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What do yall think will happen paradventure Samson Siasia goes to the Beinjing Olympics and comes back with the much coveted gold medal?Would that mark an end to Amodu's reign as the supremo of those paparazziz or would those guys be forced to blend with the 'oldboiz' in the team and with Amodu as the 'supremo' ?
just wondering anyway and,
Your contribution will be highly appreciated

Heard Onuoha is considering playing for his fatherland-Nigeria
Do you think he deserves a call up or not considering the fact that he honoured the call to play in the English U-21 team?
Dont you think we would be playing second fiddle by allowing him play for us?

Amodu has been announed as Berti Vogts successor and soccer loving nigerians have accepted this news with mixed feelings.
Do you think this is the much awaited development we have been waiting for or do you thing its gonna spell doom for our our football as a nation just like a friend said 'RIP NIGERIAN FOOTBALL' ?
Your contribution will be highly appreciated!

What are ur reactions fellow nairalanders.
Mikel Obi has been dropped from the 45 man provisional list which means he would not be at the Olympics unless a miracle happens.
I have believed this would have been the golden oppurtunity for his career to be revived.
What do ya all think?

Pls what is happening o this young dude.His career seems to be taking a nose dive and he doesnt seem to realise it.
Please fellow brothers and sisters, what can we do to help salvage this young man's career?

I believe Everton has got all it takes to come fourth this season.
Watch them do it and get a slot to be in Europe next season. Really, this has been their best season in years and I am giving them all my support- from Howard to Jagielka to Lescott to Yobo to Osman to Cahill to Carsley to Neville to Arteta to Pienaar to Anichebe Andrew Johnson and finally to the Yak.
Trust me, Everton would finally make it!

Are u in support of Siasia calling back Mikel and Taiwo into the Dream team IV?
He has called them for the very crucial qulalifiers against South Africa later this month which means they will be in Beinjing for the Olympics if they eventually qualify.
What do think, should Siasia have invited them or not?

I marvelled when I hear people say I refused to play for my country, Nigeria. On three different occasions. I came down here but I was not considered good enough. I felt bad to hear in the local press that John Fashanu shunned his fatherland. How could the press be misinforming people?

I remember I came for a qualifier against Tunisia in the 80s, then the likes of Muda Lawal were still available, I wasn’t selected and it was said that I didn’t come until pictures showed me in company of Lawal, John Chidozie and a couple of others sitting on the bench.

It was frustrating that time, and there was nothing I could do as a player. When people say they don’t want you, then you have got to leave them alone.

Eventually I had two caps with England, against Chile and Scotland in what was then called Reuters Cup. It’s all gone now and you’ve got to put it behind you and try to get on with your life.

I am quoting Fash!

Truth is that before I started work, I had this impression of female bosses and it is that they are usually not nice at all. This is judging from peoples experiences. Though so u can imagine my mindset when I started working. I have worked in three organizations before now and I am currently in working in the fourth. So u can trust when I give my own statistics.
From my first experience, I had a man as my boss so I wasn’t surprised he turned out to be nice all through my stay.

My second place of work presented me with the first opportunity of having a female boss who turned out to be very nice. She took it upon herself to drop me off after the days work every blessed day. Unfortunately, I was transferred to another branch where I had the opportunity of working with the second female boss who wasn’t only nice but who kept you on your toes by making u work and also enjoying every bit of the work. She also was ready to defend u whenever it mattered.

My third place offered me the third opportunity of working with a female boss, but trust me, this time it was far from all I had experienced working under a female boss as my boss in this place was not nice at all. She snaps at any given opportunity, was hostile and very touchy, funny enough she doesn’t speak good English. To make matters worse, she made me do menial jobs like washing of plates whenever the board just finished a meeting {it was a manufacturing industry}.After a month, I had to leave as I couldn’t stand her anymore. Did someone say ‘typical of female bosses?’

My fourth place which is where I am currently working, I want to believe God actually has compensated me for all the troubles I went through with my last female boss. Lest I forget, I am currently working under the fourth female boss and to say she is down to earth is an understatement. I can go on and on about how nice she is and how wonderful she makes me feel every single day. She not only defends me but she also told me she has taken me as her sister and trust me, her actions do not in anyway contradict her words.
The truth is that she has never complained or scolded me not even for once for whatever mistake I make no matter how silly it is and she is ever willing to assist me no matter the the magnitude or complexity of what I have at hand is. To crown it all up, she checks on me almost every 30mins to know if I am okay and she ensures I finish my work as soon as I can even offering to help me whenever ive got so much to do. There are even times she would not ask from me and would just go ahead and help me finish up my work so I can close early. She would also call me whenever she gets home to know f I am at home and okay. Really she has just been so FANTASTIQUE and can't be more grateful to God for blessing me with a guardian Angel that my female boss has turned out to be.
Can you share your experience? Have u been fortunate with your female bosses or have they turned out to be a pain in the neck? Please let me know as your contribution will be highly appreciated.

