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Rootprof:
Monday night that 3 people where abducted in LADE I was in the village. The situation no funny at all. Gradually Edu and Patigi local government is getting deserted. Villagers leaving the area and business dieing, farmers can't go to there farm, everyone living in fear.
Monday afternoon around 4pm, I saw The soldiers deployed to the area heading towards patigi in convoy then I asked some villagers why, they said only patrol during day and return to patigi in the evening to sleep. So the bandits mostly strike in the night. The governor seems na joke until price of food stuffs increases cos most farms are being abandoned. The LADE villages said it's being over 3 years they saw light last, they depend on solar for those that can afford it, bad road, the governor only focuses on the state capital. It's so painful, don't even know what kwara north is enjoying under this AA government.

EDU/ PATIGI local government needs urgent attention. The area is bleeding.

Why are you complaining. Go home and fight.

For almost 2 years, Obi have never replied this man.
He no dey shame?

See how a president is seated. No be the chair arm dey support his hand so

Kobojunkie:
When he was single, who took his plate to the kitchen? That should be the same person that takes his plate to the kitchen even in marriage, unless his wife decided in marriage to elevate him to god status. And this elevation to god status for men is typical among the religious/traditionally brainwashed women.

The thing tire me. Why won't a man wash his plate for heaven sake.
He cooks as a bachelor. All of a sudden, he cannot cook again because he employed a maid. Hunger go kill us for that house.

DoctorStanley:
Some women PREFER to treat their husbands as gods and for the husband to behave as god. Husbands don't necessarily like that. You want to be the ordinary human you are. Too much responsibility to be another person's god!

A good perspective coming from a guy.
Parents especially mothers and religious bodies teach women these. You will never see them teach them how to make money or survive in this crazy world. You are only born to live for a man.

See kweshion.
Well, oga specifically told me during courtship. No serve me. You aren't my maid but going to be my better half.
Don't even know how long we have been married and I have never washed his plates. I don’t dish out food for him. Anybody who is washing at that moment can wash all. And you must thank the person for doing that for you. Be it the kids. As for dishing out food,nobody dishes out food for anybody in this house. If you want to finish the whole pot, na you sabi. There is always an alternative.

We make marriages so hard with some unrealistic expectations that the moment we don't do them anymore,westart seeing cracks and we wonder why.
I have mentioned it severally,whether hands or machine, I do not wash his clothes. He wash and sort them out. It is a union. Partnership. I no be anybody slave. The day I feel like making speciality, I do. Nobody pressures me. If you come and there is no food, both you and the kids know what to do. You even make and give me.

Acidosis:
Ahaha... I will be wetin for your gold medal shine
Na you go win am. Should I expect pictures? ☺️

See picture picture of me representing my kwantri
Na world remain

Acidosis:
Exactly my concern as well. Anxiety has set in, and that is even more problematic.

Yes, my sis. I dey fine, and so are your babies o. How have you been?

I dey here o dey pump iron
I wan be Miss Olympic

Hehehehe,na see finish be this one.

Beremx:
They all have skeletons in their cupboards. What are they hiding for the world to see?

Its not only chatgbt that we have in this world.

I dont even use it. Has very scanty info.

If you expand your research work on what you get from chatgbt, you may end up with an average mark. I prefer deepseek and it's owned by china. Who uses chatgbt when there is deepseek?
Because it's from America?

LordAdam16:
While he is facing growing protests, international isolation, and a crippling strike next weekend.

The ingrate has only one setting: PUSH.

-Lord

You want to see the devil, look at that man.

Penguin2:
Finally, someone in their circle has openly said what their aim is.

Trust me we are not surprised at all because we know that this has been their aim but unfortunately Peter Obi no be small meat.

You wonder why they are so afraid of him since they claim he’s unpopular.

They know Obi beat Tinubu blue and black in 2023, and with the hunger Tinubu has now sponsored on Nigerians, Obi will add more colours to the beating in 2027.

