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That's a welcome development, may it continue on that trend.

Meanwhile, what's responsible for the drop, do you know?

If you have to announce it, you probably aren’t a so-called “alpha male.” See how she’s putting that in quotes—“alpha male”? That’s called sarcasm. Unlike you, she probably has sense, which is exactly why she said she won’t choose you.

Also, what does “don’t be unrealistic with your approach to triviality” even mean? Are you just throwing together big words to sound smart? And by the way, it’s “being,” not “been.” See how she’s using punctuation? Try to emulate that—it helps.

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Congratulations, Odey 🎉

I can't attend but I wish you all the best.

gaskiyamagana:
May Almighty continue to enrich your wisdom with which you analyzed and give the golden advice.

Amin. Nagode. 🙏🏾

PresidObi:
They will deny anything, for us to know it's the truth.

Madalla Christmas day church bombing in Abuja
Kidnapped Reverend father killed in Niger
Deborah
Benue repeated massacres without stop or even catching one killer
Inside Church massacre of unarmed people in Onitsha 2016
Gabriel Akaluka
That Redeemed preacher woman hacked to death while preaching in Abuja
Chibok 300 girls
Ese Oruru
Lear sheribu


Too numerous to count

300 in Plateau (2023)
500 in Benue (early 2024)
39 in Plateau during Easter (2024)

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Religious_violence_in_Nigeria

Aonkuuse:
Source: https://wikigists.com/young-girl-found-lifeless-hanging-from-a-tree-in-gombe-photos/

Murder dey try disguise as suicide. I'm sure the incredible stupidity of the idiot that killed her must have left a strong trail back to them.

Rest in peace little one, the wicked person that took your life will face his/her doom soon.

[quote author=Realdeals post=134536885]With Nowhere Else to Turn, Niger Begs Nigeria for Fuel Amid Severe Shortages

By: Zagazola Makama

For nearly two weeks, Niger Republic has been crippled by a severe fuel crisis, bringing vehicular movement and economic activity to a grinding halt. Long queues stretched across cities, with desperate motorists and businesses struggling to obtain a few liters of petrol. The situation was so dire that the military junta, which once prided itself on rejecting external influence, had no choice but to swallow its pride and turn to Nigeria for help.

Despite months of hostile rhetoric and diplomatic friction, Niger’s rulers quietly dispatched their Minister of Petroleum and Renewable Energy, along with top officials from the Niger Petroleum Company (SONIDEP), to beg Abuja for urgent fuel supplies. Nigeria, ever the regional big brother, obliged, approving the immediate delivery of 300 fuel trucks across the border to Niamey.

Niger’s fuel crisis didn’t happen overnight. It was the direct consequence of a disastrous confrontation between the ruling junta and Chinese oil companies, which have long dominated Niger’s petroleum sector. The trouble began in March 2024, when China National Petroleum Corporation (CNPC) granted the Nigerien government a $400 million advance, using future crude oil deliveries as collateral. This deal was meant to help Niger cope with the crippling economic sanctions imposed by ECOWAS following the July 2023 coup. However, when it came time to repay the debt, the junta found itself strapped for cash.

Rather than negotiating, the military rulers decided to strong-arm China. In a move that stunned industry insiders, they slapped an $80 billion tax demand on SORAZ (Zinder Refinery Company) despite the state-owned Sonidep already owing SORAZ a staggering $250 billion. When China refused to provide additional loans, the junta retaliated by expelling Chinese oil executives from the country and seizing SORAZ’s bank accounts.

A Self-Inflicted Crisis

This reckless decision backfired almost immediately. Niger’s entire petroleum sector which is heavily reliant on Chinese expertise and investment began to collapse. The SORAZ refinery, the lifeline of Niger’s fuel supply, ground to a halt, and fuel shortages spread like wildfire.
This crisis could not have come at a worse time. The Niger-Benin oil pipeline, a project designed to boost Niger’s crude exports to 100,000 barrels per day by 2025, was also at risk. With Chinese engineers gone and no viable alternative in place, the junta’s decision plunged the country into economic uncertainty.

Turning to Nigeria for Help

For weeks, the military leadership refused to acknowledge the crisis publicly. State-controlled media was ordered to stay silent about the fuel shortage and the growing unrest among Nigeriens, who were forced to buy petrol at sky-high black-market prices.

