senate …Women must follow the rules of the institution they choose to join.

“I called Natasha twice before reaching out to her husband, but she didn’t return my calls.”

"Of all three women, I am closest to Natasha, because she is like my child"

What sort of journalism are they practicing in that their channel. You'll carry your leg go for interview they'll be busy trying to control what you say as if they want to beat you, then immediately try to twist whatever you say into something sensational that'll make headlines. Nawao for this journalists.

I like her, because she's fine but honestly I don't believe this story. I know a fake story when I see one, especially by a bad liar, it'll be filled with unnecessary details, aimed at concealing the falsehood.

If the man was calling her in the night with his proposal, she should just release the recording shikenan. He can now deny and say it's AI-generated then the court of public opinion will drag in forensic experts to access the recordings for validity.

I no like nonsense wallahi.

OsilaGama:
Nigerian Man Proudly Shows Off His Queen to His Parents – Love Just Got Sweeter! 💍❤️

Love is a beautiful thing, and when a man finds the one his heart truly desires, the next big step is introducing her to his family. That’s exactly what this Nigerian man did as he proudly took the love of his life home to meet his parents.

For many, meeting the parents is a huge milestone in a relationship—it’s a sign of commitment, respect, and a future filled with endless possibilities. In African culture, family plays a major role in marriage decisions, making this moment even more special.

The heartwarming moment has sparked reactions, with many believing that love only gets sweeter with time. "The older, the sweeter," they say, and this couple is proving just that!

Could wedding bells be ringing soon? Only time will tell, but one thing is certain—love is in the air, and this couple is embracing it fully! ❤️💍

People get mind oo. You go marry woman wey old pass your mama. The things we do for money sha.

Congratulations Nigerians, good job Cardoso.

I want to believe with this, massive FX scam days are now behind us.

GistMedia0:
A bride’s father stirred controversy at a wedding by telling the groom, “YOUR WIFE MUST NOT COOK FOR YOU.” His remark immediately ignited heated discussions both at the event and on social media.

Many critics argued that such a statement undermines traditional marriage roles, with some insisting that it weakens the groom’s authority and disrupts household harmony. “The foundation of marriage should be based on mutual roles, and cooking has always been a part of a wife's duty,” one person commented. Others expressed concerns that this could lead to a power imbalance, making the groom feel less in control in his own home.

On the other hand, some defended the father’s perspective, emphasizing that modern marriages are about mutual understanding rather than rigid roles. “The husband and wife should determine what works for them,” a supporter remarked, arguing that every marriage is unique. Others suggested that when a woman isn’t pressured to cook, she may actually enjoy doing it more willingly. “If a man doesn’t impose expectations, she’ll likely cook for him out of love and not obligation.”


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-987RYe_ff4

Wahala, wahala, wahala.

I'm guessing the girls father is richer than the grooms entire family.

stuffs2002:
See as you dey foam for mouth just because Kano state is developing their people.

Instead of getting angry and envious that God is lifting them higher, why don't you go and meet your own lazy and corrupt governor to help you too

🤣🤣🤣
The truth is bitter my brother. What might be good for the individual students that are being helped may not be good for the well-being of the state long-term.

Plus the kain ojoro wey go dey that selection process no be for here. Sai yaran wane da wane. The people who really need the help the most won't get it.

Editorialtimes:
Source: The Bureau Newspaper

What are they going out to study? Courses available in Kano or not? Wouldn't investing the resources into North West University and upgrading it to international standard or creating more jobs for the unemployed graduates on ground make more sense? You're shipping limited resources over to Europe when our own educational institutions are in a deplorable state. People will go to the ends of the earth to study only to come back and work the same jobs as us who went to public universities in Nigeria. Some of them are even unemployed. Where's the sense in this?

Kobicove:
Where the supermarket is located is irrelevant, the same rules apply, it's just that in the western world people pretend to overlook these things because of labour laws.

The reason why your employer does not allow dreads is because they realise that perception is a very big factor in client engagement and retention.

The reason why most companies in advanced countries especially the US tolerate tattoos and dreads is because they don't want to be sued for discrimination.

A business that is paying your salary has a right to determine how you dress generally especially if you are in a role that requires interphase with clients.

You can't expect an employer to happy to employ you if you're going to be looking like a gangster and end up repulsing clients from whom the business is supposed to generate the revenue with which to pay your salary

I understand your perspective—perception matters, and businesses naturally want to align with client expectations. As you've already noted, appearances can overshadow intent. But this raises more questions:

Why do labour laws include anti-discrimination protections? Who crafts these laws, and who do they prioritize—employees or employers?
If diversity policies risk alienating customers, why do many Western companies, especially in the U.S., actively promote them? Is it purely fear of lawsuits, or could embracing diversity improve a business’s reputation and profitability?

Businesses lobby against harmful regulations, yet many comply with diversity mandates. Doesn't this suggest such laws also serve corporate interests, or is compliance a grudging concession to societal change?

Lastly, let me cite a series of studies by McKinsey titled Diversity Wins, about how diversity is good for business.

https://www.mckinsey.com/featured-insights/diversity-and-inclusion/diversity-wins-how-inclusion-matters

Could ‘projecting diversity’ attract younger, "socially conscious" consumers, offsetting risks of alienating traditional clients? For all we know, this could be a coded PR stunt by Walmart after studying their customer base and realizing that this kind of stuff will buy their loyalty.

And by the way, where the supermarket is located is VERY relevant. You simply can't down play the role culture plays in economics.