And hey, Obi will be on the ballot in 2027.

No need mentioning that.
There are some things you guys should not be saying out loud. Your opponents can only prepare ahead if they know your moves. I'm guessing you guys are the reason obi is still not out with full chest. Make una learn how this thing is done from the north. No be to dey open mouth anyhow. Especially you. This is not 2023. You see whatever obi is doing, do that. These people make una spill una beans too early. You should be more of an attacker. Obi need no promotion anymore.
You guys should avoid obi this or that thread and go on full attack mode on tinubu and his people.
That is what tinubu people are doing. And let the politicians do their stuff behind the scenes.
Haba.

The audacity of these people.
So he needs igbo vote yet?
Interesting!

Acidosis:
You started trying 3 months ago? No licensed doctor or clinic will attend to you.

Primary infertility is diagnosed/confirmed after one year of regular and consistent sex without success. After one year without success, you will still need to prove to a gynaecologist that you have been having sex 3-4 days weekly.

Whoever told you to go for HSG etc. after only 3 months of trying has ruined your family. There are certain tests you should avoid especially when you haven't made serious efforts to conceive naturally. Too much knowledge can ruin you. There are many women roaming the streets with blocked tubes and fibroid, yet with babies. Know what they did differently? Many of them have never heard of HSG or submucosal bla bla...

The problem is the position of the fibroid.

Some have given birth to kids with fibroid.

He is highly tensed up. 3 months and he is already worried this much. Now the fear has materialised to reality. How you dey?. My babies are doing well,right?

KobeMan:
We married A Year ago. We decided to wait for a year before having kids. We started trying 3 few months but no success. I told both of us needs to get tested. I did Sperm Analysis & the result is good, I'm very fertile.

She did pelvic scan, and in the scan, She has fibroid (Submocousal fibroid 5.5cm). The news broke me and I was very sad, I never imagined I'll be in this kind of situation. We went to the gynecologist and He told us to go for HSG to check her fallopian tube, The result showed that Both Tubes are blocked.

I've not been myself for the last couple of days. I had to pretend to be strong because She was down & has been crying as well. This are two serious fertility issues and Her chances of conception is very low. Even if The gynecologist tells us to do the IVF(Which I don't even have money for it cause it's vey expensive) They'll still have to remove the fibroid.

This are very expensive procedures that are not even guaranteed that it will work and She will conceive. I'm the only male child in my family, in my early 30's. Pressure will start coming from all directions and also considering my my age, I don't pray to experience delay with child birth. I just decided to pour own my mind here. I'm really down, I don't know what to do.

Im more worried about the fibroid cos of where it's located than the blocked tubes.
If you love her so much, go for surrogate. As she may not be able to carry without miscarriage cos of the position of the fibroid. If you dont, you 2 should look for plan C.

Hotguy27:
Please be sincere. How long did you guys date before the marriage?

Most women are aware of such situation before their marriage. I knew a lady who was having fibroid and got married without telling the husband. Their marriage is about 7 years now and nothing to show.

You can divorce her on the ground of deception if she knew her condition before marriage and she didn't tell you. It is better that one person suffers than 2 people suffering such pain for too long. It might sound very brutal but just think about it.

Most black women have fibroid. Like more than 70%. It depends ds on where it is located. Some are just there. It does not disturb anything. Some are located at the worst parts of the uterus and it's environs.

So before you start blaming, know that those ladies in your life even if they have kids have more than 50% chances of having fibroid when examined. Thank you.

This is so sad. E hug to you and your wife.

Sterope:
In a Muslim country, you CANNOT mock Jesus and the worst you can do is say he is not God and other things around proving he is not God.

If any Muslim should do that, they are no longer within Islam. They will have to repent and redeclare their faith.

In a Muslim majority country with shariah law, you will highly likely be tried for that blasphemy.

Even as Muslims, people who engage in some daily popular dhikr has some verses, " we make no distinction between the messengers of God"

Also, Islam is not old enough to pass some stages of you wilfully go to the Muslim majority community and say foolish things. A legal consequence is justifiable.