But as the situation worsened, the junta had no choice but to seek external help even if it meant approaching Nigeria, the very country they had repeatedly criticized since the coup.
Without any public announcement, Niger quietly sent a delegation to Abuja, appealing for an emergency fuel supply. The irony was lost on no one this was the same junta that had openly defied ECOWAS sanctions, severed ties with France and the West, and aligned itself with Russia. Yet when faced with economic collapse, it was Nigeria that they turned to for salvation.

Nigeria Plays the Good Neighbor Again

Despite months of insults, false accusations, name calling, diplomatic snubs, and hostility, Nigeria once again stepped in to help. It was gathered that the Nigerian Government approved the release of 300 fuel trucks, which immediately began crossing into Niger to ease the crisis.

The junta, however, remains too proud to admit its dependency. While fuel shipments from Nigeria have already started alleviating the crisis, Niger’s state media has deliberately avoided reporting where the fuel is coming from. Instead, the government has attempted to portray the fuel availability as a result of its own internal measures a claim that many Nigeriens are beginning to question.

Will Nigeria Gain Diplomatic Leverage?

While Nigeria’s generosity is commendable, the real question remains: What does Nigeria get in return? Will this act of goodwill translate into improved diplomatic relations? Will Niger’s military rulers rethink their hostility toward ECOWAS? Or will they simply take the fuel and continue their defiance once the crisis subsides?

Only time will tell. But one thing is certain: when Niger was on the brink of disaster, it was Nigeria not Russia, not China, not any of its new allies that stepped up to provide relief.

For now, Niger has been forced to acknowledge an uncomfortable truth: no matter how much they try to distance themselves from Nigeria, they remain dependent on their bigger neighbor.

And whether the junta admits it or not, Nigeria remains the lifeline Niger cannot afford to sever.

Zagazola Makama is a Counter Insurgency Expert and Security Analyst in the Lake Chad Region

With Nowhere Else to Turn, Niger Begs Nigeria for Fuel Amid Severe Shortages

By: Zagazola Makama

For nearly two weeks, Niger Republic has been crippled by a severe fuel crisis, bringing vehicular movement and economic activity to a grinding halt. Long queues stretched across… pic.twitter.com/QdLNsfODIj

— Zagazola (@ZagazOlaMakama) March 14, 2025

same junta that accused Nigeria of plotting against them—the same one that stubbornly refused to engage in dialogue with ECOWAS, an organization Nigeria has supported more than any other country in the region. That was disrespectful. As a landlocked nation situated next to Africa’s largest economy (with access to the ocean), a certain level of humility is expected from Niger.

Now, after getting themselves into a hot mess, they’re coming back to their vomit. Wuna never see anything, shege is still loading...

Trouble dey sleep, nyanga go wake am. EFCC food don set.

InfoGuru118:
https://thisdaynigeria.news/2025/03/14/unidentified-woman-plunges-off-third-mainland-bridge-dies-despite-rescue-efforts/

Yet-to-be identified, yet you have her picture. How?

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Bralloxe:
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Throw your body for the dogs to eat? LMAO! That’s extreme, bro! I'm not rich, but I have people in my life who would lose their minds if they even thought something had happened to me. There are people who genuinely adore my broke ass. What will I say? I'm just blessed.

Will that stop me from chasing the bag? Never! If anything, it motivates me to make the raba so I can financially bless the people I've been blessed with.

Now, I get where you're coming from—that may be the reality for some people. But I don’t think you need to paint such a gloomy picture to make your point.

Olaolar:
If you’re do solved one the month
Another is waiting you financially somehow

Unexpectedly one pippin you on the way ..
oboi .. MANY THINGS DON SUP

Wahala e no dey ever finish my brother, na di life we come be dat, but you cannot goan keh yourself and die away. Jejely, dey take am one day at a time. Las, las we go dey alright.

gare:
Confirmed AI generated, which school you go.

You’ve raised a thoughtful point, providing financial support doesn’t necessarily rebuild or strengthen a relationship. It’s possible to assist out of obligation or respect while keeping emotional distance.

You know you won't die if you admit you like how I write, abi? 😜

I don’t understand fathers who abandon their children when they need them the most, only to reappear later—when the child has made it—to claim a share in what they never helped to build. After all, it’s a father who brings a son into the world, not the other way around. Family is more than just blood; it’s about the people who stand by you through thick and thin, those who would bleed for you if necessary.

That said, the optics of this situation don’t reflect well on the young man’s brand, regardless of their history. When you’ve reached a certain level of success, magnanimity is expected. Sometimes, you have to rise above and overlook things—not for their sake, but for the stature you’ve attained.