Ok ok and ok
Thanks a bunch 4 all r contribution both from those that were nice and those that were a bit nasty
I believe i understand better now that the guy has got good intentions and would likely help push our football forward.
Not withstanding you can still send ur posts to know what you feel about the whole issue

John Fashanu who was called to play for the Super Eagles in his own days but refused to heed the clarion call started by coming down to Nigeria when he was outta reckoning to obtain a chieftaincy title sometimes ago.
Right now is claiming to be running a football academy which he intends to go on air.This academy is being sponsored by Oceanic bank which means he is smiling to the bank and that would most be in millions of naira.
I just feel the guy abandoned his country when it mattered the most and is now shamelessly trying to reap from the same country.
Is anyone agreeing or disagreeing with me in the house?

@don jazzie

Thanks for your reply.The truth is that my nice female boss isnt the one heading the unit, as she is only a member of my unit but my direct boss.The head of my unit is also a female but she isnt 25% as nice as my direct boss.
She snaps at me at tymes and could be in moods that makes her touchy, but this my nice boss has tutored me on how to manage her and really it has helped in working with her and doing my job perfectly.
She is concerned about my well bieng in totality.
I can go on and on about how nyce my female boss has bin and i can't but just pray for her because the truth is that people like her are really RARE.

Truth is that before I started work, I had this impression of female bosses and it is that they are usually not nice at all. This is judging from peoples experiences. Though so u can imagine my mindset when I started working. I have worked in three organizations before now and I am currently in working in the fourth. So u can trust when I give my own statistics.
From my first experience, I had a man as my boss so I wasn’t surprised he turned out to be nice all through my stay.

My second place of work presented me with the first opportunity of having a female boss who turned out to be very nice. She took it upon herself to drop me off after the days work every blessed day. Unfortunately, I was transferred to another branch where I had the opportunity of working with the second female boss who wasn’t only nice but who kept you on your toes by making u work and also enjoying every bit of the work. She also was ready to defend u whenever it mattered.

My third place offered me the third opportunity of working with a female boss, but trust me, this time it was far from all I had experienced working under a female boss as my boss in this place was not nice at all. She snaps at any given opportunity, was hostile and very touchy, funny enough she doesn’t speak good English. To make matters worse, she made me do menial jobs like washing of plates whenever the board just finished a meeting {it was a manufacturing industry}.After a month, I had to leave as I couldn’t stand her anymore. Did someone say ‘typical of female bosses?’

My fourth place which is where I am currently working, I want to believe God actually has compensated me for all the troubles I went through with my last female boss. Lest I forget, I am currently working under the fourth female boss and to say she is down to earth is an understatement. I can go on and on about how nice she is and how wonderful she makes me feel every single day. She not only defends me but she also told me she has taken me as her sister and trust me, her actions do not in anyway contradict her words.
The truth is that she has never complained or scolded me not even for once for whatever mistake I make no matter how silly it is and she is ever willing to assist me no matter the the magnitude or complexity of what I have at hand is. To crown it all up, she checks on me almost every 30mins to know if I am okay and she ensures I finish my work as soon as I can even offering to help me whenever ive got so much to do. There are even times she would not ask from me and would just go ahead and help me finish up my work so I can close early. She would also call me whenever she gets home to know f I am at home and okay. Really she has just been so FANTASTIQUE and can't be more grateful to God for blessing me with a guardian Angel that my female boss has turned out to be.
Can you share your experience? Have u been fortunate with your female bosses or have they turned out to be a pain in the neck? Please let me know as your contribution will be highly appreciated.

Truth is that before I started work, I had this impression of female bosses and it is that they are usually not nice at all. This is judging from peoples experiences. Though so u can imagine my mindset when I started working. I have worked in three organizations before now and I am currently in working in the fourth. So u can trust when I give my own statistics.
From my first experience, I had a man as my boss so I wasn’t surprised he turned out to be nice all through my stay.

