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I WILL GET MARRIED IN 6 WEEKS TIME. I WANT A SENTENCE OR PHRASE OR CLAUSE THAT BEST DESCRIBE MY LOVE FOR MY WOMAN. THIS WILL BE PRINTED ON MY WEDDING CARD AS TOAST. PLEASE LET THE REAL LOVE LANGUAGES FLOW.

IF YOURS IS SELECTED, YOU WIN MTN RECHARGE OF N1,500.00 ONLY. THANKS

Marriage is indeed for the very rich.

ACCA is good if you have the money to finance it.

ICAN is equally good if u want to practice in Nigeria.

For me earning my salary in Naira and writing exams and paying in British Pounds wasn't a good idea.

nk-love

From your post, i can deduce that your desirous of becoming a member of ICAN.

I qualified in May 2008, but i must say that the journey was very comfortable. However, the benefit far outweighs any trouble associated with the process.

I tell people that what Ican requires is your time. To qualify in good time, be ready to sacrifice your social life. You must be prepared to lay off some of your friends. I did all these.

More importantly read relevant materials

i can never think of having anything to do with any woman that has a tattoo or has more than one opening in her ear.

When i was looking for a wife. These were my first watch.

A decent and God fearing woman will never have a tattoo, will never wear rings or necklace on her leg, will never have more than one opening on her ear. will never expose the hairs on her chest. will not even wear rings on her fingers except, of course, it is engagement or wedding ring.

My views pls.

I distance myself from guys that have tattoo. If i see it, I can never do business with you.

CAN MASTURBATION LEAD TO

1. WEAK ERECTION

2. LOW SPERM COUNT

3. IMPOTENCE

4. DIS-INTEREST IN SEX

WHAT ARE THE ADVANTAGES OF THE ACT. HEARD THAT IT REDUCES PROSTATE CANCER.


I HAVE BEEN SELECTED TO DELIVER A PAPER ON THE DANGERS OF MASTURBATION TO A GROUP OF BOYS. SINCE I AM NOT A MEDICAL DOCTOR I DECIDED TO USE NAIRALAND.

Mohammed is a rapist and I don't want to identify with rapists.

@ifyalways

are u married?

@ ireniann
What do u mean by an outcast/untouchable? It surprises me that in this age men like u are still talking about outcast. The evil our forefathers perpetrated unknowingly, is what we are try to do deliberately.

Bros God's liberty is better than Man's restrictions. Think about this.

thanks to you all. Expect a 306-Page book titled "Unmarried at 35, reasons and what to do" coming out soon.

@ifyalways,

There is a big difference btw impregnating a girl and u are forced to marry her( here conditions are relaxed, sometimes, you are even paid to marry her) and meeting a girl and marrying her the way she ought to be married. The former is where your okada people and wheel barrow pushers fall into.

Do you know that u can never marry a girl (assuming u did not impregnate her) comfortably with N700,000.00 in Owerri and Mbaise. Not to talk of NNewi.

Please keep flowing.

please let me have ur account number. i will do the little i can. god will see u through.

@ CHAIRCOVER,

WHAT I AM LOOKING AT IS NOT ON INVESTMENT THAT WILL YIELD INCOME. LOOK AT THE SCENARIO I AM PAINTING.

U LIVE IN THE CITY, AND EVERY DECEMBER U NEED TO GO HOME FOR XMAS AND NOT JUST DECEMBER ALONE, U MAY NEED TO GO HOME FOR OTHER CELEBRATIONS, AT LEAST TO IDENTIFY WITH YOUR VILLAGE FOLKS. YOU DON'T HAVE A HOUSE U CAN STAY, AND ASSUMING U HAVE A PLOT OF LAND EITHER BOUGHT BY U OR INHERITED, WHICH DO DO U THINK IS WISE TO DO FIRST: BUILD A HOUSE OR MARRY? THE TWO ARE VERY IMPORTANT TO U AND ARE GIVING U SLEEPLESS NIGHTS BUT YOUR RESOURCES (N700,000.00) CAN EITHER GET U A WIFE OR TAKE YOUR BUILDING TO WINDOW LEVEL.

SO CHOOSE.

