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The situation is not as hard as it seem, just say NO and keep avoiding her, if she persist tell your mum or anyone close to her. That leads to the question, how old are you and how old is she??

Abeg who is rhiana, with her massive forehead shakira's got the moves, the latin blood is so pure, you can't ever fake it!!

2cantango:
Shishi/Crayola made himself a female ----> Kemibear

Kemibear fell in love with Crayola - Crayola fell in love with Kemibear.

This puts a new meaning to self love

hilarious
I like the way you worked out the math,

hmmm-- one weird dude for you there!!!

This crap has to stop--- kemibear is female innit?

seriously, crayola=shishi

I was just wondering why i don't see him online anymore, dang!!! these people make me laugh

Have you seen some Spanish, Italian, Brazilian girls??---if you have you will reconsider your choice. They make me green with envy

They need to develop their own personal identity, like different style of hair, clothes--men!!!! they look like quads to me

I read that she is scared of losing her booty and is planning to pile the weight back on now that the movie has been shot. i do prefer her this way though

bluenubian:
oh i don't think is in vogue in the US here or rather around me, i think the US is one of the last people to get in on the latest trends

Really, i use to think UK was tagging behind in that area, after we borrow some ideas from out neighbors France and Italy.

hmmm-- i don't make sacrifices in a relationship, we have to compromise on everything 50-50, that way, when trouble comes no one is left feeling 100% upset.

edatika:
maybe u don't even wish to settle down wit a Nigerian (because u aint in Nigeria) talk less of a yoruba.

maybe, maybe not!!! it all depends.

chosenbabe:
She said a month


Yeah svs u can wash it, ive tried it before and it worked

okay, one month is cool, i must have read it wrongly

or rather

@ina

I think i know what you meant by that, it quite in vogue in the uk, you have to be able to fill them up for it to look nice.

Mine has to be grilled Okra Yuck!!!! The way the West-Indies cook theirs and eat it with grilled fish

Geez!!! 4 months is quite long to wear your braids for o, you might start to loose some hair if you not careful, I think the recommended duration is 3 months. Yes, you can wash it if you want to, i wash my nieces and it looks great for 3 months.

@topic
We are on the same wavelength on this, i feel exactly the same way about the way Nairaland members conduct themselves, i think is not just an age issue but mental attitude- you would be surprised at some older members acting even worse than the teenagers here.  

On the other hand, it is free world as long as nobody crosses the boundaries; everyone has got a right to an opinion and a right to express it in whatever way they want. The stand I’m taking on this is if something bothers you, ignore it or if you don’t like the tone of a particular member just ignore them

@crayola
You are not exactly an OAP yourself , you are just 22 c'mon!!!

YEEEPA!!! catastrophe

hair disaster
make-up disaster
wardrobe disaster

The only thing working for her is her figure!!

hmmmmmm----good question!!! I asked one of my pals at work this question recently and you would be surprised at the reason he gave, of course it varies for different men though.

Just to summarize, Men feel too comfortable in long-term relationships where co-habitation exist hence they can't be bothered to get married, like some would say, why pay for the cow when you can get the milk for free.

@habibat

I think he just found your previous post funny, that is all. You don't need to give him the look of death for that

aloib:
its a local way i thnk, u know how ibadan women pronounce it, bwhahahahaa

HAHAHHHHA
dang!!!! That might be true, you know!!!

edatika:
u can't just conclude like that, well i realy don't know where you're from, but generally, men from my part of the world (Nigeria- Yoruba precisely), except exceptional guys would understand. because i personally don't see that as an excuse (complexity of changing names, ) when u pay dowry uv paid for all including name.
well really it really depends on him, happy for u, but i still appreciate the fact that from u use my surname(if i were him).u said what 4??.same it's my culture

i think it has a lot to do with your cultural backgrd. and your personal opinion.

So because a man paid your dowry you must give up your life to him life- meaning livelihood as well. I would bear his name, yes fine (before God and those that care to know) but i will not go into the tedious process of changing my name as it appears on certificates, bank records, National insurance and Health records etc, that is absolutely unnecessary. If I was living in Nigeria that would be another story entirely and besides my Yoruba culture does not stipulate paying the bride price. 

Antigua

In an exotic seaside beach cottage….the sound of the ocean in the morning just has to do something for the soul

hmmmm, I think I’m over that age for them to disown me now, only if i disown them first

Seriously now, they wouldn't even dream of disowning me for any of those offence!!!

There is absolutely no need for this, this is a conspiracy and should not be permitted, just like in real life people cross the line and step on other peoples toes. You girls should have handled it maturely and other Nairalanders must stop fuelling it. Haba!!!

@zarah

Nope, An open relationship means no comittment and freedom to date/engage in sexual activities with another person.

Polyamory is the practice of having more than one loving relationship at the same time, with the full knowledge and consent of all partners involved. The relationships are long-term, intimate, and usually (but not necessarily) sexual. Persons who consider themselves emotionally suited to such relationships may define themselves as polyamorous, often abbreviated to poly.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Open_relationship