Jesus was mocked in nigeria many times. What happened. Nothing. And yes, in Islamic countries, jesus has been mocked many times. In Christian countries too, jesus has been mocked even by politicians, lgbt etc and heaven did not descend on them. Muslims should stop aggressiveness. Its unbecoming and archaic. The psychological make up of an average muslim especially middle Eastern people are a study on its own. Check it out. Those who care are looking out for solutions to the aggressive nature of Muslims as it destroys rather than build.

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Jelous ke! I don''t have time for the petty tribal politics you folks play here o. Mine is strictly based on logical thinking and critical analysis.

Lagos has been commercial capital from since when the Portugese came in 1850 or whatever and named it Lagos because of the Lagoon. Then it because a natural hub for business into the hinterland. That birthed many companies that were HQ'd here - banks, trading companies, manufacturing companies etc. Then being the Federal Capital aded to its allure. and wealth profile. And has it blosomed from there onwards.

Having a port is good, but its not a game changer that folks keep saying. Insecurity and Monday sit at home sef, will do more damage to the region than you can imagine. Who is going to invest in the midst of insecurity?[/quote]You played exactly what you preached guy. Tribal politics. The reason I gave that reply. When you give them back with the same energy, they will start whipping sentiments. The rest of your posts, I didn't bother to read
Me, tribal politics.
You don't know anything about this moniker.

Sterope:
Islam isn't a religion of peace when the other side choose madness

No, they won't forgive her. If it had been Jesus, she would most likely be facing the same consequences.

Now, thats a big fat lie. Jesus has been mocked in this country and beyond and nothing happened ed. Christianity has passed that stage. Islam is old enough to pass that stage. Christians fought to abolish some man made rigid rules of old. Islam should do so. Its about time.

I speak as one who care less about religion so I am not on any side. As for the said lady, I have already reacted to her action.

Is the school new?
Have never heard of it before.
Mgwakwu. The name is familiar.

pocohantas:
Yes, they are and that is why they look like a healthy happy couple. It is the same in Mine's family and I noticed his outlook to relationship and marriage is different from what I grew up seeing.

Please, they should keep it up. Join abeg. Unusual bonding.
Many people do not know what exercise do to the body. Even if is just walking together through the neighbourhood.

It releases the feel good hormones. Those hormones are needed in every relationships. Sadly, our people think they can get those hormones through alcohol and drugs. We know how that ends. Nature gave that free.

AngelicBeing:
@ Descarado, l read your last diary entry, why you dey threaten my brother Na, l dey vex with you ooooooo, give my Brother what he requested from you oooooo 😜 Muchecheche 😂

Hahahahaaaaaa
Your brother dey look for trouble na so I give am small. We are visiting grandma tomorrow. I will tell her too
All ground covered.

COMPAQ:
There is a lot of ways to blosom without the port. The port is not the main issue. Afterall there is port in Warri, PH and Calabar. Have any of those cities witnessed extraordinary development on thr basis of the port being there?

Tell that to lagos state.
If there is a port in onitsha,how does that affect your existence?
Are you jealous that igboland is no longer landlocked as you guys postulated?

Indispensable85:
Leave money rituals for igbos

While ogun state generate 40% of their bogus IGR from skul mining.

Just saw a topic where a man was caught with 3 human heads in ogun state this morning.

9jatruecrime:
I pray something like this should never happen again

How many times will you guys recycle this on nairaland?

I detest hypocrisy with passion.

Nigeria

pocohantas:
Congrats to them.
And many more years together in love.
I love the age difference between them.
They sure look good together.

Look at that lady. So slim.
Seems like they are exercise enthusiasts.
I will do anything to get back to that figure.
Almost there.

Age diff btw me and dh is not up to 2 yrs. I recently checked out my family and discovered that they marry their mates. No wonder they behave the way they do.