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I find it creepy for adults to be boasting about such things in an open forum, in UK it is called pedophilia. Hold on!!! did you not start a similar topic about a teenager that supposedly fell for you and you were going to air your secrets here.

Don't hold your breath, my grandmother would have been too much of a woman for you.

Every city on earth is better than London, hun, don't even sweat!!!

It doesn't surprise me at all if its coming from a man that claims to be dating a girl young enough to be his grand daughter and some other (numerous) infantile conquest----

this is a joke right??

I suggest you should remain friends with her, your priorities are bound to change and hers as well. You both would move on to date other people.

zigbo:
oh my God desire that was so mean nd you are a "lady" how could dey have done that. its nt lik d crime was so horendous,he did nt tk a life.that is so inhuman.i'm about to break down now.my condolence to his family.the reason for his crime is obvious

Careful, people might begin to think Nigeria is a Nation that supports drug trafficking. What does being a lady have to do with it, no feminine sentiment applied heh??

TerraCotta:
Ah--missed that. Not that there's anything wrong with Peckham--she might want to get out a bit more though.

Peckham's not Hyde Park or something, but people do live there. It's just not the only place to be if you're in London.

I know people live in peckham(I wouldn't) but It's doesn't always give the best first impression to visitors.

Whatever did you expect from London in the first place?? C'mon darling wake up from your slumber, you've been watching too much movies, London is not  precisely heaven on earth. Your cousins are probably tired because they work to pay their bills and would not throw money around because they know the value of a pound.

Pechkam is not exactly the $hit either.

Coco29:
can you imagine fking a 60 yr old man s h i t, do you know how many times we would have to stop so he can catch his breath, that would piss me off.

LMFAO

Coco29:
well from my training it has to do with their relationship with their father.


i have a very lovely relationship with my daddy and do not need to replace him with another.

that is true coco

But for naija girls, add love of money and greed.

LadyT:
@ desiree

I don't think Dime needs a man she needs to be by herself for a while and learn to be independent and strong instead of surrounding herself with sex offenders.

LOL!!!!

I agree with you.
damn that really made me laugh!!!

Sounds like The free love movement to me!!!

B and F seem like experienced rapists, find a way out of this insane relationship in your own best interest. You say you like/love B but you won’t be saying that when his friend F eventually rapes you and he is aware of the plot right from the beginning.

For me C should be the last person you should be worried about, let her have B(and F) if she wants, endure and ignore her till you find a new flatmate.

Are there no other men where you live??

Pretentious in admitting that such guys exits without making it sound like the girl that falls on their plate is unable to make the right choice in guys.

davidylan:
You must have a lot of experience dating boys and idiots! A good player will be the very opposite of all you just outlined!

Absolutely NOT true! There are some girls you date and all you think about is when to sleep with them. There are some that sex takes a complete back seat and you are more interested in making her happy and taking her for keeps!
It is false to assume all boys are the same. Any girl who is eager for sex on the first date is out of my window by the third date!

Asking me how many kids i want on a first date will make me sit up and take you more seriously! It works well for me!

Oh my days!!!
This is exactly the problem I have with NLer, y’all are too pretentious.

For your information I don’t date immature gits, even if I ever have, he won’t get the pleasure of a second date. I cannot pretend that such guys don’t exist even I have never dated one.
So, I cannot give advice anymore without it being the story of my life, please. Some of us have ears/eyes and a brain for a reason.

Yeah, a true player will try to be the opposite of all those things, but a player also has his days, one day he will slip and ladies will see through the charade.

I see nothing wrong with marrying an Actor, if he's making an honest living doing what he knows how to best.

You probably shouldn't if you are the jealous type.

Free:
I almost agreed with ya desiree


but i think dey should be givn a 2nd chance
if it happnds again then U leave em'

I understand what you are trying to say, but if you give them a second chance, believe me, it is most definitely going to happen again. It is like waiting for the expected to occur.You can never give him that trust again, there is no point staying with a man you can't trust

@topic

I can't tell you how to find out what a guy wants on the first date but you can always tell who is going to be a royal pain in the butt:

--If he keeps picking up calls during the date (the clown would apologise, but he would still answer his countless amount of calls)
--If he keeps talking about cars(especially if you are not into cars)
--If his favorite topic of discussion is football.
--if he takes you to a place that he has visited with his ex/es
--if he didn't ask you what you would like to do for the date.

watch out for these xteristics, they always turn out to be jerk-asses!!!

I guess he must be 52

Don't do it gurl, you can do better than that!!!

If your partner cheats on you, you shouldn't just dump his cheating ass, kick it as well!!!

No cheat deserves a second chance in my book, because they always think they've scored one.

The fact that some religion "allow" it  and there are even cases of polygamy sited in the bible, makes it not an entire alien issue.
This thread is not about polygamy or feminism. 


am I missing something here??

Nerves
Just didn't want the topic of rape in Nigerian society to be overshadowed.

@topic

I agree with the poster that said they were tacky and add cheesy to that. Is getting married not enough publicity?

babyosisi:
Our case in Nigeria is actually more complicated when a man can marry as many wives as he can legally.
Even our own president,the most prominent Nigerian is a polygamist,what does that say to womanhood in Nigeria.
You are just a piece of property that can be replaced,exchanged and used at will,if you refuse,there are many others in line to take your turn and in Nigeria there are.

And the women that marry these already married men is what I cannot understand.
Why on earth should a woman with brains allow herself to be one sharing her bed with several other co wives.
That is so humiliating and it is still happening in our time.

Polygamy is an entirely different concept. As long as the people involved enter into it willingly; as a lifestyle choice or religious purposes ie nobody is being forced and they can leave if they wish.

Busta:
Is this a joke?

am guessing it is

I don't think so.

RFLMAO
They don't give up!!1

Hong-Kong is the least expected place on earth, but i agree you will find them dodgy folks anywhere the sun shines.