Segxydube:
Na why u no get future again for nigeria
.. Peraon dey fight bad pple u dey hate am... Oloriburuku

Nne, nawa for you oo. Na we send am go dey misyarn, join dey tarnish innocent people reputation? Unku dey do too much. If to say he stay hin lane dey tackle corruption and impunity, we for dey clap for am as usual. But as e dey choke mouth for issues wey he suppose use hin discretion avoid, dey chase clout, make dem hold am. Na for our own good—when he comot, he go dey focused.

Christianoir:
I just saw my siwes result now and yo be honest it too poor… I filled my logbook, did the report and I defended (I didn’t do well sha due to anxiety on the defense day) I get anxious of crowd and aometime I forget alot. I even wrote the exam over 20 I had 12/20

Result came out and I’m seeing D in 9 unit course out of 8 result I had 4 A, 3 B and 1 D and it in IT… I’m so pissed right now because it has affected my cgpa so bad

I don’t know what to do
If I should complain? Because this thing have been worrying me since… I better I had D in place of those B and Have A in place of that D

Please I need yall advice.
I don’t know if they made mistake on my score
I spent money on this siwes

Wow, this brings back some memories… SMH.

My IT was a blast—I did mine in a directorate on campus, so it felt like being both a worker and a student. Those six months were the best part of my university experience, I worked on an important project that our school got through a grant from MacArthur Foundation, with it, I got a glowing reference letter from the office of the VC. I was so happy and so proud! By the end of it, my logbook was full and impressive, my report was excellent, and I knew my defence was already solid—public speaking has always been my forte. I was gearing up for a sure A.

Then, two days before submission, a close friend and coursemate borrowed my logbook and report. I was reluctant, but he was my best pal in the entire department, so I handed them over. What did I hear the next morning? He climbed up to my room—his was directly below mine—to ask if I had come to collect my logbook the previous night. No. That’s when he told me his room had been broken into, and everything was stolen—his laptop, our reports, his logbook, my logbook.

I was livid. There was a nuclear explosion in my head—I could feel my brain melting into a boiling goo. Six. Freaking. Credit. Units!

We reported it to the security office, the exams officer, we spoke to every lecturer we had a relationship with in the department. My friend spoke to his uncle, a HOD from a neighboring department, to plead on our behalf, but by the time anything could be resolved, it was too late to defend with our mates. What had been a confident A had turned into a looming F overnight. I was devastated. That result was supposed to solidify my 2.1—losing it because of someone else’s carelessness was unbearable.

We missed the defense, along with the 40 marks that came with it. I had to buy a new logbook and rewrite everything from memory, filling it mostly with manufactured content. By the time we got new logbooks, everyone else had already submitted theirs. I couldn’t even submit mine in time to get the SIWES ₦15k.

In the end, I got a D—which felt like the end of the world and a miracle simultaneously, considering everything I went through and the Frankenstein-esque nature of my logbook. But I was depressed for the first time in my life. That one event affected the rest of my university experience—I lost my weak 2.1, lost focus, started drifting through school, and let my demons grow stronger by not fighting them as hard as I used to.

What’s the point of this long epistle? Don’t lose focus. Don’t lose guard, my brother. Fight.

You have a beautiful result—I know you’re not lazy or dumb—so find a way to have that D reviewed. 9 CU no be beans. That’s too heavy to ignore; fight tooth and nail for it, because it can make or break your final results. CGPA is cumulative—subjected to the law of gravity, it's hard to push up but easy to fall.

Regardless of what happens, don’t lose faith. Don’t lose focus. Fight. Fight harder.

You’re in university now, but you won’t be there forever—make it count in the best possible way.

I pray for strength, wisdom, and perseverance as you navigate this and the rest of your university journey.

Every time I travel on Nigerian road, I feel like my life expectancy is drastically reduced for the duration of the journey. The roads are bad, some of the drivers are mad, some of them sick, most of the cars and buses are in poor conditions. The passengers lives are dangling by a thread. Lord deliver us from the evil we can't avert for ourselves.

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My problem be say you go donate blood for free, then one maga somewhere go carry am go sell. Better if I know someone in need.

Heavens1stson:
Nigerians constitute 90% of Christians killed worldwide annually; U.S. Congress clears Trump to impose crippling sanctions on Tinubu govt.



https://gazettengr.com/nigerians-constitute-90-of-christians-killed-worldwide-annually-u-s-congress-clears-trump-to-impose-crippling-sanctions-on-tinubu-govt/

As you dey sanction Nigeria, remember say no be only terrorists dey the country. Nothing economic should touch us; rather, narrow it down to the likes of Bashir El-Rufai, his father, and their ilks; sponsors and/or sympathizers of terrorism and banditry.

