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[quote author=Mynd_44]I dey think na[/quote]

sanb: really... this is the 21st century mehn wake up and smell the coffe!!! it's not as if the lady would just ask him "can I date you" there are things that she could say to him in a subtle way and that would give the green light hence nothing unnatural there....

I'm waiting!!

[quote author=Mynd_44]E dey lie[/quote]Go jor, e get time wey my P.A dey wake me. E never lie before and na em tell me say Mynd no dey sleep at all.

[quote author=Mynd_44]Hmmmmm[/quote]Wetin be hmmm? Must you comment ni?

[quote author=12 inches!]It's abnormal to take ethics and codes hook line and sinker without ur own self analysis. How does leaving pieces of meat and dodo and grains of rice on ur plate show finesse or etiquette. Rather to me it shows wastefulness and a flagrant behavior. Have u seen white pple when they eat at their dinners? They always serve in excess but nigerian culture (or atleast yoruba culture) dictates that we do not waste food especially considering those who have none.[/quote]It's a general assumption that a clean plate means you're hungry. Infact in most cases you will be asked if you need more food. Get that straight and stop given waste principles.

[quote author=Mynd_44]I advice that you kill whoever sold you that wall clock. Too early ko ynash ni[/quote]You sure say your clock dey work? My alarm no dey lie

Idowuogbo: No!! I want massage

Hahahaha, oya come closer.

Dude, i must first of all appreciate your well organised write up though with multiple spellings but you rock. I read all through and i enjoyed reading. It's possible this thread make frontpage and i hope you absorb the best of advice. *heaved* Dude, you just missed an angel. Best believe dude! Loving her starts from respecting her decisions. I think the issue here isn't whether you're ready for marriage or not, infact you called off the relationship. The urge for sex no doubt is normal and since she proclaimed to be a virgin and not interested in sex until marriage (you intend marrying her though not near) you could have given her a chance. Note that she gave you other satisfactory means that can help you pour some custard and be fine within minutes I think she's good! Again dude, i'd advise you go get her back, that's one real lass. It'l be interesting to hear people tell you "she must be sexing other guys out there" or "let her go" or even "how sure she is what she professed" but be rest assured that with the happiness and duration you both shared, if you can re-call the relationship, you'll pass. You both connected well and it's glaring. Try and respect that side of her or you'll be hunted for years because you'll always miss her.

Idowuogbo: So y u telling us?

So you go help am tell the girl for em.

Answer my question, you sleep well ba? Won da ta so ju e ni

LDR can really be boring esp when the dark-hours approaches yet with the No.1, half probs is solved. Everything starts with No. 1 plus 4 and 5 works also..the key is, trust your partner.

Idowuogbo: How fisherman go understand allergy, its like telling goats to wear condom b4 mating nau... Opolo bobo slow...

[quote author=Mynd_44]Another over-rated characteristics in a dream man. Most of the female that said they can are actually Christians and Muslims and I guess they missed the part where the woman was a "help-mate" the their spouse. What's the big deal here? Even if you are a billionaire and the dude is jobless so?
I know a couple which the guy is a clerk and the wife fries puff puff at night at a busy street corner, the proceeds from the puff puff a week is more than what the husband makes a month but that is not a problem for them as the guy even helps her out when he finishes at work. Now that is a man and a woman who understands that how much you make is inconsequential its about running the home[/quote] I endorse this post

Idowuogbo: Who b dis ode

ID keep shut! It's too early. You sleep well ba?

Your posting is dis-discom-discombu something. Infact, you posted trash! Is there no MsWord on your phone?

Hey Sexkillz, I need re-induction pls. After 4years i welcome myself again to Nairaland

[quote author=12 inches!]If I'm very hungry yes ooo...I'll pick it to the very last. But then I've been on dates where I could not finish the food cos I didn't av appetite. The food is just by the side jare it's not the important thing. The important thing is the person u're meeting.[/quote]Whatever works for you dude.

k2039: sweetheart have also been eager to see you,but now that we have met we can strike it off.
I LOVE YOU DIANAH
Each time I think about you,I feel like am flying without wings

Thief, another man's property. LOL. She's married!!

[quote author=pearl~hapi]well I think the guy z ryt*even if u r leavin leftovers it shudnt be out of compulsure or in a bid to please d gal or form one tin[dats fakeing]and it bad*be real after all in my house I don't eat and leave my food halfway[/quote]Get the picture lass, a clean plate is gross. Lets say it's rice, he would pick every grain till the very last?

[quote author=12 inches!]I think u must be high or something. Don't finish the meal? Sorry but in my family we don't waste food and I paid. for it so I av the right to finish or not finish it.[/quote]Na hungry hold you go the date? Which kian "in my family we don't waste food" tosh be that?
Is leaving a spoon or two the waste you're talking about. No dey disgrace yourself in the name of "in my family." Hope you're learning?

- First compliment her dress/look

- Pull the seat

- Direct eye contact (not her b00bs)

- Don't pick your nose!

- Smile when neccessary

- Don't finish the meal (if that's inclusive) etc etc etc.

Dude, rules too much. Pick what works for you.

dianah: Dear Xavier, (don't want to put X for unknown, Xavier is more exotic)

I was hoping we would have met by now, but for some weird reason it seem to be taking longer than I would like, but its okay, good things come to those who wait. I do hope you are fine though and taking good care of yourself at least till I have to take care of you.lol., I always knew you would have a sense of humour.
I was thinking initially that I would like to have three kids, but with the madness of today's society I am hoping we can compromise on two?besides I don't want to have kids till I am old and you know the longer it takes for you to get here the older I will get o.
Hope you are not stuffing yourself with carbs or eating late? I don't want you coming to me all potbellied, seriously.
Have you been going to church? Xavier, I did not ask if you are a Christian I know you are, just wondering if you have been acting lazy about going to church or trying to be a person fit for God's presence, I know I get lazy sometimes sha...but we have to keep trying.
Yeah, I never said give up drinking or the ocassional boys hangout, I only said I need to be kept in the picture all the time.
I need you to always be straight with me and I promise I will forgive you almost anything!
I have been talking to someone lately, not too sure if that is you, you seem a bit unsure , time will tell I guess.
I almost got tired waiting for you and was about to get married to someone else, but he turned out to be less than I actually wanted/ expected, the thought of forever with him scared me sh*tless!
And like my sis would say when we were kids "better to be alone than in the wrong company". Yeah, she is smart like that, though I have always wondered where she got the quote from, don't worry you will get to meet her soon.
My folks are wondering when you are going to come see them, they don't ask me or bug me about it, but I see it in their eyes and hear it in their voice. They are worried that you are taking your time to show up.
I know some of my friends are too, they try to convince me to stop waiting for you and move on to someone else, they dont understand that I have been waiting for you all my life and can not settle for less.
Truth is I am not bothered, because we have our whole life ahead of us, so why fret?
Xavier, I know you are successful because I have prayed for you all my life. I hope you like vacations like I do, because we will be having lots of those.
I look forward to meeting you soon, because I love you already and the thought of forever with you does not scare me.

Do get here fast,

signed, Single girls

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I read through all the lines. You did well for yourself. Beautiful write up. I will check your web soonest. Kudos babe

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