My second place of work presented me with the first opportunity of having a female boss who turned out to be very nice. She took it upon herself to drop me off after the days work every blessed day. Unfortunately, I was transferred to another branch where I had the opportunity of working with the second female boss who wasn’t only nice but who kept you on your toes by making u work and also enjoying every bit of the work. She also was ready to defend u whenever it mattered.

My third place offered me the third opportunity of working with a female boss, but trust me, this time it was far from all I had experienced working under a female boss as my boss in this place was not nice at all. She snaps at any given opportunity, was hostile and very touchy, funny enough she doesn’t speak good English. To make matters worse, she made me do menial jobs like washing of plates whenever the board just finished a meeting {it was a manufacturing industry}.After a month, I had to leave as I couldn’t stand her anymore. Did someone say ‘typical of female bosses?’

My fourth place which is where I am currently working, I want to believe God actually has compensated me for all the troubles I went through with my last female boss. Lest I forget, I am currently working under the fourth female boss and to say she is down to earth is an understatement. I can go on and on about how nice she is and how wonderful she makes me feel every single day. She not only defends me but she also told me she has taken me as her sister and trust me, her actions do not in anyway contradict her words.
The truth is that she has never complained or scolded me not even for once for whatever mistake I make no matter how silly it is and she is ever willing to assist me no matter the the magnitude or complexity of what I have at hand is. To crown it all up, she checks on me almost every 30mins to know if I am okay and she ensures I finish my work as soon as I can even offering to help me whenever ive got so much to do. There are even times she would not ask from me and would just go ahead and help me finish up my work so I can close early. She would also call me whenever she gets home to know f I am at home and okay. Really she has just been so FANTASTIQUE and can't be more grateful to God for blessing me with a guardian Angel that my female boss has turned out to be.
Can you share your experience? Have u been fortunate with your female bosses or have they turned out to be a pain in the neck? Please let me know as your contribution will be highly appreciated.

Truth is that before I started work, I had this impression of female bosses and it is that they are usually not nice at all. This is judging from peoples experiences. Though so u can imagine my mindset when I started working. I have worked in three organizations before now and I am currently in working in the fourth. So u can trust when I give my own statistics.
From my first experience, I had a man as my boss so I wasn’t surprised he turned out to be nice all through my stay.

My second place of work presented me with the first opportunity of having a female boss who turned out to be very nice. She took it upon herself to drop me off after the days work every blessed day. Unfortunately, I was transferred to another branch where I had the opportunity of working with the second female boss who wasn’t only nice but who kept you on your toes by making u work and also enjoying every bit of the work. She also was ready to defend u whenever it mattered.

My third place offered me the third opportunity of working with a female boss, but trust me, this time it was far from all I had experienced working under a female boss as my boss in this place was not nice at all. She snaps at any given opportunity, was hostile and very touchy, funny enough she doesn’t speak good English. To make matters worse, she made me do menial jobs like washing of plates whenever the board just finished a meeting {it was a manufacturing industry}.After a month, I had to leave as I couldn’t stand her anymore. Did someone say ‘typical of female bosses?’

My fourth place which is where I am currently working, I want to believe God actually has compensated me for all the troubles I went through with my last female boss. Lest I forget, I am currently working under the fourth female boss and to say she is down to earth is an understatement. I can go on and on about how nice she is and how wonderful she makes me feel every single day. She not only defends me but she also told me she has taken me as her sister and trust me, her actions do not in anyway contradict her words.
The truth is that she has never complained or scolded me not even for once for whatever mistake I make no matter how silly it is and she is ever willing to assist me no matter the the magnitude or complexity of what I have at hand is. To crown it all up, she checks on me almost every 30mins to know if I am okay and she ensures I finish my work as soon as I can even offering to help me whenever ive got so much to do. There are even times she would not ask from me and would just go ahead and help me finish up my work so I can close early. She would also call me whenever she gets home to know f I am at home and okay. Really she has just been so FANTASTIQUE and can't be more grateful to God for blessing me with a guardian Angel that my female boss has turned out to be.
Can you share your experience? Have u been fortunate with your female bosses or have they turned out to be a pain in the neck? Please let me know as your contribution will be highly appreciated.

Truth is that before I started work, I had this impression of female bosses and it is that they are usually not nice at all. This is judging from peoples experiences. Though so u can imagine my mindset when I started working. I have worked in three organizations before now and I am currently in working in the fourth. So u can trust when I give my own statistics.
From my first experience, I had a man as my boss so I wasn’t surprised he turned out to be nice all through my stay.

