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freecocoa: Hmm you go old where you dey wait for the car be that, before i go buy any man car or a gift wey expensive like that go be for our Golden jubilee, that way even if he decide to leave after that, e no go pain me too much

missykadri: No offence intended. Just fun

freecocoa: That's why i still dey keep you on a longthing.

Dyt: like someone i know will say i dont wanna lie
she prolly is not sure of wat she feels

freecocoa: I'm just really angry because i don't think any girl should be that stupid in this age and time, i mean four good years of your life and the man is not showing signs of wanting to be interested and she's still waiting? He even just keeps it on friends level according to her yet she still sees a future somewhere, well i thank God for myself and my sisters sha, that's why i make sure i'm up to date on my younger sister's life, kai my own person no fit mumu like this, a slap will jolt her back to reality, rubbish

onatisi: when i called her the biggest fool,ppl said i am being nasty and abusive,why cant the face freecocoa now?this nl sef is full of lying hypocrites.
just like freecocoa said the story doesnt even sound real,i think the op is just trying to get to the front page.by inventing such a silly story.well i dont blame the op stupidity when a mod on nl couldnt think deep enough to bring out concrete analysis before contributing trash to the topic

kunletiwoo: Help me ask her once more oo

onatisi: cocoa ought to be angry,the op said she is confused about an issue YET she is happy with the issue.complicated complication of the first degree.
no commitment
no seriousness
he is dating other women
definitely they too are buying him gift
you too want to join
he is not ready for marriage
he has told u it is friends matter
yet u want to buy him a better car than the one he is using.
@explorer can u see the complications?most likely the op wants to buy the guy something which the other ladies cant afford in order to climb to the top of the list.yet some ppl are saying i was too harsh on her.ok oooooo

freecocoa: Good morning my love jare.

This OP just wan make me vex, when i read her first post, i thought they guy was even her boyfriend only to find out its a guy she's been eyeing, even if you love a man and want to make him yours, that's not how to go about it.

Imagine wanting to buy him a better car than the one he's using, how does she think that will make him feel? Mstcheew.

freecocoa: OP you want to buy a jeep for a man who's not serious with you? Forgive me but its obvious you are trying so hard to buy his love.

Then again i guess he spends much more than that on you, maybe you are trying to match up to how he spends,no?

Whatever be the case, its your money, do with it whatever you will.

P.S I read just your response to ONATISI and i think you are crazy(no offense) why not buy him a private jet too, let me tell you something, your money won't make a man love you, mstcheew.

sexkillz: [color=#000030]A gift is a gift. Whether it is a boxer shorts, or a car. If it were singlet and boxers you came here to tell us you want to give him for his birthday, people here will still talk. Even if na BB, they must talk. No matter what it is, them go still talk, them no dey tire. . .

Yes! It is right to spend your money on who and what you want, biko. What you should ask yourself is the motive behind buying it. Are you giving him as just a gift, or are you giving him with hopes of him marrying you? This is very important so that you do not feel disappointed when your expectations are not met.

If anyone here thinks that she buying him a car gift here is a marriage incentive, then any gift she gives him can also be classified as an incentive. The difference might be in the cost of the vehicle, but if she can afford it, why tha heck not?

A gift is a gift. . . No compartmentalizations!
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djeezy: OP is obviously trying to buy love with money. You are going too far. Be warned.

sexkillz: [color=#000030]Thank you, brother in tha lord. Lets join hands in binding and casting out English that can cause discombobulation to the readers, thereby affecting the ministry. . .

OP, it's most likely he is interested in being your friend.
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sexkillz: [color=#000030]Jealous.

I don't think you have anyone who has put a down payment for recharge card for you, so you won't understand.
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AmBeautiful: Please dear be careful though some of this Nairaland guys could be something else. Some do not really have good intentions. BE CAREFUL!

Caracta: Gals, if a guy you the seen but not spoken to came up to you and started talking to you what would you think

mrkels: hmmm, I don't need help jor.

onatisi: yes when ppl deserves it,
buying a car for a man who hasnt proposed to her ,and she doesnt even know if he ever will becos i think 4years is enough to know if u will marry someone or not and the man is 12 years older which means tht the man should be the one hurrying her for marrige and he isnt
thirdly she is lying ,if the man hsgood job and is well ok why woukld dhe need to buy him a car again which means she is the one sponsoring the man and catering for him
fourthly the mans ppl dont live with the mn or in the sme state for a man to be delying in propsing after 4yrs of relationshipand the man been 12yrs older it means that the man is married with wife nd kids and this lady know ,what she is confused bout is dating a married man to the extent of buying him a car ,she wants to know if it is right or wrong

k2039: I CAN HAVE S*EX WITHOUT COMMITTING SIN.

Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.1 Corinthians 7:2