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Love is one of the few reasons to get married but there other things you should consider alongside with love.
like the saying goes: don't marry becuase you can live with him/her but because you can't live without him/her

Nosu:
l hv a different opinion, l see the relationship is built on lust not on love. that is the first stage, the next might be on the bed and in another 3 weeks or more the guy tells u he is no londer interested because he has gotten what he wanted.
l just laugh at ladies when they cry and say the guy broke their heart, when theycouldn't keep and watch the person they were given their heart to, they see a handsome guy that tell them they a looking cool and love her, she looses her head and can't control her emotiom until the flower is trample on.

I rather agree with you on this one, I’ve had similar experience of this in the past when i was a lot younger, I regretted it and I’m a lot wiser now.

mochafella:
where did you get that from?

I saw it written on the wall somewhere, lol
Where did you think i got that from??

You should be asking the men folk what they think if a girl kisses them on the first date, i don't think it is the nicest thing to do because i always analyse the guys on the first dates and always look forward to the next date. If you kiss on the first date then there isn't much to look forward to, isn’t??

Jokers will never be detered
This should be in the jokes section

daring, u can wear this as a dress

rather nice

Yeah they are nice but i would rather wear a cami during the day, i like this ones

lol

still damn funny though!!

True the text message break up is the worst thing that could happen to anyone, the best thing is to go out to a neutral place and tell him face to face. I admit i had to use the text message with my ex, after i told him one on one, I can't do this anymore, it is wearing me out physically and mentally and it would be the best thing for both of us to end it here but he didn't stop calling and coming uninvited to my place.

loretta:
Her Husband is a Sailor and also cheats on her. That's not a good reason to bring your man friend to your house. I've tried explianing things to her she will not listen.

She also complain that her does not satisfy her does not know how to make love like they used to do.

JUst this morning when we got to the office, she said she was going to the bank and I asked her what for she just rolled her eyes.

If her husband is not satisfying sexually and is also cheating on her, has she tried talking to him about it? If the answer to that is yes, and he did not change his attitude, the only option left is for her to end the marriage because nothing can justify her cheating with another man in their matrimonial bed. It is totally wrong,

And if i were you i won't be hanging around her too much because she can make a move on your own husband too

Oopps!!!! did i say that loud

Rhodalyn:
I wouldnt marry any Of what U've Stated!! I'll just marry the One i love!

I'm with you on this one, love and respect should be the decisive factor of me marrying a man but I’m more likely to fall for a handsome poor man, I’m too vain to marry an ugly vulture

Forget about the marriage, she is cheating on you with another woman!!! But she deserves to explain her side of the story, sit her down and talk to her, ask her questions about her feelings for other women, the only reason why she should be forgiven will be:

She is being blackmailed into sleeping with the woman
She had a gun held to her head OR
She didn't know what she was doing i.e. she was not in full control of her mental faculty

Open marriages are rubbish, what type of example do they set for their children? children need to grow up in a steady family oriented environment not where daddy is going out to dinner with another woman and he might not be coming home tonight situation

I would still like to keep my maiden name after marriage because of the complexity of changing names on documents and records.Any man would surely understand that.

hahhahhhhhah

Good on ya!!!

Funny enough i use to get cynical looks when I go out clubbing with my white and Asian mates, this time mostly from black male the worrying fact is that I don't date interracially but have a mixture of races as friends.

@cucchi

Just go on and enjoy your relationship with your man don't let the close-minded people bother you; at the end of the day it is you in this relationship and not them. Wish you all the luck girl.

Okay, i get you gurl i thought you wouldn't be going out to play and only the guy can be open. Okay thats cool, a very different opinion there.

I have eaten these weird ones too
Octopus(loves it )
Squid
Piglet (very small and fragile)- make me feel bad though

COCO29:
i would welcome it with open arms

Seriously, would you really accept it bearing in mind that he might be sleeping with other girls and there is the risk of passing on something dodgy to you?

I would like to hear your point of view, if you don't mind

Welcome gurl!!!
I like the definition bit

You must stay faithful to your wife, try and avoid being in the same room as the sister until your wife gets back, but why on earth is the sister deliberately trying to seduce you? Maybe it’s just you!!!

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@ugonna0071

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Ilovebritt:
the way im going to propose is im going to put rose pedas all over the sand at the beach before i get there from the hotel it will bw at sunset i will have taken her out to dinner and then take her to the beach during sunset love her and then say Brittney will you marry me? I already know the answer(YES) but I thought I would just share>

awwwww, that sounds so sweet!!! glad for you!!!
but has it got to do with the topic at hand

C'mon people who amongst us does not know the smell of weed , even if she doesn't live in the ghetto, you go to clubs and instantly recognise that awful smell.

funketobi:
Oh my days. Open relationship is when u can be datin n u are lalowed to date sumone else while your dating your girl/guy. However, d other person will not be your boo, d person will just b for fun.

Hope u didnt say yes. because that is wrong. A guy asked me that as well. n when i told my friends; they explained it to me. So do not take that at all.

Why did you assume it was me in this situation?? Okay, I was just wondering what would make a guy ask for an open relationship and why a girl would agree to be in this type of scenario?