My second place of work presented me with the first opportunity of having a female boss who turned out to be very nice. She took it upon herself to drop me off after the days work every blessed day. Unfortunately, I was transferred to another branch where I had the opportunity of working with the second female boss who wasn’t only nice but who kept you on your toes by making u work and also enjoying every bit of the work. She also was ready to defend u whenever it mattered.

My third place offered me the third opportunity of working with a female boss, but trust me, this time it was far from all I had experienced working under a female boss as my boss in this place was not nice at all. She snaps at any given opportunity, was hostile and very touchy, funny enough she doesn’t speak good English. To make matters worse, she made me do menial jobs like washing of plates whenever the board just finished a meeting {it was a manufacturing industry}.After a month, I had to leave as I couldn’t stand her anymore. Did someone say ‘typical of female bosses?’

My fourth place which is where I am currently working, I want to believe God actually has compensated me for all the troubles I went through with my last female boss. Lest I forget, I am currently working under the fourth female boss and to say she is down to earth is an understatement. I can go on and on about how nice she is and how wonderful she makes me feel every single day. She not only defends me but she also told me she has taken me as her sister and trust me, her actions do not in anyway contradict her words.
The truth is that she has never complained or scolded me not even for once for whatever mistake I make no matter how silly it is and she is ever willing to assist me no matter the the magnitude or complexity of what I have at hand is. To crown it all up, she checks on me almost every 30mins to know if I am okay and she ensures I finish my work as soon as I can even offering to help me whenever ive got so much to do. There are even times she would not ask from me and would just go ahead and help me finish up my work so I can close early. She would also call me whenever she gets home to know f I am at home and okay. Really she has just been so FANTASTIQUE and can't be more grateful to God for blessing me with a guardian Angel that my female boss has turned out to be.
Can you share your experience? Have u been fortunate with your female bosses or have they turned out to be a pain in the neck? Please let me know as your contribution will be highly appreciated.

Truth is that before I started work, I had this impression of female bosses and it is that they are usually not nice at all. This is judging from peoples experiences. Though so u can imagine my mindset when I started working. I have worked in three organizations before now and I am currently in working in the fourth. So u can trust when I give my own statistics.
From my first experience, I had a man as my boss so I wasn’t surprised he turned out to be nice all through my stay.

My second place of work presented me with the first opportunity of having a female boss who turned out to be very nice. She took it upon herself to drop me off after the days work every blessed day. Unfortunately, I was transferred to another branch where I had the opportunity of working with the second female boss who wasn’t only nice but who kept you on your toes by making u work and also enjoying every bit of the work. She also was ready to defend u whenever it mattered.

My third place offered me the third opportunity of working with a female boss, but trust me, this time it was far from all I had experienced working under a female boss as my boss in this place was not nice at all. She snaps at any given opportunity, was hostile and very touchy, funny enough she doesn’t speak good English. To make matters worse, she made me do menial jobs like washing of plates whenever the board just finished a meeting {it was a manufacturing industry}.After a month, I had to leave as I couldn’t stand her anymore. Did someone say ‘typical of female bosses?’

My fourth place which is where I am currently working, I want to believe God actually has compensated me for all the troubles I went through with my last female boss. Lest I forget, I am currently working under the fourth female boss and to say she is down to earth is an understatement. I can go on and on about how nice she is and how wonderful she makes me feel every single day. She not only defends me but she also told me she has taken me as her sister and trust me, her actions do not in anyway contradict her words.
The truth is that she has never complained or scolded me not even for once for whatever mistake I make no matter how silly it is and she is ever willing to assist me no matter the the magnitude or complexity of what I have at hand is. To crown it all up, she checks on me almost every 30mins to know if I am okay and she ensures I finish my work as soon as I can even offering to help me whenever ive got so much to do. There are even times she would not ask from me and would just go ahead and help me finish up my work so I can close early. She would also call me whenever she gets home to know f I am at home and okay. Really she has just been so FANTASTIQUE and cant be more grateful to God for blessing me with a guardian Angel that my female boss has turned out to be.
Can you share your experience? Have u been fortunate with your female bosses or have they turned out to be a pain in the neck? Pls let me know as your contribution will be highly appreciated.