THIS IS A CONTINUATION OF MY RESEARCH ON THE RELATED TOPIC.

U HAVE NO HOUSE IN THE VILLAGE( AND YOUR FATHER HAD NONE ) AND U ARE NOT MARRIED, WHICH WILL U DO FIRST ASSUMING U HAVE N700,000.00 FOR A START?

PLS LET THE ANSWERS ROLL IN.

Marriage in Igboland where i come from is Hell for the man. except if u are rich or your family is rich.

A man in igboland is expected to have a house b/4 getting married.

You should be able meet at least 80% of the outrageous list that will be handed to u.

The situation is really bad. Our parents are not helping matters. This is why it is common to see ladies 35yrs & above not married b/c of high priced tag on them.

Thanks a lot chaircover and rokiatu. But u forgot one important factor that is  common particularly for those of us from the eastern part of Nigeria; that is HIGH BRIDE PRICE. Pls keep the reasons coming in.

I created this thread out of the quest to know why a guy will remain unmarried even at the age of 35yrs.

I am currently doing a research on this.

@tjskii
so the only thing u could see from my post is the money i spent on her. If u don't spend on women, they complain u are too stingy. if u spend on women, they complain u are too liberal. Nawoooo

Actually this happened to me last month. I attended a weeding with my fiancee and while we were exchanging pleasantries with some dignitaries, as put my hand inside my pocket to bring out my hanky so as to clean my face in that sunny afternoon, out came a big cockroach and everybody stared at me. I was momemtarily flabbergasted and speechless. My fiance did not talk to me for one week b/c of this incidence.

@ miss ife

thanks for your candid advice. But i asked this girl whether she is married, engaged or in a serious r/ship and her answer was negative. I think you have a point that she could be engaged to someone else. All the same, i have learnt my lessons though the hard way. The search continues.

thanks once again.

I met this girl when i went to her place of work for official purpose. I approached her and collected her phone no. Gradually, i fall in love with her. I proposed to her and she agreed. But her attitude towards me has been very nonchalant. One of the conditions she gave me is that she is not ready to sleep with before marriage b/c she is a virgin. I agreed, but whenever i tell her to take me to her parents; at least let our r/ship be known, she tells me it is too early that i should give her time to pray. NLs I have spent my hard earned money on this girl. I buy her cloths, shoes etc in fact there is no week i don't buy gifts for her all in a bid to show my good intentions.

I'm confused, i don't know whether to quit at this early stage or to continue. I am afraid of somebody coming up one day to tell me that sorry it will not work after spending my money.

Pls i need ur candid advice. My intention is to do my traditional wedding with her in Feb. 2011 then white wedding in April same yr.

@ Martian

I think you have an attitude problem.

@ Awojobi. Please, what time of day is the 7th hour?

This is the one but hard way to solve the problem; if he ask you for money, don't give. If he requires for help involving money, tell him you don't have. That way he will be forced to learn to stand on his own feet.

I think the poster is right. When we say that Love cost so much we are not only referring to the physical cash spent or to be spent. Even the time expended is considered. Remember Time is money.

Times are gone when churches take the responsibility of caring for the sick and down trodden even if you are not a member. Today's churches are nothing but business empire. What will paying N700,000.00 for the child profit the church? The GO of the church will prefer spending N1M on staging a crusade he knows will yield some returns to spending such an amount on charity.

Indeed, we are in the last days my brother.

Whitemen told us that HIV causes AIDS. Whitemen are telling us that HIV does not cause AIDS. I am confused. I don't know what to believe any more.

Please post average nigerians' traditional wedding pics. My fiancee will definitely make troubles if she sees the pics you posted here.

sorry, I mean salary earners

Have u deducted your other expenses for the month? such as your transportation to the office, amount spent on soap for washing your office wears, feeding for the month rent etc.

If businessmen are told to pay tithe on their profit and not gross income. Salary workers should pay tithe on their savings and not on their gross pay.

Here is one of the truths you cannot hear from the pulpit.

Any comment is welcome

Hi doc. thanks for volunteering to offer medical advice. Kudos. But i have these questions to ask.

Can masturbation cause the following:

1 weak erection

2 impotence in men

3 low sperm count

what are other consequences of masturbation. and how can one stop the act.