I believe you already have their list, so you can start by freezing their assets in the U.S. and Europe and get your other allies to do the same in the Middle East and Asia, together with an indefinite travel ban for them and everyone in their families. No health tourism, no holiday for them. We die here. No peace for the wicked. May God punish every evil person scheming to take an innocent soul.

Maxymilliano:
https://saharareporters.com/2025/03/13/apc-dead-i-know-people-who-paid-ministerial-appointments-under-tinubu-govt-el-rufai?fbclid=IwY2xjawI_tjRleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABHbNjO1EVI2PW7poe0eq0BPSIc9h88DbpZJRBULT_0Fs6OMb05Ku-6BILVA_aem_pcsFGNtRnkuz7jsfHeYM2Q

He should name them. Simple. We need to form the culture of specifically accusing people with evidence, e get why. All this vague, stone in the market accusations is nonsense.

May dem lock am small make we hear word abeg. Cho cho cho, hin mouth no get break. He'll learn the hard way.

The most annoying thing is how we Africans, innocent bystanders, would be affected by this foolish royal rumble.

Mercisharelove:
Life is preordained

And preplanned

Meaning everything was already planned for you, right? If so, what are you trying to plan when everything has already been preordained and preplanned?

Nicenancy:
Meaning you are a pagan?

I'm agnostic. In the Nigerian context, pagan is often (and incorrectly) used to describe someone who is irreligious. That’s the meaning I’m working with here.

I believe I’d have a smoother relationship with a good, nonreligious woman than with a born-again, prayerful Christian—though I have nothing personal against the latter. I just don’t think our values would align well, which could make it difficult for us to fulfill crucial roles in each other’s lives. For example, she might naturally expect her husband to be her spiritual leader, a role I wouldn’t be able to fill.

The challenge, however, is that nonreligious women are rare. When you encounter them, they often tend to be staunch feminists or woke.

Nicenancy:
But why will u marry a pagan?

A case of "can two work together unless they agree?"

Nicenancy:
I am 1

💔

#2 is as rare as unicorns 🦄🦄

Nicenancy:

Is that you, Nancy?

SuperOnyi:





English language wouldn't be discouraged, this plan wouldn't even be that effective in our generation but in the next generations to come. This is why I have always hammered on that fact that our educational system is archaic. We can do better, it's depressing coming across ignorant opinions of how Africans can't do shít for themselves but we have great thinkers here — even here on Nairaland.

Just because I was taught French as a "subject" back in high school, I still recognize a couple of French words till today. It was just 2 to 3 years in high school! Imagine if it was from elementary school! That's how powerful education can be.

If I was the government, I would be using schools, movies, music, and all of these tools needed to enforce propaganda to do something like this. This is how Liberal Americans are spreading all of these beliefs like LGTV or whatever they call it.

You raise a strong point about planning for future generations, but I don’t see this being effective in our time. More importantly, I doubt the real impact it would have—if English and Pidgin haven’t united us, what makes us think a new language will?

History has shown that attempts to create an artificial language to unify people don’t easily succeed. Esperanto was designed for this very purpose, yet it never gained traction due to several factors. While we may see English as the language of colonizers, if we look at it purely from an economic standpoint, our ability to speak English connects us to the world far more than countries with only indigenous languages. Yes, English is a product of colonialism, but it also gives us access to global opportunities. Let’s not be too quick to throw the baby out with the bathwater.

bingbagbo:
Which of these women would you choose for a wife:

1. Average looks, born-again, extremely prayerful, hardworking and gainfully employed
2. Very beautiful, gainfully employed, pagan
3. Very beautiful, unemployed, perfect in bed, great cook
4. Very beautiful, Prayerful, gainfully employed, sleeps with other men
5. Super beautiful, sexy, unemployed but rich, ritualist
6. Extremely rich, ugly, God_fearing, great in bed, faithful, super cook
7. Extremely beautiful, super rich, great cook, excellent in bed, witch, eloquent
8. Very ugly, God_fearing, faithful, gainfully employed, best in bed, eloquent, from a wealthy family and a US citizen
9. Prostitute, excellent beauty, rich, witch, caring
10. Midget, rich, great cook, great in bed, faithful, loyal, jealous, born again, Prayerful
Choose now

It's unfair how #2 has the least number of qualities. Shows how biased your list is. Add loyal and faithful to #2 and that's my dream woman right there. Give me a shout out if that's you!