There has bin this funny but true trend
You meet a guy, u guys start dating and its just like he can't live without u as he is just all over you.You guys talk about virtually about everything and anything under the sun.Meanwhile during the course of getting to know each other, you have made this one thing clear: NO SEX UNTIL AFTER MARRIAGE! and he doesnt object neither does he bhave as if he can't just cope with that.
Months into your relationship, he starts bringing up the issue and it gradually becomes an issue and a soource of misunderstanding.Then when ure not yielding, he starts dating someone else.When u find out, you can't stand it and u guys decides to talk about in and in the process u both willingly decide to go your separate ways.Of course he is too willing to call it off.Obviously,he continueS with this his new found love.
Surprisingly,few months after uve both decided to call it over, he starts calling and he wants to come back into your life.
Trust me, i REFUSE but he never seem to give up, even till tomorrow.
The truth is why do they keep wanting to come back after treating me the way they have done?
Dont be suprised that this has happenen with two guys in a row and it has been almost the same story all through trust me.
PLS WHAT DO You ALL THINK?

omaga25red
Thanks 4 all that.The fact is that i made up my mind whilst growing to abstain.
Its just a standard.God has got standards which HE will never bend.
Consequences notwithstanding my mind is made up.Let me keep myself for that one man that God will eventually bless me with.I want to also be a standard for my children yet unbornI dont have to know who he is b4 i do the right thing which is keeping myself for him.that is the height of trust u might say!

There has bin this funny but true trend
You meet a guy, u guys start dating and its just like  he can't live without u as he is just all over you.You guys talk about virtually about everything and anything under the sun.Meanwhile during the course of getting to know each other, you have made this one thing clear: NO SEX UNTIL AFTER MARRIAGE! and he doesnt object neither does he bhave as if he can't just cope with that.
Months into your relationship, he starts bringing up the issue and it gradually becomes an issue and a soource of misunderstanding.Then when ure not yielding, he starts dating someone else.When u find out, you can't stand it and u guys decides to talk about in and in the process u both willingly decide to go your separate ways.Of course he is too willing to call it off.Obviously,he continueS with this his new found love.
Surprisingly,few months after uve both decided to call it over, he starts calling and he wants to come back into your life.
Trust me, i REFUSE but he never seem to give up, even till tomorrow.
The truth is why do they  keep wanting to come back after treating me the way they have done?
Dont be suprised that this has happenen with two guys in a row and it has been almost the same story all through trust me.
PLS WHAT DO You ALL THINK?

There has bin this funny but true trend
You meet a guy, u guys start dating and its just like he can't live without u as he is just all over you.You guys talk about virtually about everything and anything under the sun.Meanwhile during the course of getting to know each other, you have made this one thing clear: NO SEX UNTIL AFTER MARRIAGE! and he doesnt object neither does he bhave as if he can't just cope with that.
Months into your relationship, he starts bringing up the issue and it gradually becomes an issue and a soource of misunderstanding.Then when ure not yielding, he starts dating someone else.When u find out, you can't stand it and u guys decides to talk about in and in the process u both willingly decide to go your separate ways.Of course he is too willing to call it off.Obviously,he continueS with this his new found love.
Surprisingly,few months after uve both decided to call it over, he starts calling and he wants to come back into your life.
Trust me, i REFUSE but he never seem to give up, even till tomorrow.
The truth is why do they keep wanting to come back after treating me the way they have done?
Dont be suprised that this has happenen with two guys in a row and it has been almost the same story all through trust me.
PLS WHAT DO You ALL THINK?

There has bin this funny but true trend
U meet a guy, u guys start dating and its just like  he cant live without u as he is just all over you.You guys talk about virtually about everything and anything under the sun.Meanwhile during the course of getting to know each other, you have made this one thing clear: NO SEX UNTIL AFTER MARRIAGE! and he doesnt object neither does he bhave as if he cant just cope with that.
Months into your relationship, he starts bringing up the issue and it gradually becomes an issue and a soource of misunderstanding.Then when ure not yielding, he starts dating someone else.When u find out, you cant stand it and u guys decides to talk about in and in the process u both willingly decide to go ur separate ways.Of course he is too willing to call it off.Obviously,they continue with this their new found love.
Surprisingly,few months after uve both decided to call it over, they start calling and they wanna come back into your life.
Trust me, i REFUSE but they never seem to give up, even till tomorrow.
The truth is why do they  keep wanting to come back after treating me the way they have did?
Dont be suprised this has happenen with 2 guys in a row and has been almost the same story all through trust me.
PLS WHAT DO U ALL THINK?

Thanks Chucks for your concern
YES I love him
YES I trust him
It has never even crossed my mind to do such a thing to him
We met each other, no third party actually introduce one to the other
He actually was the one who made me this committed because he kept hammering on the need for me to be committed and he kept commitment was the most important thing in every relationship

Ure deeply appreciated!